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2008-06-13
Name: ragini
Hi,
Please advise as i and my hubby share a healthy sex life but what perturbs me is that he smokes during sex and expects me to be on top and stroke, while he is smoking, and we have sex for 45 mnts daily and he smokes atleast 3 to 4 and later takes manikchand andd chews...and i have to keep hitting him from the top and he only comes on top to ejaculate at the end...earlier it was difficult but now i got adjusted to it...but now he wants me also to smoke and assures me its safe and tells me we can enjoy vigourous sex...pls advise.
 
2016-06-24
#1
Name: Nisha
Subject:  RE:smoking during sex
Hi Ragini,
Such fantasies would be common for major people.And it would be better try to satisfy your husband how you can and it would be better not to share your private matters.
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2016-06-16
#2
Name: Vardhan
Subject:  RE:smoking during sex
Hi Ragini,
I heard that men would show their originality at that moment only.I do not know whether it is true or not.If you wish yo continue you can and if not you can oppose.
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2016-06-10
#3
Name: banu
Subject:  RE:smoking during sex
Hi Ragini,
So it is better try to do that once.AT least in this manner you would get chance to smoke know.And your husband only saying you to smoke why do you fear for that.
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2016-06-03
#4
Name: Rahul
Subject:  RE:smoking during sex
Hi Ragini,
If you had such problem you can express it to your husband.And luckily he may listen your words and you will not have any problem with that again.It would be better explain to him.
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2016-05-27
#5
Name: Laksha
Subject:  RE:smoking during sex
Hi Ragini,
Different people will have different nature but you have to think about them and need to change according to the situation also and the suggestion i have given would change situation to situation do not apply for all matters.
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2016-05-18
#6
Name: Naina
Subject:  RE:smoking during sex
Hi Ragini,
Different people will have different habits if you like that you continue and if not try to oppose in kind manner and change if the habits is very bad in slow process but do not leave them it is not so good.
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2016-05-12
#7
Name: Chandu
Subject:  RE:smoking during sex
Hi Ragini,
If you does not like such things then you can share it with your husband and if he understands it will be easy to solve your problem also can you share it with the solution for the problem you resolved.
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2016-05-11
#8
Name: Swapna
Subject:  RE:smoking during sex
Hello ragini,
How vulgar it is yaar how you are bearing all these why dont you say that you were not supposed to do all such kind of things during S** and it would be better you discuss with him and solve your issue also.
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2009-09-07
#9
Name: Krishna
Subject:  smoking during sex
Hi ragini,
I think u should go for it if ur husband wants u to...he would get more excited in watching u nude and lighting up and blowing smoke onto his face...u too will enjoy it a lot...moreover the habits of husband and wife should be similar in behaviour and mannerisms...it will help both of u very well...go ahead and give ur beloved husband company by smoking and becoming like him...u will feel a bit awkward initially but later on will get accustomed to it.
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2008-07-27
#10
Name: Muthukkumar
Subject:  Dear Ragini
Dear Ragi, as far as the ill effects of smoking is concern you can consult a doctor instead. Apart from this in general terms in my openion what ever you do in sex for its enhancement it should be a addictive one. You can occassionally add some spice by taking help of these kind of external boosters like cigar/manickchand etc. So see to that it is not an habitual thing.
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2008-07-27
#11
Name: Muthukkumar
Subject:  Dear Ragini
Please make the correction: it should not be an addicitive one....
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2008-06-25
#12
Name: Kumuda
Subject:  Never!
Do not listen to all these Pallavi, Anjali etc. Initial and temporary enjoyment (?) gives way to worry and pain which cannot be cured. So NEVER take to smoking, NEVER! It is a sure thing to destroy you slowly and unknowingly. It is bad enough for men to do it, worse for women. And samething with alcoholic drinks. Never touch it.
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2008-06-16
#13
Name: pallavi
Subject:  cool !!!
I agree with Anjali and to add to it, there will be no effect on the children..dont worry, i am mother of 2 and am smoking from past 5 years and daily during sex i smoke, infact with out a fag i disallow him and even if it is 1 am in the night he has to get me fags, but donot smoke once you are pregnant...quit and you can restart once you deliver...smoking is exiting for sex.
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2008-06-16
#14
Name: Anjali
Subject:  its common
Hey nothing unsual about it, me and my hubby smoke at home and we are comfortable with this, however i smoke during the sex and he doesn' t and chewing tobacco, cool most of the men do it, and whats wrong in you hitting your man from the top, infact this way he will last long!!! so booze occasionally and smoke if it can relax and build up your moods.
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2009-09-07
#15
Name: krishna
Subject:  good
it s very good if husband and wife are one in habits...the thing is u should enjoy the moment...as once old age comes in u miss out on many things which u would regret not doing when u were young
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2008-06-16
#16
Name: Rose
Subject:  god bless you
Hmmm....what you can do is...just 6to threaten him...u smoke and ask him to be on top....but never practice..

If u have a kid then you can else, advice him not to do so cos this muight affect your kids birth..

God bless you...
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2008-06-15
#17
Name: Kandy
Subject:  I pity
I pity your situation ragini. If you already have a baby...you can continue with it else ask your husband to stop smoking while sex. Coz its gonna affect both mental and physical health of the baby you' re gonna conceive. No babies means your wish. Smoke with your husband and enjoy life till you live. This time you hold the cigar and ask him to be at top )
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