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2012-04-22

Name: umesh Arora Hi We have been married since aug2005 and no kids yet,I am 38 yrs and my wife is 34 and half now. my wife got concieved in June 2007 after took PCOD treatment from Nanda nursing home Faridabad, everything went well till 8 months and then she had hydromneous and glycosuria problem which was controled with Bigomet medicine , doctor advised us to take injection betnosol in 36 weeks of pregnancy as there were chances of premature delivery due to these problems and after 3 days of taking this injection her fetel movement stopped and we lost the child in 36 weeks pregnancy,since then we are trying and it has been 4 years. she has harmonal problems,her eggs do not get ruptured and convert into cyst, we have tried many infertility specialist and tried IUI but egg did not ruptured and converted into cyst, leproscopy also done as her left felopian tube was not healthy due to endometriosis and infections though was not blocked,she was detected hyperplasia then and took 6 month treatment of hyperplasia then but no result.then we moved to herbal treatment from Dr. Dolkar in Kalka ji Delhi , her periods are now regular, harmones tests- FSH,LH , E2 are now normal as earlier they were not good but no final result yet, her anti mularian test is very low 0.65 which means very low egg reserve, doctor suggested us to go for IVF which we can not afford.last month we started consulting Dr Sonia Naik from Sitaram Bhartia and she has started ovultion induction this month as her harmon tests are normal , pls provide your thoughts and suggestions as it has been very painful and struggling since last 4 years.

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Hi We have been married since aug2005 and no kids yet,I am 38 yrs and my wife is 34 and half now. my wife got concieved in June 2007 after took PCOD treatment from Nanda nursing home Faridabad, everything went well till 8 months and then she had hydromneous and glycosuria problem which was controled with Bigomet medicine , doctor advised us to take injection betnosol in 36 weeks of pregnancy as there were chances of premature delivery due to these problems and after 3 days of taking this injection her fetel movement stopped and we lost the child in 36 weeks pregnancy,since then we are trying and it has been 4 years. she has harmonal problems,her eggs do not get ruptured and convert into cyst, we have tried many infertility specialist and tried IUI but egg did not ruptured and converted into cyst, leproscopy also done as her left felopian tube was not healthy due to endometriosis and infections though was not blocked,she was detected hyperplasia then and took 6 month treatment of hyperplasia then but no result.then we moved to herbal treatment from Dr. Dolkar in Kalka ji Delhi , her periods are now regular, harmones tests- FSH,LH , E2 are now normal as earlier they were not good but no final result yet, her anti mularian test is very low 0.65 which means very low egg reserve, doctor suggested us to go for IVF which we can not afford.last month we started consulting Dr Sonia Naik from Sitaram Bhartia and she has started ovultion induction this month as her harmon tests are normal , pls provide your thoughts and suggestions as it has been very painful and struggling since last 4 years. Sidh replied. Dear Umesh Ji,

Last year we lost baby at 32 weeks. We got married in 2005 but did not plan baby till 2011. We planned in 2011 and everything was going the way we planned but god had other plans.
We thought of having one biological and one adopted baby. We thought that we can provide education to one baby and quality of life.
Let me come to you:
Fertility treatments carry risk to women, side effects of drugs/abuse by doctor. My POW, why to loose/make that person who is with us in the name of baby. Please be considerate to your better half and you can adopt. Baby will get what you give her/him. Everyone raise own kid but to raise orphan one need lots of character. Please don' t take my comment in negative sense.

2012-12-03

Name: Sidh
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Adoption

Dear Umesh Ji,

Last year we lost baby at 32 weeks. We got married in 2005 but did not plan baby till 2011. We planned in 2011 and everything was going the way we planned but god had other plans.
We thought of having one biological and one adopted baby. We thought that we can provide education to one baby and quality of life.
Let me come to you:
Fertility treatments carry risk to women, side effects of drugs/abuse by doctor. My POW, why to loose/make that person who is with us in the name of baby. Please be considerate to your better half and you can adopt. Baby will get what you give her/him. Everyone raise own kid but to raise orphan one need lots of character. Please don' t take my comment in negative sense.

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