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Miscarriage and Child Loss:I am very very sad.. please help..
2009-01-02
Name: Mugdha



Cardiac activity not found..!.. why did it happen to my baby ?.. when i was pregnant with 8 weeks, everything was fine. But at 11 weeks, doctor could not find any heartbeat. Bay' s beart was not working and no growth was taking place. We had to abort the baby. I am very very sad. Please share your experiences. Did anyboday conceived and delivered successfully after experencing such miscarriage?.. what care i should take henceforth ?.. After how much time, we should try now ?.. what are the reasons after such bad miscarriage ?
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2010-04-29
#1
Anonymous Name: Piu
Subject:  My experience



Hi Mugha,
I am 35 yr old and have undergone several miscarriages. My first miscarriage was in February 2009. This baby was 4 months old. The amniotic fluid leaked out and the baby had to be delivered. It died after three hours after delivery. The second miscarriage was at 7 weeks in July 2009. I had a D$C . The third miscarriage was a chemical pregnancy at 4 weeks and 2 days and it ended as a natural period. That happened in December 2009. My fourth pregnancy was a natural miscarriage at 7 weeks. I bled heavily throughout the night in April 2009 and then slowly the bleeding eased off.
I am trying to stay positive. I feel I am growing older by the day. I gave up my job the moment I found out I was pregnant the very first time.
I have been to a infertility specialist after the second pregnancy loss. He did a battery of tests but could not find anything amiss.I feel completely down and out. I don' t know if I should working again or not. I am too scared I don' t was to lose another one just because I did not take it easy.
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2009-06-11
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Anonymous Name: prativa
Subject:  conception after miscarriage



hi mugdha!
Its really sad to hear about your experience. But, be positive....
Get a session of preconceptional counseling done by some infertility/ high risk pregnancy specialist.

Im sure, you will get your complete family.
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2009-01-23
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Anonymous Name: Ash
Subject:  Be Positive



I also experienced the same thing..Cardiac Activity was not found till 10 week..got aborted.But after three months of abortion concieved naturally and again till 7 week no cardiac actitvity was seen..But i was lucky to have a good gynea she gave me doses of Progestron tablets&daily) and HCG injections (2 every week)and i took complete Bed rest.. Got caridac activity on 8 week.. and now i have a healthy baby.
ITs not an issue if u concieve after 3 months but take complete rest.and undergo some blood tests as soon as u concieve ..consult a good gyene.
Be Positive u can concieve n deliver a healthy baby ..Best Of Luck
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2010-04-29
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Anonymous Name: Piu
Subject:  gynac name



Hi Ash,
Could you post the name of your gynac please.
Thanks
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2009-01-12
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Anonymous Name: Manju
Subject:  Miscarriage and Child Loss




I can understand your situation because I have also gone thru the same situation 1 month back.i felt very very bad when i had to abort my 3 months baby but my doctor she gave me full support and she advised me not to concieve for 5 months and she asked me to reduce weight....so dont worry everything will b fine eat well and prepare yourself for your next pregenancy so eat well take care of your health:-)
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2009-01-06
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Anonymous Name: Alpa
Subject:  i had the same experience



Hi Migdha,
Its ironic, that i too came to know on 2nd jan that there was no foetal heartbeat detected in my pregnancy as well and i would have to terminate my pregnancy.
There was nothing that had prepared us for an eventuality like that. but its ok, the gynaec as well as radiologists assured that this is a very common thing, in fact 20% of all pregnancies end like this as it is natures auto - selection process.
dont be negative about it, take it in your stride, when god blesses us with so much abundance, we never ask why me??
when he gives us a tiny obstacle, why shoudl we start questioning him.
Be happy and look ahead, as that is where the future lies.
Do the art of living course if you have still not done one. It will really help you to get over it beautifully and look ahead with a positive and enthusiastic outlook.
love
alpa
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2009-01-02
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Anonymous Name: Renu
Subject:  Re-I am very Sad



Hi Mugdha,

I can understand your situation because I have also gone thru the same situation 4 months back. I conceived after 5 years of our marriage. Initially everything was going fine but when I went for my second ultra sound,the doc told me that after the 11th week the baby has stopped growing and no pulse and no heartbeat. I was a very diffucult situation and i had to abort that baby.

We waited for 3 months and now again i m 8 weeks pregnant. But I am still scared. Tomorrow i have an appointment with my gyane and will update you. So please do not worry and everything will be fine soon.
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2009-01-05
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Anonymous Name: Mugdha
Subject:  Thank you, Renu



Hi Renu,
Yes.. i felt very very bad when i had to abort my 3 months baby before 4 days. Suddenly life became the worst. Now i am trying to be positive.

We will also wait for 3 months now. What did your doctor tell you about the reasons of your previous miscarriage ?.. Are there really any reasons behind this thing ?..

Anyways, I wish a very good luck. God will soon give you a very very cute baby.

Please update me about your appointment with your doc.
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