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Name: nate
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I am a 22 year old male, I wet the bed until i was ten years old. My parents tried everything to get me to stop. I went through months of hypnosis and years of therapy neither of which worked. My parents tried one of those bed wetting alarms, the device got shorted out and i was electrocuted in my sleep for like an hour until my brother woke me up. They gave me medication, and would not let me drink anything after 5pm. If you are a parent trying to stop your child's bw, stop and ask yourself what you know about it. If you never wet the bed you don't know anything about it, so stop acting like you do. Your child is the one carrying the burden not you, the child want's to stop more than you want them too. I quit on my own around age ten. I got a quite alarm that would wake me up every 2 and a half hours or so throughout the night. and just talk to your kids. the reason why we wet the beds as kids is because most kids are scared or stressed out about things. Me and most the kids in my group therapy who wet the bed were also molested at early ages. The key is to not talk directly about the bed wetting don't even mention it.

Name: jean
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
i am a babysitter and i had 2 girls aged 7 and 12 and they both wore nappies and i was told to check them reguarly and had to change them alot they wore pampers and they did not seem to mind being changed when they pooed i could smell it was bad but they were very nice girls and were easy to change no problems

Name: lisa
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
karen my daugter is like yours she wets the bed and after dinner she goes up stairs to get ready for geting her nappie on also her frend stays round a lot and she also wets so they get on very well togither

Name: karen
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
i have a girl that wets the bed and she is 13 and her frend also wets too so they both where nappies to bed and i think its good if your not the only one that does it

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Cheryl, Hi, Our youngest one still is soaked every night. Her oldest sister has been relatively good, but is currently in discipline again for teasing her sister. Our middle one has been good lately. times lately for teasing her younger sister. She will be in it for one month,and she must do her own laundry and hang it out on the line to dry , and then fold it and put it away as part of her punishment. hopefully she will finally learn not to tease her sister this time. Keep in touch. Cordially, Meggin

Name: Experienced Mom
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Bed-wetting has been accepted as a common problem for young children. However, when the wetting continues after 5 years old, testing for kidney condition should be done. My oldest son wet the bed until his adulthood. He was born a sleepy baby and know experiences urinary tract infections which are uncommon for males. Please do not spank or embarress a child or let other people tease them about this problem. The child will become shamed or angry. Be patient and concern for their feelings. Weak bladder can be heritary. Would you punish a person with an disability...a bed-wetter is not able to control their bladder while sleeping; usually the wetting occurs while in deep sleep. Love and compassion is the best treatment. Follow through with a medical check-up,the condition could be more serious than you want to believe.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Meggin, Nice to hear from you again. All remains quiet in our house. The older one is being good. For the younger one I still pad her up and put the plastic pants on for bedtime so she can get a good nights sleep. The older one has been real good lately. How about yours? Cheryl

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Dear Cheryl, Hi. How are you? How have things been going with your older daughter lately? Has she teased her sister lately? Our yunger one hsn't done thisin a while, esp as they both know that if they are in ddiscipline, that they have to wash and dry thier own laundry and put it away as part of thier punishement. Also if one of them is in ddiscipline, thier lil sis still gets to ehlp get evrything ready, and everyone who is not being punished watches so that they know what wil happen if they do the sasme thing. Write back, soon, ok? Cordially, Meggin

Name: sadie
Country: India
Comment:
Jane I just wet. And diapers aren't any fun either.

Name: jane
Country: India
Comment:
sadie do you wet the bed or soil it well if you do then a diapers the best thing because to wash the sheets evry days no fun for any one

Name: Sadie
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Jane I dont think you should put your daughter in diapers. My mom puts me in diapers at night and its not fair!!!!

Name: sara
Country: India
Comment:
hi K.Muralidharan have you tryed a nappie ?

Name: K.Muralidharan
Country: India
Comment:
My son 10 years old having bed wetting problem. I am studying many behavioural ways to find solution to the problem. Wake up during night again a problem for both and not able to follow, is there any other solutionn please share . I am fearing to go for medication because of side effects.

Name: jane
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
hi all my 11 year old girl has started to wee the bed at night i am trying to get her diapers i got her dry nights but i want to get her diapers does any one no the best kind to get thanks all

Name: Armand
Country: Canada
Comment:
My boys wet the bed a few times a week they wear 12ply training pants made for them. They each have 2 pairs of tight plastic pants on. If they have a dry night I take one pair off. If they have a wet night I put two pairs on no questions asked. Some times one has 9pairs of plastic pants. Leg cutters leaves red marks on legs tight. Dry nights comes very soon. On week ends at home long tee shirt with no pants. Can see the rubber pants for this is their pants. To go out on week ends just tight short pants with rubber pants showing out of legs if possible. Not too much but a little. This is the rule for bedwetters at my house. When they will be dry off will go the rubber pants butthe training pants will stay on for a while. When I was a boy I had to wear playtex rubber pants with pin on 4 diapers. 24/7 They were very tight the rubber pants but not leg cutters very easy on the legs. Later when I out grew the playtex rubber pants I wore super size tower plastic pants leg cutters. But not for long I did stop bed wetting. Put your children in diapers pull ups. good nites teen throw away diapers and 2 pairs of plastic pants but not leg cutters. They make very nice teen plastic pants to day. day.

Name: try this
Country: India
Comment:
mas-ter-bate

Name: rachel
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
hi all i started weting the bed a few weeks ago and im 12 my wee sister and brother ware diapers to bed and now my mum makes me where them so i get changed with my we brother and sister and she keeps me in them in the week ends in puplic places its so embarracing does any one elce get this treatment

Name: wet one more time
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
when is it going to stop? i am 19

Name: howits easy.
Country: India
Comment:
were a diaper. whats worng with that?i wet,and diapers are the only thing that helps.

Name: joey
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
it happend again this morning. i wet the bed and when my mom came in to wake me up she pulled me out of bed. then she got the paddle off the wall. she sat down in the chair and pulled me close to her. then she pulled my pj bottoms down and pulled me across her lap. then she started spanking me with the paddle and it realy hurt.

Name: joey
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
hi my name is joey. i am 10 years old. i wet the bed alot. when i do my mom gets real mad at me. this morning when she woke me up and saw that i wet the bed again she yanked me out of bed pulled my pants down and spanked me realy hard. she said if i did it again that she would use the paddle on me. i don't want to get the paddle how can i stop wetting the bed ?

Name: hehehe
Country: India
Comment:
i wet my self today when i was talking to my boyfriend.

Name: bre
Country: Libya
Comment:
cool cute sorry adout the frist one

Name: bre
Country: Libya
Comment:
stped hait it

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Meggin, I recently had to get larger plastic panties for y younger one as I was having leaks and could not figure out why. So I put her in the bedtime diapers and plastic panties earlier and let her play and run around. After she did this for awhilr I chescked the plastic pants and found that they rode up over the edge of her diapers at the back of her legs and that caused the leaks. Larger plastic panties did it. Yes she is wet in the mornings still. The oldest one has been behaving well since the last 2 times I had younger sis get the diapers and plastic pants out when it was time for them to be put on older sis. Cheryl

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Dear Cheryl, Hi, How are you? I was wondering, how are things going with your youngest one? Is she still soaked most mornings? I have found that ours is more wet in colder weather, and also has more frequent day accidents when it is cold outiside. I really think that in addition to her problem, that the weather really afects her problem. by the way how are things going with her older sister lately? Write back when you get a chance ok? P.S. Thanks for the tip, our younger one already wears thicker diapers in the colder weather, and we wometimes use doublers, too. also her platic panties do not seem to be too small,I recently checked them and we alway try to make sure that her didies are totally covered, that is why I was wondering why in addition to her being soaked, things leaked and her clothes were wet, too. Any other ideas form you or others as to why this may be happening wound be greatly apppreciated. Thank you again, very much! Cordially, Meggin

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Meggin, You might need to add diaper doublers to the diaper. This adds more padding to the diaper area. Also you might try the next larger size pastic pants.

Name: jake
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
hi,iam 13 i wet my self at night,and i use diapers and it works good,and i am very happy with the out come. just try it and you well be happy.

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Hello again, everyone, I just posted a question and made a mistake in my post, we are having the problem which was mentioned with the younger one of our three oldest daughter, who has a medical problem, and has a underdeveloped bladder, and has accidents and wets the bed, butr also needs to wear didies during the day, as she has some accidents then, too. We recently noticed this problem of her plastic panties leaking, in the daytime. If canyone knows why this maight happen, or can possibly tell us how to try and prevnt this I would appreciate it very much. Cordially, Meggin

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Dear Cheryl or anyone Else, Hello, I was wondering if anyone can possibly answer a quewtion about a problem whioch we have been having ately. Do you know why platic pants might leak when thye are used with cloth diapers during the day. OUr older one has recently been soaked and everything has leaked a few times lately, whle she was wearing either snap on plastic pants or pull up ones, and this is confusing, especially as her didies are tucked inside of her plastic pants, and as they completely cover her didies, we use cloth pin on diapers or cloth pull ups. Does this happen to others children? Meggin

Name: Kim
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Hi Amy I'm 12.

Name: amy
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
kim how old are you ?

Name: Meggin
Country: India
Comment:
Dear Cheryl, Hello, It is nice tohear from you again. Our youngest one has been behaving lately, but our older one still gets in trouble a lot. We have also been having problems with her helping out with her chores and laudry,which is part of thier discipline to teach them respoonsibility, our older one hates to do laudry, so we are trying something new, if either of the girls run low on thiier supplies, that is if they have 2 or less changes left, then their discipline is extended a week. So far our younger one has only had her total time being disciplined ext4ended once so far,while her olkder sis doesn''t seem to care about anything, and has had her discipline time extended twice. She has also been in trouble as she has not been trying at all in school, and brought home a very poor report card lately, with most of her grades below a C-.She does not ususally get disciplined if her grades are a Cor above, which we think is only fair, but she dowsn'teem to care, even though sboth her and her sister is gifted and in all honor level classes. So she is in trobule right now, need I say more? I hope things get better. Write back when you get a chnace,ok? Cordially, Meggin

Name: doing great
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
it feels so good to wet my self.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Meggin, Yes she if behaving ever since I had younger sis help get the diapers and plastic pants ready for older sis. How are yours behaving? Cheryl

Name: charlie
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
i am a black boy and i love the smell of curry (and my mothers semen)

Name: Meggin
Country: India
Comment:
Dear Cheryl, Hi. It is nice to hear from you again. How are things going?Is your older girl still behaving? I hope she is. Write back whenyou get a chance, ok? Meggin

Name: doing great
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
hi, i been weting for a week and last night i put on a diaper,and it felt good to wake up with a dry bed! it works!!!

Name: Kim
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I've been in diapers at night now for 6 months. That's how my mom decided to deal with it. I don't like it but I have dry bed & blankets now.

Name: the saddle club fan
Country: India
Comment:
yeah i wet, its bad, wet beding,wet pants. i am tierd of it. help me somebody!!

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Meggin, Our younger is still wet each morning, wears a double diaper with a soaker keeps her dry all night. The older one is being quiet right now. the last time I had younger sis help me get the diapers and plastic panties ready for older sis. Older sis has been quiet since.

Name: ZARIA JOHNSON
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
i LOVE THE WAY YOU ARE MADE PEOPLE HAVE BABYS THANYOU

Name: Cheryl
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
hahaha day dremer.

