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Miscarriage and Child Loss:had a Missed abortion
2010-09-21
Name: Sanya Guleria



I am 30 years old & suffering from polycystic ovaries and hyperthyroidism. After ttc for 2 years, i conceived with Siphene 50 mg and Dexona. During prenatal checkup,during 8th week, heartbeat was detected in the ultrasound and our happiness knew no bounds 2 hear that our first child had actually stared having a heartbeat. but our happiness was so short lived. after 3 weeks i.e on 11th week, during a routine checkup, the ultrasound showed that there was no heartbeat and i had to undergo suction & evacuation abortion. cant describe in words our state at dat time. it was like our world came crashing down.I had bleeding only for one day after the abortion. but feeling really depressed. How long will i have 2 wait before trying again? what precautions do i have 2 take in this time?
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2011-05-02
#1
Anonymous Name: sarma
Subject:  hi



hi i am 27 yrs old,got maried 3 years back and i have two missed abbortions till now.first time every thing is fine but on 12th week when i went for a scan i came to know my baby is already dead in 9th week itself.not even i have a single symptom of miscarriage that time.
in my 2nd time it is a twin case when i am on 10th week i went for a scan. there the dr got confused she dont find any heart beats in the two but she find another 2 baby,she is bit confused and suggested for further analysis then i came to know that my pregnancy is triplets(3 children)10th week but no heart beat.it is already one year passed after the bad experience now i am scared on pregnancy what to do?
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2011-01-26
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Anonymous Name: Little v2
Subject:  Hi Sanya



Hi Sanya: Your story is terrible. Am 30 years too been married for 4 years. TTC for almost 1 year then got preg with a perfect baby boy everything was going perfect had sudden water leakage at 30 weeks followed by an emergency c-section. Lost my little boy in NICU when he was 11 days old. This happened in Nov, 2010. I' m told to try again after June. SO going through hell at the moment.
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2010-11-12
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Anonymous Name: Saanj
Subject:  Plz don´ t loose hope..



Hi Sanya & Anju,

I was sailing on the same boat as both of u, 4 years back.. At around 19 week, an ultrasound revealed that baby' s heartbeat was missing.. doc said that I can try after 3-4 cycles.. they induced and got it delivered.. Immediately I got very sore breast and milk in them as well.. just imagine what I would have gone through.. seemed to be the end of the world then.. but understood that I need to move on.. took almost 2 months to sort of recover from the trauma.. Took a vacation.. After that I got busy with my career and never tried for a baby..

Now we are planning for a family.. Doc said that the earlier foetal death might just be a one off case and never repeat.. Fingers crossed.. I have decided not to give up if it fails again.. will keep trying..
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2010-11-06
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Anonymous Name: Anju
Subject:  I had a miscarriage too



Hey..I am already 36 and suffered my first miscarriage last week.The doctor didn' t find any heartbeat on a routine ultrasound.I was devasted by the news. I am still trying ways to recover from the loss. I want to get pregnant fast and this wait is killing me.However,somewhere I am also afraid of losing the baby again once I conceive. I don' t know who to ask and what to believe. I just feel like killing myself but my husband is very lonely and that alone stops me from killing myself....Right now I feel god doesn' t care about good people and give them all the suffering but I would like to ask him\" Why?\" .Hope someday I would receive an answer
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2010-09-26
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Anonymous Name: Sanya
Subject:  No reply ???????????



Not even a single reply? is noone bothered to even extend a few words to a person who is already going thru so much emotionally. I think it was my falut to have registered in this site where ppl are so insensitive to others pains
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2010-09-28
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Anonymous Name: babyonmind
Subject:  Sad for you



Hi Sanya,

I hope God gives you the strength to cope with the miscarriage. I don´ t know what advice to give you except to take care of your health and wait for atleast 2-3 months before trying again. God bless.
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2010-09-28
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Anonymous Name: babyonmind
Subject:  Sad for you



Hi Sanya,

I hope God gives you the strength to cope with the miscarriage. I don´ t know what advice to give you except to take care of your health and wait for atleast 2-3 months before trying again. God bless.
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