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Sex:first masturbating, helped by sister
2010-06-22
Name: ARNAB KUMAR SARKAR
I am 14 years old in class VII and I have a elder cousin sister of 19 years, we are good frnds and she used to teach me. Last week I felt pain in abdomen and also in testis, then I discussed this with my sisters and she checked my stomach and a day later she asked me to go bathroom and masturbate but then I don’t know what exactly she is talking about nor any idea about this and that pain continued for another day so again I approached her and finally she asked me to remove my pant later she asked me to remove my pant, at first I felt shy but she is older than me so I did and she touched my testis and penis and gave hard massage, then I felt like everything is changing in my body and she rubbed that for 2 to 3 minutes and for my surprise the white colored gum came out of my penis, I am afraid then but she told me that it’s a normal for every growing boys. Then I came to know about masturbating. Now I am not going near her because I am feeling shy, I am not making eye contact to her nor goes in her room. Is this normal that she helped me like this?
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2016-07-03
#1
Name: Gautami
Subject:  RE:first masturbating, helped by sister
Hi Arnab,
So it would not be an heavy trouble to you since you are younger to her and then she solved your problem.You must be happy for having such sister to you.
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2016-06-24
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Name: Arya
Subject:  RE:first masturbating, helped by sister
Hi Arnab,
Since you move freely with your sister so you have told your problem and she had solved it and be happy to have such sister and think positive only.
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2016-06-17
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Name: Kali
Subject:  RE:first masturbating, helped by sister
Hi Arnab,
Since you were small and you were not aware of all those things so you have explained your trouble with your sister and she had solved it.Do no think so narrowly which is not so high tensed matter it is.
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2016-06-10
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Name: Gautami
Subject:  RE:first masturbating, helped by sister
Hi Arnab,
You have shared your problem and she has given solution to your problem.Nothing more than that.So there is nothing to feel shame for this.So forget about that and be free.
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2016-06-04
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Name: Basu
Subject:  RE:first masturbating, helped by sister
Hi Arnab,
Do not think in any negative manner.As a sister she helped you a lot.So you are very lucky to have her but you have to come know what to be discussed and what not from now on wards.
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2016-05-30
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Name: dia
Subject:  RE:first masturbating, helped by sister
Why do you feel shy it is the normal issue and your sister solved your problem and you need not think like that your sister has given you the correct solution to your problem only you can face your sister normally.
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2016-05-28
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Name: Madhu
Subject:  RE:first masturbating, helped by sister
Hi Arnab,
So can you say what had you done to solve the problem also and then i wish you would share all the details also and i hope you would feel free also for sharing and i hope you would suggest also.
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2016-05-28
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Name: sneha
Subject:  RE:first masturbating, helped by sister
So you had solved your problem and it is better you need to thank your sister because she cares for you and she will help you and it is the thing you had sweet sister also. I hope you will understand.
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2016-05-27
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Name: sal
Subject:  RE:first masturbating, helped by sister
Why do you feel shy it is the normal issue and your sister solved your problem and you need not think like that your sister has given you the correct solution to your problem only you can face your sister normally.
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2016-05-26
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Name: lucy
Subject:  RE:first masturbating, helped by sister
Hello Arnab,
Why do you feel shy it is the normal issue and your sister solved your problem and you need not think like that your sister has given you the correct solution to your problem only you can face your sister normally.
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2016-05-19
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Name: Levi
Subject:  RE:first masturbating, helped by sister
Hi Arnab,
So can you say what would be the better you would do the solution also and can you share what would be the better to also then it will be helpful also and it may be useful also i wish you would be so happy.
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2016-05-14
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Name: Saisha
Subject:  RE:first masturbating, helped by sister
Hi
It is not normal that she helped you like this. A sister brother relationship is a pure relationship. Your sister should have some sense in her
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2016-05-12
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Name: sruthi
Subject:  RE:first masturbating, helped by sister
Hey its is really very disturbing to know about this type of stupid relationships.You know the sister brother relationship.Your sister have no sense and you as well.You both stay away from each other so that it is good for you both.
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2016-05-09
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Name: sruthi
Subject:  RE:first masturbating, helped by sister
Its not very normal for a sister kind of girl to help u know regarding this.It should be natural.Try to avoid her as much as u can.Be yourself.
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2016-05-07
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Name: Neha
Subject:  RE:first masturbating, helped by sister
Hello Arnab,
So you had solved your problem and it is better you need to thank your sister because she cares for you and she will help you and it is the thing you had sweet sister also.I hope you will understand.
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2016-05-05
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Name: Pari
Subject:  RE:first masturbating, helped by sister
Hello Arnab,
Why do you feel shy it is the normal issue and your sister solved your problem and you need not think like that your sister has given you the correct solution to your problem only you can face your sister normally.
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2014-05-11
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Name: Anon
Subject:  Dont Worry , and thank ur sis :)
Looks like you have a pretty caring sister , looking out for yo. Though this sort of help is a little unconventional, however I dont see any harm coming out of it. You cant avoid your sis forever , so i suggest you go to her and thank her for her help. That should get over the awkwardness and soon ull be over it.
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2016-02-05
#18
Name: hari
Subject:  hi
i never heard sisters helping for such cause until i came to this forum. but it seems normal for many people. and don't be shy. u can't avoid her for ur whole life just forget it and thank her to teach you this things which nobody told u before that.
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2010-09-08
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Name: arnab
Subject:  can´ t masturbate alone
hello,

i am in a problem, as i told earlier that my cousin sis helped me in 1st masturbating in d month of june, 3 months passed but i couldn' t masturbate of my own, i erected my penis & rubbed for more that 40 min but sperm didn' t ejaculate. i thought it will come naturally but this Saturday i completely become restless as my testicle became thick with full of sperm so again i told this my elder cousin sister & as usual she asked me to be naked & she rubbed my penis more than 20 minutes then only sperm ejaculated & i felt pain which continued for next 1 hour. so is it norlam? & also does my cousin sis who is 6 years older than me is thinking anything wrong about me?
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2010-09-09
#20
Name: Surya
Subject:  U have a problem....
Normally there wont be any pain after masturbation...u need to consult the doctor for sure....as u said u couldnt masturbate on ur own for the last 3 month..have u observed any nightfall. as u havent masturbated ...u should get nightfall for being normal...and also u said u have rubbed ur penis for 40 min which is very long duration to ejaculate. it may leads to tear of ur soft skin on the shaft...surely ur cousin sister wont thing anything wrong abt you....as ur sister only helped u in mastubating for the first time....and she helped int this occasion aswell...so dont worry man...may be ur d--- is gettign the feeling only with ur cousin sisters soft hand....Atleast mastubate once in a week if u like so that u wont get pain after masturbating....If u r not able to ejaculate approach ur sisi...:)
have fun ..all the best...But dont make it habitual.....careful...take care....
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