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Cheryl, Hi, did you read my latest message? How are things going there with both of your daughters? Our oldest is in diapers again for teasing her sister for one week. How is your younger one doing? Ours is soaked most mornings lately, as it has been much colder here, and sometimes we have to change her 2 times during the night,as she gets so upset and cries when she has an accident, but I don't mid as she can't help it. Write back soon, ok? cordially. Meggin

Name: yeah
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
why do i want to wet my self? like when i need 2 go 2 the toylet,i think of weting myself

Name: hey you
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
do you know how hard it is to put on your own diaper? try it some time,its not easy as you might think. if you wet at night,its best to just relax and try not to get upset,cause it wont help,it well only make it harder and you well wet longer.

Name: amy
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
yeh i now how it feels kim

Name: Kim
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Hi Amy. I wear diapers to bed every night. My mom puts them on me like a baby and it's really embarassing. I have to lay down on my bed while she picks my legs up, wipes, lotions and powders me, then puts a thick disposable diaper on me. This has been happening for months now. It's worse when we have company staying over (like now). My little cousin is staying in my room for the weekend and she sees me get put in my diaper at night. I usually wet a lot, so I get changed in the night too. Last night she was awake to watch. I've been diapered by my mom, my aunt, and my big sister. Just remember you're not the only girl going through it.

Name: thinker
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
i think its fun to were diapers,cause i dont remember what it was like when i was a baby.so now i know what its like to be a baby, yay!!!

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
There Cheryl, Hi again, I forgot to ask how are things there currnetly, any improbement with your older one? I hope you didn't mind my recent post or suggestions, but after tring many things, we found that what Itold yoou works the best for the grils when they tease thier little sis. Email me back and let me know how tings ae going, ok? Meggin P.S. We are still waiting for progress reports form school, we will get them next week, ans see how the girls grades ae, and if their grades are still poor or have imoproved, eps as not misbehaving ing or rebelling and doing good in school is very improtant for them both mow and in the future. Meggin

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
To Just wondering> Our two oldest daughters are 10, and 8, then thier younger sis is 6, and we also have twin girls 16 months old. Meggin

Name: Meggin
Country: India
Comment:
Dear cheryl, HI, How are you? How have things been there lately? Things with the yougest are still as yours are here too, wet mornings, ect... The two older girls have both been in and out of diapers for teasing thier lil sis, but the younger has only been in them once in the past month for teaing her little sister and we think she may be making progress,we will see. I waa thinking lately and have a suggestion for you if your older one tease her lil siter again you can try and it might work, it seems to work better than anything else for us. Below is an idea of what we do, with the girls. When she teases her little sister, tell her that she has earned time in diaers, but tht beginning the very next day, when se gets home right afer schol, she may use the bathroom once, but then she has to go upstairs immediately and will be in diapers, every night as long as she is currently in diaper discipline for and that on Firday night, right after school, as part of her punishment she will also be in diapers 24/7 until the following Monday morning before school. Our girls also have all privilidges taken away during this time, computer, phone,palying with friends, ect, but if their firends come over for something special or wannto to see them, or do schoolwork togehter, they may for special occasions, be told they but with the understanding that they must wear diapers under thier regular clothes, all weekend, and wherever we go, unless it is a spcial occasion, or a special holiday. They just have looser fitting clothes on over thier didies, we have bouhgt some things which are a bit looser, eg, sometimes they weasr looe fitting pants or shorts, or a blouse and a long skirt, also this way the punishmetn is kept just betwen them and us, uless any family members know about this.You can also have her help you with chores, we do this, by having her do such things as each time she is changed, rinsing her wet and messy diapers out and putting them in thier diaper pails to soak, and she cn help you take her laundry after it is washed and she can help you by helping carry it to her room, and placing everything where it is needed. Also, as part of her discipline she can also help by washing out her plastic pants every morning and rinsing them and putting them someplace to dry. We do these things as long as the discipline lasts, esp for many repeat behaviors in a short period of time. And of couse each time they repeat the misbehavior, the punishment is extnded in length. Also, if they have misbehaved realy badly, or many time in a short period, of time, we have on occasion, in addition to everthing else made them say in bed, and do thier homework in bed, too, all weekend, beginning on a Friday night,as part of thier punishment. This seems to work best of all for teaing we have found.I hope it may help. P> S> I forgot, we also make them watch us get everything ready and when thye are in diapers as punishment, they have to have Mommy get them ready for bed BEFORE thier little sister,is gotten ready, in addition thye mhave an automatic earlier than usual bedtime, and still have thier little sister wathc them while thye are put i in diapers, as this seems to help Email me bcak when you get a chance. Meggin

Name: to amy
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
hi, you know what helps stop wetting? if you tell some body you know well.tell them how you feel about wetting the bed,then just were a diaper at night and take it off in the day.but if anybody puts you down for wetting, dont think anything of it cause wel all have done it at one time or another. i was a heave wetter when i was younger, now its not so bad, but i still wet my self at night, and i am 20! i know its stupid, but it happens. dont be emberased about it. thats the main thing!

Name: amy
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
no i dont wet in days just night

Name: to amy
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
oh thats hot, i got a idea for you, 1st, do you need them? do you realy wet in the day.or just at night?

Name: amy
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
hi i were diapers at night i hate them my mum changes me when i get in from school and have to were them all night and all the time on the weekends help !

Name: wetter 19
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
yeah i wet too.

Name: give me some tips please
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
hi i went to sleep for a half hour,and i wet my self, what do i do? it happend 4 times now. does anybody have any ideas? this is not a joke. i need help! soon.

Name: wetter
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
hey, iam 19 and still wet my self

Name: its still cool
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
hi i am 19 and i were dipers,its still cool 4 me. and my friends know too,and thay some times join me and put on diapers for the knight too. and wet in them!!

Name: lee wakeling from summerset
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
hi im lee wakeling im from summerset i have a really small pecker its 3 inches wen big sumtimes its dry wee myself to make it funner to have fun my mum never feeds me so i am forced to eat my poo im normally fed three pieces of bread a day

Name: lees mum
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
hi im lees mum he is 15 im very upset he wet him self everynight he resontly has swung towards boys and a result of of to much erm fun in the bed so bcoz of this hes bein pooing him self more i feel bad for making him eat it

Name: warrior
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
i have 3 sons age 6,8 & 11 all 3 sons are bed wetters they all wear nappies to bed as they dont like waking up in wet pyjamas & sheets i was also a bed wetter so i know it runs in families & that in time all 3 boys will become dry at night

Name: i was wondering
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
meggin and cheryl; how old are your oldest daughters? plz reply

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Meggin, Things are still the same here to. Nightly diapers and plastic pants and wet mornings for the younger one. The older one seems now to be getting the idea maybe about teasing her younger sister. She doesn't like being seen in the diapers and plastic pants. Cheryl

Name: Kim
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Anyone else here kept in diapers all day when you're home sick from school?

Name: cheryl
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
meggin: i was thinking that maybe thats why thay make fun of eath other, so we will put them in diapers and plastic pants.ect.. nothing is working for me any more,theres lots of yelling and crying and makeing fun,.things are wild right now. good luck.

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Dear Cheryl, Hi again, I forgot to tellyou that yes, the girls' younger sister stil is in diapers as she still wets the bed most nights. She may be dry for 2 or 3 nightsand then be saoked (wet) for the next 7 nights, or she may be soaked for 2 weeks in a row. she still has some daytime accidents too. but at lest we know that this is due to her having a medical problem of an immature and weak bladder. And she still cries and gets embarrased about wetting the bed and having daytime accidents,too. And as you know the girls like to tease her at times, this is why they are in and out of diaper punishment. I do know one thing, using cloth diapers and plastic panties, is very uncomfortable for them, so hopefully , sooner or later they wil get the message no to tease thier little sister. and of course they haven't started to tease the yougest tow, the twins yet, as they are only 14 months oldand they know that they are babies and need Mommie to take care of them. cordially, Meggin

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Cheryl, Hi, It is nice to hear from you again, things have been quiet for a month until just last night, our oldest teased her little sister again, so she got a aspanking and was told that she will bein diapers each night right after school each day until the next morning for a weeks for teasing her little sister again for wetting the bed. If she teases her again, the next time she wil be in them for 2 weeks. The youngest one started tolaugh at her older sister, but was warned that if she does this again, she will also be in diapers for one week, for tesaing her older sister, about being punished. We are alos waiting for mid term progress reports form school, as our older daughter does not sem to think that it is important to do well in school,and has gotten 0's on her homework in thepast. The girls are very gifted and hve been told that they need to get a grade of at least a C in all of thier subjects, or they will be properly disciplined. Eachgrade on thier progress report or grde on thier report card below a C earns them a good spanking and time in ddiscipline. We have treid everything else , but have found that this is the only thing which works. We are hoping for the best. We will see in a few weeks. Cordially, Meggin

Name: THE HELPER
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
EVERY ONE ASKS THE SAME THING. WELL I KNOW HOW TO STOP WETTING. clarsenbay@aol

Name: Christine
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Amanda, Pull a pair of your regular daytime cloth panties up over the plastic pants that will quiet them, it works.

Name: amanda age 15
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
some good articles.i am a bedwetter and wear a thick cloth diaper and plastic pants to bed every night,my mom put them on me at bedtime.my plastic pants fit blousy and crinkle under my pjs how can i prevent this?

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Meggin, Checking in to say that right now they are both wearing diapers and baby pants to bed. The youngest is wetting pretty regularly and wears diapers and plastic pants to bed every night. Does yours still wear them? The oldest one is spending a few nights in them for teasing. How are your older ones doing? Cheryl

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Dear cheryl, Hello again, How have things been going l;ately with your daughters, I 'd love to hear form you. Write back, soon, ok? Cordially, Meggin

Name: dawn
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
Hi evry one my dauter has a weting problem and i need to get her some nappies what type can you get in the uk and where do u get them shes 13 almost 14 thanks alot dawn

Name: laura
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
hi evry one im 13 and i started to wet the bed about a month ago and 2 weeks ago my mum got me some nappies and a changeing matt and baby powder and nappy cream and after school she babys me all up and only lets me ware my tea shirt and my nappie and washes me in the bath its so humilating help please !!!!

Name: rachel
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
hi i wet the bed and my mum makes me ware nappies and even tho i only wet the bed she still makes me ware nappies all day and as soon as i get home she gets a nappy out and changes me its soo embaracing i ware a scirt at school so no one nos i ware a nappy but it makes so much noise im worried some one will find out and she dosnet let me ware panties over them and i dont have any more help mee !!!!!

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Cheryl, Hi, How have things been going there lately with your daughters? also is the youngest one dry more nights now, or is she still wet most nights as our one girl is? Write bck soon, ok? Cordially, Meggin

Name:
Country: India
Comment:
recently i have been wetting and soiling the bed at night and sometimes my knickers. so when i came home from school the other day my mum told me to go over to her then she got out a bag of nappies and told me to take my knickers off. she layed me down on the floor and put me in a nappy. now i have to wear them to bed and all day during the weekend and i am 11 years old.

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Cheryl. Hi, we do things the same way you do, we get everything ready while they watch and then everything is put on later. we also do this so that they have time to think about things, as you do. Cordialy, Meggin

Name: Annnoms
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
It really is embarrisng but i still wet the bed and im 11 and somtimes...I wet myself in public and i gotta wear Dipers! what do i do i am already wearing them.

Name: adam
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
a lot of parents here should be ashamed of themselves! by embarrassing, punishing or ridiculing your children you will only make the problem worse. kids/adults dont wet the bed on purpose and most will grow out of it! go to parenting classes before you spank your child idiots

Name:
Country: Other
Comment:
I was in nappys until I was 5 oh and by the way bed wetters if you need help go to a school nurse or a GP. Good luck

Name: Dani
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
i am 14 years old, and i am still wetting the bed every once and a while.. usually about 1 every 2 weeks, and if im lucky, once a month. Is this going to keeping happening to me? It is soooo eembarassing because im going into high school now!!! i shouldnt be wetting the bed? what should i do? - Dani

Name: Kim
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I'm now wearing diapers to bed every night. Mom puts them on me right before I go to bed. It's humiliating but I'm starting to get used to it. At least there aren't wet blankets in the morning. Has anyone else been put back in diapers?

