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Sex:white girl...indian guy
2005-06-02
Name: white girl
hi, my boyfriend is a indian guy, 17, and im 17 as well, however he wont tell his parents about me, and also told me that his mother use to hit him with a bat! my parents are fine with me dating an indian guy but i feel so bad because he is always lieing to his parents about spending time with me, i dont see y dating is such a bad thing to do in indian culture.
i dont want to break up with him, but i dont think our relationship can expand if he wont be open to his friends or family about me. he also never talks about his mates or family to me. :( i dont no wat to do, plz help
 
2005-06-03
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Name: parentscansucksometimes
Subject:  hope this helps ya
heyy...how are ya? well to be honest with you, indian parents dont like their kids to BF's/GF's. its cuz they still believe in arranged marraiges and stuff. i totally understand u r position cuz been there. i told my GF how my parents didnt support me dating, she thought that was not cool and broke up.. o welll...whos suffering the losss me and my GF or my parents? well is upto you if you want to end that realtionship and move on, i got no say..its u r life and u decide whats best for you. let me tell you one thing, remember that you are going out with him and not his parents. hope everything works out for ya....

i'm stuck in a lil' something like that rite now, but i told my GF everything striaight up and shes kool with it. I love her soo much
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2005-06-03
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Name: Nicole
Subject:  diff cultures
hey i think that maybe his family isn't for him dating at all or just other cultures but i dont know b/c im not indian he might be affraid that you wont like for who he is or he might just not want his friends to tell his parents his friends might not approve of it he might not have friends or maybee he just isnt as serious about this relationship as you thought i think you should ask him about these things like his friends and family and tell him what you think and if you guys get in a fight and break up it wasnt meant to be but if things get better then thats great but if you are a couple and want to be serious you need to be open with each other! i hope i helped a little !!!
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2010-08-25
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Name: taha
Subject:  you are right nicole..
i think you have said what i should say
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