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Name: sote
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Dear Heartbroken, (pls 4giv the choice 2 write n txt form n order 2 save space on this site.) I hav kept ur writings n my email box & over the last several years u hav crossed my thots. It is difficult to tlk with frank honesty 2 sum1 who has suffered a loss such as ur own. Even now after several years hav past, I find it difficult. However, I want you and others to no the truth abt abortion. I hav reposted ur last writings below n the next post n order that u & others may review ur standing. If Gd intends it, u will revist this site & find my response. I will begin my response by saying tht while my heart goes out 2 u my position has not changed. I can not change it b/c it is not my own. It is that of Gd's. Abortion is against Gd's Will & it is not our rite 2 take a life tht He has created. This is not me casting my judgement on any1 or their circumstances. It is simply Gd's truth spoken thru me. Indeed, I hav not been in your circumstances & I 2 hope tht I never hav 2 face wat u hav. I can't imagine. However, it is still my concern 4 u & others tht you hav been lied 2 & manipulated by this world & Satan into a decision tht no mother shud ever even b given the option of. Killing unborn babies is a murderous, inhumane practice hidden behind fancy medical terms as tho it is a practical solution. Killing a baby is wrong no matter which way u look at it & ther r consequences 4 the mother and even others involved. Review & think abt wat u wrote: "believe me I think I shud go thru horrible pain 4 doing this 2 my baby, bt the decision is clear & ther is no way 2 realy describe how I feel about having 2 kill my own baby, nothing short of devastation & pain, & hate w/myself." These r ur words & they dont sound like thos comin from sum1 who has made the "right" decision. If it wer "right" then ther wud b no reason 4 u 2 hate urself & wish suffering upon urself. Further, u write: "I hav 2 do this b/c he will not live." Ur sayin here tht u had 2 kill ur baby b/c he was going 2 die? So, wat did u save him from? This is the twisted thinking tht Satan is known for. He is a liar & a murderer (John 8:44). He will do anything 2 hurt Gd & wat better way than 2 convince us tht killing our own infants is rite & even necessary. Ur baby may hav died by natural causes no matter wat u did, bt wud natural causes not b mor honoring of his little life than 2b murdered n the womb? Instead of the natural death tht he deserved as a human being, he was dehumanized, deemed unfit to live even his very short life & destroyed. His death then left behind a mother who became just 1 mor victim of "choice." I mean no harm 2 u or others who hav had abortions. It saddens me 4 the mothers as well as the tiny lives tht wer taken regardless of wat reason, selfish or not. It is my desire tht mothers no the truth abt abortion, tht it is wrong. Any1 who does not think so, ask urself this question: Y do abortion centers now offer counseling after the procedure? Counseling typically follows incidents of being victimized such as molestation, child abuse, rape, violent crimes, etc. Wat need wud ther b 4 counseling if a woman wer simply making a choice tht was "right?" Think it thru ladies. Don't believe a lie. 4 those who hav already made tht choice u r not doomed 2 hell as many pro life fighters wud claim. Gd is 1 of love & forgiveness who wants a relationship w/each of us. 4 any1 who wants 2 get 2 no this forgiving Gd, read the book of John in the Bible. Gd Bless.

