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Extra-marital Affairs:Sex with neighbour
2009-08-07
Name: Veena ..
I am 28 years old happlily married housewife, mine is a love marriage. we have 2 beatuful girls and my husband loves me a lot and ralationship has been going great he cares me a lot and loves me lot. I love him too. Everything has been perfect am completely satisfied by all ways. A year ago a handsome bank manager rented the opposite flat. He is also married but he dint bring his family. He told us that he will vl b in this city for 1 year and he doesnt want to disturb his children' s education and his wife works in his native. He makes friendship to us and often visits us in the evenings. he is 2 years older than my husband. in the biginning it i notice the lust in his eyes. But i never encouraged him i was so confident that i can manage these kind of people and my love and devotion towards my hus has been rock solid.Hehus goes to office arount 11. My hus and kids leave around 8.30. After that i vl be alone he started to collect the news paper everyday and always tried to chat with somethng or the other I never invited him at my home. initially i dint paid much attention. I already knew his intention.slowly i bagan to like these conversations and i slowly attacted to his sense of humor. As there were no activity for me in the house and i was bored whole day till my hus and kids arrive. He slowly befriended me and started to discuss about his wife and family. I thought a friendship is ok if i can draw a line. We stay at the top floor and i use the terrece to dry the washed clothes. whenever i go these he also started to come these. he always tries to flirt with me. later i went there only after he leaves for office. He started to go the office. this hide and seek game last almost 2 months. I was scared to disclose this to my hus. As i started to avoid him noticed he lost interest on me. Then i made biggest mistake in my life i started to talk to him again this time he was so aggressive and he started to call me from his office. I never disclosed this to my hus. One day he talked to me a lot convinced me to consider him as my best friend. Slowly he became very open and started to talk about his personal life and all, i was reluctant in the beginning and he slowly start talking about sex. he started discuss with his sex life and curious about my sex life. then he started praise about my body structure and all, i could not stop him. I must say i reluctantly i enjoyed these kind of chat. and i even revealed the coulor of my inner wear when he asked. couple of week it went on. Later i realize the mistake i made. One day i called him informed him that we must stop these kind of conversation, i told him that i felt very guilty about what i did. he tried to convince me i told him to consider me as a good friend and he promised me that he vl b my best friend. I was wrong, it was too late, One day around 12 i went to the terrace i thought he might have left for the office as i was returing i saw him waiting for me i smiled at him. he stopped me in the varanda. he told me to stop avoiding him it leads to a small argument and middle of that he dragged my waist and tightly embraced me and kissed me on my mouth. i tried to stop him but he was so stong and never let me go i reqested him to leave. within next 15 mts he made me a doll in his hand he pressed me to the wall and started to explored my private part. he was telling lot of sexual comment to my ear. when he asked me for bed i couldnt say anythng he took me to my house and to my bedroom started undressing me and we had sex till evening he made me enjoy each and every moment of it. i tatally cooperated with him. its been going on for the last 6 months. couple of time we had sex whole night when my hus was out of town. he made me enjoy lot thing i never did with my hus. we tried diffrent positions. I feel very guilty about this he promises no one vl come to know. it vl b over once he leaves this city. even i am not able to say no when he comes for sex. i dont know what will happen....
 
2016-05-28
#1
Name: Rachu
Subject:  RE:Sex with neighbour
Hi Veena,
So do you think that you had thinking in wrong manner also because it would lead to many problems for you only and you would face many risk in your life also just think once again and try to avoid that.
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2016-05-28
#2
Name: sneha
Subject:  RE:Sex with neighbour
Your relationship is at stake.you will definitely repent later. Dont try cheating your husband . He promised and you also made vows during your marriage. I hope you have some common sense.
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2016-05-27
#3
Name: sal
Subject:  RE:Sex with neighbour
You have done mistake and you cannot rectify that but you just think the same what you have done is done by your husband what would you do how would you react and does it will get digested for you or not.
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2016-05-26
#4
Name: lucy
Subject:  RE:Sex with neighbour
Your relationship is at stake.you will definitely repent later. dont try cheating your husband .he promised and you also made vows during your marriage. i hope you have some common sense.
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2016-05-23
#5
Name: Reha
Subject:  RE:Sex with neighbour
Your relationship is at stake.you will definitely repent later.dont try cheating your husband .he promised and you also made vows during your marriage.i hope you have some common sense.
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2016-05-19
#6
Name: Jerry
Subject:  RE:Sex with neighbour
Hi Person,
So can you say what would be the better solution to your problem can you say and it would be better and then it will be so good and also if you suggest that and it will be valuable also what would do so.
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2016-05-14
#7
Name: Saisha
Subject:  RE:Sex with neighbour
Stop cheating on your husband. If your husband did the same thing with you, would you let it go ?
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2016-05-12
#8
Name: sruthi
Subject:  RE:Sex with neighbour
Hey
How could you do this to your life partner when is very much loyal to you.By seeing you your kids will also do the same things when they be of same age.It is very sad to hear about what are you doing to you.Have some sense.
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2016-05-09
#9
Name: sruthi
Subject:  RE:Sex with neighbour
Your relationship is at stake.you will definitely repent later.dont try cheating your husband .he promised and you also made vows during your marriage.i hope you have some common sense.
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2016-05-06
#10
Name: Hayaathi
Subject:  RE:Sex with neighbour
Hello Veena,
You have done mistake and you cannot rectify that but you just think the same what you have done is done by your husband what would you do how would you react and does it will get digested for you or not.
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2016-05-05
#11
Name: Alok
Subject:  RE:Sex with neighbour
hello Lady,
What made you to cheat your husband did you get married with out your interest and any one forced you to do then why did you do like that if you like him you will not do such things and i wish would not repeat this again.
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2012-11-19
#12
Name: dipesh
Subject:  loosers
why the hell u ladies cheat on ur husband??? they go to office to work so that they can give u good life and behind their bak u do all this???its so not fair..
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2012-11-05
#13
Name: rihit
Subject:  condition
how is your life now? is everything okay?
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2011-12-26
#14
Name: transporter
Subject:  wanna meet u
hai veena and looks good and i too wanna meet u ..
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2010-11-01
#15
Name: heman
Subject:  its rape
Dear veena,
you have written \" he stopped me in the varanda. he told me to stop avoiding him it leads to a small argument and middle of that he dragged my waist and tightly embraced me and kissed me on my mouth. i tried to stop him but he was so stong and never let me go i reqested him to leave. within next 15 mts he made me a doll in his hand he pressed me to the wall and started to explored my private part.\" which clearly suggests that it is forced sex/seduction/exploitation. Forgive me any inocent man never eye on others properties.

