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2010-10-11

Name: Seema R I lost my baby after 30 week , she was delivered through C- Section, she was fine, she cried on her own..however afetr 4 days she had a lung haemorrage and she passed away early morning.

I have been at a HUGE lost however I feel there was Doctor' s negligence invloved in my case, as I had HIGH BP and she never told me to take precautions.She never asked me to COUNT the nukmber of kicks NEVER, when I used to tell her abt the kicks getting slower and sometimes none, she would give a deaf ear after hearing the herat beat.

Please guys do not go to Dr.Asha Iyer as she is very negligent sometimes.Her attitude is such that we should not ask many questions..but tell me if she had acted upon on intusions our Baby would have been saved.I will never forgive her ever in my life for taking me and my Baby for granted.

A doctor should consider the Baby as their own and show some Love and respect which was missing in Asha' s case.She has her clinic in Indiranagar.

My only intension to post this is to alert people who are expectiung their little one' s after a long struggle like us.

Please ACT upon your intusions and even a slight doubt can SAVE your little one.

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I lost my baby after 30 week , she was delivered through C- Section, she was fine, she cried on her own..however afetr 4 days she had a lung haemorrage and she passed away early morning.

I have been at a HUGE lost however I feel there was Doctor' s negligence invloved in my case, as I had HIGH BP and she never told me to take precautions.She never asked me to COUNT the nukmber of kicks NEVER, when I used to tell her abt the kicks getting slower and sometimes none, she would give a deaf ear after hearing the herat beat.

Please guys do not go to Dr.Asha Iyer as she is very negligent sometimes.Her attitude is such that we should not ask many questions..but tell me if she had acted upon on intusions our Baby would have been saved.I will never forgive her ever in my life for taking me and my Baby for granted.

A doctor should consider the Baby as their own and show some Love and respect which was missing in Asha' s case.She has her clinic in Indiranagar.

My only intension to post this is to alert people who are expectiung their little one' s after a long struggle like us.

Please ACT upon your intusions and even a slight doubt can SAVE your little one. Farwah replied. Hi Seema! Am sorry to hear about your loss. I read your story and see a clear case of Pre-eclampsia. dis is a condition where the expecting mother has high BP.. in such conditions theres high risk of miscarriage, life threatening to baby and mother.. be strong!! dis was negligence from ur gynaecs end. some docs take pregnancies v easy... may god bless u darling! Little v2 replied. Hi Seema: Am so sorry for what happened with you and completely understand how you feel. I lost my baby at 30 weeks pregnancy too. He was a perfect boy I had sudden water burst too much water had leaked by the time I got to hospital, underwent a c-section on Nov 18, 2010. My baby recovered completely in the NICU, breathed on his own, weighed 1.6 kgs. He was beautiful beyond words. Developed an infection and heart issue on Nov 29th and passed away the same day in NICU. We had tried for an year for this baby and were so so glad when he was concieved. Did everything in our power to have him - but the end of the day - I turn out to be a loser

2013-05-06

Name: Farwah
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Be Strong!

Hi Seema! Am sorry to hear about your loss. I read your story and see a clear case of Pre-eclampsia. dis is a condition where the expecting mother has high BP.. in such conditions theres high risk of miscarriage, life threatening to baby and mother.. be strong!! dis was negligence from ur gynaecs end. some docs take pregnancies v easy... may god bless u darling!

2011-01-26

Name: Little v2
Subject:

Hi Seema: Am so sorry for what happened with you and completely understand how you feel. I lost my baby at 30 weeks pregnancy too. He was a perfect boy I had sudden water burst too much water had leaked by the time I got to hospital, underwent a c-section on Nov 18, 2010. My baby recovered completely in the NICU, breathed on his own, weighed 1.6 kgs. He was beautiful beyond words. Developed an infection and heart issue on Nov 29th and passed away the same day in NICU. We had tried for an year for this baby and were so so glad when he was concieved. Did everything in our power to have him - but the end of the day - I turn out to be a loser

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