Extra-marital Affairs:Wife Lied / cheated twice
My wife had friendship with a guy about 5.5 years back, she was talking fun, love, sex, beauty etc to the guy. Who was her office colleague. Once I heard the conversation, and after arguments, she started crying, she said sorry N number of times. and Finally after a week I forgive her.
Last 5 years after than incident were incredible. She was extremly good wife in all means, i.e. handling finance, caring about me, beauty, love everything. As I was alot of busy in work, most of the time tired in weekdays, hence most of the time could not make good love to her in night in weekdays. We had good weekends. I always felt morning as good time, as I am fresh, but she never liked the mornings for love.
Now 2 weeks back again I found her talking to a different office colleagure similary, and again when I discussed this with her, she is feeling sorry and crying alot. Both times she said, she only had a good friendship, wherein she could discuss everything, but she didn' t had physical relationship. But as a human & circumstances I get doubt about this.
I love her badly, I am fully satisfied with her. Even thinking about staying away from her fills my eyes with tears.
I am all confused... I want to show to her that I can live without her, so that she realizes my importance but she can stay longer without talking to me and I ends up making first call.
I am well settled, I have everything in world but this problem is too big for me to handle....
Please help me to get clarity, What should I be doing? Is it too much for me to have sex twice a week only. I fulfill all her wishes, whatever they are except of having sex daily, as I get tired from work. I am thinking about quiting the work, so that I can be with her whole day... but she do not want this too
I am getting crazy