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2004-01-05

Name: Megha Hi All,
It has been 4 months (4 periods)since my miscarriage and we are planning to conceive again. I have a doctors appointment soon and would like to know if you all have any suggestions about what all i should ask the doctor before we try to conceive.

Since i didn't have a D & C after my miscarriage i am also a little worried whether my uterus has expelled everything from the previous time.
Thanks in advance.
take Care
Love
Megha

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2004-01-10

Name: jk
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Hi Megha,
First of best of luck for your appointment.
i hope you know because of what problem you had miscarriage if not talk about it so you can take care this time.you need to ask him about if any test you need to do and keep on checking your haemoglobin also ask all dought u have.
now if i talk about me it all mess dont know what to do.
I had been to Dr on on 8th.my appointment was on 11th but im not able to understand the way my spotting going on so i went to meet Dr.My DNC done on 27th of november then after a month my period should come so when it started spotting on 26th dec i thought i got my period.But without flow it is going on still,it is making me feel worried.if cant get or understand cycle cant think what can be done ahead.feeling so sad now days dont understand what to do.now i have appointment with my fertility Dr.
on 12th looking forward what he saying.
take care and post message after visiting your Dr.
love
jasmin

2004-01-11

Name: Megha
Subject:

Thanks Jasmin

Hi Jasmin,

Thanks a lot for your good wishes....my appointment has been postponed to next week (20th) now and will let you know how it goes.
And don't you worry about your spotting...i think irregular period and abnormal flow or spotting is common after the D & C...ask your doctor..i think it takes some time for your body to return to normal rythm.
Just cheer up and keep yourself happy ..divert your mind by keeping yourself busy with family.
Take Care and and eat healthy ...i will pray for you and i am sure good things will happen to you very soon.
SO good luck for your Doctor's appointment on 12th.
Love and hugs
Megha

2004-01-05

Name: sweety
Subject:

Good Luck

Dear Megha,

That's Great that u already had your blood work done. Just ask for u/s. My spotting stopped after 2 days. I was on complete bed rest. I don't know what caused it. But my doctor is checking me for some cervix problems because of earlier D&C's. I am soon going to enter in 12th week. So, feeling better. But mind always remains occupied with bad thoughts.

Well, good luck for ur appt. Let me know abt it.

Take care
luv
sweety

2004-01-05

Name: sweety
Subject:

hi megha

Hello Megha,

According to what my doctor told me when I miscarried, one can start trying again after 3 periods. You are lucky that u don't have D&C. It can create other comlications. Don't worry because if u have something in uterus, you may feel some pain. If ur periods are coming normal as before, nothing to worry about. In my case doctor did some blood tests because of some other problems. But you can ask for u/s for ur satisfaction. Also, ask for precautions you need to take. You had your pap smear done...that's good. If u have some specific questions in mind..u can ask. If i remember something I will write to u again. Good Luck for ur appt.

sorry for not chkg ur message earlier

Take care
lots of luv
sweety

2004-01-05

Name: Megha
Subject:

Thanks for your advices Sweety..i shall ask the doctor for an ultrasound because sometimes i do get a slight pain in lower abdomen (but that could be muscular too). Also i have already got bloodwork done with pap smear.
SO how are you doing now? Has your spotting stopped ? Hoping the best for you ahead. Take Care
Love
Megha

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