![]() Views on Article - Playing with your Child Name: sari Country: India Comment: i have 3 yr old son,he doesn't share his things wd nybody suggest me smthng.. Name: mo Country: India Comment: moo Name: asha Country: U.S.A. Comment: Iam the mother of 19 month old girl.She can grasp anything easily.Not yet started talking properly.Use to say a few words,and also she did not allow me to do anything,always surrounding me.when ever i sit any where to do something she starts crying.I dont Know how can i develop her learning skill.i always try to learn her but no use.please advice me Name: Chandan Rajashree Country: India Comment: Good Information. Please advise which games would be suitable for a daughter who is 1 year and 7 months old. Name: ddd Country: India Comment: thank you this helped a lot Name: sajedamemon Country: India Comment: my daughter is 2 yrs old.she is very cranky and restless child.she hates toys. how can i cultivate a habit of playing with toys? Name: Play with kids Country: Thailand Comment: Yes you do have to play with Kids but I believe that you teach them the rules of games amd don't lat them play with their self created rules . This is espicially for games like chess that hace a strict set of rules. Show them that the needent always win and tell them ways to win . Oh yes ans some parents I completely undersrand the geniuosity of your kids. Name: irene dsa Country: India Comment: i am a single mother of a 9 yr old boy. my son is so good that he listens to EVERYTHING that i tell him. he seldom fights back. i do not know if i am being too good to him that he listens to me or is he being too good to listen to everything i tell him. sometimes i get scared to have such a wonderful child. i want to make him a little naughty. i am scared to see him being too good with me. any advices please. Name: Full of questions Country: usa Comment: I have a question, should a boy play with barbies at he age of five. If a boy plays with dolls it is for him to ge motor skills would they get it from playing with barbies? At what age is it not appropriate for boys to stop playing with dolls and what are the danger signs? In this day and age parents aren't spending that time with their parents, so is it okay? Name: Mokshitha Country: india Comment: I used to read my daughter alphabet book when she was just an year old.Soon,she started recognising all the pictures in the book and if I ask her where is the cow or where is the apple , she used to point out even before she learnt to talk.So repetitive reading helps kids a lot even from the age of 6 months Name: val Country: southafrica Comment: Thanks for the wonderfull information, i am a first time mom and i would really appreciate it if you guys could have more topic on babies 0-12 months. Name: munira Country: india Comment: Parents are the role models for their children.hence through the medium of games and playway parents can inculcate ample of good values in the growing minds. Name: nivetaa Country: india Comment: my child always talks against. If i say don't do, he says,"i will do like this only" If i say very softly then he accepts. but most ofthe time he goes against. For sometime he plays very with other child, but sometime he figths them, even if i tell him that you should give your toys, snacks to them and they are your friends he does't listen.pls tell me how to handle him. He is 3yrs old Name: Malini Country: india Comment: My son who is 7 yrs old is just not listening to me, he gets angry when i tell him to do something, he just wants to play all the time please help me Name: malini Country: india Comment: I also have a very similar problem Name: nisha n nitin Country: india Comment: we have triplet. parents have to play with children n teach them good things while playing.leave u r adulthood n become child. They will do all things u teach them,our's have race to clear utencils after lunch/dinner at the age of 2 yrs.they fight amongthem but forget when told and also say "sorry" by touching each others face by their little hands, full day they playing among themselves n the house is silent only when they r sleeping n we also feel lonely when they r resting,should have lot of stamina n strength to go about the triplets. we have a rare experience, thankyou the all mighty GOD, who has given us strength n stamina. Name: chithu Country: india Comment: I am the mother of 2 year old twin girls. I am working lady and inspite of my very hectic schedules i make it a point to play with my kids for atleast 1 hour in a day. But sometimes i run out games!! Can any one suggest a list of interesting games. Also i tried reading stories to them, but they just won't isten, is it too early to start stories? Any guidance for story telling? Pls help Name: Purva Country: india Comment: I used