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I have the worst in-laws in the world! My 2 sisters-in-law are terrible and make my life hell. Unfortunately we live in the same house and my husband would rather we live together as a family. what should i do? friend replied. I was also thinking as you are thinking. My sister-in-law is one year older than me and she was close to my husband when we got merried. She was all the time between us and try to keep my husband away from me. But she understood things after she got merried. She realized when her sister-in-law did same thing. Now we are fine with together but still she does all sister-in-law thing with me. Like she calls my mother-in-law and tells wrong thing about me. I think even if you try to become sister or daughter, they don't want to accept us. My mother-in-law keeps telling me that her son and daughters get priority on me because they are hers. My question is if she doesn't want to accept me that why should I? I have family too. Why don't I just care of my family. Fortunetely my husband understands everything but sometimes he can not tell anything to them either me. We are living together. I came USA before them. My mother-in-law tries to be follow her rule in our home but since my husband understands situation, she is not able to do it. My father-in-law is also very good person. Most of the time I clerify things in front of everyone so no one can lie behind me.

Varsha Singh replied. Dear Sona,
Are you working ???Are you whole day home??Do you have kids?How long have you been married?
It is a pity that we can not choose our in laws.We get them as a package deal with marriage.Your aim should be to establish a better bond with your husband in any situation.Your sister in laws will be married and gone.Your in laws will settle down after some time.But most imporatant is your relationship with your husband.Keep it the best if he is the one whom you really love.Find some activity that can keep you busy and out of house for some time.Make some friends around to talk with.And last but not so difficult is Just confront your trouble makers point blank and face to face what's bothering them.Sometimes it can help.May be you will be able to work out things with them(Wish you all luck)Brooding and feeling sad will not help you at all. Anuja Thaker replied. Try to win your husband on your side & then try to convince him. As far as those 2 are concerned try to ignore them,coz dogs will always bark. Anuja Thaker replied. Hi ! rush replied. Ive heard, sis in laws r the best friends untill they r not married Why not so in ur case? How do they bother u? Dont they have their own work to do? What about ur mil ? is she good to u? rush replied. Hey, i can imagine what u must be going thru but u know there is not much u can do if ur husband doesnt think anything is wrong.