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Meggin, Yes sometimes she is wet and she knows how her sister feels. Right now she is being good and is not wearing her diapers and plastic pants. When they have to get everything out and watch mommy get things ready is it then time for them to have them put on or do you do it earlier so they can think about them. I get them out earlier and she watches me get them ready and then later she gets them put on. Cheryl

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Dear CHheryl. hello again, i forgot to ask you, when your older daughter is punished, iif i can ask, is she wet in the morning, so she knows how her sister feels. i am assuming yes,/ meggin oh also in case i forgot to tell you now we have 5 girls, the two oldest, their younger sis, and two twin girls who were born last july.

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Cheryl. hi, nice to hesr from you. TO answer your questins, things have been quiet here, until judt the other day. both gitls teased their younger sis again, after beung warned what would happen ig they did this, so they are both in diapers for a month, and as our oldest still insisted on keepimg on teasing her sis she has been told she will be in tem 24/7 for the 1st 2 weks for this, and ropld her if she does not stop teasing her lil sis she will be in thrm 24/7 for the rest of the summer. her suster was also told the same thing and warned about the possible consequences of teasing her lil sis. To answer your question, our youngesthas had a few more dry nights lately, but still has mosly wet nights, as she has an underdeveloped bladder, that she was diagnosed with at birth. we also get things ready early for our young one, but if the older girls are being punished for teasing their sister, we wait until it is time for bed,or time to be changed duting the day and they have to help get everything needed out, and watch Mommie get everything ready,9eg. fold rhier didies and put theie plasric panties out on their beds. if they are punished they are also reminded each time this happens of why they are in diapers, to try and help reinforce their disciplne,and hopefully help to learn to be more mature and grow up. also, i don'y know if i told you this before or not, but both older girls have to help rinse out their didies when in punishment and and also have to help do their laundry and fold and put it away. write back when you get a chance. cordially, meggin

Name: moxham
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
bed wetting still at 12 what can we do

Name: kyle
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
i am kyle. I am 8 year old boy. i need help. i peed the bed agian this morning and my mom spanked me again. she is going to take me to the store and by diapers. she also said that she is going to spank me longer and harder if i don't stop peeing my bed. how can i stop ?

Name: Kim
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Well it's happened again and now my mom went out and actually bought diapers for me. She says if I wet again tonight I'll have to start wearing them to bed. What can I do? I need help fast.

Name: Kim
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I'm 11 and I'm wetting the bed for like a month now. I can't wake up until I'm already peeing and then it's too late. My mom gets mad then says shes sorry and it's not my fault. But she's talking about getting me diapers now what should I do?

Name: Simran
Country: India
Comment:
My daughter is 9 years,but still bedwetting.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Meggin, Things have been quiet here for now. My youngest was having dry nights for awile now she has returned to wetting every night. Does your youngest wet every night? How have the older girls been doing? I get our youngest ready for bed about a half hour before bed to but I usually get things ready earlier, do you?

Name: kyle
Country: Canada
Comment:
hi im 8 year old boy. i wet the bed alot. my mom gets realy mad at me wen she wakes me up in the morning she pulls my pants down and spanks my bum with a paddle. i dont like geting spanked wat can i do to stop peeing the bed becuz i get spanked almost evry day

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Dear cheryl, Hello, How are things going with your daugher? Email me back when you get a chance, ok? Cordially, Meggin

Name: I hate wetting the bed.
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I'm 14 I have wet the bed my whole life olny at night. It puts so much stress on my family. My mom,sister, and little brother are moving out because of the smell. I feel so bad, and embarressed. My sister openly mocks me infront of her friends. Tonight I'm going to start sleeping in the bathtub. I don't care I just don't want to be yelled at.

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Cheryl, Hello. After the girls have thier diapers and plastic pants on, on they usualy go to bed in a short pj top, a short top or a short tee shirt and thier diapers.None of their tops cover thier diapers and plastic pants. We have also recently triedsomething new for teasing thier sister using snap on plastic pants when they are being punished for teasing thier sister as they are very babyish, to reinforce the fact that they have been acting like big babies. We ususally get our youngest daughter ready for bed anywhere between 15 minutes and 1/2 hour before bed. We also get her ready for bed in private. How are things there? Write back when you get a chance, ok? Cordially, Meggin

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Meggin, Once the girls have the plastic pants on do they wear pj's over them to bed or do they go to bed in just the diapers and plastic pants? Also the youngest, the bedwetter, how long before bed do you get her in her diapers and plastic pants and do you do hers in private?

Name: Meggin
Country: India
Comment:
Cheryl, Hi, Yes both of our girls are still in diapers, our oldest one will be in them for another week for recently repeatedly teasing her little sister.even after being warned not to.Our next oldest one is still in diapers until Monday morning,for teasing her sister again Monday. They are both in diapers 24/7 again this weekend, until Monday morning before school. They both have to come home right after school, and can go to the bathroom, and then they have to get ready for MOmmy to put on thier diapers. we also put thier diapers on them lying on either thier bed or in MOmmie's room, depending on if they are coperative or not. Also, everyone watches wheter they are also being punished or not,form gathering ererything needed and getting the diaer ready, folding them and putting them powder and their plasitc panites on, so that they know what will happen if they tesase their little sister or anyone who is in ddiscipline (curently being punished for teasing). Thier little sis also always gets to watch, we feel that this helps her to feel consoled and better, and she also knows that the other girls are being punished for teasing her. We think that having everone watch the one or ones being punished is one of the berst deterrents to misbehaving. Keep in touch, ok? Cordially, Meggin

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Meggin, Currently it is quiet in our house the oldest is not wearing diapers and plastic pants at this moment but they are in the drawer in her room so she sees them every day. Are yours still in them? Also when you are putting them in diapers do you do it with them lying down on their beds?

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Dear cheryl, I forgot to mention that this weekend both in diapers 24/7 until Tuesdaythey are morning before school for repatedly teasing thier sister recently. cordially, Meggin.

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Dear Cheryl, Hello again, I forgot to ask how are things going with your daughter, hs there been any more teasing since the other day. In case you didn't realize it our girls are still in diapers as punishment for a total time period of 2 weeks for recently tesing thier little sister Email me back when you get a chance ok?

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Dear Cheryl, Hello, It is nice to hear from you. We do the same thing with our girls, since you suggested it, now also when any of them is being punished everyone watches them or mommy get thier diapers out and watches mommy get them ready for them, and watches them being put in diapers and plastic pants,even if it is one of them who is not in diaper dicipline at the moment as a reminder of what will happen if they tease thier little sister, and thier little sister is allowed to watch too so that she knows that they are being disciplined for teasing her. Also eaach morning they have to rinse thier diapers and plastic pants out and put them in a diaper pail, and hang thier plastic pants in the shower to dry. They also have to do laudry ( help wash thier diapers in the washer) and diapers out when we do laudry every week, and put them in the dryer, and also fold them and put them away in thier rooms, when they are in ddiscpiline,They do not like any of this at all being done, but we do this to help reinforce why they are being punished and to hopefully help them stop teasing thier sister and become mature young ladies. Cordially, Meggin

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Meggin, In the mornings the oldest girls diapers are removed and she has to put them in the diaper pail and she has to rinse out her plastic pants and hang them up to dry so she sees her plastic pants all day and knows that if she teases again she will have to wear them again. I have at times put the 2 of them in diapers and plastic pants at the same time so the bedwetter can see her sister having the diapers and plastic pants put on. Generally the older one only wears them for one night. She went a long time earlier in the year without teasing, so maybe were getting there.

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Dear cheryl, Hello, I just read your reply,and I was wondering if you don't mind me asking, how long is yourdaughter in diapers for this time for teasing her little sister? Have you thought about setting up goals and rewared and consequence system,and/or possibly extending the number of nights she has to wear diapers to bed for teaisng her each time she teases her little sister and placing a copy of the rules and possible consequencesin her room? Just mentioning this may help her not to tease her. Hopefully she will think twice before she teases her again soon. Email me back when you get a chance. Coridally, Meggin

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Dear cheryl, Hello, I just read your reply,and I was wondering if you don't mind me asking, how long is yourdaughter in diapers for this time for teasing her little sister? Have you thought about setting up goals and rewared and consequence system,and/or possibly extending the number of nights she has to wear diapers to bed for teaisng her little sister, and placing a copy of the rules and possible consequencesin her room? Just mentioning this may help her not to tease her. Hopefully she will think twice before she teases her again soon. coridally, Meggin

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Last night she had to wear diapers and plastic pants to bed for the 1st time in a long time. I heard her tease her sister just after I had put her in her diapers and plastic pants for the night. She went to her room to get ready for bed and I followed her and in her room I said to her you have to get your diapers and plastic pants out because your going to wear them for teasing your sister. So out came the diapers and plastic pants, I got the pins and she had to lie down on her bed and on went the diapers and plastic pants and she went to bed after showing her sister she to had diapers and plastic pants on. Yes I do use cloth diapers fore the same reason you said.

Name: Michelle
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
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Name: loulou
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
hi i am 11 and i go to school with my nappies on and when i need the loo my mum comes in and changed it my mum says when will you grow out off them i am scared of the loo and my mum cleans it and my mum and dad friend watch and my friends i love them alot they r nice to wear i wear them every day any wear.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Dear Cheryl, You said that you keep your daughter's diapers and plastic pants in a drawer just in case she teases her little sister. I forgot to ask you if you don't mind, do you use cloth diapers or disposable ones with plastic panmts? As I think I said before we think that cloth pin on diapers and plastic pants make much more of an impression on our girls especially as then they know and feel what thie sister feels like when she has an accident. Email me back if you get a chance, ok? Cordially, Meggin Cordially, Meggin

Name: to Cheryll
Country: Canada
Comment:
Dea cheryl, Hello, aagin, good to hear from you we also keep everything in the girl's rooms just in case it is needed, but where they can see it to remind themof what will happen if they tease their sister. To udpdate things our older one teased her sister other day again, so as this is the 2nd time in less than 2 weeks, her punishment will be extended(doubled) for this. Our younger one has not tesed her little sister since early April , but as she also teased her little sister, with her older sister the other day, she will be back in diapers for one week. Normally it would only be for 3 days, but as they both boht were teasing thier little sis and would not stop when they were warned but inisted on teasing her, thier punishment has been lengthened. Jus to let you kno they will also be in diapers 24/7 on all weekends form Friday right after school until the follwoing MOndya morning. When at home they will be in just diapers and a tee shirt but if wehave to go out they can wear regular clothes over thier didies, this way the punishment remains just between then=m and us. Keep in touch, ok? cordially, Meggin

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Meggin, Glad to see that there is improvement. My oldest has stopped teasing her sister, but I keep the diapers and plastic panties in the drawer with her undies so she sees them and knows she will wear them again if she starts teasing again. the last time she had to wear diapers and plastic panties was in March.

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Hi, I am just catching up on reading posts, and it is good to know that other parents punish siblings for teasing a bedwetter. dipaer punishment is the only thing which has seemed to help our older two girls realize what their younger sis feels like. Cordially, Meggin

Name: To cheryl
Country: India
Comment:
Dear Cheryl, I forgot to tell you that when the girls are in dipaer punishment they stil ahve to go and show thier sister that they are in diapers for teasing her to hoepfully help them learn from thier punishment. and she also knows this way that they are being punished for teasing her, and wee think this helps her to fel better about things, and not cry so much over herproblem which as you know she cannot help. Cordially, Meggin.

