![]() Views on Article - Helping Your Child Control Anger Name: Meghna Country: India Comment: It will b a great help to me to understand & control my children's behaviour after reading this article. I would like 2 know that , how to handle 2 boy's(brothers) with a different age group. Being a mother of 2 boy's sometimes makes feel frustrated. Name: jane Country: U.S.A. Comment: What do you do when the parents do everything right but the four year old throws chairs and tables in the school room and frightens the children and teachers? He is the best, mature, most verbal etc etc but has had these tantrums since early babyhood and now is getting more violent. He says he does not know why he acts out and can't help it. Then after he calms down says "I don't like myself". What to do? Help Name: Arthi Country: India Comment: Hi, I had a great time by reading the tips to control the anger among kids. It realy consists good and easy tips to be followed. I will surely follow this looks effective. Name: maria Country: U.S.A. Comment: this site was helpful to me. i know that i have not been a good example for my two children, ages 4 and 6, who are already strong willed but bc we engaged in screaming matches. i need to remember that i am the authority and should stay calm. my mom was like me, reactionary. i need to remember to stay calm so they see that i am a smart mom who can stay calm. no matter what. and get husband's help in backing that up. unfortunately we do have life changes going on and it's not been fun to do single parenting. to the teenager who hates his mom, get help. take on a journal and write your thoughts. your mom may have never known better or taught better. talk to her like a grownup now since you are 14. if you can talk mature, perhaps she will see you are capable of thinking for yourself. don't hate your mom. no matter how bad we are at parenting, we love our children v. much. and want to be better parents. so instead of being foolish and hurt yourself, seek a counselor, talk to your school, get parents involved. and write your thoughts down daily. life isn't fair, there are worse people out there than moms and dads. although some v. bad moms and dads too. hang in there. write, write, write. in few yrs you will betaking care of yourself, paying your own bills, rent etc. so be prepared for that life too. it ain't easy. trust me. take care, Name: liz Country: United Kingdom Comment: enjoyed reading your site.i am a single parent with a eight year old son with anger problems who has been excluded from school i feel i am getting no help Name: Ragini Country: Canada Comment: To, Help from U.S.A. Whatever I understand from your writing, You seems to be very angry. for some reasons known or unknown to you, there could be some unresolved issues of understanding you by adults(mom and others)and it makes you angry. Did you tell your mom? How about getting help from school? School counseller can help you. You need help. You have to get it as nobody would know until you tell them. So take charge of your life. Be strong. Name: help Country: U.S.A. Comment: i cant help it all i ever experience is hate and anger and saddness i feel like hurting my mom it is so bad i hate her HATE HER now i would never do that but i feel like it and i get angry like that i am soon to be 14 this week and i plan to moveout when im 20 and to never talk to them again the anger is so outragus that i cutt myself and slam my head into walls people make fun of me at school for the cutts and i half the time want to die this has been going on for like two years now and all i want is to be left alone by everyone and i am becomeing more and more violent can some one help me? Name: Bullied Country: singapore Comment: I was bullied really bed while studying in a school. Ther was absolutely NO USE in my parents and I complaining to the teacher. She claims he gave the #left-right- center' Ignoring is no good ...... it gets worse ....... Beacuse u are expat , you are considered rich , elite and......treated like dirt. I am really glad 2 got out and be in an snother school here we are all an expt community and feel the same At the end of the day I learnt that people in the same shoes understand each other well Name: hopeless Country: usa Comment: This is good but I have tried this & it doesn't work. When my 4yr old gets very angry it's like she forgets everything & starts hitting throwing chairs & more. I've tried taking her to a therapist but that person said nothings wrong with her is there another techiqnues I can use. Name: mr normal Country: Other Comment: what do you mean by a normal family? there is no such grey boring flat sad thing in this world. its a media/society dream goal which actually crates the problems in the first place because it places every family in the position of abnormal. please get it out of your head and never use the foul phrase again. Name: teariney Country: USA Comment: wow my name is teariney too! Name: teariney Country: USA Comment: i am a child that has a lot of anger and this works if they are younger because i am 13 and it really won't work because u have to get them at a young age! Name: cuteascanbe23@msn.com Country: USA Comment: how do i stop my child from biting Name: Red Country: USA Comment: So what do you do when you have a normal family (birth parents happily married) with no other physical changes or major events in life that causes the child to be hurtful to others and destructive? What do we do while we wait for instructions from the professionals? Name: buba Country: India Comment: This was very helpful for me and my child
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