hey anurag!so u got married??

Hi Anurag,
See, what I feel is that its important to build a bond between the 2 of you first and then proceed further. Suhaag raat can be done later on also....first your minds have to meet and then physical attraction would automatically help you to achieve what you wish to achieve

Hi Anurag. I understand that u r in an arranged mrg and may be feeling a bit shy about making ur moves. But, even in arranged marriages, the couple meets frequently before mrg (after engagement or so) and talk a lot, discuss stuff, share thoughts and experiences. This makes them good friends and hence the \" suhagraat\" doesn' t feel totally awkward. First night is not ideally adviced for consummation as the new couple is quite tired and devoid of privacy due to presence of relatives and stuff. But, ideally awkwardness shouldn' t be just due to arranged marriage, unless u have never met the girl before. Hope this helps!