Name: heartbroken
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Written and posted by "Heartbroken" about 4 or 5 years ago. Reposted now on 9/9/09 "Abortion is not something to be taken lightly. I know that some of you feel that we don't need to make this decision b/c God will take those who need to be taken. As much as I believe that, or want to believe that, God puts us in certain situations that he knows we can handle. The prayer: God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change, courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference is a prayer that was echoing through my head before I even knew there was something wrong with my baby. When I got the call, I prayed for strength and I prayed that I wouldn't have to make that decision. Even though I cry every night and pray that my baby is taken care of in Heaven I know that I am making the right decision for my baby. S.O.T.E believes that it is never right to make that decision, but I truly believe that God made it for me. As devastating as the news was to hear that there is no doubt that my baby will die before it even makes it to 9 months in the womb, when the fourth specialist told me that I suddenly felt serene and I believe that God was telling me what was right. I am not just saying that to make it easier on myself, believe me I think I should go through horrible pain for doing this to my baby, but the decision is clear and there is no way to really describe how I feel about having to kill my own baby, nothing short of devastation and pain, and hate with myself. So many people are writing not to get and abortion, give it up for adoption. A response to that is, that isn't always an option. To: S.O.T.E. I read that you have 3 children of your own and that you are happily married and I am glad you don't have to face some of the problems that many of the couples do. I don't expect you to change your opinions of how wrong abortion is and I don't really want you to, but I don't think it is fair for you to say that everybody who has had an abortion or has to consider having one is faithless or is going against God. I see that you are a frequent visitor of this site. You obviously never been told that your baby will never take it's first breath, or that he will die before you will ever get to full term, and for your sake, I hope you never do. You casting your judgement on everybody who is faced with this decision is disgusting. Again, I mention my case (heart broken). You think everyone is making this decision to better their lives and it is a bunch of bull. If my doctor told me that my baby would be disabled or just wouldn't have any legs or something like that then I would defiantly not have an abortion b/c I know that disabled people are far more grateful to be alive than anyone else I have ever met. I did not decide to go through with this to make my life easier. I have to do this b/c he will not live. I been to see 5 different doctors and specialists and maternal-fetal specialists who all give me the same prognosis. So, for you to tell people that it is the devil telling them to do wrong you need to do some more research on fetal abnormalities and diseases and quit trying to make people feel bad about having to make the most difficult decision in their life. Again, read my story and realize that there are others in the same situation that I am and you have no right to tell everybody that they are wrong. I hope that you never are put in the situation that I, and many other women are in.

Name: Rose
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
hello i just had a miscarraige at 6-8 weeks!i had spotting etc cramps and back ache had a scan and they couldnt find anything.clear early miscarraige.very upset buy this i have a daughter at 8 years its taken me this long and im worried that was my last chance(pregnancy)how soon after a miscarrage can you concive????

Name: jothi
Country: India
Comment:
i am 28yrs i had abortion last month, When can i get pregnant soon

Name: Sweta
Country: India
Comment:
Hi I had my miscarige in may 2007,and now I have miss periods by 14 days and today there is red spoting ,is that i am pregnent or not ?

Name: AngryPALAK
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I am 29 yrs old & just had 2 miscarriages in 5 mths.I am so tired and emotionally depressed.I am tensed about what will happen next time.Are 2 miscarriages common ?Do I have a hope?What kind of tests should I do?My Doc is so easy going.He is not serious about me getting tested .God give me patience.

Name: DATE POSTS
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
DATE OF LAST POST: January 31, 2009

Name: voice of reason
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
To ANNI in INDIA: Maybe I am mistaken on what you mean by "5 abortions", but if not, why on earth are to trying to conceive a 6th child??? ELE: your comment is so true. How sad it is. And, of course, abortionists are not going to stop. It is a huge money maker to kill premature babies inside the womb. Further, if abortionists do not have the morals to refrain from brutally murdering countless helpless infants (how hard can that be???) then they are hardly going to care about the women the "procedure" will mentally and emotionally damage. Abortion is a sick, sick, devestating practice disguised by casual medical terms. And, of course, women are not going to just forget. They will have a vision of a child that grows older each passing year, but only in their mind. They will have a longing for that baby they never got to hold. They will experience an incomplete emptiness at having nothing more than a medical bill to validate the little life that is now forever gone. They will have unbearable remorse at having been the cause of their own grief. If any woman can truly forget then she either does not understand the impact of what she has done, has justified it in her mind or is too callused to care either way. Though I am sorry for those who morn the loss of their aborted babies, I am also glad for them. At least these women understand and care about what they have done.