Name: Meggin
Country: India
Comment:
Dear Cheryl, Hi.I am psoting an update for you. since we last talked I took all of your suggestions and used all of them with our girls. Our younger one has only teased her lil sis twice so far, as it has been explained to both of them that each time they tease thier lil sis for wetting the bed or having accidents thier total time in diaper punishmen is increased. the first offense earns them 3 nights or days in diapers the 2nd offense one week, the third offense 2 weeks and the fourth offense is one month.This has seemed to work best wiht our youngest daughter, except a few dasy ago she repeated her misbehavior, so she will be back in diapers for 3 days to start, and if she does not repaet the misbehavior this will be the end of this. If she does repaet it her punishment will be increased, hopefuly she will not repaeat this behavir. Our older one teased her lil sis once then, and we thought that her discipline was working, and she stopped for a few months, but then started up again, just recently, and she has also teased her lil sis twice in the past 2 weeks so she hs been told that she will be back in diapers again, for a while now, each night right after school and 24/7 on the weekends for a month, for tesing her sister. Hopefully she will learn from this. We will see. Again cordially, Meggin

Name: why hide it
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
if thay are a real friend thay well try to help,not heart them more. right? look,we all been there,where you wet at night right? so we all are the same.

Name: sad mum
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
my daughter has just gone to bed crying her eyes out because one of her friends wanted her to sleepover and she cant in case she wets the bed. shes nearly 13 and cant trust anyone enough to tell them due to telling a so called friend a few years ago who told everyone. she thinks her new friends from senior school will think she doesnt like them much if she keeps making excuses not to sleep over. Doctor no help at all.

Name: Jennifer
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
what r we s'posed to say? I wet at night so mom says I have2 wear diapers so what?

Name: whywhywhy
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
DOES ANY BODY GOT ANY ANCERS?EVERY BODY ASK THE SAME THING,BUT NO BODY NOWS WHAT TO DO! JUST JACK OFF!

Name: Cassidie
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
My daughter is also putt into diapers when she gets home from school because she teases her sister on bedwetting.

Name: edward hale
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
i am almmost 30 years old and i am still wetting my bed i go into a very deep sleep and do not know that i need to go and if i have to wait til i can go to the bathroom during the day i sometimes i have accidents i wear adult breifs but i wish i could get away from them is there anything that could help me or am i stuck

Name: i know why you wet
Country: India
Comment:
cause your a vergin

Name: nottelling
Country: Kazakhstan
Comment:
somebody help,,, i don't like my plastic pants aaaaaaaaaaaaahhh

Name: michael
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
my name is michael and I am 24 years old.I was 9 years old when my dad passed away and shortley after this I started wetting the bed.My mother had a fit she called me a baby and made fun of me in front of my family she realy thought that I was doing it on purpose. This went on for a few weeks then she started making me wear diaper when I got home as a punishment and she would change me just like a baby.I wore them after school for a few more weeks then she got even more mad at me and started making wear them all day and night,She would pull down my pants anywear to check my diaper and if I was wet she would change me in the public bathrooms.I hated it this went on until I was about 17 when a concerned family freind talked my mother into bringing me to see a doctor about the problem and come to find out it was a mental thing over the death of my father and the punishment made it worst.This is not one of those peaple who have one of those sick fetishis.To all of you who are on here fore those should try to put yourselfs in my shoes I went through that sick stuff that you want I hate I still wet the bed and I will not put on a diaper because I have been scared away from them.If ther is any one who has been in the same place I am now please tell me how to finaly put this stuff behind me.

Name: mn
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
i wet cause it tunrs i on

Name: cristopher joseph healy
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
hi my name is chris and i wet the bed. i do it because i get scared at night i try hard not to but it just happens. i am 13 years old and live in ulysses,pa

Name: Jeremy
Country: Australia
Comment:
My name is Jeremy and i am 11. i began to wet my bed few days ago, and mom forced me to waer plastic pants and spanks me hardly after I wet my bed

Name: meeria
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Has Juvanile Diabetese got any association with bedwetting?

Name: some one please help me.
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
does any body want to chat with me about bed wetting? i feel so alone cause i wet last night and my whole family hates me now,my sister lafs at me,my brother makes jokes.and mom and dad are mad at me for wetting.i feel sooooooooo bad,HELP

Name: wetter7
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
im 18 and i like to wet,i where diapers my size too!!

Name: Sheila
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I have 3 bedwetters and diapers and rubber pants are used on them at bedtime. The beds stay dry and the kids sleep all night.

Name: Bette
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
I did switch to terry nappies and plastic pants for bedtime. There have been no leaks at all.

Name: bamewqe
Country: Malawi
Comment:

Name: Bette
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
hey y dont u either buy thiker diapers for her or in the middle of the night check her nappy and if shes asleep change it or double up the nappy or put a tery toewl napy over the top

Name: alexander
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I wet the bed alot

Name: Bette
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
Have an 8 year old bedwetter and we use disposable pullon pants. We are having problems with leaking and wondering if anyone has any real suggestions. Thanks

Name: TOSIGH...
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
first.how old are you? if you have a wetting problum you should talk to your mom and dad.thay well not make you feel bad,thay well try to help.and you well fell better if you talked to some one in person. like tell a close friend,or some one that you have told secerets to in the past.IT WORKED FOR ME!!!

Name: sigh...
Country: Other
Comment:
can anyone give me tips i like just started weting and i dont know if i should tell my parents or what plzzzz help! thanks bye =)

Name: to ...
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
your like really mean and god just..how would you feel if they said that to you? hmm? well i wet the bed but ur mean >

Name: whatever....
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
god!!! people lets stop critizizing eachother!!! and frankly i dont care that people wet the bed!!! so just live life and have fun! ...well bye

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Meggin, How are things going with your girls? Are the 2 oldest ones still teasing their younger bedwetting sister? Do you continue to diaper them at bedtime to? My bedwetter is still wearing the bedwetting pants. Did you ever get them for your bedwetter? Would like to hear if things are going any better? Cheryl

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
To all of you who are 8 yrs and older and claim you love to wet your pants or the bed, I think you have a real problem , and need to get help, and if you parents don;t punish you for this you are very lucky. Meggin

Name: wet in kodiak alaska
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
can any body give me any bed weting tips i feel so alone like im the only one that wets.what do i do?rmondocota@aol

Name: Madhurjya
Country: India
Comment:
Could you tell me exactly where the Nite-Watch bedwetting alarm in Delhi is available?

Name: wetter
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
does any feel like me? im 18 and feel bad that i wet one more time

Name: jennifer
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
to michael radcliffe why are you thirteen and sill wet the bed and you should where diapers and i'm thirteen and don't do that

Name: help! in kodiak alaska
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
im 18 and an only child,and i alway think of how itd be if i had a bro,or sis.so lots of the time i cry my self to sleep and when that happens i always wet heavy.so you kids out ther with bros & sis,s be nice to them,even if they wet the bed.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Helen, Why do you leave plastic pants out? They should be taken out only when needed. I guess it's okay, but explain a little more.

Name: Helen
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
Hi Cheryl I've tried a simlier punishment of leaving plastic pants out for my two daughters. So in the satin lingerie drawer is a pair of semi-transpaernet plastic pants. The only problem is I caught one of them wearing a pair of plastic pants without anything underneath. Is this a concern or should I just leave it.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Cheryl, I forgot to tell you that when the grils tease thier sister, we took yoursuggestion, and they have to show thier sister that they are wearing diapers and plastic pants, before they get ashowere and change and get ready for school. This is hioefully to remind them that they shouldn't tease thier lil sis. Cordially, Meggin

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Cheryl, HI HI thank you for your suggestion for bedwetter pants for our youngest girl. Also, our oldest one in addition to everyhing else also gets a spanking before she is put in diapers at bedtime for teasing her lil sis.This seems to be the only way to get the point across to her, not to tease her sister. We also told her that if she repeats this behavior, she will also get a another spanking in the morning before school for teasing, each time this happens. Wish us luck. Meggin.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Cheryl, HI HI thank you for your suggestion for bedwetter pants for our youngest girl. Also, our oldest one in addition to everyhing else also gets a spanking before she is put in diapers at bedtime for teasing her lil sis.This seems to be the only way to get the point across to her, not to tease her sister. We also told her that if she repats this behavior, she will also get a antoehr spanking in the morning before school for teasing, ach time this happens. Wish us luck. Meggin.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Meggin, It seems like it might be helping. You might try talking to her when she has the diapers and plastic pants on, doing that may help you make a point. For the bedwetter you might try Motherease bedwetter pants. I use these and they are a well lined pants, absorb a lot and the child can pull on and off themselves and can pull them down if they wake up to go at night.

Name: To Cheryl of Canada
Country: Canada
Comment:
Dear Cheryl, Hi I read your reply. We alrady do what you suggested , only in addition the girls have to bring everything needed over to us from thier dresser. The younger one has not misbehaved again since a few weeks ago, her older sis sems to be the one who keeps on teaing thier lil sis. Hopefully she will get the message soon,andhopefully they wil both learn eventually from tha not to tease their lilttle sister. this is the only thing, so far that has worked. Cordially, Meggin.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Try using the diapers and plastic pants for bedtimes only. If they tease their sister tell them that they will be in diapers and plastic pants for bed tonite. When bedtime comes take her to her room and take the diapers and plastic pants off the dresser and sit on her bed, tell her to get undressed and while she is doing that you take and fold the diaper and get it ready for her to wear put it on the bed. Take the plastic pants open them up, shake them out and put them at the foot of the bed ready to be put on. Do this while she watches. Have her lay down on the bed and diaper her then put the plastic pants on. Do the same with the other sister as well. Let them see you getting the diapers and plastic pants ready for them to wear. Maybe you already do something like this. Try not to overdo it to much.

Name: to Cheryl of Canada
Country: Canada
Comment:
Dear Cherly, Hi , We have sat the girls down may times and explained everyting to them and talked to them about thier lil sis's problem. To updat eyou on thins our oldest girl promised not to tease her lil i=sis again, but after 3 days, she did it again and was disciplined for this. Toansower your questions as to when the girls get thier diapers put on, It depends on how manay times they ease their lil sis each time, and if they keepit up after they have been told to stop it, it also depens id thye keep repaeting this behavior. The last time they did this, they were chnaged into thier diapers right after school, as they had been unrelenting u=in teasing thier lil sis, and earned one week in them including all weekend until the following Monday. If they have earned them right after school , though they may go to the tolilet first before getting thier dides put on. I don;t like to do this , but this seems to be working better than anything else we have tried, and we were at our wits end for months before trying this. I wil keep uyou updated with our sucess. Talk to you soon, Cordially, Meggin.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Meggin, Looks like the older ones are getting the idea not to tease the younger one about her bedwetting. It's a good idea to talk with them explaining that their sister can't help bedwetting and the diapers and plastic pants keep her comfortable and the bed dry until she outgrows it. Where do the older ones get their diapers and plstic pants put on? is it done just before they get into bed?

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Dear Cheryl, Hello, thank you for your idea. we have placed everything needed on the girl' s dressers whe they can see them to remind them that they will be used if needed. we also tried talking to our oldest daughter, and proppsed what you said. She said shw would think about promising to do this. Until she promises , though the next time she steases her lil sis she will defenitely be back in diapers, and as she was previously told each time she teases her lil sis, her time in diapers at night will aotuomaticall y be extended a few days wach time she teases her or makes fun of her again. We are hoping that she will pronise not to tease her anymore, but we wait and see , when we sak her again in a few days. wish us luck. Cordially, Meggin We will see if she she continues to tease her sister or not.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Meggin, You may be getting somewhere as your younger one has not repeated. I would keep the diapers and plastic pants somewhere where she can see them and be reminded of what happens when she teases her sister perhaps a dresser drawer. Make a point to the older one that ther sister stopped teasing and is not wearing diapers and plastic pants to bed anymore. Ask her to promise you that she won't tease anymore and you will let her sleep in only her pj's, but like the other one keep the diapers and plastic pants in a place where she can see them and be reminded. Try backing away from it for a while.

