Beauty & Grooming  Discussion Forum

hi,i am 18 year i am studying college 2nd year my mom and grandma forcing me for headshave wheater it is compulsary shave our head for nosepiercing how can i escape from this please help me Ishita replied. Hi Dear, there are natural treatments available today for dandruff and various hair problems. You can go and consult a doctor who will help you with the right remedy which will cure your problem easily. NN replied. If your grandmother is forcing you a lot then see if you can find any alternative but if you can not then tell her that you will do it before your long vacation soo that when you college starts till then your hair would also grow. Ritu replied. I think you are old enough to make decide if you want to do something or not and your mom and grandmother should understand what you are saying and even you should listen to them and try understanding their point. Nandita replied. Explain your mother and grandmother what your problem with shaving your head it or it is just that you don't want to do it when you have to attend your college. See what things you can do to adjust and be happy. No name replied. See there is no shame in shaving your head and then attending your college. If you do not want to follow all the traditions it is your wish and will and you can explain it to your mom and grandmother. NA replied. Well there is no harm in shaving your head even if you have college to attend get it done but if you want talk to them that you don't want to shave your head and you would like to just get your nose pierced without doing it. NN replied. I don't think that it is necessary for one to shave their heads to get their nose pierced but if it is some tradition your family follows then wait for a long break and then do it. By doing this your hair will grow back till the time your college starts. sanjay replied. Do one thing shave your head and nosepiecing when your holidays start means after finish your exams, so u can easily handle that situation, and it will help you. nirupa replied. hi suganya, its right while nosepiercing head shave is compulsory but when we r small kid, not now when we are college going girl so that your mom and grand mother try to understand. amruta replied. hey hi, tell your grandma and mother that you are now in colleage and in colleage its to awkaward right. so can do nosepiercing but cant do head shave. namana replied. hi suganya, is there realy any need to do head shave while nosepiercing, its all blind faith so if you are not comfortable with all this, don't do. Myntra replied. Hello Suganya,
It is the vow your granny had done and you need to fulfill it any cost because it is vow and if it is not done they will give you nice shuntings also.Many people has done when they are moving to work also. Deepti replied. Pls post your experience and when ur parents arranged for this ceremony? Pls update. Deepti replied. Don't worry ya, please read post of shiny . It will be encouraging and read her experience too. The way she explains u feel like doing it. And I am sure u will look good with mottai and nose stud. Deepti replied. Hi suganya, I can understand your situation . I can suggest u that u do nose piercing after all it's our tradition .u can convince your parents that you can postpone the mottai later in the summer in your semester leave . Or if they don't agree tell them that u will do mottai and nose piercing during semester leave by the time u go for Coll u will have some hair on your head. Preethi replied. Hello Suganya,
It was nice to see the message you have posted and still people are following such superstitious belief. But it was nice know when we are piercing to nose or ears head shave is done for girls .But it must be done when girl is small age. No Name replied. Hello Suganya,
I too exactly know about the head shave regarding that event because when our elders are saying about some thing we need to do it. So respect to her decision an do it. So it would be happy for you also. Enjoy it. Mike replied. Hello Suganya,
It is very interesting that you are doing nose piercing so what is your experience when they are doing piercing for your nose. How it is for you did you cry,is it painful for you and can you share it with us. Kittu replied. Hello Suganya,
I do not think head shave is most important for an event of nose piercing but when you grandma says you need to do it mandatory,if not why she says you to do so you just do it would be nice experience for you only. No Name replied. Hello Suganya,
You can go for head shave it is not big deal for you. You just do mottai or tonsure or head shave.It would be nice experience to you also. Hope you do it with such nice experience.All the best for you.