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Name: crorkservice
Country: India
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Name: Patel
Country: U.S.A.
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This article makes perfect sense! I was raised solely by my dad, who I'm convinced still wasn't (or ever will be) ready to deal with life let alone marriage and family. He was VERY abusive and neglectful towards me and and his now 2 ex-wives. My dad must've praised me only once for every 100 criticisms. He also constantly compared me to other Indian kids who he thought were better than me, ironically because their still-married parents took very good care of them. Getting picked on at school for being little for my age didn't help either. My dad practically took our family history of psychiatric problems and made it much worse in me as a result. I got the sense of Inferiority Complex long before I finally moved out of this hostile environment to be on my own. Unfortunately since then, I'll usually avoid hanging out with people of my own culture and also those who are successful with their lives. Any well-adjusted person would be doing the exact opposite, but for me it always seems impossible to go back now that I'm in my late-20's and practically set in my ways. But since I'm the first in my family to keep an open mind (the perks of being an ABCD), I went in for an evaluation at this placed called The Amen Clinics followed by therapy and treatment to change my negative thought patterns and learn from my family's mistakes, more specifically my dad's. Reading self-help books and articles (like this one) helps even more! Best wishes to those who are actively trying to improve their lives for themselves and their families.

Name: Patel
Country: India
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This article makes perfect sense! I was raised solely by my dad, who I'm convinced still wasn't (or ever will be) ready to deal with life let alone marriage and family. He was VERY abusive and neglectful towards me and and his now 2 ex-wives. My dad must've praised me only once for every 100 criticisms. He also constantly compared me to other Indian kids who he thought were better than me, ironically because their still-married parents took very good care of them. Getting picked on at school for being little for my age didn't help either. My dad practically took our family history of psychiatric problems and made it much worse in me as a result. I got the sense of Inferiority Complex long before I finally moved out of this hostile environment to be on my own. Unfortunately since then, I'll usually avoid hanging out with people of my own culture and also those who are successful with their lives. Any well-adjusted person would be doing the exact opposite, but for me it always seems impossible to go back now that I'm in my late-20's and practically set in my ways. But since I'm the first in my family to keep an open mind (the perks of being an ABCD), I went in for an evaluation at this placed called The Amen Clinics followed by therapy and treatment to change my negative thought patterns and learn from my family's mistakes, more specifically my dad's. Reading self-help books and articles (like this one) helps even more! Best wishes to those who are actively trying to improve their lives for themselves and their families.

Name: robbie
Country: New Zealand
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I am 55 ,at the age of 8 my mother took me to the family doctor to talk .Obviously she recognised problems .My father was verbally abusive toward me ,my older sister was a very high acheiver at school and in sport ,I was very small for my age . these three facters all contributed to the disorder . That was about 1961 and the fact that I still recall what the doctor said has given me an interest in finding out more about the subject .I battled with this thing my whole life not knowing how to deal with it . May I say to any parent with doubts that their child is battling with this complex ,Love ,praise and nurture there individuality and innocence

Name: Asif Habib
Country: Pakistan
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I want to know how a person overcome to his own inferioruty complex because this work is easy to do with others but very difficult with himself

Name: Amar
Country: India
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searching for this type of article. more helpfull for me to over come my daughter's inferiority complex. v.easy to understand with nice solution. going to implement from todayitself. thx for the author.

Name: rowena
Country: Philippines
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I have been searching about this topic infriority complex when i read this article. its a big help for me coz my daughter experiencing it right away and i want to overcome it. i learned a lot and I can apply it to my daughter. more power.,

Name: rahul
Country: India
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i liked your suggestions. i am a student and suffering from the inferiority caused due to parents. i will think over

Name: Joseph
Country: India
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Very Good rticle.

Name: Anne
Country: United Kingdom
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Thankyou for this article. I have a 10 year old boy, who I have always constantly praised and we always tell him how special he is, and how proud we are of him. However, his school friends are the ones he listens to most, and he has been bullied quite mercilessly at times because he is very small for his age. His teachers also tell him that he is getting everything out of proportion, and that he should learn to get on with things. I am going to ask him to read this article, and let him know that no matter what happens at school, he has no need to feel inferior to anyone. He is a brilliant human being & very loved.

