i had my first miscarriage in june and i was very happy to find out i was pregnat again, but fear flooded my heart thinking about the last pregnancy, my due date for the first pegnancy would of been dec. 12, as my due date approched i could just pray that my now existing 2nd prenancy would be just fine. on dec 6 i started to spot bleed and then went to the doctor on dec 9 and the doctor said that the baby was fine, but that night i started to bleed alot more and starting having huge blood clots(doctor comfirmed those were blood clots) so i went and had a hcg test and then had it done two days later(dec 12, also my first babys due date that i lost in june)and the test shown tha the levels went down. i am just soooo overwhelmed that i have lost two babies now and i feel like i will never be able to carry a healthy baby. and to loose a baby on the first babied due date really hurts....i go in to have an unltrasound to see if i need to have a D and C done in two days but what tests should i be asking for to see why i am loosing to the babies and what should i so to halp my body heal faster. and what helps to emotionally get over that feeling of a missing something in your heart. i thought the second pregnacy would help but it did not it just made me think of the first even more. Please help me i think i just need to talk to people that have went through similar things....thank you for all your help and support jk replied. Dear christina,
very sorry to here about your loss.
every one on this bord will understa what you feeling right now.all had pass through same so.
have faith in God he has some thing for every one.
take care of your health dont lift weigheat,eat iron and protein reach diet.
discuss with your Dr and find out reason of m/c frist.so you can take care when you concive again.
after having frist menses have advice of your Dr when to concive again.
two and half month back i had third m/c
still when i remembering face of my baby i get tears in my eyes even i have a son 13 years old.
Wish you good luck and lots of baby dust!
love jasmin
pari replied. dear christina,
just read ur mail. m very sorry for what happend. i understand how u feel. i had a miscarriage bout 2 months back. its really hard once u accept tat u are going to have a baby. try to get over it. try to keep urself busy and keep ur loved ones near u. ask ur doc to prescribe a torch test, thyroid test, sugar test and haemoglobin test after u get ur first menses in order to establish the cause. people do conceive after two miscarriages. continue all green leafy vegetable and fruits which u were taking during ur pregnancy. and also ask ur doc to prescribe folic acid and b comples vitamins (which i think she will do even without asking). dont exert urself till ur first menses. and have a glassful of milk everyday.
i stil get tears in my eyes whenever i see small babies or wen i see scenes of labour in movies. but anyway, we have to get over it. and no one but only u can do it for urself.
wish u a fast recovery! but dont be in a hurry to conceive again. ask ur doc bout the waiting period! u wil surely carry and deliver a healthy baby when the right time comes...
love,
pari.