Name: Nomsa
Country: South Africa
Comment:
Hi. I had a surgical abortion 2months ago , i need 2 knw if there is pill that i can take to clean my wonb. Or should i go to the doctor. What advice can you guys give me, b'coz i dont realy know what to do pleasd help me

Name: anni
Country: India
Comment:
hii i have 5 abortions and i want concive now please help me out.

Name: xyz
Country: India
Comment:
hai previously i had 2 abortions and recently june 10th one miscarriage my doubt is am i able to get pregnant?

Name: Meenakshi
Country: India
Comment:
Hi,After reading comments of so many people I come to the conclusion that I have faced my missed abortion very bravely.May be because I have a lovely kid of 4yrs already or may be God gave me all the strength.I want to look ahead not behind.What was not mine did not come to me.I lost my baby in the 10th week and it has happened only 10 days back.The foetus did not have heart beat and the cause of missed abortion has not been known.My only problem is I want to conceive now and doctor has asked me to wait till 6months.If any one can help me with any advice please help.

Name: ele
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
To all of you who have had miscarriages and abortions, I want to hug you so much. It is horrible, and they don't tell you how horrible it will be. Here in my town we have a company giving abortion 90 times per week. I wish the company would stop and tell them how hard it is on your memory to know your baby died. But the company doesn't listen to the moms who were hurt by sadness. They tell them they will forget it. BUt you never forget! :( They say they're there to help women but there are 70 here just this year who have come to get help because of how much sadness they have now from the abortion. So so so sad. I love all of you! Look up abortion recovery on google.

Name: Minu1981
Country: India
Comment:
I had a miscarriage during Dec-07.But after 1 yr of trial i am not concieving.Pls tell me the reason. What I have to do for conciption.

Name: MARIA
Country: New Zealand
Comment:
HI MY NAME IS MARIA I AM 27 YRS OLD I HAVE BEEN WITH MY PARTNER FOR 10 YEARS AND WE HAVE BEEN HAPPILY MARRIED FOR A YEAR NOW.TWO MONTHS AGO I HAD A MISCARRIAGE MY HUSBAND AND I WERE SO DEVASTATED.I CARRIED OUR BEAUTIFUL TWIN ANGELS FOR 12 WEEKS THEN AT MY 12 WEEK SCAN THE SAD NEWS (TWINS WITH NO HEART BEATS).ITS BEEN REALLY DIFFICULT FOR ME BUT WITH MY HUSBANDS SUPPORT I AM GETTING THROUGH IT. I JUST TAKE IT DAY BY DAY.WE WERE LIKE MANY OF YOU WE HAD HOPES AND DREAMS FOR OUR BABIES AND THEN IN A FEW SECONDS THOSE HOPES AND DREAMS WERE GONE.I WAS SO SHOCKED I WAS NUMB.. I HAVE TO BE HONEST ITS BEEN A REAL HURTFUL EXPERIENCE FOR ME MENTALLY EMOTIONALLY PHYSICALLY. BUT I AM DOING EXTREMELY WELL IVE COME TO TERMS WITH THE FACT THAT MY ANGELS ARE IN HEAVEN WATCHING OVER ME AND MY HUSBAND AND I BELIEVE ONE DAY WE WILL BE TOGETHER AGAIN.MY HUSBAND AND I PLAN TO TRY AGAIN NEXT YEAR IN 2009.WE ARE BOTH EXCITED TO TRY AGAIN.I UNDERSTAND ANY WOMAN WHO HAS HAD A MISCARRIAGE MY HEART GOES OUT TO U ALL!!!

Name: lucy
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
hi Kim I have just had a miscarriage and I was 5 months pregnant and we arranged a funeral and burial for our baby. The hospital will do a cremation and a service if thats what people choose.