Name: To Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Dear Cherly , Hi again, I forogt to tell you that we decided to use cloth pin on diapers, like thier sister wears. to empasize to them what it feels like to be wet, when one cannot help it. Also the girls had to put on thier pj's over their diapers and plastic pants , but when they are disciplined for teasing thier lil si this way , they have to show her and thier daddy that they have thier diapers and plastic panties on under thier pj's, this also helps their dispciline to be effetive , too. Ps they bopth know and were also told that if they keep up thier teasing of thier sis that in the future as proviously mentoiined that they will be in diapers each time this happens they will be in diapers right after they come hoime form school until the next morning, and in anddition from Fridrday right after school unitl the following Monday morning after breakfast, to emphassixe thier very babyish behavior . Again, fi anyone has any mor esuggestions, please let us know, ok? Thank you agin verymuch! cordially, Meggin.

Name: to Cheryl of canada
Country: Canada
Comment:
Dear Cheryl, Hi . thnak you for the advvice. we do dipaer our lil one who has a bedwetting problem in private already. We tried what you suggested in your last posty, but both girls still protested having to waser platic panties to bed. so we sat them dwon again, and explained to them that theasing thier lil si for bedwettin is a very serious thing and is not funny (especially as when she is wet and wakes up she is vry embarrassed and cries about this, evne though she knows it is not her fault. We toldthem that this behavior is not going to be toleaerted any longer.We warned them that if it keprt up the next time it happened that euthter one or both of them would get an immediate spanking and would beput in pin on diapers and plastic pants, and that thye would have to wear thme to bed for 3 days, each time this happens. We aslo told them that they would have to show thier lil sis and thier daddy thier didies and plasitc panties, before they went to bed. we also showed them everything needed for this, and told them that if they do not tease thier sister anymore that this wil not happen.we asked thme if thye understood they said yes, but a few days later , they tesed thier lil sis again. They each got an immediate spanking and had to go to bed in diapers and plastic pans for 3 nights. Unofrtuntaely this seems to be the the most effective form of discpling and getting the point across to them as to not tease thier lil sis, as when they are in diapers and are wet they know how she feels. It semms to be working so far, as the youhnger of them has not rpaeted this misbehavior, and her older sis has only repated it once so far. What do you think of this solution so far? If anyone has any other suggestions for how to heffctively handle a sibling who teases a bedwetter, any adivce would be greatly appreciated, as we have tried just a bout everthing else and nothing else has worked. if so Please Help. Thank you again erymuch! cordially, Meggin.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
Comment:
Meggin, I'm sorry the plastic pants are not working for you. What I did was I would wait until just before the oldest girl went to bed for the plastic pants. If the girls don't want to put them on then you put them on for them. There were a couple of times that I had to put the plastic pants on my daughter as she refused to do it herself. I would simply tell her that her teasing her sister about her bedwetting was not going to be allowed and that she was going to have plastic pants on to. I don't know if this will help as I think you may have to back off for awhile. Try diapering the bedwetter just before she gets into bed, that way it will all be private. Might help.

Name: connor
Country: Canada
Comment:
i can't stop peeing the bed

Name: from Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Dear Cheryl of Cananda, Hello, I read your reply to my question about our girls teasing their lil sister for wetting the bed and having accidents. Thenks for tip. I took your adivce and did what you suggested, the only porblem is it worked for a while, then they started teasing thier lil sis again, and when they wre told tolto get thier plastic panties out at beditme , they told "No to make thema nd protestested until we made them put them on before they went to bed. So thier Dad and I sat down and talked , and we diecided that we would sit both girlsdown adn talk to them and warn them about contining to do this to thier lisl sis, and that if they kept it upwhenever they repated this behavior they would each be changed into diapers and plastic pants (we use cloth dipaers pin -on ones and platic panties as we now have 5 girls 2 new twin girls,) thier younger sis and them and plasitc panties wheas soon as they come home frorm school until the next morning, with the 1st offense eaerning them 3 days in diapers to start, and eah time the misbehavior occurs more time will be added to the time which they have to spnd in diapers. also, they get cnaged before bed, but they are not changed again , or do not get out of diapers until the next morning after breakfast, then they must get a shower and get ready for school. If they are in didscipline on a Friday or over the weekend they are in ddiscipline 24/7 from Friday after school until the following Monday morning, and if at home they can only weear a tee shirt and diapers, they also cannot have any firneds over when in ddiscipline, but if we go out they cna wear rregular cltoes over thier didies and plastic panites, so as to proeserve thier dignity and privacy,also this way their punishment is kept just between them and us. We have found that this semms to be more effective in helping them to stop teasing thier lil sister, esp as they know when in discipline what it is like to feel wet and uncomforatable, we will see how this works, what do you think of this? do you have any other suggesestions istead of this? Or does anoyne else?have any suggestions as to how to handle this we would rally appreciate it. Thank you very much, again. Cordially, Meggin

Name: Ashlee
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
hi i am ashlee and i am 13 3/4 yrs and i have a bed wetting problem and i dont know how to stop its hard for me because i get teased and i try not to tell anyone of my problems so they wont make fun of me if you can help please contact me

Name: Ellen
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Hi I'm 15 I don't wet the bed but my little sister does. She's six years old and wears diapers night and day. She is very shy and gets teased at school. When girls come round to play they tease her for having a binky and a baby blanket. She also is scared of babysitters cause she has to tell them about the diapers. Is there any thing I can do to help her????? She's soooo cute and her name's Lilly

Name: Lisa
Country: India
Comment:
I am from arizona. my nine yr old boy is peeing the bed off and on and I am just wondering that if it has alot to do with the upset around the house

Name: ryan
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
im desperate peoples. ok im 12 and wet the bed at night. my mom says "oh dont worry u'll get over that problem in a few days." but its not true i've been wetting the bed for years now. i told her about maybe a diaper or something but she wont do that because "it will end in a few days" yea right i need someone to send me a pack im dessprate

Name: Jennifer
Country: germany
Comment:
Emily I'm 14 and I wear diapers to bed too. It's embarassing but I don't know what to do either. I just let her put the diapers on me at night.

Name: james
Country: canada
Comment:
hi i think this is so funny because of some of the storys are so funny i am 10 almost 11 and i wet day and night i were elmo pull ups and when i go to sleep overs only 2 people know, vallyn and kassidy some of this storys are so funny i am wetting wright now!!!

Name: emily
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
i was a bedweter till i was 12 and i stoped and i started to wet agen and my mum has put me stait back in to diapers what do i do

Name: to baby j
Country: usa
Comment:
hi iam aaron can you get me some extra large diapers please? thank you

Name: B
Country: india
Comment:
Some kids dont respond to cures just put them in diapers wen they sleep and wait

Name: tom
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
hello its not good to know there is more people with the same problem, but it dose help. i have 2 grandsons who wet the bed ( 9 & 11 ) they both wear nappies and plastic pants for bed, and only there bedwetting friends know of this, its not a big deal they have never been out of night nappies. you can get terry nappies and plastic pants from drylife uk to fit any child or adult and they do save you a lot of money on the washing up and beds . hope you all get dry soon.

Name: some one
Country: usa
Comment:
hi in the last couple years i have been stressed i dont have parents ne more and wet the bed i need diapers but am embarrassed to ask or wear them what should i do

Name: Cheryl
Country: canada
Comment:
Meggin, I had the same problem with my oldest teasing her younger sister who wore diapers and plastic pants to bed for bedwetting. Finally I had enough and one day I was ordering new plastic pants for my youngest and on a lark I also ordered a pair in a size to fit the older sister. When they came I told her they were to be put in her drawer with her panties and that if I caught her teasing her younger sister that she to was going to wear plastic pants to bed for a few nights. Not to long after that I caught her teasing her sister who had just been put in diapers and plastic pants for bedtime. I took her to her room and had her get the plastic pants out of her drawer and put them over her panties and told her she to had to wear them to bed for the next 4 nights. Each night at bedtime she had to show her father and I that she had the plastic pants on when she was getting into bed. We did this about 5 times and she stopped teasing. In the morning we also made her show her younger sister that she was wearing them.

Name: Jennifer
Country: germany
Comment:
I'm 14 and from the US. I'm doing a church exchange in Germany for 1 yr living with a host family. Well I started wetting the bed soon after I got here and now my host "mom" is making me wear diapers to bed.

Name: ww
Country: usa
Comment:
i used to wet my bed but have not for years and my mom still makes me wear nappies and plastic pants and i just started wetting again and mom spanks me with a ping pong paddle if im wet then makes me wear anothor one for the rest of the day in 12

Name: Meggin
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
Hello, We have 3 girls 2 of whom constantly tease thier younger sister who wets the bed and needs to wear diapers and plastic pants at night. We have tried everything, including spankings,but nothing so far has worked. We were wonderiong does anyone else have this problem, and if so how do you handle it, possibly if they are put bck in diapers,at night, too for this it may help them to stop this horrible behavior? any suggestions would realy be appreciated. Thank you very much.

Name: jack
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
i am desperate to wear dippers to bed but i am to scared to do it incase my brother or dad find out plz plz help me someone they sound so good

Name: minfant
Country: usa
Comment:
I am a 15 year-old girl, I wear diapers for bedwetting, I like to feel like a little girl of about 2 years, I really like the baby thing, I love bottles and pacifiers, And Baby-clothes...Anything Baby turns me on. Mary

Name: Shaun
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
Hi im shaun I still wet the bed and wet my pants at school. So I have been put into a nappy and im only 11 at that age I should NOT be wetting the bed I get teased at school by all my freinds.

Name: diapers for life
Country: usa
Comment:
i'm 15 and everynight i wet the bed.my mom changes me and lets drink out of a bottle before bed. (love it). when i go to friends houses i make them wear a diaper and i put in on them i'm a guy and so are they. they really like it.

Name: matty
Country: canada
Comment:
I'm thirteen and i don't have to but wwhen I go my friends house we play truth or dare and I'm always to wear a goddnite pullup

Name: mprloo1
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
i have a 3 year old son and for a while he did not wee the bed but now he wees the bed and he always wees himself during the day time. what can i do to prevent this and how do i stop the bed wetting

Name: pamper
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
i still wear nappies to bed and all the time bcaues i wet my sefl if i do not i like huggies superfix the best nappies are the best they are better than pull up

Name: jhon
Country: india
Comment:
i whet the bed i haved tried every thing no i just were nappys is ther eney sites that do bigger nappys

Name: HELP
Country: india
Comment:
I'VE WET THE BED AGIN AND I HATE IT CAN SOME WON HELP!

Name: HELP
Country: india
Comment:
amanda help i wet the stared to wet the bed last year and i hadent stopet i need help plz. im 11

Name: amanda
Country: canada
Comment:
Spankings are always a good try for older children that wet. Most I have found stop after 3 or 4.