to read my daughter alphabet book when she was just an year old.Soon,she started recognising all the pictures in the book and if I ask her where is the cow or where is the apple , she used to point out even before she learnt to talk.So repetitive reading helps kids a lot even from the age of 6 months. Name: Raji Country: singapore Comment: Allow the child to walk on the footpath with your guidence and allow him to stand on his own when he falls to make him confident in walking. Name: Madhu Country: india Comment: Parents have to resign from adulthood and accept chilhood when they are with their children Name: sandesh Country: india Comment: Though they can not say by words children always need their parents to be with them so they should spend as much time together as they can. Name: Storm Country: england Comment: Children learn about the world from play. With the help of parents they can learn a lot. As long as they are taught to share they will learn from other children who are playing as well! Name: Vinod Country: usa Comment: My son is 13 month old. I have joined him in day-care center when he was 6 weeks old. I just cannot imagine myself he has learned lot of things from day-care center. At age 13 months he has a vocabulary of 50 sounds and words. I recommend other parents to encourage the children to computers at very young age. Now, he know how to turn the computer on, he uses the mouse to start his computer educational CD's. He will click on objects and it makes sound, he has memorized the sounds it makes, so before he presses the button, he will make that sound, and wants to confirm the computer makes the same kind of sound. Thank god, I am in USA easy to buy computer and education CD's, its inexpensive here. Another thing, don't ever say "No" to anything, just give to them, let them feel the texture of the object they touch. ( I will give you the following examples that I implemented on my son, at age 4th month, he wants to grab my eye glasses, I let him touch and play with it, just made sure he doesnot drop and break it, at age 5th month onwards, he doesnot want to play with glasses anymore, everytime he finds my eye glasses, he calls daddy and gives it back to me, another example most parents want to feed the baby, my son at 13th month can eat by himself with spoon and fork. Initally used to make lot of mess while eating, not anymore). Sorry, I am not braging about my son, I can go on and on with examples. Just enjoy playing with them, listen to their needs, respect them, give them responsibility, when the finish the responsibility, reward them. So here is the secrete "RRR" - Respect, Responsibility and Reward. They work amazingly. Good luck to all parents. Name: natasha Country: india Comment: we should encourage the children to play with other kids as this inculcates the habit of sharing among them. Name: RAMA SHANKAR Country: india Comment: CHILDREN GENERALLY TEND TO COPY THEIR PARENT'S ACTIONS. THEY TRY TO REPEAT WHAT THEIR PARENTS SAY. SO THE PARENTS NEED TO SIT WITH THE CHILD AND TALK TO THEM. THOUGH THE INFANTS CANNOT TALK, THEY JUST LOOK AT YOU AND MAKE SOME NOISE. ALLOW THE CHILD TO SAY SOMETHING AND REPEAT THE SAME AFTER HER. THIS WILL HELP THE CHILD TO BE MORE CONFIDENCE. Name: Meena Country: india Comment: Playing with children makes them confident and they learn a lot from the parents. Name: nisar Country: india Comment: would like to know as to what is the effectiveness of introducing computers in early childhood learning days viz - a- viz good quality books and age related toys? Name: sunny Country: india Comment: childrens are like thefragile glass we should give in lots of attention towards them Name: Been there, Done that Country: usa Comment: children learn a lot just by observing adults. sing and dance with them, draw and colour for them. read to them when they are babies. they don't need expensive toys - most of which are wasted on them. talk to them like they are intelligent people (no goo-goos and gaa-gaas), and show them things in their surroundings. they understand a lot even when they cannot talk. Name: Vasundhara Chowdhary Country: usa Comment: Parents using a little imagination can teach kids while playing with them that way kids won't feel the pressure and fear of learning. Name: saaaloni Country: england Comment: wemusthavesomeexpectationfromourcchilddddrensothatouurchildrencandoit Name: praveen Country: india Comment: encouraging a child to play on his or her own develops creativity & independence. Name: smita Country: india Comment: your childs play is more valuable than the things in your house Name: Omesh Country: india Comment: Parents need to spend more time with their children, so why not spend more time and play with them.
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