All the best veena make a good decision
that is best for some body long lasting, one more thing if your husband comes to know about it, so better tell him at good time asap.

heman
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2010-08-06
#16
Name: Neelu
Subject:  Indian Woman
Dear Veena,

Past is past.. try to come back on right track as soon as possible to save your family as he is not going to support you once you are in troble.
Once you feel bad your self that is call SIN........ No child will able to accept such thing for his / Her mother may be they can for Father as in our Indian culture we consider Mother is as good as GOD.. U can live your husband and can be happy rest of your life but can you live with out your Kids ?? Think once again and just drop him in a second.. Take care and God bless you.......
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2010-06-14
#17
Name: Preet
Subject:  Indian Woman
Hello Veena:
Am sorry to say you have crossed the limits of faith and trust. Marriage is made of pillars of faith and trust . Yes after all we are all human beings who are bound to commit mistakes out of love and lust. But your intentions have been to have a gala time with your lustful neighbour. I pity your husband and kids. Just imagine your husband also indulges in such acts with a neighbour. In future just imagine your daughter commits such nuisance will you have a conscience to correct her. The Indian culture and traditions are at stake because of women like you. With great pain am uttering these words. Never the less your boy friends wife would be taken care of by someone . I wish he should have sex with his wife and make him run through out his life. May God Bless your husband and your boy friends wife and their kids.
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2010-06-13
#18
Name: Ajit
Subject:  Forget the Dirty Past & Plan for ur Clean Future
Hi Veena, I have gone through ur entire lusting story with that bad boy..It' s shocked me..Anyway, what happened in past, forget it but with a lession to learn some good thing to avoid the mistake in the future....Now ur job is don' t make any kind of contacts with him, change ur Mob.No. with ur mindset and attitude. Don' t look at him. Be confident with ur self. Don' t disclose it to any of ur family members at any cost and don' t try to make ur life measrable only for that bad-fellow. He enjoyed u and also u enjoyed him.So forget the past and start thing about a healthy life with ur only family members.

Best of Luck

Ajit

Hyderabad
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2010-02-11
#19
Name: Arun
Subject:  EMA with neighbour
Your story seems to be true as my own wife did same. She used to have sex for hours after I leave for the office. But I sensed this and started avoiding her. Slowly she became sick of that man and got ready to divorce me for which I was longing since years as she was very obstinate. She would never respect my advices and slam hers on mine. Her only way to win was shouting and crying and I had to maintain my respect where I lived so was always forced to cooperate with her. After she signed divorce papers, her wonderful lover disappeared from the scene. At present she is enjoying lonely life with a meagure maintenance allowance of Rs. 3500/- pm for her and her two kids. She is also very often approached by such wonderful people who eye for sex outside their home. I am sure one day your hus will find it out and dump you like a garbage of house, may be he waits for children to grow but surely he will do this if he is real indian man.
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2009-09-06
#20
Name: amit
Subject:  it happens
well you are educated and you also enjoyed at that time. And now if u dont wanna do then forget whatever u did and if he agin tries to come closer to you then hit him or dont allow him to come to u.
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RE:Sex with neighbour
Your relationship is at stake.you will definitely repent later. Dont try cheating your husband . He promised and you also made vows during your marriage. I hope you have some common sense.... - sneha [View Message]
RE:kya karun ?
So what will you do now nothing is in your hands but you need to share it with your wife and give her punishment for life time because it is also very less to he and you need to be kind to your baby also.... - sneha [View Message]
RE:Wife loves and cares but keeps extramarital affair
What would you do now because if you ask your wife she would not agree then it would be better you confirm it and then speak then only you will have peace of mind initial you do that only. It would help you.... - sneha [View Message]
RE:Should we go for full swap
Never ever share this kind of posts which are misleading.Try to delete this thread. Pls be ashamed of your acts and be socially responsible... - sneha [View Message]
RE:Wife loves and cares but keeps extramarital affair
Hi Human,
So you were suffering from the problem then you need to solve it from the issue by finding some solution also and then you would feel free from the problem also.I hope you would take good decision also. ... - Laksha [View Message]
RE:kya karun ?
Hi Person,
I can understand how much hard it would be for you to digest but you need to teach her what mistake she has done and what does the kid would do think about that also.I hope you would take good decision only.... - Lalita [View Message]
RE:Sex with neighbour
Hi Veena,
So do you think that you had thinking in wrong manner also because it would lead to many problems for you only and you would face many risk in your life also just think once again and try to avoid that.... - Rachu [View Message]

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