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Sex:Breastfeeding my husband.. my story
2012-06-13
Name: Prabha Prabha
It all started when i had just delivered my baby. I had engorged breasts early morning three days after my delivery. It was really painful and my breasts were swollen and hard like rock. I was crying out of pain. Both me and my husband tried to manually express the milk out but it was of little help. I was yet to buy a breast reliever then. And it was too early in the morning to visit the doctor' s clinic. finally my husband had to suck out the milk himself from my breasts. It was of great relief. And it continued for the next few weeks. He would normally feed on at bedtime after the baby falls asleep. And repeat the same before going out for work and after coming back. And would sometime also fall asleep by my side while nursing. I would always ensure proper hygiene and wash my breasts properly after every time my husband puts his mouth and before feeding my baby. I never had an engorgement again after that except on one occasion when my husband was out the the town for three days, when my baby was around 12 weeks old. My baby is almost seven months now and I am yet to get back my periods. My husband is still performing his job loyally and to his full satisfaction and mine. I have started giving semi-solid food to my baby now but plan to breastfeed him till he become two years old. Both me and my husband are enjoying the new bond. It feels really nice to nourish both of them with my milk. We have resumed our sex-life 8 weeks after my delivery which was a C-section. And the milk always adds spice to our sex life. Though we have never discussed, I would love to continue to feed my husband even after weaning my baby and as long as I can.
 
2013-01-13
#1
Name: Cool Maa
Subject:  hows are you now
Hi Prabha, How are you doing now? you son mush have grown up a bit
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2012-07-23
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Name: jyoti
Subject:  reply to original post
Hi Prabha,
Your story is very interesting, however i would advise you that it would be better to nurse your child only and not your husband. Breast milk is prepared by nature as baby food and not for the husband food. If you produce extra milk than the need of your baby, you can feed any other baby of neighbor or other baby or you can waste it but please do not feed your husband. I do not know if it has any bad effect scientifically but i know it is not allowed in any society.
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2013-01-28
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Name: raghav
Subject:  disagree
We shudnt drink cow´ s milk either as nature intended it for a calf and not adult humans
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2012-07-24
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Name: Chaitu
Subject:  Hi Jyoti
I completely disagree with you Jyoti. 1st of all you are suggesting her to feed any other baby of neighbor....it´ s absolutely ridiculous. If you don´ t have knowledge then you should be keep quiet and not to comment unnecessarily.

Do you know at all what ingredients does a mothers milk consists of?? It´ s absolutely harmless to give extra milk to husband instead it creates more bondness between them. And who says it is not allowed in society, dear here Prabha is not feeding her husband infront of society or any community. She is doing it at her home and with her husband. It´ s completely acceptable.

Who said it´ s not allowed in society? Did any one made a rule that you should not suck your wife´ s breasts or something like that??? Do you think any other mother will allow their kids to get the milk from other mother??? Have some sense when you say something on forum.
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2012-07-23
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Name: purush
Subject:  Adult breast feeding
Hi jyoti,

I totally disagree with your opinion and agree with Prabha.

Adult breast feeding is a kind of love that brings much closeness between couples ever before, due to the dependency on each other. Many more in this site and in the world are in this eternal relation which binned couples together.
Happiness and the love of effection cannot be explained, experienced by different people in different ways, one of this is mighty " Adult Breast Feeding" .

Regarding side effects, their would not be any side effects on either of them. In net you can find a lot of info on the same,no where its side effects are mentioned. In fact it helps ladies to get rid of Breast cancer during their ages, in modern day breast cancer has become higher. A question why in olden day their was no Breast cancer, why only in modern days?.

As you said that such relation is not allowed in this society, correct but how far its true. Its purely between the couples, their is no relation with the society regarding this. society is a place where public live together-modern way to say is civilization.

Please do not keep such beliefs in your mind and don´ t spoil your lovely nursing elation. I hope your married, please discuss the same with your partner and see the difference, you will understand the love, Good luck.
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