Name: Rashid Ali
Country: india
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Hi, really I was impressed. The public openions helped me a lot to some extent to create self confidence as I am a great sufferer of this problem.

Name: Ali
Country: indonesia
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nice article but suprisingly many parents know the theories but still fail to stop the negatives (inferiority complex), I really fail to understand!!!!!? any idea

Name: renuel
Country: philippines
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i was impressd d way this article explained this topic. . iv learned a lot and understand why some people suffering on this behavior.. now i can able to help my fellows who suffers this kind situation.. thankz a lot and more power. remember that you are wonderfully made, not just a product to be wonder aimlessly.

Name: Goodthought
Country: USA
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I have reached this age of 51, with a new knowledge. I still hurt inside, but I have done my own research to come to this conclusion. In my family, my mother has been the dominating force. My Father was discrimminated by his parents, and has suffered an inferiority complex. I have seen it manifest itself in numerous occasions. He has never expressed his family views. He turned 81 the other day, and I wrote him a letter, telling him that I was 'sorry' for how his parents had treated him. I gave him praise and told him that he had been a good provider and had done the best that he could do, and that was great. He has never given his opinion regarding any of our family members. My Mother has continued this abuse. She has rarely given a compliment or kind words. She may not have heard many herself. But I have known persons who have grown up in the worst conditions and have still managed to utter some kind words. Here is the subtleness of what this can also be. She has taken care of us, in the sense that she has fed and clothed us. She did not love my Father, so the only signs of affection I ever saw were snippets of a kiss and her wriggling up her nose in disgust. No hand holding, no outward signs of affection. There were no words of encouragement. She is a good looking woman. Then I came along. I have never been told by her that I look nice. This is where I always remember my idol, 'Marilyn Monroe,' She said, and I quote, "Little girls should be told they're pretty even if there not" She was never told, so when she went out into the world she did not know how to embrace her own lovliness. The other day my Father said in front of my Mother and me, that I was very pretty. My Mother made no comment, she froze for a minute then uttered some rattlings below her breath. She has made hurtful remarks to all of my Brothers, that I know have in a significant manner influenced our life and developed a low self-esteem which has resulted in altering some major decisions to a negative outcome. I have discovered the truth. I confronted her the other day, because she had shown abuse towards my sister. My issue was to find out if she was aware of what her verbal actions would result in. She has remarked in a uncanny jealous manner the mannerisms of other family members to induce negativity, then when confronted with that person, has acted as if nothing was ever said. I interrogated her, because I had to get to the bottom of this. I told her she was wrong, and she had to apologize to my sister. The words, "I'm sorry" are not in her vocabulary. She rarely admits she is wrong. I made her own up to her mistake, and after she called my sister and the best she could do was to say that she knew she had understood that she had done wrong. This was a major accomplishment for her. I am very strong now and have put the pieces of the puzzle together. She may not give me praise, but I know the truth and am able to put things in their proper perspective. Not knowing is ultimately the worst of situations. I can now start with a clean slate and fill it with positive reinforcement. I have found that praising other's for their selves has given me a self-worth beyond words. I am ready to take on this world with a force and fury that my will can carry me. It looks like a wonderful voyage, and I can't wait to get to it. It's the journey folks, it always has been. Marilyn

Name: Ehimare
Country: Other
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I hate to remember how my parents tried to percolate inferiority complex into me by there constant reproaches,i use to be a bed wetter and all my dad did was to flog me with his military cane,i was not close to him and was not sure of my self when i came out.I became a better person as a result of my will to be sucessful just to prove him wrong.We still dont get along well.But i have gotten over the complex. I have sent a copy of this article to my colleagues ,so that they too can learn not to be harsh or brash to their kids.

Name: misza
Country: Other
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I think some teachers should read this article as well. School is also a place where children develop and grow up. Another thing that should be mentioned is that school-mates are often cruel to one another. Weaker pupils are frequently pushed around and bullied by others and there's nobody to help them. What's more, they are often ashamed to talk about their problems because they feel unworthy of help. It's so sad :( If you ever see such a situation, please DO intervene to stop this instead of just hanging around pretending you can't see what is going on.

Name: Dan
Country: England
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Hello, I have a nephew who is one week younger then me, is shorter and is better then me in mind and body, he has prevented me from doing sucicde. I have Cerebal Palsy (mild) it is very depressing that i'm this way, but at least I know that i'm not the only one whos depreesed

Name: rswanny
Country: USA
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Great information.

