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Miscarriage and Child Loss:lost baby just before C-section
2010-03-04
Name: Minal Suryawanshi



We lost our angel just before one night of planned c-section...we planned c-section on 18th Feb 2010. my baby was healthy,happy n perfect as per sonography report done on 15th Feb. 2010 except he was in breech position. his weight was 3.1 kg and evrything was fine with him. we were so happy that the ray of hope..that special day when we become mumma n papa has come finally...but no.. God planned something else for us...just before c-section doctor checked his heartbeats...missing!! sonography done shows cord was around his neck!! my little baby!! who gave me pleasure in the womb for 9 months!! only on last day....how can god play games like this with us???? we have missed our little angel twice before!! first was in 6th month of pregnancy and second was misscarriage in 1st trimester....why why this happens with us??? we are heartbroken...living is very very difficult task for us now...GOD is not thr for us....how can I stand again?? we are facing each day with tears n sweet memories of pregnancy!!....can we get our baby back in our life?? I m loosing my confidence day by day...to whom I should ask that only on last day ...just before c-section...how can god stop heartbeats of y baby?? n why?? god is nt thr for us...is it called as destiny????how to live ..is the question!!

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2010-04-10
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Anonymous Name: Pre
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I am extremely sorry to read this. I have been thru 3 early miscarriages, and it played a havoc on my life. But loosing a baby just one day before birth?? Were you not in the hospital on the day before you were supposed to get operated? Usually nurses keep checking for the heartbeat every 4-5 hours. My sister delivered a healthy baby girl 7 months back, and the baby was also in breech position, so she delivered thru c-section. The doctor herself advised to not to go for induced pain or usage of triceps for delivery.

I am extremely upset to read what you have been thru.
I just hope no body ever has to face anything like this. It must be the worst kind of feeling, but I pray to the god for you.. and I am sure you will soon have a beautiful healthy baby giggling in your arms..
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2010-05-24
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Anonymous Name: minal
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Thanks for praying Pre...
We chose wrong hospital... nurses were not trained...we trusted our doctor like God..that´ s where we did mistake!! he gave us such a nice treatment for 9 months...so we started believing him a lot!! as for the first time I entered in 9th month of pregnancy successfully..(this was my3rd pregnancy ) my advice to all ladies here...use ur brains...never treat doctor like a god...and second opinion is a MUST!!
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