Hi Sangeeta

Well m Pelvic pain is gone completely...Osteopath sessions proved to be really helpful, infact my backache has also vanished... m very happy the way it turned out... i had only 5 session with him till now n m fit as never before :)

But now ders smthing new tht roubling me. I m located in Germany and at the end of this month we r moving back to India after 6* yrs. My first child was born here n now i hv scared delivering a baby in India.

Procedure here n der r so different tht m getting cold hands... I knw it sound very pessimist but the more i try to take it positively more depressed i get ( maybe my hormones are not helping me).

Yesterday i had a talk wid my Gynac abt Tetanus vaccination. She said its not given here and she wld not be giving to me as they belive its not good during pregnancy n 3 is too much for them here.... Well even during my first pregnancy i did' nt receive it.... more confused now wht to do... Also tried finding an Osteopath in Mumbai but cld' nt get much info....seems it is not a very common practice there...

I just don' t know any good Gynac der wid whom i wld be comfortable...n also since we r in Ghatkopar i don' t c any good hospitals closeby.... don' t wanna smthing far of cuz oflately m getting nightmares tht m stuck in traffic wid labor pains :(

Hubby keeps telling me tht m imagining the worst... I know tht m overreacting....I mysef has spent my whole life der n there a thousands of ppl having babies without any problem back home but still m not able to convince myself :(

i m srry for spilling out this way but i don' t know whom to talk too.... everyone thinks m crazy..

thx for bearing me...
n ofcourse lots of luv to the lil one
Rashi rashi replied. well i knw its normal to hv such weird dreams....nut i hv a reason too....my last delivery was very quick...i did' nt hv any contractions before.... they started at ard 12.15 at night with 2.5 min apart ...at 1 i was at hospital n at 4 my son was born...so u see i just had ard 3.5 hrs labor.... n tht scares me even more....cuz though the labor as shrt it was very sever....wht if i i get stucked for more den a hr in traffic :(
Well i knw God won' t do tht but still u knw when u hv these thoughts back of ur mind u ought to hv such scary dreams :)
Well m trying hard to take things more positively....maybe once i hv landed in India things wld be better for me :) Thx for ur encouraging wrds .. Sangeeta replied. Hi Rashi really sad to see that u r soooo upset.. No dear u r not crazy and also not over reacting..as u correctly said ur hormones r not supporting u..
Don' t worry dear mostly in this board all r frm India.. i really have no idea about good Doc in and aroung Ghatkoper so can' t really help u.. may be someone else in this board can help u regarding this..

I have an idea for you see if that helps..I guess majority of girls in june board r first time Moms.. so the anxiety and tensions are all similar to that what u r going through right now.. see dear u r totally unaware about delivery procedures here in India and so r we.. we don' t have any idea as to what labour pains will be like and what to expect when..so just think as if u too r like all of us.. u' ll feel better when u realise that u r not alone..

as far as weird dreams r concerned, do not worry dear it' s not going to be true. here too hormones r to be blamed.. i read in one of the sites that this phase we' ll have such weird dreams but then it' s not going to be true.. just relax calm down and pray for the best:)

Goodluck to u and hope u overcome this phase sooooooooon!!
bye lots of luv to u and baby!!