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Name: joya
Country: India
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hi, being an indian im taught frm childhood that the women's refuge at her minor stage is her father, then at womenhood its her husband and when in old age its her son....i never believed this and gods grace i have an understanding husband, and we dont depend upon our son financially...but emotionally yes. Bur this son left us taking our wealth and unashamedly chose to shift with his in-laws. Thts what we got frm him

Name: divya
Country: Hong Kong
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we are married since 12 years and living here since then,recently i started feeling that my husband is neglegting me because he started working with sme female collegue.he come late from office ,and if i force him and he come early that lady call him even at 11 o'clock.even if he says its about work i ddn't want her to call him so late .ibelieve in my husband but i'm worried if that lady

Name: ssss
Country: India
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I am also one of the suffering person like u all becoz of my husband ,in laws...in addition i have 3 brother in laws...each and everybody is torturing me...My marriage arranged marriage...sometimes arrange marriages also might go wrong...parents decisions....here nobody is there to help me....My husband is character wise good person...but he is very mad about blood relations...so many pains...how much this heart will take pain?....in my point of view...Husband and wife relation should be a open book,caring ,true luv,...should be a 2 eyes in a face..i am also facing the same problems like NEED ADVICE FROM INDIA...sometimes i was married to wooden doll...my husband always like a wooden doll excepts the times whenever he scold me and beat me...he got dowry from my parents..but he makes me unhappy allthe times...he is very selfish and sadist....

Name: sr
Country: India
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hi tania, cn u pls. give me your e-mail id, or any other contact no.? Would really like to share things with u....it always feels better to talk to sumone.... take care.

Name: tania
Country: U.S.A.
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EVERY ONE HAS A PROBLEM. AND LIFE IS SO HARD. I KNOW FOR ME IT HAS BEEN .BUT I STILL FEEL SAD AND WE JUSR HAVE TO TAKE IT ONE DAY AT A TIME.YES WE CAN DO SOMETHING. SOME ONE TO TODAY SAID THAT THE ONLY THIG THAT IS STOPING US FROM ACHIVING UOR GOALS IS OUR SELF.WE CAN CHANGE BUT IT IS NOT EASY. BEST OF LUCK

Name: Santushti
Country: India
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pls. help me..i'm very depressed,& do not know what to do?this is the only place i can think of being helped. we had a love marriage 7 yrs back.It was only after marriage that i discovered my husbands reluctance & fear to speak anything in front of his parents. we had this huge financial difference...myself cmng frm fom a good business class family... & getting married in a lower class family was a big step i took.all marriage expenses were paid by my family.but even that was ok with me. Immediately after marriage i discoverd that my in-laws cud'nt even stand their son,forget giving love to me. just 2 days staying with them...& we moved to another house. i thought that aftr our baby things would improve,then our son was born,but then also neither my in-laws nor anyone from their family came to see the baby. Being highly qualified, i was doing my job,before our baby, & was doing pretty good..but after the baby i left my job, as i'd no one to take care of my baby. 4 yrs. have passed by...i feel so depressed....& sumtimes i really wish committing suicide...for not listening to my parents...as i cud have always been married at a better place. doing all the chores, staying at home, doing all the household work... i feel as if i'm just waisting my life... this loneliness has brought so much negative energy in my life, that has resulted in hormones imbalance & i'm not being able to concieve again.... i just cry & really do not know what to do. Keep blaming my husband & fighting over with him....for not taking a stand in front of his parents & NOT GIVING OUR DUE SHARE OF RIGHTS,RESPECT & LOVE to me, our son & even my husband for himself. PLS. HELP ME.... THIS NEGATIVITY IS JUST KILLING ME....

Name: marina
Country: India
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i lived with an aggressive,abusive husband in France for 8 years. Had one daughter. Lost my second child who was a boy. Came to India and finally divorced him becoz' i could'nt take it any more. Thank god i now have custody of my daughter who is 10 yrs old and i have been working for the past 4 yrs now becoz' my ex refused to give me any alimony. U can only take it for some time after that i think u should make up yr mind take a decision and stick by it. After all there are many fish in the sea. His loss is someone less gain.

Name: Seema
Country: India
Comment:
Can I have the address of any of the boards which can help me resolve my problems

Name: munni
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
my husband is not a bad guy hedonnt have any bad habit. if idon,t listen to him he will hit infront of kids. after 6 years i decided to leave him.

Name: sharada
Country: India
Comment:
i want to fix my marriage, where do i need to consult

Name: need advice
Country: India
Comment:
well i m happily married with a child....till now.And my husbad is also a nice man....infact i m the decision makeer in the house. we stay abroad ....but he is too busy with his work and i m all alone with my kid.....till now i was thinking that i m happyily married lucky to have everything in life....but then we had a small tiff...my husband is a smoker and he also wants to drink to which i opposed furioulsy and he even obeyed and is not drinking.....but then i realised that he dosenot love me....i mean i m like a unpaid servant....no romance, just a very monotoneous predictable life.....whenever i write to him a loveletter on a anniversary,he dosenot even reply to me....then i wrote a letter taking idea from this site itself that i exist....and atleast call me sometime....atleast when i m sick....i need u emotionally too.But he never dose any such thing to make me feel special....i not asking for poetry or roses or expensive gifts but once a while take time for me.....i left my career ,parents, coutry everything for u.....and for the other person i m nothing.....i m feeling very depressed....whether i m wasting my life....pls guide me! yeah i love him,but how can i make him understand that i need some attention....some love...how do i get that zinkthing in my life back.....and feel happy again.,..or m i just expecting too much in life,,,,,,and all the husbands take their wife granted after some time....I feel lucky and feel sad for people having abusive husbands and inlaws.... i have no problem of that kind like others but i m not happy....what do i do????

Name: hay
Country: india
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I have been married for around six years. My husbands approach has been killing me. He generally prefers to be passive. We r in U.S so I am as such away from my inlaws but when I was with them they were so hypocrite. and same is with him. If I try to talk to him he is like oh ya and that's it. I have drifted apart from him so much. He hardly cares. We miss that absolute connection.I dont know how to explain.

Name: neelima
Country: india
Comment:
article is good but in this article you did'nt mentioned the that website name where we could discuss our problems.

Name: nidhi
Country: india
Comment:
In-laws are troublesome and they try to create troubles for their daughter-in-laws in any possible manner. It can be stopped if the husbands support their wives and fight against his parents if they r wrong but in most cases, they dont do and ask their wives to adjust.Women, in India, in most houses, are truly tortured in some or the other way.

Name: savio
Country: india
Comment:
how do we go through in life with troubling husbands who intentionally hurt their wives with their sarcastic barbs and always support their parents no matter how much they harass the daughter in law?

Name: hi
Country: india
Comment:
good article

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