Name: suchitra
Country: India
Comment:
i have a abortion on 1st july 2008 i was in sixth month bcoz of baby heart problem it was done

Name: Lelo
Country: South Africa
Comment:
I had a D&C on monday the 7 of July. It was an incomplete miscarriage.I thought i'd be fine after that but i find myself crying now and then. I was 7wks pregnant and although it seemed short it was so important to me. I'm so scared that the D&C could have caused further damage i just pray that when i'm ready to try again there won't be any problems. I never thought that i would go through this, but i guess none us thought that it would happpen. We never expect losing a child when your told your pregnant i'm so sorry to all of you, but God has his own way and i think if we trust in him for healing and restoration in our bodies,minds and souls we will be able to survive. I hope everything goes well for you all and me too.

Name: Sony
Country: India
Comment:
I was pregnant but lost my baby just few weeks before my due date.My due date was on 11th Jan'2008 and my baby expired in my womb on 25th Dec'07 due to the cord hamoerrage.Doctors were unable to find any reason for the same.I am 27 years old and want to know what precautions should I take care of while planning for a baby and also when should I again plan for baby.

Name: mane
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
I had miscarriage last november at 19weeks+5days following early rupture of membrane.Very sad & painful moment. no cause was found. I was 9 weeks preg and last week I had missed abortion. D+C was done yesterday! I feel depressed, sad and empty! It is very painful!!!

Name: Piyalee
Country: India
Comment:
I had a missed abortion on 26th April,2008. I was then 8 weeks preagnant. Suddenly from 25th I has spotting and then USG report showed the foetal node has not grown after 4 weeks and there was no heart beat.Now my question why did the baby didn't grow? Is there any reason for it? What are the methods that could test the cause of this and could ensure that if its detected and treated I can have baby in future.Pls reply I need to know.

Name: Chitra sharma
Country: India
Comment:
I have had three missed abortion.After two abortion Dr asked for few test and found that Progestron Harmon was low and Prolactin was on higher side. So after medicine it got normal and upto 6 weeks everything was normal then suddenly Dr said heart beet is slow and later no heart beat. So Dr is also confused and advising to go for genetic test.Me too is confesed and don't have any answer. Pl suggest

Name: karthika
Country: India
Comment:
I am 26 ....first pregnancy...however not sure . i guess from my period stopped this time ..in this cycle i had intercourse but with twin precautions..including the emergency contraceptive pill ..i dont find a way what to do as i am not married yet...and fear social .....please suggeast what to do..

Name: ans
Country: India
Comment:
i am 11weeks pregnant according to the dates.but my ultrasound shows my baby is 8 weeks and 5 days.is it normal.

Name: KaviSri
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
Hi,i had just gone through miscarriage when i was 11 weeks of preganat and this was my first pregnancy,and i am so upset now but doctors said that i have no problem and atlast i lost my baby.Really this was a worst and horrible experience i never had before in my life. Hope everything will be fine in my second concieve.i want ask you after how long i will try again.

Name: siobhan
Country: Ireland
Comment:
hi; i too had a miscarraige after 8weeks 5days. had gone through ivf for second time first a fresh cycle and then a frozen one.was devestated to loose the baby as we all know it does not matter how soon it was in your pregnancy it still hurts so much.i must say my partner was also the very same he too had a very hard time but we have each other and i think at a time like this it is so important. we wont give up though we still have 8 eggs frozen . best of luck to everyone and not forgetting the men they go through it too.aged 39 first pregnancy.

Name: rima
Country: India
Comment:
recently i had a miscarriage on 20th jan, hope everything goes on well in future. I believe its not in our hand.

Name: leena
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I had Complet molar pregnancy and i had taken a year blood work to make sure my HCG level is normal , of course it did the same, Could any one tell me when I can have baby again, I am still worried that I would get the molar again , I have 5 year old son, my first pregnancy idid not have any probs. plesae give me your comments , Please let me know if somebody had gone thru the same situation like me? Thank you all Leena

Name: wendy
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
I've had 6 miscarriages, why nobody knows. I believe my miscarriages happened through having an abortion. I've never tried any more, and I always feel grateful for what I have now.

