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 Views on Poll 
Name: Sayghter-in-law Country: India Comment: Inlaws or monsters Name: simplewife Country: India Comment: intially in our marriage he use to shout and fight with me but i stay calm so as the year passed he learned that fighting with me is useless so we hardly fight but that doesnt mean we dont have any we have many problems personally with each other as well as with inlaws. Name: need advice Country: India Comment: well i m happily married with a child....till now.And my husbad is also a nice man....infact i m the decision makeer in the house. we stay abroad ....but he is too busy with his work and i m all alone with my kid.....till now i was thinking that i m happyily married lucky to have everything in life....but then we had a small tiff...my husband is a smoker and he also wants to drink to which i opposed furioulsy and he even obeyed and is not drinking.....but then i realised that he dosenot love me....i mean i m like a unpaid servant....no romance, just a very monotoneous predictable life.....whenever i write to him a loveletter on a anniversary,he dosenot even reply to me....then i wrote a letter taking idea from this site itself that i exist....and atleast call me sometime....atleast when i m sick....i need u emotionally too.But he never dose any such thing to make me feel special....i not asking for poetry or roses or expensive gifts but once a while take time for me.....i left my career ,parents, coutry everything for u.....and for the other person i m nothing.....i m feeling very depressed....whether i m wasting my life....pls guide me! Name: jaya Country: India Comment: I fully agree to what pl says Name: pl Country: India Comment: Motherinlaw creator of all problems with no solution Name: Ashalata Country: India Comment: I too aree inlaws mess up lives and make the life hell.No body comes with a notion to break the house after marraige but the inlaws create such a position that ultimately the couple suffers,why cant they live and let live Name: JIA Country: India Comment: INLAWS ARE THE MAIN CAUSE OF MISUNDERSTANDING AND FIGHTS AMONG SPOUSES Name: xyz Country: India Comment: after going through most of the comments i found that the only reason pointed out was in laws... that is so true and is true in my case too... both of us are doctors and both of us come from well educated families...my father in law and my sis in law keep poisioning my husband mind against me... i will soon be a mother and can just hope that presence of the baby changes everything...as of now i live by never complain never explain attitude Name: Rakhi Country: India Comment: I never thought ILs could be the root cause of max fights till the time they left their native place abd started living with us. Me and ILs never had a single in last five years but now everything has changed. Me and hubby fight quite often and mainly on petty issues i.e. i did not ask for food, i did not cook right kind of food , i ate before them etc. very small issues. I am working and expecting a child in soon so i feel hungry sometimes and eat before them but do ask them politely. My hubby was so co-operative earlier and did not mind all these things but now he creates mountain out of nothing. So life has changed after arrival of my ILs they stay at home , have full time maid still keep on conplaining. Name: ranjana Country: India Comment: we do not fight but certainly we tease each other intellectually and discuss the issue till we forget the original topic that we had started. and we really love our attitude and sometimes when things tend to become ugly we just give each other the appropriate stare and leave the issue. Name: VAJAYANTHI Country: India Comment: Just today i watched in zee news that a father abandoned his 1 month old child because he felt that his wife had some mental disease.Both the parents were shouting but the worst part was the poor child who had not committed a mistake.it was the parents mistake to give him birth.to top it all the inlaws played their dirty role as well.whatever the real reason is it is very very shameful for the father not to accept his child and to fight.people in india can be disgusting that too in metropolitans like Delhi,It is high time some action should be taken against those who play with the life of innocent victims the children Name: isis Country: Switzerland Comment: WE DO FIGHT B'COZ OF SMALL ISSUE IN PETTY AND OTHER FAMILY PROBLEM. Name: Asmita Malhotra Country: India Comment: If you dont have horrible inlaws you cannot complain.It is not a question of being contended or not this is for you madeleine god forbid if you were blessed with awful horrid and disgusting inlaws you would be the first one to complain,thats for sure lets see how you could enjoy the beautiful weather if you have to tackle these nasty people who are the main reasons of fight Name: madeleine Country: Madagascar Comment: WE LOVE THE WEATHER HERE! WE ARE REALLY ENJOYING IT WHILE YOU GUYS ARE ALL COMPLAINING! ha ha! YOU PEOPLE MUST NEVER BE CONTENTED! Name: KV Country: India Comment: We have regular fights especially becoz of mother-in-law as she always wants to be between us and make her importance in everything.She even lies to make herself right and you cannot do anything as my husband listens to her and obeys her.Then why did he marry??He should be with his mother.Now even after having a baby he wants to be a mama's boy!! Name: abc Country: Australia Comment: we have fights because we are two diffrent people. i belong to aeducated family and he is from a small town. our way of living, way of thinking everything is opposite from each other.i want to leave him but it's hard. i am very isolated here, away from my family. it's better to stay in india than outside from india. Name: anita Country: India Comment: we dont fight on petty issues,but for genuine reasons. Name: anita Country: India Comment: we dont fight on petty issues,but for genuine reasons. Name: smriti Country: India Comment: 90 percent of fights in our country are due to those nasty inlaws Name: 007X Country: India Comment: WE HAVE REGULAR FIGHTS OVER PETTY ISSUES. EVEN IF IT CAN BE RESOLVED THE BETTER HALF DECIDES TO RAISE THE LEVEL AND CONTINUE WITH THE CONFRONTATION ATTITUDE IT IS DIFFICULT AND EVEN FRUSTRATING 
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