hi all the ladies here,
i m a regular readerofthis forum but this is first time i m writing here .
one thing wat i dont understand is why we all keep blaming others if something bad happens to our kids ...here i think all ladies wants to help other with their suggestions,advices and experience wat they had or having in raising their kids .
nobody force anybody to do asthey say we all are educated and we all shud think twice following all suggestions,advices .
sometimes it happens that the things which are good for somebody' s child may be doesnt suit to our child. we can just test and then start the thing.

and about Hetal wat to say about her she is very good so helpful and its very good is she is a nutritionlist and help us so nicely.

so nobody needs to get jealous but if their is somebody then we all can ignore that person and all the post like that as it creates un necessary havoc and chaos.

one more thing as i see now days we keep blaming others by writing their names i think its wrong if something is bothering us then we can give solution of that instead of highlighting that problem.

coz by this many goodsuggestion will stop coming with the fear of insult and unnecessary comments and questions like nowdays many ladies are doing

our work is to suggest and help its now others wish to take that or to leave that becoz eery child is unique and different so they react to the things differently.
somelike strawberry but to some strawbeery is allergic same with suji some digest it some dont .
for some almonds can be digested and for others they cant be.


i hope i m correct and not offencing anybody

so instend of blaming we all shud be togther as many of us are new mothers and staying alone without any elders upon us thats why we need the help of sites ,groups and forums.

bye
hope i m not wrong. neetu replied. i agree to you but there are some people who are here just to create issues. you must have seen when i responded or tried to clear about somebody(hetal), somebody accused me that i am writing as hetal. how ridiculous.
just because you don' t know something about somebody den it doesn' t mean that nobody else knows it.
itz so weird to see these kind of responses.
i also want to tell you all that if you think thats right please don' t tell that whatever others said is wrong. you don' t know something so itz your problem.why blame others !

i am surprised dat why is this post posted over here when the issues and havoc was created in feeding or bowel and bladder board ?

what is the intention behind it.please clear.

we all know that every child is different den why do you recommend offering it to others kid only because your kid was okay wid dat. and if you are suggesting something den why make it a punch line that itz very healthy when you know it dat all kids are different ! by telling that itz very healthy, new moms get confused and they can' t wait to try. like anisha tried suji just by reading it. so it was because of dis reason only that deepti was blamed for suggesting suji.

we don' t discuss our indian foods with american doc so itz very very normal i think that we rely on these indian boards to get some good indian suggestions on solids.but den if you are trying relying on these forums, you have to take your own chances for dat.as it iz the person who gave such an information doesn' t have enough knowledge to support her arguement so take your own chances in trying things to your baby and don' t blame others.

we all know that in US most paed don' t suggests offering wheat products before 1 year.itz only our indian side i think we give wheat byproducts from 6months.
i am not an expert on these things but when doctors are not suggesting something, i think there is a reason behind it. so if you are suggesting something that doctors don' t advice at all, expect blunt replies from some people who are following doc advices very strictly. But, because of those replies, why blame some other person who has been so supportive to everyone.you all have taken some or the other type of help from someone, don' t you have respect for her.

it just surprises me dat during her absence when she is struggling to recover and get in routines, you all are writing all these things.where were you all when she was present ?

when i answered the post clearing somethings den someone answers me saying that she is fan of hetal and then insults her ! thats disgusting.
the funny thing is dat lady is scared to write her own name.

i am sorry for being straight but like someone pointed out that itz very sad to see dat some people here don' t know how to respect others who have helped.

we all not only rely on these online forums but also on our baby docs for the advices.i hope i am not wrong on dat part.

i don' t mean to offend anyone here so please take it postively.