Name: Pola
Country: Other
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Some parents dont realise what harm they do to their children by criticizing them.For many children parents are the most important people in the world,and their opinion is something that really counts.When a child is not prized or is neglected by those who should love him he\she doesnt feel safe,they dont have nobody to tell their opinions.Such a person becomes reserved and doesnt feel like talking to anyone,because they consider themself as less worthy or less important.It leads to many serious mental disorders and nervous breakdowns.I think -just like it was stated in the article-that parents should devote as much time as possible for their children even in simple,usual situations,only to show their kids how importan they are.

Name: mika Poland
Country: Other
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i agree with the statment that some couples are not really prepared for having children.They want to create them as best models of themselves,which shouldnt be the case.Some parents want to fulfil their dreams and ambitions by their children.

Name: behavior scientist
Country: Other
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this is a really nice article as it highlighs an important issue in an attractive way

Name: Scout
Country: USA
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At age 47 I am still struggling to establish myself in some sort of meaningful career. I graduated from college with a nearly straight "A" average. My degree is in education. Yet when I interviewed for positions in the school system, I did terribly. I showed a terrible lack of confidence and I'm sure I came off as not being very bright or adept at all. Yet I know I'm intelligent. I'm also a talented artist who can't seem to really lauch that career either, despite selling paintings for $1,000 or more. I think I am still that little hurting child inside who still hears constant criticisms, particulary from my mother. I asked her once why she never praised things I did right and was told that I should not expect or rely on praise for things that "need to be done anyway." As a child, our home was filled with her constant yelling and fault-finding. So today, I guess I never find what I do to be good enough. I never really succeed at anything, and feel I never will. Here I am, a college graduate with artistic talent, yet today I work as a maid scrubbing people's toilets.

Name: nanny
Country: USA
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I am the babysitter for a little girl who I believe to have a major inferiority complex. The constant comparing, negative self comments, and "everything is unfair" attitude has me at a loss of what to do or how to respond to her constant self-deprecating comments. What can I do but praise her, and state her uniqueness? I have talked to the family and find no reason to believe this was psychologically induced by her parents. She is only four years old, and is the middle child. Any thoughts?

Name: sadman
Country: Other
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i was subjected to a harsh childhood . dad was a police man . i seemed to made the example by which others should live their lives . i hate my parents for this and the inferiority complex i got from them .

Name: Sad but true
Country: USA
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Excellent article analyzing the inferiority complex. Depression and anxiety are it's cousins. I have all three. It sucks. A solid and healthy family structure is so lacking in society. If you like philosophy and want a deeper analyzation of the way societies have raised their children read up on the works of Erich Fromm.

Name: azhoney
Country: Malaysia
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trust ourselves and be strong to face the world. Never look down to others and always confidence..hope i can do the same just what i want them to be.

Name: Kajal
Country: India
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A very true article. Always remember never feel inferior as itz very diff to get out of it. Remember everyone is made by God for a motive and each one has a different talent and is unique from the other.

Name: Troubled
Country: USA
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Don't tell your son he has a small penis. My mother did that to me when I was a boy and now that I am 31 it is still hurting my marriage, my happiness, and my esteem.

Name: agony
Country: India
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I liked this article. I think there is only solution to this & that is parent counselling. There should be some kind of certification examination(parental status exam) which should be made mandatory to pass for a couple before they give birth to a child. This should be a rule. Then only these problems could be resolved.

Name: DKD
Country: India
Comment:
Good article. Well written. Keep it up!

Name: Ritu
Country: Canada
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Good Job on the article. Its so informative and down right true.

Name: Namrata
Country: India
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Its a gud article as Diya has rightly said that "parents find a lot of generation gap n thus have their behaviour dominating towards their child...which shudnt be the case." Therefore, it is necessary to create awareness among children and parents. Keep writing such more articles.

Name: diya
Country: India
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a very good artical..tells us about behaviour towards a child....usually parents find a lot of generation gap n thus hav their behaviour dominating towards their child....which shudnt be the case...to be like them n be wid them makes them more closer to them...n understand their nature n feelings..normally in such cases child is unable to express his/her feelings.... so shu be friendly towards them...gud article...

Name: diti
Country: India
Comment:
good article.

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