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Name: Mom
Country: U.S.A.
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When I separated from the father I was pregnant with our second child. As a part of our agreement it was understood that I would be moving to another state within 6 month's of the birth. The father did not take much interest with baby but was there for the majority of the scheduled visits with out oldest son. after being gone over a year he is trying to take custody of the children because I want him to develop a relationship with the baby before he takes him for extended visits across state lines. The documents I have received are accusing me of being a bad mom. I am worried but have been assured that he cannot take the children. I have been reviewing articles like this and feel as though what I am asking for is right in line for developing a healthy relationship. I wish that it was understood that this is not a rush process and that time will be needed to guide a healthy, strong relationship with the absent parent.

Name: chris
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
I am a mother and i can not for the life of me understand women who interfere with the father, child relationship, (unless the child is at risk). When I split up from my sons father, my son was the most important person in the split. I felt I had no right to use my power to put a wedge between them even though the government gave me every right to play the game and thats what it is a game of control for vindictive mothers. I understood that my son needed his father as much as his father needed his son. What right did I have to destroy the love they both had and for what reasons would I want to do that to them both. I believe that women who do use their control lack confidence as a parent and worry that their children can share the same love for the person she has become to hate. I never felt threatened by the love my son has for his father, I was confident with my own parenting skills and was comfortable with that knowledge. My ex and I have not always seen eye to eye but they were never going to be an excuse for me to use my power against there relationship. I am glad that I never turned out to be a bitter person and can accept that I and my ex have both moved on. The important thing is that children should always feel loved by both parents and one parent should never try to damage the childrens relationship with either parent

Name: shashi prabha srivastava
Country: India
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It is the duty of parents that give time and take care of child because their rearing can make a healthy develop child

Name: Connect1
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I can agree with these studies and I will just add that I have seen several situations whereas children are in situations where if they stayed with the custodian parent, they are faced with some of the same or sometimes worst conditions that they would if they went to the parent that was absent. In my opinion I feel we should probably look at and focus more in the area of helping to develop the parenting skills to rear a well-rounded child.

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