Name: Chandrashekhar Nopany

I am lone fighter in this world with no brothers and sisters and my parents recently passed away.

Ten Years back I got married. I am an average man.Soon after our engagement, I developed love for my wife. I was staying in Kolkata and she was in Bhuj. Hence we had communication gaps before marriage. Even after marriage, she did not develop interest and love for me and started neglecting me.

First I suspected that she is of loose character and may be having an affair with some one. So I investigated discretly but found that she was innocent. So I decided to consult a Counseller and than to a Psychiatrist on his advise. It was discovered that my wife is suffering from severe Depression due to advance stage of Hypo Thyroid.

On consulting Endocrologist, She has to undergo a life long treatment but I was advised to sacrifice sex with her to avoid Birth of a spestic child. This was confirmed by panel of independent Senior Specialists in Well Known Hospitals at Delhi and Mumbai. The situation happened because her parents neglected depression sypmtoms and Thyroid reached alarming level. She has become so frigid that she is not interested to see me nude hence stops me, if I attempt to do so. She does not want me to touch her or kiss her also and becomes wild if I attempt to do so.

Almost Ten Years have passed thereafter.As she has beeen treated with Anti- depressing Medicines she gets quiet sleep.I cannot get sleep at all. I am like a Hungry Man who has the cake but not for eating. I feel to have sex with my wife some times but I have to forcefully resist myself after great suppression of my Physical and Mental needs.

As both of us are innocent, I donot feel Divorce will give good results for us. I Love her . I can not imagine to have an an extra marital affair for the rest of my Life. I feel even adopting a child will not give any result as she is not going to give Love to the child. I reached the conclusion when a child was visiting my home for 3 years after her Birth. She failed to develop Love for her also and asked her mother to stop her visits at my house.

But I am more Dukhi as I failed to develop Love for me in her Heart. I feel helpless. We hardly talk as my attempt to persuade with talks does not have any impact.

One Life Given to me by GOD has been wasted.

By this Blog, I request all those who will marry or intend to marry to ensure that your wives are Physically and Mentally fit.

I dictated my true Life story to a friend who is going to post this appeal in his ID.

- Ek Dukhi Atma

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