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Name: Suzanne France
Country: India
Having learned the hard way, I agree with Richard's method. How to give a child an enema: Put a towel down on the bed. Prepare the enema (Fleet or bulb-and-bag). Make him take his pants off. Give him the choice - he can either take the enema in the praying-to-Mecca position, leaning forward, or you can put him over your lap and leglock him like a baby. That should be enough to make him co-operate. He might still cry and make a fuss as you stick the nozzle in and squeeze the bulb, but remember, this`ll make him do a do in 5 to 10 minutes!

Name: neha
Country: India
my child is one and a half years and refuses to sit on the potty seat...He usually tells me when to use bathroom for toilet but he will never me when to use the bathroom for potty....

Name: RICHARD
Country: United Kingdom
you might not like the idea but i have the answer to potty problems when I was aged about 3 my mother would not tolerate not doing a poo every day and when sat on the china large potty which was owned by my grandmother she would threaten an ENEMA and hey presto I soon did a poo not likeing the previous enema givern by the nurse enema caused a good motion every time one pint of water or less into the rectum via the anus and a motion will result in minitutes

Name: Leoni
Country: england
i have heard from many sources that it is better to start late than early. better that your child should understand what they're doing, what you want of them, and have good muscle control before you start, than you should traumatise them and cause the whole issue to be a battle. they won't still be wearing nappies age 5. just relax and they'll do it when they're ready.

Name: Sara B.
Country: usa
i feel its just impossible that your child as small as may be 15 mth old come and tell u that she want to go to loo, she will do this only when we parent make them realise and understand what needs to be done,and in my view potty trainning should be started as soon as your child starts sitting, so they grow up understanding that they have to use potty for certain purpose.

Name: Kara
Country: canada
i can't believe that this lady actually feels her child's bowel movements! that is disgusting! what has come of the human race? before we know it, supermarkets will be selling poop by the pound in many diferent varieties. i am disgusted but also excited for the future.

Name: Sowmya
Country: usa
my 3 year old wears panties most of the time except when she has to do a big job. she brings a diaper makes me put it on for her and refuses to use the potty. we have tried everything we can... scaring her, cajoling her... nothing works. once she is done she will say "tomorrow i will go only in the potty". she started to pee in the potty when she was 18 months old and that was so easy... but the big job training seems a real big job for us... if anyone has suggestion please let me know...

Name: r sahu
Country: india
articles like this is very informative and helps in care of child.

Name: nancy
Country: india
i have tried various methods but in vain. my baby simply refuses to sit on the potty. i even tried taking her to the bathroom. she will tell me only when the deed is done. help me find a solution.

Name: Indu
Country: canada
is 2 1/2 years too late to toilet train.

Name: Rishika
Country: usa
usually what is the right age when the child can be given toilet training?

Name: Thila
Country: malaysia
is 3 years old child is too late for toilet training? my son seems to do it evertime in a diaper rather than a potty since he is more comfortable in it. is there any way we can change that although we have tried talking him out to use the potty but everytime is says nothing is coming but he does it on a diaper! can anyone advice us how to help my little one! thanks.

Name: bably
Country: usa
i don'y know but my question is how to potty train an eleven year old.no i'm not jokeing.anyone that can help please tell me

Name: nisha n nitin
Country: india
the toilet training can be started after 16 mnts and gradually day by day it has to be done, not that the baby will learn this one single day. we have triplet, well one of the 3 tell us other 2 don't.sometime they indicate.

Name: mara
Country: other
i am having a terrible time training my 32 mos old boy. i had 2 girls before and it did not seem to be so hard. he seems to undertand, he sits for several minutes and nothing happens, then he stands for other few minutes to urinate and nothing happens, than he walk around for few minutes and come crying because he is dirty or wet. should i be concerned? i welcome ideas . mara from spain

Name: Rishika
Country: usa
usually what is the right age when the child can be given toilet training? learn to stand up they won't sit in the potty seat.

Name: Daniel
Country: usa
i have a bayfriend that smell his name is knody but he usally smels with pee in his diaper but he donen't care because he is just a bavy

Name: Seema
Country: canada
i have babysat children as old as 4 years who were still wearing diapers. not all children are alike so be patient and don't force them. with my nephews and neices i always put diapers on them for the night even if they were daytime toilet trained, that way there was never any accidents throughout the night. i recommend double diapers if your using cloth and make sure you put on rubber pants over top.

Name: Krithika
Country: usa
i am a working mom trying to potty train my twin boys. my question is how often do i need to take them to the potty ? they pee and poo sometimes but most of the times they do it in their pull-ups and dont seem to be uncomfortable with it.

