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Sex:Problem with my teenaged children
2005-11-02
Name: Concerned Mom
I am a single mom (divorced) of 16 year old twins, a boy and a girl. The problem started a year ago. I returned from office to find my daughter coming out of the bathroom after her shower all naked. I followed her to her room. There my son was playing computer games and didnt seem to be bothered by his sisters nudity. Initially I was amused by this. Later on I also found my son in the same state in front of his sister. When I asked regarding this, they said that it was no big deal as they were siblings and dont mind it. My children have been spending their time at home with lesser clothes, usually in their undergarments and occassionally naked. I have spent hours trying to talk them out of this but to no avail. I am usually very tired by the time I come back from work and am too exhausted to get into an arguement. I am not at good terms with my family members and hence cannot approach them. Furthermore, I dont want others to know about this either.
Till now nothing BAD has happened between them as they have clearly stated that to me and I believe them. They do dress up if somone comes to our place. I have written regarding this previosly but havent been able to put an end to this issue, if at all this is one. I am confused as to what needs to be done. Should I reprimand them or let them continue.
Any suggestions would be welcome. Thanks.
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2007-12-31
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Name: Concerned Parent
Subject:  Sex: Problem with my teenaged children
I do agree this is a problem, but as long as they know their limits.
But do stress them it is not right to be naked in front of opposite sex after the age of 10-12.It' s OK to come out of the bathroom in underwear
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2007-06-12
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Name: Chandrashekhar
Subject:  Teenage siblings
explain your boy first that the Girl is your sister and explain both of them Sexual activity and why siblings should not medically advisable indulge into it. Aftersome years suitable life partners will be found for them to satisfy the sexual desires
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RE:Our daughter saw while we made sex
hello rohini,
you forgot so impotant thing, that lock the bedroom door and after make love, always take precautions of this thing, otherwise face this type situation. so from next time keep in mind to lock bedroom door. ... - ganesh [View Message]
RE:Our daughter saw while we made sex
hello rohini,
first tell us what is your daughter age, is he able to understand this things, because if she is kid she didnt understand all this, so dont worry at all, and try to understand her mind of state.... - nirmala [View Message]
RE:Our daughter saw while we made sex
hello rohini,
there is no need to worry at all, she was cried because her dad shouted on her without no reason, that she knews she didnt do anything so why dad scold on her, and she started crying, so dont worry and try to understand her.... - jyoti [View Message]
RE:Our daughter saw while we made sex
hello rohini,
if your daughter is too small so she was defiantely cried because of your husband scold on her, and if she is quite elder so dont hide from her, becasse you are not done anything wrong, so try to explain her its a natural things, but with same time expalin what is good and what is bad thing.... - reshama [View Message]
RE:Our daughter saw while we made sex
hi rohini,
please dont got upset or guilty for this incidents you are with your husband so nothing wrong in that, and if you tell things very poilterly and in proper way might she will be understand things, so dont worry at all.... - ramesh [View Message]
RE:Our daughter saw while we made sex
hello rohini,
no need t think its a very big problem, and how to solve, nothing happened you just make this topic big, you have to understand that lock bedroom door,and now if things happened why you worry for this things, try to solve this with understanding.... - malini [View Message]
RE:Our daughter saw while we made sex
hi rohini,
in this time what you take tension, todays generation very well aware with this things so if your daughter also aware of that little beat, so dont worry and told your husband to say sorry to her. may be she feel good.... - farukh [View Message]

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