Name: ling
Country: japan
Comment:
hi i'm 19 years old and i still wet the bed i don't like it.someone plz HELP

Name: concerned medico
Country: australia
Comment:
Difficult problem. The picture I'm getting is of a girl who's never dry and never has been dry, despite her age. Am I correct? If so, there may be an anatomical problem with her 'plumbing', so to speak - one of the ureters (the tube from kidney to bladder) may be 'plugged into' the wrong place, not her bladder, and dripping urine directly into the vaginal entrance, for instance. On the other hand, if she's dry during the day for at least some of the time, can hold a bladderfull for a while and pass it, that's a different matter. She may have some sort of bladder instability problem. Of more concern are the psychological issues; has there been, or is there ongoing, some sort of family trouble or stress (divorce, bereavement etc)? The most frightening possibility is that she is being/has been abused, and is "infantilizing" herself to make herself 'less of a target'. I'd be off to a specialist paediatrician with her and get the medical things excluded first - sometimes surgery is called for - and then attend to potential psychological problems. She's clearly 'adjusted' to wearing nappies; maybe there IS a medical problem and she's too scared to talk to you about why she's wetting at school, doesn't dare wear nappies there in case she's teased, but is comfortable to wear them at home so she doesn't make a mess everywhere. > Name: Jennifer > Country: united kingdom > Comment: > My 7 year old daughter is still a baby and wets her pants at school. She insists me to changer her nappy on the changing mat into 3 terry nappies with the baby pins. She is not ashamed of them and likes to wear them in the house. We originally bouht them for her to use because of her bedwetting and now she wants them as well. Anyone suggest any solutions ?

Name: Chris
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
I like Pooing and Weeing myself in bed because i like the feeling. somtimes, when im wearing my triple diaper, the poo sqwidges up and ends up in my mouth. please help me. i havent got any friendsbecause one day, they saw me wearing my extra large diaper (i have to wear this because it gets filled up so much during the day. when i get home. my mother makes me eat it for being a bad boy. Also i wear my mums bra and fill it up with tissue so it looks like i have man boobs.e-mail me to give me help on how to stop pooing when i dont want to: Chris-Wakeling@hotmail.co.uk and please tell me how to stop.

Name: rach
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
i am eleven and i have never wet the bed but my uncle dis until he was 11

Name: To Irene from England
Country: australia
Comment:
Re: your eight year old who wets monstrous amounts at night. Have you had her seen by a doctor to exclude medical causes of polyuria (lots of urine), MOST particularly Diabetes (as she will require insulin), but potentially also problems with the pituitary gland in her brain (rare tumours; even rarer lack-of-function syndromes). If she's producing vast amounts of urine quickly, all the best intentions in the world may not be enough to keep her pants dry; My guess is that her wish for a daytime nappy when she can get away with it (weekends) is probably motivated by fear of wetting, and it must be pretty bad if she's willing to go back into nappies. Exclude the medical causes first; then and only then start looking at psychology (stress, divorce, bullying, or - God forbid - abuse?).

Name: mini
Country: india
Comment:
my son also in deep sleep during the night, if i don't wake him up he wet the bed, is any body ever try bed weting alaram if yes, i want to know if its work. if u guys can help me out

Name: Amrita
Country: india
Comment:
Dotors tell this is common n no medication can help... it will heel on its own.. my son will soon be 4yrs ..if i dont take him midnight to toilet he wets n doesnt realise ... can u help n tell me how long will it continue

Name: Samantha
Country: usa
Comment:
Layla, No poo problems in our house only bedwetting.

Name: layla
Country: india
Comment:
Samantha, Yes my daughter went through a phase recently of not wanting to be nappied and we had battles at bedtime. I started to put her nappy on sooner and just kept telling her that 'when she stops wetting the bed then she can stop wearing a nappy' Does your daughter go poo in her nappy?

Name: Samantha
Country: usa
Comment:
Layla, My daughter has also always wet at night as did an older sister who no longer wets as did their mother until age 12. My daughter gets herself ready for bed although she was able to get the idea of the pins pretty soon it took awhile to get the idea that the plastic panties have to cover the diaper completely to keep from wicking into the bed clothes. She gets heself ready in the hour before bedtime. Usually her sister and I will sit at the table with her and we play a board game or just talk or read or watch TV. AT bedtime she gives all a hug and a kiss and she's off to bed. In the morning she removes the diaper washes the plastic panty hangs it on the line in the wash room, showers gets dressed and off to school. Does your daughter ever object to diapers and plastic pants? Samantha

Name: layla
Country: india
Comment:
Hi Samantha, My Daughter has more or less always wet, occasionally going a few nights without wetting.Untill recently I have Nappied her at bedtime as she had difficulty in fastening the Nappy so it would stay in place, however recently she has managed this herself. She has removes the wet nappy herself each morning and puts it in the bucket and rinses the plastic pants herself except when she has done a poo poo and I help her to change then- this avoids gettin a mess anywhere else and also I get to see how much she has done and if she is very sore etc. Do you get your Daughter ready and does she wet or poo or both? Layla

Name: Samantha
Country: usa
Comment:
Layla My daughter is the same age as your 8. Has your daughter always wet or did she stop and start again later? Also do you get your daughter ready for bed or does she do it?

Name: layla
Country: india
Comment:
Samantha, The terrys work fine -however We put an additional soaker pad inside the terry,this is very effective and we dont usually have any leaks. How old is your bedwetter? Layla

Name: Samantha
Country: usa
Comment:
Layla, Do the terrys work well for her bedwetting or do you need to use a double diaper. I've been thinking about getting terry's.

Name: layla
Country: india
Comment:
to samantha and debi, My 8 yr old daughter still wears terrys and plastic pants in bed,I buy a sise that fit so they are fitting her legs without making red marks there are some available with wider elastic - getting this right prevents leaks. When she is having poo problems and is sore from straining to relieve constipation she withholds untill she is less sore and often does a poo in her nappy.At these times we use the sort with thin elastic and a smaller sise so they fit very tight around her legs to contain the amount she does. Layla

Name: Dain
Country: canada
Comment:
I like to wear Pampers and sometimes Huggies, i also like to use a onesie some days...

Name: jamesbur2
Country: usa
Comment:
i would just use plasic pants with a diapper that help you stop wetting the bed

Name: Samantha
Country: usa
Comment:
Debi, Perhaps the plastic pants are the wrong size and to small for her. They might be hurting her. I would say that you are on the right track. I to have a bedwetter and wears the same things your daughter does and is wet most mornings.

Name: sam
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
i always dream about me wearing nappys and a teacher changing me and that i have to sit in a potty do you know where i could get 1 nappy that will fit me what shall i do and i come from london

Name: Debbi Casper
Country: usa
Comment:
Tammy, our only child is 6 now. She is wet 5 out of 7 nights a week. Using disposable diapers she was wet 7 out of 7 nights. Using thick training pants and a pair of plastic pants over the top seems to be the only solution for real progress for her wetting problem. At bedtime, everything goes well until I get the plastic pants out of her dresser and she sees them. I feel so bad as she pleads with me " No Mommy, no plastic pants! The plastic pants are the only thing keeping her bed dry at night.Am I on the right track for my daughter?

Name: the king
Country: australia
Comment:
hello i started weting the bed again after a few years now i have a king size bed that stinks cos i did not tell my mum but i told her yesterday cos it stank.What would you think be better dry nights or a alarm thing plz tell me (im a 11 year old boy to) PLZ HELP!

Name: whaaa
Country: australia
Comment:
hello im 11 i wet the bed a fem months ago and now i did it again 2 times in a row its so bad luke i have a giant bed that takes forever to dry.My mate luke bed wets all the time to and has a alarm thing it so loud if i wet the bed again i hope i dont get an alarm thing....................im a boy to

Name: emmbarrased
Country: usa
Comment:
im 12. and then i just started soiling and wetting my pants and bed. I haven told my parents yet. I buy myself diapers. Once at school i accidentally soiled my diaper and that time i had an upset stomach. i burst into tears. i said i was sorry. Then i accidentally fell i was so emmbarrased because i also got it on the floor when i fell. i ran out the classroom and hid myself in a bathroom stall. That was the most emmbaraing moment of my life!!! I just dont feel it comming when i have to go. At night i always wet my bed and sometimes soil it. I dont why this happened. It started when i turned 12. e-mail me at emmanueldc878@hotmail

Name: nobody
Country: canada
Comment:
this is an interesting article

Name: Philip
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
hi it is me sume one repli abut my pull up nappies probulum

Name: Philip
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
i am 13 and i poo and wee in nappys [estra large huggies pull ups]it is so embarsing at home my mum changis me, at ferist i wore nappies with out telling my mum but she fowund out ta school [ i go to a speshule school] the teach will not chang me and i strugule on my wthen it happunds sometimes all the poo squishis up my bumb and it is reaerle hard to wipe my sellf at school with out my mum to wipe me also when i cume bach today with out thinhing i sat down nest to a populer gierl and she seid er i have ot sit nest to a boy hwoo has [pooed him sellf] everone tesis me plese help

Name: 12 year old
Country: usa
Comment:
Hi i'm 12 and i do not wet the bed that much i wet about 2 times a month and i do not were good nights because i'm a big girl not a baby and my friends make fun of me plese help.

Name: john
Country: india
Comment:
i started weting the bed so my mom got me some pampers nappies ond di i cam home from school and told me to get undreest and she put me in to a pampers nappie and evry day i get home now she puts one on what do i do

Name: patsy 322@aol.com Or Sgfesta102@aol.com
Country: usa
Comment:
hey im steve im 13 i wet teh bed it has just started recieanlet i told my step dad and he bought me diapers and im looking into rubber pants. the diapers i have arent that absorbant ant they leek alot because i pee alot i love wearing diapers because i feel like a baby. i love being a baby so much he buys me bottles, pasafires, bibs and baby pajamas he even gives me a baths like a baby all the time espeial when i poop my pants and i wipe it all over my crib an me (i got a personal king sized crib). he wats o bring meto docter to see if i have an infection if so it can be treated with meds thats not good i love to be a baby nd ee in my pants. see ya around babys

Name: hunter
Country: Other
Comment:
I have a couzin and wets the bed

Name: john murphy
Country: usa
Comment:
i live in scocth plain new jersey and im 11 years old i go to park milldle school and pea in the bed everday

Name: akgirltx
Country: usa
Comment:
My 9 year old wets the bed, and keeps it a secret, and this may sound weird, but the other two chilred are getting in trouble for things that she does. Also, I think this is a very big sanitation problem (sheets, clothes, mattresses) since she doesn't tell us about it. I have no clue what to do or where to go.Please e-mail me at lnbtexas@hotmail.com

Name: no one
Country: usa
Comment:
Iam 13 i dont wear a diaper to bed but I wet the bed. i DONT tell my parents enless i wet 2 to 3 times at night. I seen a comerichal on tv about Pull-up Goodnite Underpant so I might ask my parents to buy me them. what do i do.

Name: kaleb
Country: usa
Comment:
I love to pee in diapers and poop in them to if you would like to takl to me go to yahoo.com and get messeneger. tammymullens @ yahoo.com

Name: william
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
hi im will i have a bedwetting problem and i havent told my parents cause they will take me to the doctors and all i want is a diaper to help me were do i get them low price to fit a 13 year old without my parents nowing (im not on this website a lot so please email an answer to my problem i was be most gratefull, my email adress is gunnerfan0506@aol.com thanks)

Name: peter
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
I like to wear pampers,i buy my pampers by my self and later on i poo and wee.

Name: anuatamus
Country: malaysia
Comment:
my bed wets are so bad my mother makes me wear a diaper and a tampon to bed:(

Name: anuaumus
Country: Other
Comment:
the pantyliners i wear to bed are at least a inch thick.i may be a night blatter leaker but thats just uncorfortable

Name: monika
Country: canada
Comment:
hi im monika i wet the bed and i pee in my pants i dont wear diapers because im to skared to tell my mom every day i come home from schoolmy pants are allways wet.

