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  Sex: Sex issue between husband and wife
Name: Ciya Sharma
Date: 2008-12-17
Hi,
After 10 months of our marriage,we are devoid of intercourse.My husband has hardly shown interest in sex.He says that he dont feel the urge to do it.After lot of figts he has agreed to take viagara viz. suhagra-50.I feel as if i am cheated in marriage.What should i do?
Should i co-operate with him to solve the problem.If his problem is genuine,then why he is not serious to get rid of it.
Please guide me.
I will be grateful.
Thanks.

Name: Ecstasy
Subject:  Hi Ciya
Date: 2009-03-18
Have a Great Day!!!

I know you are trying to reach me.
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Name: Ecstasy
Subject:  Hi Ciya
Date: 2009-03-18
Hi Ciya,

Check my profile for my mail id.
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Name: arun
Subject:  sex issue in wife husband
Date: 2009-01-02
Hi Ciya sharma. I read ur things. i dont know why this things happens in life. do one thing keep ur level best to attract him and do some new sex method so he can really enjoy it. i had faced the same problem with my partner but now it is lumpsum perfect. with my partener. convince him to stay long with u.
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Name: bhat
Subject:  no interest
Date: 2008-12-27
i think ur husband lost the interest in sex due to some tension or work pressure .. please understand what the problem he is facing do not force him untill he get back to u
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Name: hayag
Subject:  things to check for
Date: 2008-12-20
Not having interest in sex within one year of marriage is definitely not normal. Of course it could be a medical problem, but there are other explanations, and you have to check:
(1) Is he having an affair?
(2) Is he gay (and only got married because of family pressure)?
(3) Is he into one of these religious/spritual groups where they teach that sex is bad?

H.
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Name: Ravi
Subject:  Impotency
Date: 2008-12-19
Dear Ciya Sharma,

I can quite understand the feelings
and emotions you are undergoing right
now and fully sympathise with your
situation and am definitely on your
side.I fully agree that the first
initiative should be taken by your
husband.

However, pls never give up and lose hope
easily.You may persuade him to watch
a good romantic movie sitting right
at home or even suggest an outing not
very far from home, where both of you
could share some privacy together.

Which city do you hail from ?

All the same, if he genuinely has an
impotency problem and lacks sexual
desire/urge, then it is better for
him to consult a specialist doctor
for treatment.

Take care and cheers,

Ravi



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Name: Ravi
Subject:  Impotency
Date: 2008-12-17
Dear Ciya Sharma,

Impotency can be treated by properly
understanding and respecting each other' s feelings and emotions.

Take a break and go on a holiday,
spend quality time together, share
your thoughts and emotions,at the same time respect his feelings, enjoy each other' s togetherness and warmth.

Both of you should strive at being
physically and mentally involved with
each other for good initiation of sex.

Wishing you all the very best and good
luck.

Ravi
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Name: unfortunate male
Subject:  similar wife
Date: 2010-01-14
I too have got a wife similar to ur hubbi. We have fights every weekend and she tells sex is stupid. Looking for solution...
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Name: ciya sharma
Subject:  thanks
Date: 2008-12-18
hi Ravi

Thanks for ur suggestion.I agree with you but after lots of frustations i have also bcome mentally upset.
No weekend of ours passes without a figtht.
I always feel unlucky and cheated.

Dont you think it should be first priority of my husband to get rid of this problem.He hardly takes any effort regarding the matter.

Ciya
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