Congratulations to you and your brother ! It is very good that you were able to do all the rituals on your brother. Though he might have resisted it a bit, what matters is that, he was tonsured , his ears were bored and his nose was pierced.
Also you feminized him, he must have looked so cute and precious ! :)
... - sanjana
finally the upanayanam completed for my brother on 13-mar at our village.Elders in our house were very strict about everything.we had some tough time in convincing my brother about this.
He is the only boy in this house in our generation (my fathers brother has 2 daughters). Initially he resisted for nose piercing and feminize, but h... - kala
your brotherĀ“ s upanyanam
I am glad that you have decided to go ahead with the nose piercing as well.well. Off course it will be really painful for your brother and wearing a nose earring wont be exactly comfortable. But the point is,it is a ritual, hence it has to be done.
About feminizing , I think you should start slowly and then proceed.If he does not coop... - sanjana
dear sanjana, thank you so much for the reply.
From The moment we told about this upanayanam my brother read all about the rituals in internet. He is really worried about nose piercing and feminizing. He seems to be alright with head tonsure and ear piercing.
we planned the ceremony in 3rd week of feb.
my grand parents wants to go wit... - kala
your brother´ s upanyanam
Having conducted many traditional upanayanam ceremonies i can provide you with a lot of information.regarding your doubts:
1) as you said the boy' s head has to be shaved and his ears pierced and he has to wear earrings.About the nose piercing,not all boys have this done on them.While nose piercing has advantages and the boy does look cute wit... - sanjana
Help Regarding Brothers Upanayanam
We are planning to perform upanayanam function for our brother. can some one pls clarify the below points
1. Apart from head tonsuring and ear piercing, is nose piercing mandatory
2. How long he has to wear the jewellery
3. Do we need to feminize him before, during and after the function?. he is 16 years old, so not sure abo... - kala garikapati
Boy Baby Name
Could you please suggest some modern name for Lord Murugan (Shiva' s son). I would like to name my son.
Chitra... - Chitra S