Name: jacuilene
Country: india
Comment:
i dont know what to do i wet the bed and i pee my pants i have daipers and im 11 my bladder gets rashes and i cant stop im gonna use good nights.

Name: Big Baby
Country: usa
Comment:
When i was a child, i got whipped for wetting. It didn't help. I'm 50 now and still wet. By brother wet as well. My mom made us sleep together, so the bed was always soaked. She thought that if we were made to sleep in it, it would make us stop. We had to leave the blanket down during for the bed to dry, then at night, back into the stinky bed to do it all over again. That lasted through my teenage years until i left home. i have wet the bed in hotels, at relatives, in a sister's chair once when i fell asleep. I sometimes wake while i'm wetting, but usually i just wake up cold and soaked. Tried alarms, no fluids after 5:00 pm, you name it. Nothing helps. I am too ashamed to go to the store and buy diapers, so i just live with it. The place always smells like stale peepee, so no company. The shame is incredible at times. The actual wetting part no longer bothers me too much, but the feeling of being a failure and of not being mature enough to grow up are something else.

Name: yes all 4 were me..
Country: usa
Comment:
ok if yur still confused there are 2 final options.. when your depressed(mentally) often times your muscles relax so long they lose their stregth.. a anti-dpressant pill should work. if your a parent sometimes the only option is agression DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT BEAT YOUR CHILD!!! POSITIVE REINFORCEMENTS OR SPANKING WITH LOUD NOISE WILL USAULLY WORK(CUSSING COULD BE WORSE THAN DAIPERS) IF ANY OF MY COMMENTS MOVED U AN ANY WAY PLEASE SEND AN "E-M@IL" TO HYPERDYNE@NETSCAPE.COM (IF IT DOESNT GET SENT I MAY HAVE SPELL ED THE "y" WRONG TY

Name: for mothers in difficulty
Country: india
Comment:
change their daipers once in an isolated area(some people) in school. garanteed stop.

Name: if u wish to quickly lose craving
Country: germany
Comment:
if u wish to quickly lose the want for girls or daipers simply look up female anatomy on google.. quit skirting around it and it won't cause u pain!

Name: ONE MORE THING
Country: japan
Comment:
FOR THOSE THAT TRULY WANT TO LOSE INCONTENENCE TRY HOLDING JUST THE TINEIST BIT OVER THE PTTI LIKE LEEK A LITTLE WITH YUR BTT. THATS A SUREFIRE WHY FOR PLEASURABLE RECOVERY! (BOWS AND SILENTLY FARTS)

Name: THE TRUTH
Country: usa
Comment:
YOU GUYS ARE INCREDIBLY LUCKY PEOPLE. B4 I CAME TO THIS SITE I INTENDED TO POTTY TRAIN MY CHILD(nr) OMG WTTING A DAIPER IS THE BEST OPTION.. BE GLAD! GUYS LOVE IT (I AM)AND YOU DONT HAVE TO RUN TO THE BATHROOM WHEN U WAKE UP YOU CAN HAVE ORGASMS.. I THINK WE SHOULD ALL STAY IN DAIPERS.. MAKE IT LAST AND BESIDES.. WHEN YOU GET JUST AS OLD AS FORTY YOU HAVE TO GO BACK TO THEM WETHER U WANT TO OR NOT! STIK WITHIT

Name: Jennifer
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
My 7 year old daughter is still a baby and wets her pants at school. She insists me to changer her nappy on the changing mat into 3 terry nappies with the baby pins. She is not ashamed of them and likes to wear them in the house. We originally bouht them for her to use because of her bedwetting and now she wants them as well. Anyone suggest any solutions ?

Name: nappy boy
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
i have to nappies i hate it. my mum changes me anywhere

Name: lls
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
my son is 13 and wets the bed it is a problem and should not be made fun of,he has bladder problems you who make fun ought to be ashamed of yourselves!remeber what comes around goes around and one day you could have a child with the same thing

Name: tarry
Country: usa
Comment:
Im 14 years old and still wear diappers , I sometimes do when just seeing tv, with not knowing that I wet my pants.

Name: jordan
Country: usa
Comment:
Hi my name is jordan i'm 9 years old and i weet my bed and i weared dipers everevey night people call me bed weeter what shouid do?

Name: cj
Country: usa
Comment:
hellow my name is cj i keep weeten my bed so my dad tells me to put pullups and i try not to do it but i just can't stop.

Name: David
Country: canada
Comment:
For those aged 8 and over that think if fun to wear diapers and pee an dpoop in them, you are lucky Iam not your father. A good lesson with the leather strap at to your age example at 10 I would give you 10 on each side of your bare little bottom and every time you thought about it you would get more . You would soon learn.

Name: Barry
Country: usa
Comment:
I been a bed wetter all my life i wear cloth diapers and rubber panties for this the only thing that works for me and will still wear me 49 it helps me dont care what other people thick or feel i enjoy it.

Name: Rachelle
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
Recently I caught my 8 year old daughter wearing nappie secretly. Her bedwetting stopped about 7 months ago so she wore normal panties to bed. Prior to that we had to buy lots of terry nappies for older children (bigger and thicker like the Zorbit Babycare stuff) and plastic panties. Even now I make her wear them on large car trios- but it's rare. Back to the story... half of the stuff were new so I packed them carefull and hid them ontop of her wardrobe. Nearly every single night, I caught her WEARING HER NAPPIES SECRETLY when she could esp. at bedtime. She folded 2 or 3 and slip them under her with pins. Although i haven't said anything yet, she even wore them with plastic pants over her knickers to schol But her long skirt concealed most of it. Is it normal for childre to not outgrow babyhood and regress into the protection of nappies and plastic pants ?

Name: thomas rayment
Country: hungary
Comment:
hi i have bed wetting problems. i am 12 and i wet the bed every night. one night i wet my bed and i was upset so i went into my parents bed and accidently wet thier bed too i wear nappies now but one night i ran out and i didnt wet myself i pooed myself.

Name: help me:(
Country: usa
Comment:
I am 12 turing 13 and i still wet the bed i wear good nights to sleep but sometimes it leaks through i dont want to go to a doc about it bc im embarrssed is there anyting I can do i dont tell anyone at all

Name: sara
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
i have a 8 year old daughter who wears nappies because she dosent like wearing her knickers she wont go to bed until she has a bottle of milk her dummy and a nappie on . We have to bribe her with sweets an other items to wear knickers to school an during the day at weekends, she comes home from school at 3 in the afternoon has dinner then at 6.30pm she calls mummy bed time she go an gets her pj's pulls down her knickers lays on the changing mat on her bedroom floor that we use for her younger sisters an then asks to be powdered with baby powder before i put her nappy on she also wets at nite time and 3or4 times a day we have tried every trick in the book but she aint having none of it how can we stop this.

Name: Jenny
Country: australia
Comment:
I'm almost 9 and I still wet the bed. Mum put these large towelling nappies, probably about 30 and pink safety pins on my bed and said they were for me. She changes me and folds 3 nappies and puts plastic pants on me. I wee my nappies every morning. But I love them and have been wearing them secretly to school- for 3 days now under my skirt- no one has found out. Mum dosen't know.

Name: THOMAS
Country: usa
Comment:
MY SON IS NINE YEARS OLD AND HAS NEVER HAD A DRY NIGHT. HE HAS WORN CLOTH DIAPERS AND PLASTIC PANTS ALL HIS LIFE. I TOOK OVER THE JOB OF GETTING HIM READY FOR BED WHEN HE TURNED FIVE. AT THAT TIME I LET HIM KNOW THAT I TOO HAD BEEN A NIGHTLY BEDWETTER AND GRANDMOM KEPT ME IN DIAPERS AT NIGHT. THIS CREATED A BOND AND IT GIVES US A SPECIAL TIME EACH NIGHT TO TALK OR READ A STORY. I ASKED HIM IF HE WANTED TO BE TAUGHT TO DIAPER HIMSELF AND HE SAID NO. I TOLD HIM I DIDN'T DIAPER MYSELF UNTIL I WAS 15 SO HE HAD PLENTY OF TIME TO LEARN. IF YOU DON'T MAKE A BIG DEAL ABOUT THE BEDWETTING AND NEED FOR DIAPERS, MOST CHILDREN ACCEPT IT. BELIEVE ME, IT IS ALOT EASIER ON MY WIFE TO NOT HAVE TO DEAL WITH WET SHEETS AND BLANKETS AND IT DOES FEEL ALOT BETTER TO WAKE UP IN A DRY BED ESPECIALLY FOR CHILDREN WHO WET 4 OR 5 TIMES A NIGHT.

Name: Ben
Country: canada
Comment:
Iam 11 and have wet the bed on occasion. Lots of this here is from sicko people. Can't even think of why anyone would like to poop and pee in a diaper. Or moms that go to schools to change a kids diaper. There are pullups and other things that kids can put on themselves.

Name: janelle
Country: australia
Comment:
hi im 13 nearly 14 and i still wet the bed i scared of telling my friends like they will laugh at me behnd my back i need some help i dont know wat to do. and i have a sleep ova party soon at my friends house and no bodys knows that i wet the bed if anyone can help me email me at nellyviney@hotmail.com plz i need your help

Name: Bed wetter til 10
Country: usa
Comment:
I was potty trained at an early age but started to wet the bed around age 4. My parents were frustrated about the bed wetting and after a few visits to the doctor, nothing was found wrong and the doctor said at my age it was not uncommon to have weak baldders and have wetting issues at night. He said I would grow out of it and there were different ways to control it like bedwetting alarms or even diapers. I am a heavy sleeper so the bedwetting alarm was not good for me because by the time I would wake up enough to go to the bathroom, it was too late and the bed would be wet. So my parents tried the pull-ups but the tend to leak so I was put back into a diaper and I wore diapers at night until around age 10. No one made a big deal out of it, I was happy to have a dry bed and a good nights sleep and mom did not have to change sheets all the time just dispose of a wet diaper. Some of my friends knew I wore diapers at night and they were okay with it, there were some baby comments growing up (jokes of me in diapers) but it was no big deal because I knew they were kidding. I don't understand what the big deal is about a diaper. So many people think it is such a bad thing to wear a diaper. Come on people its not a disease, its a diaper. For the person having a wetting problem, it is such a releif no to worry about waking up with wet smelly sheets and have a bed ruined. If parents would get there head out of their a@@, not make a big deal of it, talk to the child first and explain that it is only plastic underwear and put the child in a diaper. I do and will still admit to wearing a diaper until age 10. I had a problem and thats how my family and I chose to deal with the problem. Diapers are not a bad thing as long as they are abused. Now some of these comments on this site of the kid wearing diapers to school and having their moms change their diapers at school is a big joke. No parent is going to do that. That just tells me there are a bunch of perverts spelling out a fantasy of a diaper fetish.

Name: ricky splinter
Country: canada
Comment:
hi nikkki go to the store that sell them and ask for sizw 9 or 10 ok hope this helps

Name: sarah
Country: iran
Comment:
hi.i wet my bedd every night.my mother put me in diaper always.i ashamed of this subject in ront of my family and my friends.i am 19 .

Name: cheyenne rose
Country: usa
Comment:
i wear pullups and i am going to science camp.but am not afrade beacouse i dont care what other peaple think and when i deside to stop weting the bed i will stop weting the bed.i know how it

Name: Yasmine
Country: australia
Comment:
TO THE PEOPLE WHO THINK THERE SO GOOD.I'm a 15 year old girl who is doing an assessment task for my childcare class at school. The assessment task is on bedwetting in children and i find it very rude that people think its funny to make fun of somthing like that.YOUR LIFE MUST BE VERY BORING IF ALL U CAN DO IS RIP PEOPLE OFF THAT HAVE A PROBLEM.

