i am new here and i am in my week 10. the problem which i am having now is the decision about having baby in india or here in US. my parents wont be able to come here to stay with us if we chose to have our baby here and if go to india my husband may not get leave on that time.

what should i do? i am sad & frustrated. i do need all the rest which i think is a must to have after the delivery. i dont think we can take care of a little one alone on a time when i also need rest. please friends do talk to me and let me know what will you decide when you are in my situation. eagerly waiting for your response. Tanvi replied. If you feel so worried, go home to have your baby. But worrying about how to handle things afterwards is not good for you. You will be able to deal with all of it. Its not as bad as people make it out to be. It really all depends on your mindset. If you feel confident and capable then you will be. I had both my kids and only had help after the second one. My DH want even able to help as he wa a resident at the time. I am very independent and found that I could manage everything on my own. Be positive.

Tanvi Tina replied. dear lekha
i am planning to have my baby here in us. its better for the babys future and education etc. my mother is planning to come.
if your parents cant come, see if ur mil can come. that would be good too. it might be better to get someone from india here. i think you can discuss with your husband and relatives and decide the best
tina