Name: Desperate
Country: usa
my daugther goes peepee in the potty no problem but she refuses to poop. she is wearing underware now and she will tell you when she needs to pee but when it comes to poop she waits until she is done (in her pants!) before letting you know. if you sit her in the potty she will hold it until she gets up and then she goes in her clothes and causes a mess. this is every day. please i need some advice !!!!!!!!!!!

Name: r sahu
Country: india
articles like this is very informative and helps in care of child.

Name: nancy
Country: india
i have tried various methods but in vain. my baby simply refuses to sit on the potty. i even tried taking her to the bathroom. she will tell me only when the deed is done. help me find a solution.

Name: Sowmya
Country: usa
my 3 year old wears panties most of the time except when she has to do a big job. she brings a diaper makes me put it on for her and refuses to use the potty. we have tried everything we can... scaring her, cajoling her... nothing works. once she is done she will say "tomorrow i will go only in the potty". she started to pee in the potty when she was 18 months old and that was so easy... but the big job training seems a real big job for us... if anyone has suggestion please let me know...

Name: Indu
Country: canada
is 2 1/2 years too late to toilet train.

Name: Kara
Country: canada
i can't believe that this lady actually feels her child's bowel movements! that is disgusting! what has come of the human race? before we know it, supermarkets will be selling poop by the pound in many diferent varieties. i am disgusted but also excited for the future.

Name: Leoni
Country: england
i have heard from many sources that it is better to start late than early. better that your child should understand what they're doing, what you want of them, and have good muscle control before you start, than you should traumatise them and cause the whole issue to be a battle. they won't still be wearing nappies age 5. just relax and they'll do it when they're ready.

Name: DL
Country: usa
newborn babies will signal (cry, wiggle, ect) when they need to go potty. if you hold them over a potty instead of using a diaper they will not become dependant on a diaper. i am doing this with my baby. we americans learned this from india!

Name: Sara B.
Country: usa
i feel its just impossible that your child as small as may be 15 mth old come and tell u that she want to go to loo, she will do this only when we parent make them realise and understand what needs to be done,and in my view potty trainning should be started as soon as your child starts sitting, so they grow up understanding that they have to use potty for certain purpose.

Name: sonia
Country: india
usually what is the right age when the child can be given toilet training? and how?

Name: mara
Country: other
i am having a terrible time training my 32 mos old boy. i had 2 girls before and it did not seem to be so hard. he seems to undertand, he sits for several minutes and nothing happens, then he stands for other few minutes to urinate and nothing happens, than he walk around for few minutes and come crying because he is dirty or wet. should i be concerned? i welcome ideas . mara from spain

Name: Thila
Country: malaysia
is 3 years old child is too late for toilet training? my son seems to do it evertime in a diaper rather than a potty since he is more comfortable in it. is there any way we can change that although we have tried talking him out to use the potty but everytime is says nothing is coming but he does it on a diaper! can anyone advice us how to help my little one! thanks.

Name: julie
Country: usa
i son will be five years old in novemeber and still is not potty trained. he still wears diapers and there is not a medical promblem. what can i do

Name: john
Country: usa
my 7 year old son was potty trained at age 3 he now being 7 years old was wearing character underwear (spiderman,batman,hulk,some times like to wear girls character underwear(strawberry shortcake and teetubbies) any ways he came to me like a month ago and said daddy i want to wear diapers again and we talked i asked him why he wants to wear dipaers he said it made him feel comfy and safe so i bought him huggies pull ups and he didnt wanna wear them he said diapers only so i buy him pampers and he wore them about a week and then said wanted to wear plastic pants,get bottles and pacifiers and baby food also formula sleep in a crib go in strollers and all that baby stuff but knowing he is 7 years of age, and my budget not being that big u know if he was in actually a baby maybe then i d have no choice so i buy him diaipers only and on one occasion he has to dohis chores and keep room clean but it just makes me feel like i went some where wrong in my life as a dad to uave a 7 year old son wanting to be in daipers again!

Name: Shobhna Jain
Country: china
my daughter is 21 months old and she has been using pottie for 11 months now. i started making her use a pottie when she started sitting properly,at the age of 7 months. i noticed she wet her nappied in about every 40min n went to 2 early morning n evening. so i used to make het sit on the pottie at those times. slowly she learned to use the pottie and 'po' (shortform of pottie) was one of the first few words she started to speak. now she just says po whenever she needs to go. and she has been using wc since she was 18 months old.

Name: layla
Country: india
i believe in a strict toilet training - that way there are fewer accidents. as soon as my daughter could sit up she was put on the potty after every feed and praised if she performed. as she got older after each meal time her nappy was removed leaving the plastic pants round her ankles and was made to sit on potty trying to poo. then after every meal is dropped down to after breakfast and befor bed.

