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 Views on Poll
Name: Singh Country: India Comment: I beleive that it is not a question of whether u did IT or not. But it is a very individual experience and a very opportunitistic event(exclude going to brothels, i am talking of IT only between sesibles of this planet). U had the opportunity u went for IT with the right person. Okay, perfectly alright, just another part/experience of being a human. BUT A WORD OF WARNING FOLLOWS: NEVER BE SO STUPID TO TELL UR PARTNER THAT U HAD it. It's plain stupidity and not honesty. Because u will be taking a CHANCE of ruining ur relationship!! Because u r already fine in ur relationship,why risk a DENIAL OR ACCEPTANCE. Everything else is fair in a Husband and Wife. Name: BMW Country: Canada Comment: I think it is healthy for any human to have pre-marital sex as long as they are not sleeping around all over the place. Just as personalities are important in any relationship such as marriage, so too is sexual compatibility. Many marriages fall apart because of no chemistry in bed, so better to know sooner than later! Name: jjyo Country: India Comment: My wife had a sex not me Name: Samji Country: India Comment: If the partner is ready why should I bother,Ya I have fucked my girl friend,But still we both are unmarried.Now also we are enjoying. Name: saviz Country: India Comment: I had only foreplay with my boyfriend & both of us really enjoyed it.we are getting married this december.But I often feel guilty for what I did,the best part of us being together was even when I was ready to give myself my would-be left me as a virgin only.We both are really ucky to get eachother Name: saviz Country: India Comment: I had only foreplay with my boyfriend & both of us really enjoyed it.we are getting married this december.But I often feel guilty for what I did,the best part of us being together was even when I was ready to give myself my would-be left me as a virgin only.We both are really ucky to get eachother Name: RAJESH Country: India Comment: I HAD SEX WITH MY NEIGHBOUR. SHE IS 35 AND I'M 30. HER HUSBAND IN IN THE MIDDLE EAST. ONCE SHE ASKED ME ABOUT TO HAVE SEX WITH HER. I WAS SCARED. BUT SHE TOLD ME SHE NEVER TELL ANYONE. FOR LAST 5 YEARS WE ARE HAVING NICE TIME. Name: RAJESH Country: India Comment: I HAD SEX WITH MY NEIGHBOUR. SHE IS 35 AND I'M 30. HER HUSBAND IN IN THE MIDDLE EAST. ONCE SHE ASKED ME ABOUT TO HAVE SEX WITH HER. I WAS SCARED. BUT SHE TOLD ME SHE NEVER TELL ANYONE. FOR LAST 5 YEARS WE ARE HAVING NICE TIME. Name: Sonali Country: USA Comment: I'm having pre-marital sex with my boyfriend now and we plan to marry. We are both not each other's first, and we were both tested before we had sex with each other. No problem here. Name: Ramesh Country: India Comment: No, there is not problem if both are agree and are going to marry soon. Name: Ramesh Country: India Comment: No, there is not problem if both are agree and are going to marry soon. Name: Ramesh Country: India Comment: No, there is not problem if both are agree and are going to marry soon. Name: noman Country: Other Comment: no it is wrong thing before marriage. it can destory a gils's life. Name: noman Country: Other Comment: no it is wrong thing before marriage. it can destory a gils's life. Name: Indian PpLZ Country: England Comment: Indian PpLZ ArE Soo StuPidD. They Love suckin up to goray loge. This site is going down soon. There is so much corruption here. Name: Indian PpLZ Country: England Comment: Indian PpLZ ArE Soo StuPidD. They Love suckin up to goray loge. This site is going down soon. There is so much corruption here. Name: SUNNY Country: India Comment: DEFENETLY ,I AGREE TO IT IF YOU ARE HONEST ENOUGH THEN YOU CAN GO FOR IT REALLY I BECAME VERY CLOSE TO MY GIRL[WIFE]WOULD BE .SHOULD GO FOR IT FOR PERFECT RELATIONSHIP AND FOR KNOWING WELL TO EACH OTHER . Name: Veena Country: India Comment: I have had pre-marital sex with my husband before marriage. It was both fun and guilt.I am happy that we are blessed with a cute daughter now.No regrets about the past. Name: a husband and wife's response Country: England Comment: yes - we had premarital sex with each other. Some of the responses are shocking especially from the people living in India because we feel that living in England people in India have a lot stronder morals. Name: s.s Country: Canada Comment: I got married when I was 28 years of age and at that time I was still a virgin. Since I was a teen I always said to myself that I will wait until I find that perfect partner, and that partner would be the one who I got married to. I must say waiting so long really pays off. Me and my husband are getting along great. We now have two wounderful kids. I don't believe in pre marital sex. I advice girls especially to save that special thing for that special someone in your life and surely it will pays off. Name: s.s Country: Canada Comment: I got married when I was 28 years of age and at that time I was still a virgin. Since I was a teen I always said to myself that I will wait until I find that perfect partner, and that partner would be the one who I got married to. I must say waiting so long really pays off. Me and my husband are getting along great. We now have two wounderful kids. I don't believe in pre marital sex. I advice girls especially to save that special thing for that special someone in your life and surely it will pays off. Name: Trisha Country: USA Comment: Yes I've had pre marital sex before I met my husband. I didn't loose my virginity until I was 18. I made the choice to be sexually active as a part of an adult relationship. I've been with my husband for 7 years, married 5. It was never an issue we have been open and honest about our pasts. But the fear of someday getting sick from someone in your past is always there. I wish I would have waited for my husband. Name: Paresh Country: India Comment: Yes, I had goodfriendship with many girls before my marriage. in fact I am so smart and handsome that my girls friends could