Name: chalotte
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
I am 10 years old and i wear nappies all the time but mum won't let me sleep in my bed she puts me in my travel cot just in my nappy

Name: Lunden
Country: usa
Comment:
Im am 7yrs. old and I wet the bed. I don't know what to do to stop it.

Name: andrew
Country: canada
Comment:
i am 12 and wet the bed what do i do

Name: Dana
Country: usa
Comment:
I'm a 13 year old girl, and I wear disposable diapers nearly all of the time. This because I was born with a birth defect and couldn't control my bladder. It has inproved some during the day, but when I have to pee, I have to go right then. This has led to some embarrassing accidents, but my friends understand, and my teachers know if I raise my hand, they had better let me go so I don't wet myself in class. At night I have no control and wear diapers to bed every night.

Name: anna car
Country: denmark
Comment:
i have a dauhter (11) and refuces to use speach walk or tolietand will only use baby stuff HELP

Name: me!
Country: usa
Comment:
i am 11 years old... i don't wet the bed very often...like i have wet the bed once before but the last time before that i was like 3 years old... i just wet the bed and i don't know how to tell my parents. SOMEONE HELP ME!!!!!!

Name: Grzes
Country: Other
Comment:
hi im boy 12years old and still wet my bed every night and wear diapers but my friends are ok nobody makes fun of me

Name: Nasreen
Country: Other
Comment:
I think it is a shame that a lot of people posting here seem to have a sort of fetish about bedwetting and wearing diapers. I can't believe that these stories about teenagers being forced to wear diapers are true. I think they are posted by perverts. I am 17 and have had this problem all my life but my family are loving and caring people. All my friends know I wet myself in my sleep and they know I can't help it. True friends will never make fun or be cruel about this problem. There is no point trying to hide it and it is nothing to be ashamed about. I would be ashamed if I told lies about people or stole or took drugs but I am not ashamed about wetting in my sleep because I can't help it. Maybe I am lucky to have such a good family and kind friends. Also in Wales you can buy a product called dry-nights pyjama pants in supermarkets. You can get them for ages 10-15 and although I am older than this I am quite slim so they are quite big enough. With these special pants there is no need to wet the bed and you can sleep at friends houses without worrying about it. I also wore when I was doing my GCSE exams just in case. I now have a boyfriend who is the brother of one of my best friends. I was worried when he first asked me out because of my problem but my friend told me not to worry and to tell him, and when I did he said he knew already and he said it didn't matter at all. We have been going out for more than a year. So it is possible to have this problem and still have normal life.

Name: christena
Country: India
Comment:
hi i have a boy and a girl thay are 9 they both are still in pampers and still have big cots i dont no what is going wrong

Name: Baby J
Country: USA
Comment:
Don't think of it in a bad way i have to wear diapers all day and night even at school because i wet so much os just don't think of it linda.

Name: Julie
Country: USA
Comment:
I believe this is a real problem and shouldn't be made fun of. Some of these comments are sad.

Name: Irene
Country: England
Comment:
I have an 8 year old little girl who wets so much at night I have to put two terry nappies on her and two pairs of plastic pants when she goes to bed. No matter what I try, she's soaked in the morning. Sometimes she goes through periods of wanting her nappies during the day at weekends - I think she feels safer in them. What can I do?

Name: Christa
Country: USA
Comment:
Layla, My friends daughter only wets the bed and will wear plastic panties with a nappy underneath during the day if she stays in bed because she is sick and staying home from school and will be in bed sleeping. When she sleeps she is apt to wet and so the nappy and plastic panties will be on her then. Otherwise no as she is fine during the days. Like your daughter her nappy is wet in the morning but so far there have been no leaks and my friends daughter is happy about that as the disposables would often leak. The only thing my friends daughter has said about it all is that the plastic panties crackle when she has them on and walks or moves in her bed. She also now gets her plastic panties and nappy from the closet and brings them to her room when it is time to get ready for bed. So I guess you could say she is getting used to the plastic panties.

Name: Layla
Country: India
Comment:
Hi Christa,Pleased to hear things are going well and your friends daughter is getting used to plastic panties. When my daughter wears plastic panties in the day timeshe does not wear a nappy. sometimes the plastic panties are over her normal panties but usually, like today, she is only wearing plastic panties. This is because she is very constipated and is soiling her panties, the plastic ones prevent her shorts getting soiled with poo.when she has done her poo she will wear normal panties.Her nappy is wet but not soaked unless she has had lots of juice drinks in the evening, It has been more wet than usuall for the last 3 mornings as she is constipated. I put booster pads in her nappy last night as she hadnt been able to do her poo on the toilet again even though she tried and strained for long time so I told her she had to try to get her poo out in her nappy, doing this makes her much more wet. Does your friends daughter wear plastic panties during the day time or is her mom planning to use them daytimes? Layla

Name: Christa
Country: USA
Comment:
Hi Layla,My neighbors daughter seems to have gotten used to the nappy and plastic panties now. My neighbor said that the first time her daughter saw the plastic panties she thought she would just wear them over her panties for bed, her mom had to explain that her panties would not be enough and she needed the extra padding so that the plastic panties would not leak. When it came time for bed the nappy was put in place and pinned the plastic panties were being pulled up and her daughter asked should I wear my panties to? Mom explained that it wasn't necessary. The next morning her daughter came to her and said she felt wet. With the disposable she didn't feel wet. The plastic panties were pulled down the nappy unpinned and she went to take a shower. My neighbor has been checking the diaper in the mornings to see if a booster is needed as with your daughter. Does your daughter usually soak her nappy or only when constipated? Also when your daughter wears her plastic panties during the day do you put a nappy on her or is she just in her panties under the plastic pants. My friends daughter had a very wet nappy the morning after a family party where she got to drink a lot. Also now when the nappy is pinned my friends daughter pulls on her own plastic panties so I guess things are going quite well.

Name: layla
Country: India
Comment:
Hi christa usually its just a longish top like a T shirt. We are used to seeing her in a nappy anyway and she is used to it so no extra effort is made to cover it up. How does your neighbours daughter feel about Plastic Panties ? I ask because sometimes my Daughter wears them as her panties particularly when she is having pooing problems. Layla

Name: Christa
Country: USA
Comment:
Layla, The nappies and plastic panties arrived and are in use. Does your daughter wear pj's over the plastic panties?

Name: jason stevens
Country: USA
Comment:
i am 16 and still wet the bed, and when I do my parents yell at me and sometimes ground me , but i cannot help it someone help me please

Name: Christa
Country: USA
Comment:
Layla, Again showed your thoughts to my neighbor. She is most appreciative of the information you provide. She is dealing only with a bedwetting daughter and so she ordered 4 gauze prefold nappies and 2 pair of plastic panties to start with. Now the nappy goes on somewhere in the half hour before bedtime after her daughter has gone to the toilet, brushed her teeth and so on. Like your daughter she wets every night and if she stays home from school ill and stays in bed and sleeps she also needs to have a nappy on. The nappies and plastic panties she ordered are youth size and should fit for awhile. Who knows how much longer the wetting will go on.

Name: Layla
Country: India
Comment:
Hi Christa, What sort of nappies and plastic panties has your neighbour ordered? My Daughter has always wet the bed and wets every night - hence I use terry towelling nappy and plastic pants. I dont know if you read the earlier posts about my daughter but we also have a little poo problem to deal with also - occasionally my Daughter does this in her nappy also. When I expect her to poo as well IE when she is constipated and hasnt been able to do it on the toilet, she wears plastic pants with the thin leg elastic that is also tighter to prevent the poo squashing out around her legs. When she does this there is so much that it is difficult to keep it contained unless the elastic is very tight.When she is constipated she wets more aswell. You need to ensure you have enough absorbency to cope,this prevents wet leaks. I use different thicknesses and sometimes a booster pad aswell depending on the situation.If its just for wetting i use 1 terry and a booster. This is put on just befor bed. sometimes she has her nappy on earlier and then i will use 2 terrys and a booster,I usually do this when for example she has been sitting on the toilet to do her poo and after a long time of straining cannot produce it,I will then nappy her in the bathroom. Once a nappy is in place it is not removed untill the next morning -hence the greater absorbency.When she hasnt been for a couple of days i put a disposable liner in the nappy aswell and after her sit on the toilet she is nappied but is encouraged to continue trying to poo into her nappy. Layla

Name: Christa
Country: USA
Comment:
Layla,My neighbor was over and I showed her your thoughts and she and I looked through many internet sites for nappies and plastic pants, she made some phone calls and did place an order which should be coming soon. Currently she uses disposables which are getting to be to small. Has your daughter always wetthe bed?

Name: layla
Country: India
Comment:
Hi Christa, What protection does your friend use on her daughter at the moment. I usuually help mine put her protection on - its easier and does help to prevent leaks which dont happen very often. I bought some youth sise nappies and plastic panties there are many suppliers of these on the internet. Sometimes her protection is put on in her bedroom just befor getting into bed others straight after her visit to the toilet

Name: Christa
Country: USA
Comment:
Layla,My neighbor has a 7 soon to be 8 year old daughter who wets the bed and she is interested in using protection like what you use. She wants to know if you help your daughter get ready for bed, how long before bed are the nappies and plastic pants put on and have there been any problems with leaking? Also do you need to get a youth nappy or can you use a baby nappy?Thanks so much. Christa

Name: ....to layla
Country: USA
Comment:
how old is your daughter?

Name: layla
Country: England
Comment:
Hi christa,My daughter doesn't mind wearing plastic panties in bed

Name: Christa
Country: USA
Comment:
Hi Layla and Jeannine,I agree with diapers on 4 year olds and younger at bedtime, I to have seen it many times over the years. The mom's were strict and they used diapers to help with the odd accidents. The summers I worked for this mom I remember many times seeing the kids in the evenings with the padded and rubber pants on. Layla, does your daughter mind the plastic panties for bed?

Name: mick
Country: England
Comment:
hi i was a bed wetter till i was 17 im now 34 no problems i had an xray on my back for back pain and was told i had signsof previous scheuermanns diesease i had now back problem or any other health problems as a child but its a disorder in the spine and iv now found outr on the net that it can cause wetting problems if id have had an xray as achild would thay have found my wetting problem idont know but i now how hard it was 4 me so go get checked out it could be the ansure my son is 12 he wettes the bed and inlight of my findings im having his lower back xrayed it could give him better qualaty of life now and in futuer hope this helps all the best i now wat its like been there mick....

Name: Greg
Country: USA
Comment:
Hey i am 13 and i wet the bed and it is so humiliating my friends would make fun of me but i dont tell them i cant stop i hate it

Name: Jeannine
Country: USA
Comment:
Hi once again Christa and Layla. I'm not all surprised for after i got married we were living in a quiet little neighbourhood and i remember a couple of times a week that our neighbour (during the warm months of the year), would bring a round laundry basket full of diapers and rubber pants outside early in the morning and pin them up on her outdoor washline while the whole time holding a long filter tipped cigarette in her mouth. I remember seeing her two older toddlers maybe around the age of 2-1/2 and 3-1/2 years of age wearing only puffy white rubber pants displaying the tell-tale outline of thickly padded diapers underneath. Most babies do have to wear diapers for a time after daytime training has been completed and chances are good, if the mother is strict, old-fashioned, or just a "no fuss" kind of caregiver, everyone under the age of 4 years will be diapered for bed. I have come across it a lot over the years.

Name: Christa
Country: USA
Comment:
Hello Jeannine and LaylaI understand that it is not unusual to have a bedwetter and to have the child wear protection to bed as is Layla's case. I remember at the time thatI was suprised I guess you could call it at the fact that this woman had 5 bedwetters and the fact that she put dia