Name: Daniel Cameron
Country: usa
i have a friend at church named k he wear diapers and but he wets them how can i change him help please

Name: wits end
Country: united kingdom
my son is toilet trained through the day but wets the bed. i put him in his nappy on a night, but in the morning he wont let me change it. he will go and hide and do a poo in it. when i ask him about this he tells me that he likes having a dirty nappy. i sometimes notice him sitting on the sofa wetting the nappy. what am i to do?

Name: q
Country: united kingdom
i left my son in nappies till when ever he wants but now hes 18 and he still wears them wat should i do

Name: ann
Country: malawi
my daughter is 3 1/2 and lm potty trainning her she doesnt tell me wen she wants to go l have to keep asking her if l dont she ends up doing her wee in her pants some times l feel she will do this for a long time l have an oldest daughter she was out of nappies at the age of 2 should l be worried advice welcome pls.

Name: Tammy
Country: usa
i thank child like to use diaper and teated like a baby becase it fun

Name: spicey
Country: usa
i purchased a potty that makes a musical sound when my daughter goes potty. when i first tried to train my daughter to go potty in the regular toilet instead of the little portable potty, she screamed like crazy. i would rub her back and i would reassure her that it was ok to go to the bathroom in the big toilet like the "big people". i would bring one of her favorite story books into the bathroom. i placed a large towel to cover her legs and i let her hold her story book. i would tell her to read (even though she couldn't read yet) and, of course, i read to her as well. i also brought into the bathroom a magazine that sells toys to keep her entertained. she was so entertained reading and talking that she didn't even realize that she was having a bowel movement. it was the most effective way of getting her to potty train. it took many many months of training but now she finally tells me that she has to go and the funny part is that she'll always ask me for magazines and her dora the explorer story book to take along to the bathroom!! there is no right age for toilet training. each of my children trained at very different ages. my oldest learned at 3 1/2, my middle child at 4 1/2 and my youngest child at 3. i did not stress them at all. i didn't listen to any parents because alot of parents always try to make it a big thing that their child trained at 2 years of age. i don't care about those things. i feel that a person whether it's a child or an adult, when they're good and ready to do something they will do it. some people learn fast and others learn it at a slower pace. no one is perfect. i'm not into competition and pushing my child to do something when i know that they are not capable of doing it. what is the hurry with some of these parents? a child will go appropriately to the bathroom when they are ready. just rest assured that your child will not be potty training at the age of 18 years of age. so don't worrry!!! a parent also should pay attention to a child's bowel movement to make sure that there are no health issues involved. there are also bowel movement diseases that parents might not be aware of that is causing the child not to be able to go to the bathroom. so a parent should pay attention. there's a disease called celiac disease that causes bowel movement problems. sometimes there are problems with calcium or there is a thyroid problem. there is a wonderful website that can answer alot of questions that many of you may have. there is a doctor called dr. mercola in the u.s. his website is called www.mercola.com. it is very informative. good luck with your children. when they get older you can retell them all the tough times you had when you tried to potty train them and they will laugh at all the stories.

Name: john
Country: united kingdom
my 5 yearold dauter still wears diapers all day. because she wont stop wetting and poopinp in her pants,on etime we left her at a daycare and told them not to change her that we would be right back and there was a n accident on the higway so when we came back she was full with 10 bowl movemnets and 23 wets they said luckily the daycare staff seeing her overflowing diaper9 diapered her and they held

Name: sara
Country: usa
my 6 yearold duater poops all the time even in school we have put her back in all day diapers even to school now she wets reguly and with no one a th e school to change her her diaper is usialy filled with 3 bowl movemnets and 5 wets when she comes home.

Name: maria theresa sibi
Country: India
barbie is my favourite thing. 143 barbie.

Name: Jay
Country: United Kingdom
i am 14 and i can't seem to stop wetting and pooping myself, my mum has just found out and she said that if i don't stop soon i would be forced into wearing nappys and using them to do all my businesses in them. has anyone got any ideas on how i could stop doing it?

Name: jonny
Country: jonny
jonny

Name: WENDY
Country: U.S.A.
i need advice on my son keeps having accidents in pants and he is ten what can i do

Name: Panamared28
Country: usa
i/m at my witts end,my grandaughter is 11 and still soils her clothes.what do i do?

Name: A
Country: india
why train a child to eliminate into a diaper only to have to retrain them to use the toliet. whatever happened to teaching the infant where to eliminate? very young infants can and do communicate to adults that they need to eliminate, by ignoring them and teaching them to use their clothing as a toliet we are making a lot more work for ourselves as parents, and creating more stress for the child. not to mention the amount of physical refuse created by disposable diapers and the money spent on them. more info is in laurie boecke's book, "infant potty training" the concept (very ancient)is now being called, "elimination communication."

Name: spain spa
Country: U.S.A.
i am 14 and i wear diapers my parents don t know. how should i tell them

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