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 Views on Poll Do you think that minor arguments in front of children have a negative impact? 
Name: Lashe Country: usa Comment: Arguments just for the heck of it on a regular basis will defintely affect a child. Arguments should be discussions in the form of expressing opinions. It should definitely be done on a regular tone and not a raised voice. Child will definetly develop a complex if arguments go on a high tone. I would say arguments on a light note is necessary for a daily life, and definetly the child learns there are different opinions and needs to be discussed as a family. Name: varsha dabholkar Country: india Comment: not really, if the arguments are of minor differences. kids also need to know that every human being has his point of view which arise in differences. it is part of life. better to know that from ur parents as u eventualay also see them solving it together or totally neglecting it together. Name: BRK Country: india Comment: YES ARGUMENTS PUT WERONG IMPRESSION AND CHILDREN ARE SMART THEY UNDERSTAND THAT PARENTS VIEW POINT DON'T MATCH. SO THIS CAN HELP THEM TO GET THEIR THINGS DONE FROM EITHER OF THE PARENT . THIS EVENTUALLY CAN MISSLEAD THEM. Name: TJR Country: india Comment: YOU BETTER NOT GIVE A ROSY PICTURE WHEN IT IS NOT THE TRUTH. SOONER OR LATTER THE CHILD WILL KNOW. MINOR ARGUMENTS CAN BE MADE IN FRONT OF THE CHILD. IT MAKES IT CLEAR TO A CHILD THAT LOVING ONE DOES NOT NECCESSARILY MEAN SLAVERY , YOU CAN LOVE A PERSON 7 HAVE FREE WILL TOO. Name: seema siddiqui Country: Singapore Comment: arguments, affect a child in both ways, parents should always make the argument into a discussion& most imp say what they want in calm tone. we should make the child realise that you can express yourself without raising their voice. Name: payal Country: India Comment: yes arguments make bad impresion of life in children Name: avery gonsalves Country: dubai Comment: Yes arguments do have a negative affect on a child. I feel if the parents need to have an argument they should do so away from the children. Name: Sesh Country: india Comment: Yes,Arguments do have negative effect. Children become concious of such situations Name: aarti Country: india Comment: the chILDREN BECOME RESTLESS & DO THE SAME WITH OTHERS.WHEN THEY GROW UP THEY RESORT TO FIGHT ON EVERY THINGS Name: prachi Country: india Comment: no use pretending everything is allright in front of kids..they know the truth anyway...what is important is to instill in them a sense of security that mom and dad will always be there together for them in spite of the minor quarrels.Kids need to know that mom and dad love them and love each other and u only argue with the people u care for Name: sangeetha Country: India Comment: i think arguing in front of kids[however big or small]does effect them mentally.kids like to see their parents always in good spirits.arguing in front of them makes them insecure.arguments can take place when they are not around,especially if it is about them. Name: pradnya s. v. Country: usa Comment: acc to me minor arguments in ones life are very natural & that not too big an issue should be me in front of the kids. at the same time i feel that children must be exposed to the realistics of life & not always have a good idea of life. & one more imp thing is that parents should know where to limit their arguments. Name: amit Country: India Comment: If the arguments are minor, it is in fact a healthy thing for the child to be exposed to more than one point of view. Parents need to be conscious that the argument is aimed at letting the child know that there can be two sides to a coin. It is important that parents do not let the argument get out of hand. Name: Archana Country: india Comment: Children have to know that arguments are a part of life. It is better that they do not have an unrealistic idea of life and it is also essential for them to know that two people cannot agree all the time Name: LAKSH Country: india Comment: Yes it makes children restless and change their playful mood Name: Fahim Country: India Comment: Minor arguments or major arguments are one and the same. It is best for parents not to argue in front of their minor children. To argue on a particular subject is different. Name: dev Country: USA Comment: yes thats true that childrens may have bad effect of sex calls they may be more sexy girls may start call girl boys may start sex boy Name: Chelpa L.M. Country: india Comment: Child needs to necessarily understand that arguments are a part of life. Parents need to ensure that the