Name: agpexsazti
Country: Denmark
Comment:
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Name: sote
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
October 11, 2007- Daniella, Your doctor is better suited to advise you on complications you may be having, however, I may suggest that your past abortion could play a factor in future pregnancies. Abortion is an unnatural procedure that requires trama to the cervix which can result in weakness and an inability to stay closed during pregnancy thus resulting in miscarriage. It may be wise to discuss first with your doctor your issues and concerns in connection to the past abortion BEFORE trying to conceive. Further, abortion increases breast cancer by 50%. This percentage along with genetics could almost guarentee a woman getting breast cancer by time she is 45. This is not to scare you but rather prepare you. You need to create a habit of monthy self exams and keep your yearly appointments with your obgyn. Never let anything talk you out of seeing your doctor if you feel uncertain about the results of any self exam. - meme, Doctors generally advise to wait 3 months after a natural miscarriage or D&C, but it's wise to seek the advice of your own doctor who knows you and is familiar with your circumstances. God Bless

Name: Daniella
Country: Portugal
Comment:
Hi I've had a miscarriage when i was 7 weeks and i had an abortion because i was too young and in an unstable relationship. I am now ready to have another child but i cant conceive, what is wrong with me please help???

Name: meme
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
i had just gone through my missed miscarriage and this was my first pregnancy,and i am so upset now but doctors said that i have no problem. but i am so scared about my second concieve.i want ask you after how long i will try again.

Name: rajes
Country: Malaysia
Comment:
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Name: Dsuti
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Santosh.....As you can tell the "withdrawal" method is false. You CAN still get pregnant. As far as an abortion, I personally don't believe in them. However, a close relative of mine had one. She said it was a horrible experience, she didn't know what to expect, and then afterwards she had to go back to her regular doctor to have him run tests to see if she could carry a baby in the future. She is fine, in ways. However to live and wonder the rest of your life on what could have been. I had a miscarriage about 4mo ago and it is still hard, it wasn't my choice, but, it was also not my fault. I believe it takes a bigger person to put a baby up for adoption than to have an abortion. There are many great faimilies who are unable to have kids.

Name: Dsuti
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I am pregnant again after my previous miscarriage, I am 13 wks. Everything seems to be fine and i will definitely keep everyone posted on progress.

Name: Santosh
Country: India
Comment:
I have a caesarian delivered daughter. She is now 11 months old. My wife is now 1 and 1/2 months pregnant though we used withdrawal birth control method. Now I want my wife to go for abortion. Is it safe. please suggest.

Name: anita
Country: India
Comment:
just on 9 th of august i had a missed abortion the doctor did D&C . I had one child of 8 years . we want one more child . my age is 32 years .Can i Concieve again till what time we should try . last year also I had a D&C pls suggest I need one more child . will it possible.

Name: bryony
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
hiya im 17 yes very young and i feel pregnant i was in a sucure realationship i got to my ninth week and lost my baby i cant help thinking its my fault i went to the hospital and they did nothing its one off the hardest things i went though i just wonder if i will ever be able to carry full time

Name: sote
Country: India
Comment:
August 8, 2007

Name: sote 080307
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Here in USA, doctors advise to wait 3 mos before another attempt at conception following a miscarriage.

Name: NK
Country: India
Comment:
my wife leads to miscarriage due to bleeding in second trimester. Pl. tell me after how many months she will be ok with next pregnancy.

Name: MICHELLE
Country: Ireland
Comment:
I was the same i had three micarriages then i had a healhy baby girl, who,s now seven. now i am pregnant again and all thats going thru me head is dis goin 2 happen again. I gave up d smokes 2 c will tat help, but it dosent stop me from tinkin is dis goin 2 happen again, so i can understand y u feel like tat especialy wat u hve gone thru...