not stop herself. However I enjoyed sex with them, particularly with virgin girls. Name: Guru Country: India Comment: I had a real go with my girl friend, who was so co-operative, I could not get the same from my wife. With that friend I tried all the fantacies, positions, types and we used to have sex at least 5 times a day wherever I wanted and in whatever way I wanted. Even now, though she is also married, once in a while we meet and have sex. It is really fun. Name: Chhavi Country: India Comment: Well, I never had pre-marital sex with my GF. As we new we could not marry so we set the limits of having sex and it did paid of in building a very beautiful relationship on trust. Now even we both are not married to each other and married elsewhere but we are still carrying on our platonic-friendship. Name: Swamy Country: India Comment: Yes I did have premarital sex with my girl friend and we never thought, at that time, that we cannot get married. But the circumstances were such that I could not marry her, due to blackmailing of my parents especially, and the guilt is alomost spoiling my life. I would rather advice a strong no, to avoid later days complications. Name: desi-gal Country: USA Comment: I think Pre-marital sex is a very touchy issue. I was in a short relationship when in college but we never had sex. It was very hard to get over it. If we actually had sex, it would have been lot more difficult to get over it. Plus if you get married to a another guy, then it becomes problematic for him to accept. So I think its best not to indulge in it and if you do, be very serious abt the guy in terms of marriage etc. Name: shroff Country: India Comment: Ya, I ad pre-marital sex with my class-mate. She is beautiful. Her bottom is tight. Before penetrating her in front I enjoyed her annus first for 3 years. Actual vaginal sex is very enjoying when it is tight. After marriage and first delivery it becomes loose. Any way it is yet enjoyable. Name: rs Country: India Comment: yes, i am enjoying pre-marital sex with my boyfriend and we are getting married soon. Its our first experience and we are very happy. Name: rs Country: India Comment: yes, i am enjoying it with my boyfriend and we are getting married soon. Its our first experience and we are very happy. Name: Mridula Country: India Comment: no, i hadn't been all those stuffs b'cause all those boyfriends i met were not capable enough for sexual contact Name: Linda Country: India Comment: Yes, I had with a boyfriend I was very serious about when I was 25 years old, but finally it did not work out, and when I met my actual husband, I told him about it.He said he did not mind, and understood, but so many times later, I felt that he hated me for not being a virgin, and indrectly made me 'pay' for not having been the first one in my life.Ultimately, our sex life went down, and our relationship became so tense and problems started to crop up, then finally I could not take it anymore, and left him. I feel if I had kept my mouth shut, maybe it would have been different, or lied like so many women do, because in any case, I bled when I had sex with my husband first time, and for me, he is the best I have ever had in bed.But I don't seem to be able to convince him of that, and now it's too late anyway... Name: Kathy Country: USA Comment: Yes, I have had pre-maritial sex with my husband before wegot married. But than agian I have known him for 10 years total. I knew him for 4 years before we started dating, I had pre-maritial sex with him a year after we were together. And Now we are happily married for 5 years now. We have a 17 month old daughter and are expecting our second child any day now. I am so glad that I had pre-maritial sex with my partner that is now my husband. I think that is okay. But, I would never would just sleep around. He was my first and I was his first. This was a great experience that we experienced together. Because alot of indian guys that get married... especially arranged want to impress thier wife, so they go out and sleep with another women that has had sex before... just for the experience..... Name: K.S. Country: USA Comment: I think that more people in this poll had premarital sex and are not willing to admit it. Name: Ashish Ahuja Country: India Comment: Pre-marital sex is one of those topics where you cannot call anybody right or wrong. Its just a question of how one perceives it & how much it is accepted by one's partner / spouse. No doubt it is still considered a taboo in most part of our Indian society but then, it all depends upon person to person - some do it & forget it, some share it with their spouses while most of them carry the guilt throughout their lives ! Name: Upma Bonalicious Sharma Country: USA Comment: I've had sex with pretty much every guy I've run in to here at school. Works well for me. Name: Samir Country: India Comment: It is Fast, Fun and Easy, Good for health. Name: Samir Country: India Comment: It is Fast, Fun and Easy, Good for health. Name: Leslie Country: Canada Comment: Yes I have had pre marital sex. My husband knows and understands and he has excepted it as just another part of me. I have been with my husband for 8 years and married for 5. And we have been open and honest with each other about sex. Name: mak Country: India Comment: Yes i had with my husband before marriage when my parents were not at home. It was a good experience. I ENJOYED. Name: mak Country: India Comment: Yes i had with my husband before marriage when my parents were not at home. It was a good experience. I ENJOYED. Name: sk Country: India Comment: i had with my friend and i have told to my wife also and some time we discuss the experience and enjoy it. i thank her for giving me such a wonderful experience. Name: Aakash Country: India Comment: Ya, I had pre marital sex with my ex girlfriend and I am married now for 2 years. But I still havent told mywife about it because I am scared it my ruin my relationship with my wife. 
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