arguments are not too emotional. and limit arguments to a form of expressing opinion than fighting on issues. Name: Chelpa L.M. Country: india Comment: Child needs to necessarily understand that arguments are a part of life. Parents need to ensure that the arguments are not too emotional. and limit arguments to a form of expressing opinion than fighting on issues. Name: jane Country: india Comment: yes, i really think minor arguements in front of children really affects their minds,it not only brings curiousity but also makes them nervous . Name: Narayana Sharma Country: india Comment: Yes, They get nervous and feel unsecure. They are happy to be amidst their parents who are smiling and talking to each other than in useless arguments. Name: SESH Country: india Comment: Yes it creates unrest in childrens mind and as far as possible we must avoid the same Name: Narendra Country: India Comment: Minor arguments in presence of children create first curiosity among them and then they enjoy to understand each other. Name: ginny Country: india Comment: children are like a sponge. whatever we drop on them they will soak it and save it for their future interaction. Name: mayuri asar Country: kenya Comment: if we always be with children, and they always be with us we can explain them quietly what is right and wrong, with our kids we have to be veru poliet. Name: mrs.neha tamboli Country: india Comment: arguments make child mind unstable Name: amulya Country: India Comment: such comments influence adult minds even! so why not young children? Name: anita Country: India Comment: I think that minor arguement helps the babaies in the following ways: -the baby realises that there can be more than one opinion on any issue - the baby learns to discuss and express herself/himself Name: anita Country: India Comment: I think that minor arguement helps the babaies in the following ways: -the baby realises that there can be more than one opinion on any issue - the baby learns to discuss and express herself/himself Name: LadyJ Country: usa Comment: I feel that minor arguments in front of children teaches that everyone doesn't always agree and it is okay to have your own opinion and it is ok to voice it. Serious arguments should be kept private and out of ear's length. Name: arjun and niranjana Country: India Comment: .yoga is very important for our intellectual things.thrice a day is enough Name: arjun and niranjana Country: India Comment: .yoga is very important for our intellectual things.thrice a day is enough Name: arjun and niranjana Country: India Comment: no prayer .yoga is very important for our intellectual things.thrice a day is enough Name: Sangita Country: usa Comment: I feel that arguments ( Small mild ones) in front of children are ok because they can teach them the value of difference of opinions. Through minor arguements children can learn that everything does not always go your way and it is ok to either change your own points of view ar convince the other person to change theirs. But fights and seriours arguments in front of xhildren is a positive NO! NO! Name: anita Country: india Comment: yes definetly if the elders or any body else would argue the child mght get the feelin of insecurity or also would blame himself that becoz of him they r arguing Name: DOMINIC ALMEIDA Country: other Comment: IT CREATES A BAD IMPRESSION ON THE CHILD'S MIND, GIVING AT TIME NEGATIVE VIBES WHEN WE RELATE TO THEM AFTERWARDS. IT IS IMPERATIVE THAT WE SHOULD CURTAIL & AVOID ARGUMENTS IN FRONT OF THE CHILDREN. Name: Asha kudari Country: usa Comment: I feel that there is lot of difference between an argument and a fight.That's why I have the opinion that minor and intellectual arguments between parents infront of a child may help him develop an interest and ability to talk and give his individual opinion on any matters without fear.So it is just very important that parents keep this in mind. Name: Nisha Country: India Comment: Since children are very good imitators all types of arguments should be avoided infront of kids. Name: smita Country: usa Comment: yeah since nowadays their nervous system is too sensitive and they feel their parents as an ideal in their life so it surely makes an bad impact on their mind.also it depends on how the child takes it and what he has been taught in his developing stage by his parents. Name: Samit Country: India Comment: Yes arguments do have a negative affect on a child. A child sees parents as his protective barrier from the world, his parents fighting reduces his sense of security. 
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