Name: sheela
Country: India
Comment:
i have misscariage on 1jan 2008.now again i am carring,doctor adivised me full rest.i am eagerly wating for my baby.may god bless my baby.

Name: Dusti
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
When a loss of a child occurs, at any age or gestation it hurts. You will be forever reminded of the child you never knew. It's as simple as walking through a store and seeing baby clothes or some one with a baby. Or when you watch a movie showing a baby and you come to tears, even though it's been months. We all have something in common, a love lost, but never forgotten. With every tear there is a memory of the one lost. It doesn't get easier to deal with, you just learn how.

Name: sanju
Country: India
Comment:
i don't have any child. but i had to abort a child due to some unavoidable circumstances, this was 4 yrs back and now I had conceived again but there was a miscarriage in the 3rd week. and will i conceive after this and what I should do for that pl advice me. my age is 35 yrs.

Name: linda
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
i have just gone through a miscarriage myself (this was my first pregnancy) i went to my 12 week routine scan on (31st may) where i was told the baby had stopped growing i was devastated and i went in to hospital on mon 4th june to have a d&c and its the worst experience of my life having to go thru all thati have cried and cried as i was really excited about the baby and now i have got nothing... i felt like i was slowly coming to terms with my loss after but after reading some entries here it just made me think of my loss and got me a bit upset so i am truely not over it although i like to think i am slowly getting over it i will always think what would the baby have looked like i just hope it wont be too long before i can concieve again....

Name: sote
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I had a miscarriage back in July of 2000. My first pregnancy. I could have gotten upset had I really wanted to and I felt like everyone expected me to. However, I suppose I didn't know what I had lost b/c I never had it. It is only now after I have had three children that I experience loss. I wonder a world of wonders of what that child would have been like. Though I have shed some tears at the sorrow of missing this person, I am comforted. God is in control and His Will allowed my loss. Since He knows all things and I trust him, I am certain I would not choose any other way outside His Will. God breathes life inside the womb and though it crushes our hearts, He may choose to not sustain that very same life. God bless all of you who mourn. I pray that you may be comforted.

Name: Michelle
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I am a mother of two and recently lost my baby and it was so depressing, I really want to try again soon but am so scared that the same thing may happen.

Name: Dusti
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I am a mother of four. I found out I was pregnant with my fifth child on April 20, 2007. I was excited!! I always wanted a big family so it was great. On May 8 2007, I started spotting, I was so scared but, waited until morning to go to the hospital. After running all the tests and an ultrasound, They said everything is fine. They released me told me to take it easy for a few days because I was "Threatened Miscarriage". I went to my Doctor the following day and they did an ultrasound, I knew it, they told me that the baby no longer had a heartbeat and they could see the bleeding. I was almost seven weeks. My Doctor told me it would most likely take care of itself, it did May 12 2007, the day before Mother's Day. I knew it when it happened. But, I guess you always hope for some divine itervention to make everything OK again. The crazier thing is, I didn't bleed or Cramp that much, so that made it even harder to understand. I believe that losing a baby is one of the hardest things that has ever happened to me, and my worst fear telling my other children. Your just attached from the day you know, it's your baby. So to remember our baby we went and bought a baby angel statue to put in my flower beds and put on the bottom "Our Little Angel" and the date. This was my way of remembering a once good thing, that sadly went bad. But all in all I know you have to keep going, and thank God for everything and everyone around you. because you never know when something will happen, even to someone you never got to know.

Name: Jitu
Country: India
Comment:
I had two missed abortion in 7th & 9th week.After 9months of second missed abortion I try to conceive for a baby but conception does not occure during privious three months though several test results are normal.Please suggest what can do.

Name: hollie
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
hi i recently had a miscarriage in jan o7 but to my suprise i fell pregnant again just 3weeks later so fingers crossed everything will be ok this time round im now 9 weeks.

