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Due Date Club June 2008:hi sangeeta , hi saba
2008-02-23
Name: tej



hieeeeee Im from pune,
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2008-02-26
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Anonymous Name: Breeze
Subject:  :)



I can understand..... dats also a very imp part of parenthood..... :)
My Hubby is into Mktg works with a publication house......

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2008-02-26
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Anonymous Name: tej
Subject:  hiee



he is very understanding . he hasnt missed any of my docs apts he too is very excited abt the baby coming he is the one who introduced me this site. But he has his priorities and is too busy in his work ,he is in software has his deadlines to meet.we have also done such a setting were all my pregnancy related mails get automatically fwded to him.he has his resposiblities to do. He has taken things too seriously and thts the reason hes been working hard,wht does ur husband do , business or job???
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2008-02-25
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Anonymous Name: tej
Subject:  thanks alot!!!



thanks alot Saba,
felt nice after reading your reply, my husband is very busy with his works he works late hrs , may be tht is one of the reasons y im feeling this loneliness, my dog gives me company and brings lot of joy.
i have maids almost for everything cooking , cleaning to dusting . So i dont have to do much except for lil things,But the problem is i cant leave my home to stay over any place, as you suggested may be try weekends but tht is the only time i get to catch up with my hubby.Also you can join work if you want to post delivery as u can hire a maid and have mil for supervision. Its difficult in my case but i have decided to take things as they come. and not going to crib abt sacrifising job or career in tht matter.
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2008-02-26
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Anonymous Name: Breeze
Subject:  Try....



Hi Tej :)

Jus wanted to know wat does ur hubby do? i mean business or works wit some organisation? i wud still suggest make an effort to guide him..... like sending him links specially ur weekly updates dat indiaparenting sends u... n articles dat will give him suttle suggestions dat u need some more time.... :) nothing too provocative :) u will get them on pregnacny sites..... he will surely chk his emails..... :)

Hope m not being too inquisitive.....

try doin dis lemme know hw it works :) Tkcr.

Luv to u n d baby :)
Saba
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2008-02-25
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Anonymous Name: tej
Subject:  mood swings



hey , do you get these mood swings, sometimes im so happy just without a reason and other moment i feel very lonely,sad. i was working and its quiet a hectic job so im working part time now, Since the time i have conceived i have started having this feeling of craving for love and attention from my near n dear ones. I feel very emotinal and sometimes very neglected. My mum too is busy working and she has her job to do so i cant expect much from her.My in laws are the least bothered ones so i gotto manage all my home and stuff alone wont be able to go to mums place for delivery as i have a dog and i have to take care of him and the house too as its just me n my hubby who stay together with the dog.I will have to sacrifice my career too for few months atleast, really very confused abt all this .How are you gals coping with all the daily chores and these emotional ups and downs? How do you plan to manage things pre n post delivery?
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2008-02-25
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Anonymous Name: Breeze
Subject:  Hope this helps.....



Dear Tej,

I know exactly what you are going thru….. This used to happen to me for the initial couplo months quite frequently….. n now sometimes…..
Mood swings are a part of pregnancy due to hormonal changes….. & since you n hubby live alone m sure it bites more…..

But sweetie u’l have to try n make an effort to b happy….. I hope u have a maid to help u…. If u don’t hire one, atleast it’ll help u wit ur daily chores.

Besides have u check wit ur doc about a pet in the house pre & post delivery….. I luv dogs too wish I cud hv one  They really tend to cheer u up aint?

About ur activities….I wud suggest you take up something dat u’ve always wanted to do n cudnt bcoz of fulltime work…. Mayb painting, writing… learning a musical instrument…. Etc dat’l help u divert ur mind….. go for eve walks……. meet frenz….. maintain a scrapbook of ur pregnancy dat u can luk back upon show ur baby later etc…

If ur husband doesn’t read much abt pregnancy I wud suggest ask him to go thru this site….. Men sometimes are not sure wat they need to do… u need to guide them sometimes….. like send them links of pregnancy related articles…. Ur weekly update etc…. or a nice article u may come across abt luv caring & sharing….. I m sure this will really help…….

Does ur mom stay close by? U can visit her over d weekends if its possible it’l b a change for u….. What about ur inlaws u can mayb ask ur hubby to ask ur Mil to comeover N stay wit u for a while if dat helps….

I’ve been a quite lucky in dat case…. I liv wit my Hubby n Ma in law…. Initially it was a diff coz it was a new phase for everyone in the house…. A baby after yrs in d house u c…. lotsa moodswings….. I work too n fulltime…. But den my MIL is quite supportive dat way helps me with the house chores….

Hubby is also very supportive n takes extra care now….. But yes I had to guide him a bit n it sure helped both of us to bond more……

I hope n pray everything works out for u too honey….. U tkcr n try to b happy…… If u need help wit anything plz let me know….. I really wish we cud exchange no’s but unfortunately dis site does not allow…. Pune is not far from bbay….. we cud have chatted over d phone…. I’l b glad to b of help….

Lotsa luv to u n baby :)
Saba
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2008-02-24
#7
Anonymous Name: priti.p
Subject:  hii



hi all
me frm july end due date..
also frm bbay.
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2008-02-24
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Anonymous Name: Breeze
Subject:  Hi!



Hi Tej... yup me from bbay :)
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2008-02-23
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Anonymous Name: Sangeeta
Subject:  tej



Hi Tej i' m frm Chennai.. most probably i' ll be going to Mumbai (mum' s place) for delivery if by God' s grace placenta moves up.. Saba too is frm Mumbai.
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