Aggressive behaviour can do a lot of harm to children during their childhood years as well as in future. Therefore, it is a must for parents to help them get rid of such behaviour. Let us take a look at some tips for dealing with aggressive children.
Not only the child, everyone in this world behaves aggressively one or the other day for some reason. Few adults are good in controlling such behaviour as they become more experienced in many things in life. But, when it comes to children, they tend to kick, beat, punch, shout, cry and bite others and such behaviour is the result of aggressiveness. Aggressive behaviour at early ages would lead to many problems. There should be a certain limit on aggressive behaviour. There are some effective tips to deal with aggressive children and few are listed below.
1. Set Secure and Reliable Limits
Children are not aware of all the good and bad habits, socially acceptable behaviours and best manners. Whenever the child is getting into an aggressive behaviour like hitting, biting, kicking and punching, better stop from the initial stage and let her know what she is doing is wrong. Teach how it affects when the same is being done to them by other children. By knowing the consequences, children will easily identify the difficulties and try to get rid of aggressive behaviour.
2. Teach New Methods to Deal with Anger
If the child feels difficult to overcome the aggressive behaviour and is still performing the worst behaviour, think of other good alternatives to divert them. When the child is noticed to have worst behaviour towards others, take her for a small outing like a park, beach, a pleasant walk and a little shopping. Parents must control themselves when similar issues are faced by them at home and the same would be observed by the kids.
3. Afford a Tiny Time
A time-out is definitely required for a child to come out of the anger and realize what consequence they had to face because of their bad behaviour. Thus, enable the children to sit in a quiet place and have a few thoughts about what is going on around them, why they behaved so badly with others and how to overcome such aggressive manners. Parents must not make a big conversation at this point of time which will make them angrier.
4. Discuss the Problem With the Child
When children are going through confusing times, it must be cleared by the parents or elder family members. Thus, talk to the kid when they look very angry and upset. Though the parents are very busy with their official or personal commitments, every mom and dad must allot some time to discuss the problem with the child. This would be the best way to clear the concerns among the kids and make them calm.
5. Appreciate Good Behaviours
Parents scold and punish children for their mistakes at the same time they should also appreciate and praise them when there are performing a good task. This is one of the best ways to get rid of aggressive behaviour of a child. Children feel that they are always rewarded for all the good manners and are criticised when they are caught behaving in an aggressive manner. Final result would be that you will see them trying to do all the good things and taking steps to throw away the aggressive acts.
6. Identify the Acts of Friends
Parents are responsible to take care of their children when they form a gang and friendship. When a friend is answering back to their parents in front of your kid, obviously, the same would be followed by your kid too. Friends and siblings play a major role in developing good manners in any child. There are few bad friendships which could drag the kids on the wrong path, whereas many good friends help in overcoming the aggressive behaviour through their nice behaviour.
It is better to encourage the child to focus on their strengths as well as the weaknesses. Limit saying the word “NO” as that would be a reason for them to become more aggressive. Do not punish the kids often, instead put forward the warnings in a strict tone. Help the children to develop a positive self-esteem. More than all the above-mentioned points, parents and teachers must be a good role model for the children.
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