Name: Diane
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
Sheela I so relate to what you have said as this happened to me. I couldn't believe it when I fell pregnant aged 39 and took me a good couple of weeks to come to terms with it (also considering my options) only to have my baby taken away from me like you at my 12 week scan. I have read lots and come to the conclusion that there really is nothing I could have done and as the Nurse said to me at the hospital as you get older your eggs are not so good and it's natures way helping us by not giving us the burden of deciding if our child should live or die if they are very deformed. God this sounds horrid but I have taken this advice or I think I would have gone made. I have again found I am pregnant less shocked this time but not planned, but oh so scared it could happen again. I have to believe that what is meant to be will be or I just couldn't carry on. I do wish my husband had been brave enough to have a V when I asked him to!!!

Name: michelle
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
i am 26 have had lost 3 now,firt in 2004 then i had a boy in 2005,he was prem and in hozy for 7weeks,had allsorts wrong with him,hes now 16month and fighting fit.then i lost june 06 and have just cum home from a&e and ive lost another,it always happens aronud 4-6 weeks.i dont know how much more of this i can take,whats wrong with me ? ?

Name: Rosa Martin
Country: Mexico
Comment:
I have 2 kids a boy and a girl we are a lovely family of 4...but then to my suprise i was prepnant after 15 years, at first everything was okay but then i got scared because a week after i started to bleed so my docter told me i had a miscarriged, and as most people i also was very depressed and what hurt me the most was that my kids and my husband wanted me to have the baby.

Name: shantae roberts
Country: Georgia
Comment:
i 2 was messin wit a boy named breon who i told i migth be pregant and he told his mom and she told him to tel me to drink vinger is that even good to my health i don't want to lose my child over sumin like dis and plus i wanted the babe im only 15 and i have always wanted a babe butwas dis to much i wonder and i cry every single nigth wonderin if i was ever pregant wit his babe in the first place

Name: Mohini
Country: India
Comment:
I had 4 miscarriages in the months of 2,4,3 & recently in 19th weeks. The doctors are telling that it may be because of some allergy, the reason for which is not known. But some days back I came to know that if minus sign is there in HSG test then we have to take some rubella (exactly not known)injection to make it + and then can try for pregnancy. Is it true ? will I be able to deliver a healthy baby after taking this injection ? please advise.

Name: kim
Country: Ireland
Comment:
well i dont have any children and i wasnt ever pregnant or had an abortion but i was just wondering about what happend to the fetiss' involved in the abortions? I was just wondering because i am writing a speech on abortion and i needed more facts and i was wondering if anyone knew (please dont give me false imformation.)

Name: sheela
Country: India
Comment:
yes I know how u feel.I also because pregnant after I had my tubes tied . But I lost it at 11/2 months pregnant . I do want another one .

Name: Tim
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Each of the children you have is precious and wonderful, and each of the children other parents have is wonderful, and each of the people in the world, who were all someone's children, is wonderful, too. You have two children of your own to love, and 6,500,000,000 other people to love also. So do your best to love us all, and each of us will benefit from your love, just as do your own two children. Best wishes!

Name: Sheela
Country: India
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Hi I already have two kids and all of a sudden I doscover that i am pregnant for the third time. at first i am nervous and think of abrtion ... then my husband says e wants to keep the baby so I also decide that it will be nice to have three kids ... and these days that is considered a large family considering some of my friends are having just one child. Then recently a very unfortunate thing happened. In my 12th week when I went to the doctor, she told me that the baby had stopped growing after 6 weeks. So I went threough a surgery to clean up after a miscarriage. But I cannot tell you how depressed I feel about the miscarriage. I keep wondering how life would have been with three kids ... and I hold myself responsible. It seems god almost heard me when I was thinking that I did not want to keep the third. I am already past 39 and don't really want to plan a baby ... becasue it is a high risk age. I sometimes wish I had been more careful then maybe I would not have miscarried. Do any of you feel the same way?

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