|
|||||
|
|||||
|
|
|||||
 Views on Poll
Name: P.K.RAO Country: India Comment: OUR'S IS ARRANGED MARRIAGE. I AM HAPPY WITH FAMILY LIFE. HOWEVER CONTRACT MARRIAGES ARE BETTER THAN ANY OTHER TYPE CONSIDERING PRESENT WAY OF LIFE. Name: rishma Country: India Comment: I don't agree with the dowry system marriages in India even though it is illegal by Indian Law but in Indian Society people still ask for dowry from the brides parents, I don't say that every one in Indian Society asks for dowry but there are some people that will still ask the dowry from brides parents, customs such as dowry system marriages needs to be abolished... Name: rishma Country: India Comment: I don't agree with the dowry system marriages in India even though it is illegal by Indian Law but in Indian Society people still ask for dowry from the brides parents, I don't say that every one in Indian Society asks for dowry but there are some people that will still ask the dowry from brides parents, customs such as dowry system marriages needs to be abolished... Name: rishma Country: India Comment: I don't agree with the dowry system marriages in India even though it is illegal by Indian Law but in Indian Society people still ask for dowry from the brides parents, I don't say that every one in Indian Society asks for dowry but there are some people that will still ask the dowry from brides parents, customs such as dowry system marriages needs to be abolished... Name: jay Country: India Comment: unless you marry someone who understands you,marriage is a single ticket journey to hell I would ask one question? What is marriage? Is it license for sex? Is it raising children? Is it sharing every Moment? What exactly it is? Name: jay Country: India Comment: unless you marry someone who understands you,marriage is a single ticket journey to hell Name: veena Country: USA Comment: mine is a terrific love story i married the person whom i know from my kindergarden, we both love each other as the same way though we faced many obstacles but yet he made me to achive our goal and now we r hsppily married with expecting our first child, marriage is understanding and sacrificing your love for the other Name: veena Country: USA Comment: mine is a terrific love story i married the person whom i know from my kindergarden, we both love each other as the same way though we faced many obstacles but yet he made me to achive our goal and now we r hsppily married with expecting our first child, marriage is understanding and sacrificing your love for the other Name: poojavikas Country: India Comment: marriage is a relation based on trust & understading. it needs 2 be handled with a lot of luv& care. in india, we love the person we marry, while in foreign countries we marry the person we love. Name: poojavikas Country: India Comment: marriage is a relation based on trust & understading. it needs 2 be handled with a lot of luv& care. in india, we love the person we marry, while in foreign countries we marry the person we love. Name: Country: Comment: Name: Hemant Varsha Country: India Comment: Marriage is a game of understanding. Those who have understood each other in and out have won the finals of their successful life. Name: samaj Country: Other Comment: mine was a terrific love marraige(there was lots of problems from both families as v belong to diff community) people around us used predict the term of our relation ship. it was all somuch like a filmi style.v had to leave india settle in a new country by our own . any way today v are proud parents of a boy and almost 12 years behind. i will never say it was easy . but then our love,respect ,faith in each other helped us a lot . i never kept any grudges to his and vice a versa. i think this really helped us and v had a firm fooatage in each others family. when u are from 2 different community ,u should be always ready to accept the community values.v celebrate all the festivals ,and our life style also is a mixture. so i think adjustment and sacrifice is a must in a marraige Name: Sarika Country: India Comment: Marriages are made in heaven (both love/arranged) Like everthing in live, one has to work hard for success, same is in marriage. But doing together especially with a lifetime companion is much more fun and great. Ours was a arranged marriage but guess he is only meant for me and no one else can replace such feelings. We are poles apart in education, lifestyle everything but there is a companionship and respect for each other. I keep finding faults in everyone I come across but love my hubby's faults. I had plenty of boyfriends but a permanent relationship never shaped up because I just can't accept people with faults but its visa-versa with my 8 years old hubby. We are proud parents of two children (boy/girl) and cannot ask for anything else in this life with unlimited thanks to GOD and my parents for giving me such an understanding and loving husband. Name: Abida Country: India Comment: Marriage is like any other relationship where the more you give the more you get. One just has to be true & sincere. Mine is an arranged marriage but its just so WONDERFUL Name: Rohini Country: USA Comment: My marriage was an arranged marriage. I couldnt be happier with my husband than anyone else. I was given the option and it was worth it. Leave your options open. You just be happier. Name: Nilu Country: Middle East Comment: Marraige is a partnership to live the life which builds and evolve on the principal of mutual trust and respect. If any of the partner deviates from these two, partnership shakes whether it is arranged or loved one. And to respect and trust one's partner is not an easy job. Name: Padmavathy Country: India Comment: My marraige was an Arranged cum Love marraige. I feel even if you love someone you need to get the permission of your elders and then only marry. your life will be happy only if your elders bless you otherwise in this world you cannot life alone without the blessings of your parents Name: Tonia Country: USA Comment: I just dont understand the arranged marriage. Why? Name: Laxmi Sharma Country: USA Comment: I My view both Love marrige and Arranged have happy memories and sad once.......I think Marrige is to accept the other person as he is.....And My husband thinks the same........we are happy to find each other..... Name: Mona Country: India Comment: Marriage is understanding betn each other , if that is good ,love marriage or arranged marriage is good. Name: Anika Country: USA Comment: My marriage is arranged. I had tough time adjusting in the begining. I thought it was a mistake! but eventually, I started taking charge of my feelings and started understanding what I need most to make myself happy and comfortable in this marriage and everthing worked out., so far so good I have a son and expecting a second one soon... I am a happy mom and wife now. Name: Suresh Country: India Comment: My marriage is arranged and my choice is excellent. our areas of interest are very much same. Life is full of joys and there is no space for any misunderstanding. Name: shefali Country: India Comment: My husband is very loving and caring to me. It was a arranged marriage but still i feel that we are made for each other even my inlaws are very caring and loving to me. Name: charu Country: India Comment: Jessica is right,both love & arranged marraiges involve compromise the only difference is knowing the guy or not.Mine is a love marrige & things do change.U just think u can live on love & fresh air but that's not true. Name: Parag Country: India Comment: I agree with Jessica's view above. Its very true that the life before and after marriage is always compared, and believe me, it was always better before marriage! Name: Parag Country: India Comment: I agree with Jessica's view above. Its very true that the life before and after marriage is always compared, and believe me, it was always better before marriage! Name: Jessica Country: USA Comment: Mine is a love marraige but I dont find that of much of a difference between love and arranged since both involve compromise. Just the difference that you know the guy before marraige but this rather creates a tiff between the 2 of u since u always compare life before marraige and after. Name: Ankita Country: India Comment: My marraige was a comprise but down the years now I dont feel it is a comprise since my family is good. 
INDIAPARENTING IN THE NEWS HOME | Comments or Suggestions | Resources | RSS Site Map | Contact Us | Advertise with Us All Rights Reserved Worldwide. (c) 1999 - 2018 India Parenting Pvt. Ltd. Please be sure to read our Copyright, Disclaimer and Privacy Policy |
