Name: vandu

Hi,
i am a mother of twins 8months old. Boy and Girl. my problem is i dont have any elders or parents to help us. We managed all by myself and my husband. MY husband is very helpfula dn understanding.

I am sometimes i am not able to take cre of my babies properly. LIke i am not fully noursing them time to time. All my friends keep saying u shd have started this or that . or u shd by now give this much and what ever. The main problem is my kids especially my boy he takes lot of time to finish the milk and food. so most of my energy is gone in that and he wont finishes and i start cying. He is less weight also.... he is only 14 pounds...

I have few queries:: pls help me and tell me whether i am correct or wrong by doing this. i know babies r different but still.

MY BABIES SCHEDULE GOES LIKE THIS::::

between 7-8 Milk Boy 2-3 oz girl 4-5 oz
and till 10a.m. they dont get up
10 am milk B 40z G 5 oz

12-12.30 lunch 3 weeks agao i started with rice dal and veggies with jeera and salt. IS IT OK OR WHATELSE I CAN GIVE FOR LUNCH.

then they sleep and
2-2.30.p.m. milk 4 oz each :
THEN THEY SLEEP FOR 30 MINUTES
5-5.30p.m. milk 4oz each :they dont drink more than this
7.pm. i give them both 4tbsp cereal with 1st food of gerber (any fruit)
and then 10.p.m. milk 5oz both
and everytime i takes solid 1hr to get them drink. i have to show them toys and make sounds then they drink milk.

this is the routine.. i dont know what else to give and when and where can i make changes.

CAN ANYONE PLEASE HELP ME MAKE A ROUTINE SCHEDULE WITH TIMINGS AND WHERE CAN I INCLUDE GIVING THEM SNACKS and whatelse.... i can offer them.. bcuz this is my routine foods also. even i am bored giving them.

I live in us.

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