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Name: kalpana
Country: India
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same s the case with me and my 4 years old son. sometimes he looses his temper to the extent that he statrts throwing things and breaking his own beloved toys. i feel helpless.

Name: deeps
Country: India
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I have the same problem with my 11 year old son..He listens to me only when I raise my voice..I tried cutting down his Tv time or play time..initally it worked for a few days..but later he started shouting back why can't I watch TV?

Name: Jyothi
Country: India
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I too has got 7 yrs old son and as per the description, he does things only when I shout. I tried my level best to coax him and do things, but he never listen. I left my job so that i don't loose temper, I give him time and also to do the things he wanted but still he is not ready to do daily things like studying,bathing etc. Though i have not studied phsycology, to me i feel he is not at all interested in going to school, studying. I dont force anything on him, he is a gifted child, have good grasping power, liked to draw, but now i don't hw to make him cool.

Name: sanika
Country: India
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u r right. but its difficult to be calm and quite always. my child is 3.5 yrs old. but he listens everything first and again he continues what his demand was.

Name: Raji
Country: India
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The article provides us with very brief guideline...wants help in detail, My 2.6years old daughter is too difficult to handle. Whenever I want her to do anything for eg..get ready for bath or to have dinner or lunch, she will never listen unless i yell or shout on the top of my voice? So please provide us with detailed guidelines as to how to deal with these little kids?

Name: Nayana
Country: India
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Even i tried to restrict things or punish my child but he is just not bothered.he says he can very well manage without the things he has been deprived off as an punishment. Then i realise punishment or cut down in their favourities is not the way. This children wants your time for their attention. As you give more time to them they will be little polite towards you. You have to become favourat for them. then only they will listen your orders. This problem creates generally when monther or father are not able to give time or attention towards their childrens requirement mentally / phisically etc. But i think

Name: sterssed out mommy
Country: U.S.A.
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In regards to this article directly... The article described my life with my teen girls to a tee!! I am so frustrated. I fly off the handle at them, and I do say mean things!! It seems as if that is the result they go for!!! ... Because, at first I ask, then I remind, then I tell them... then I raise my voice... then I YELL and say things I should never say, and make threats!! They do know this process, but instead of complying with the request or even the 'order'(so to speak)they will push me to my breaking point. UUUUGGGHHH!!!! Help... I want peace, and do not know how to achieve it.

Name: shailee india
Country: India
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i my case, i want to learn that how to deal with a 3 yr old boy's anger? because sometimes he becomes so reluctent, it becomes very difficult for me to make him understand anything.

Name: Ragini
Country: Canada
Comment:
Hi, Same happened with my son when he was at that age. Now he is 20 years old well behaved young man. I also tried the same power struggle and it didn't work. Serious talk with an appropriat tone and gesture work. It is not easy for us because our parents didn't use these new techniqes. Todays' generation is smart. You have to be firm but gentle. You can say,"We need to talk so after dinner I will come to your room or at dinner table( but not with everybody else. Keep it private and respectable)Tell him/her that -----thing is not right and you(m0m) has to do everything and You get tired so ask him or her how he/she can help doing things at home so that mom has time to cook and play(you should mean it?do it)and sit with you(child). Tried to do this much first. Next step we will talk later. Remember: to get respect you need to give respect.

Name: subbalaksmi
Country: India
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Even i tried to restrict things or punish my child but he is just not bothered.he says he can very well manage without the things he has been deprived off as an punishment

Name: mridula
Country: india
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hi As you suggested that punishing or restricting is a better option, bt in my child's case even that is also not working, i punished him, by not sending him out to play or cutting his tv, now he is so prepared he himself says i know u will do this, with this reply of his i was zapped...... now wht are your views on it. my son is jus 7yrs of age

Name: geet
Country: india
Comment:
need a better clear solution.On the other, the article is a good one

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