Views on Article - The Bed-Wetting Problem Pornographic comments, solicitation for sex or promotion of other websites, products or companies strictly prohibited. To report any misuse on this page, please click here. Name: Ginny Country: U.S.A. Comment: Demika - full diapers work way better than Pull-ups, which tend to leak. Anna, I had to wear tights over my diapers and I thought they were babyish! I wanted to wear nylons. Once my Mom even found tights with ruffles on the back. Name: demika Country: U.S.A. Comment: hi im a 13 year old girl i wet the bed my mom is telling me shes going to piut me in pull ups what should i do!!?? im scared ! Name: oem software Country: India Comment: toJoSM Honestly, not bad news!.... Name: Anna Country: Canada Comment: Hi Ginny: I guess I would be a tiny bit less motivated. But my baby panties are made of such thick rubber that everyone would still know I had them on because of the loud crackling sound. I just don't like everyone hearing them and seeing them too. It makes me feel like such a little child. I am trying hard to train myself to hold it but then I just have to go. I hope by Easter I might be allowed to wear white tights but mom says I will wear my frilly socks. Darn! Name: Ginny Country: U.S.A. Comment: Well Anna - if you were allowed to cover them up, would you be as motivated to getting dry? Name: Anna Country: Canada Comment: Hi Ginny: Actually I did wet while I was at the dentist, so I know I still need diapers. But how old do I have to be before I can wear dresses that are long enough that my baby panty doesn't show? My mom says that as long as I need diapers my dresses will be short like a little girl. I know this is all part of training me to get completely dry but is this how you would dress me or would you let me have longer skirts to keep my rubber panty covered? Name: Ginny Country: U.S.A. Comment: Anna: Yes, if I was your Mom, and you were still needing diapers, I would put you in them and rubber panties to go to the Dentist. You wouldn't want to have an accident in the Dentist's chair, would you? Carly: When I was diapered during the day and we were out, I was just taken into the Ladies Room to be changed. I'm a little short, so I could lay on the changing station with my legs hanging off the edge, and don't worry - you could lay both your girls on it and it won't pull out of the wall. They can hold hundreds of pounds. Once in awhile I was lucky enough that there was a family bathroom there. I strongly advise diapers for any car trip. If they fall asleep while riding, they will wet. A suggestion to make it easier for you, though, may be that for trips you might find disposable diapers are much easier ... you can still put rubber panties over them if you want. Name: Anna Country: Canada Comment: Hi Mrs. Carly: For car trips, my mom changes me on the back seat. That's when she's really glad I'm wearing short dresses and the snap-on baby panties. I do feel lucky that she changes me privately, I would be so embarrassed for anyone to see me without my diaper and baby panty. I've had a few more dry nights and my mom bought me my very first nylons for when I'm completely dry but I'm not allowed to even try them on. If I open the package I know I'll be punished. What about your girls, do they still need spanking to get them into their diapers and rubber panties? Name: Carly Country: U.S.A. Comment: Anna, you are Lucky that your mother changed your diapers in private, my daughters were checked in front of the family and if they needed changing I just laid them on a changing pad in the living room for a diaper change, which they did not like. My daughters are both still in diapers at night but we will soon be going on a road trip which we be 7 hours and I am thinking I will put them in diapers but I'm not sure about where to get them changed when they need changes. Do you wear diapers on long trips and if so where are your dirty diapers changed? Name: Anna Country: Canada Comment: Hi Ginny: My mom says you will make a good mother some day. Today I had a dentist appointment after school. Mom brought me home to change into a bib-front jumper which was OK but she wanted me in a diaper and rubber panty as well. I didn't want to wear a diaper to the dentist and made a fuss about it so mom said it was time for a strapping. She took of my school panty and put me across her lap and punished me. After that I had to stand in front of her while she asked if I was ready to get dressed which I was of course. When I got up on the chair at the dentist she could see that my legs were pink on the back and when the chair went back she could see my snap-on baby panty. I felt so childish but she said she knows other kids who are still in diapers at my age and that I shouldn't feel bad about it. Would you make your daughter wear rubber panties to the dentist? Name: Ginny Country: U.S.A. Comment: Anna, all those sound like good ideas to me. Maybe instead of a strap I would bare your bottom and use a good wooden hairbrush though, and for lesser problems a wooden spoon. Name: Anna Country: Canada Comment: Wow Ginny, you're an adult now and you can wear what you want. My diapers are only for wetting and I have to tell my mom if there's anything else. When I wet my mom takes me to the mother's room and I have to get up on the changing table for a dry diaper and rubber panty. I don't like it because of how many ladies tell my mom she's right to help me get dry in rubber baby panties. If you were my mom would you make me wear diapers and short dresses on weekends? Would I have to wear crinolines and frilly panties on Sunday? Would you give me the strap for disobedience? If you would then I promise to do what my mom says without a fuss. Name: Ginny Country: U.S.A. Comment: Anna, I'm 21 now. I had my wet diaper nights marked on a calendar and added up on Saturday morning. If I had 4 or more wet nights I wore diapers for the weekend. I did not have to wear childish clothes unless I had 6 or 7 wet nights ... and that happened about half the time. Mom usually made sure my diapers would show, and we would go out with me dressed that way. Mom would carry a diaper bag as well. I had my diapers changed in plenty of public restrooms. Do you get changed in public restrooms on weekends? When wearing diapers all day on weekends, do you have to use them for everything? Name: Anna Country: Canada Comment: Hi Ginny: How old are you? How were you dressed when you were diapered on weekends? Did your mom keep you looking like a little girl? As long as I need diapers my mom says I have to wear bib-front dresses with shoulder straps on Saturdays. When she buttons the straps to the bib it makes the skirt part just long enough to cover my rubber panty. Mom says I need to wear very short dresses to make changes easier but I feel so babyish when people say to her now nice it is to see a girl my age still wearing socks and baby panties. Name: Ginny Country: U.S.A. Comment: I wet a few times in the day - usually on Mondays, because I was used to going in diapers all weekend. I usually got spanked on my bare bottom with a hairbrush for it. I think I'd have rather been diapered. Name: Anna Country: Canada Comment: Hi Ginny: I know, but so far I'm allowed to wear a nylon panty for school. My mom made special arrangements with the school to have one of the staff ladies go with me to the washroom after every class to make sure I go. But as soon as I get home my mom takes off my school panty and gets me diapered under my uniform skirt. Then I have to get my homework done before daddy gets home from work. That's when he gives me a big hug and mom shows him that I have my rubber panty on. Mom wants me to get dry as soon as possible and says until I am I will be dressed like a little girl. I think she knows what's right for me. Name: Ginny Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hi Anna, If you wet during the day as well, shouldn't you be diapered every day - not just on weekends? "Hazim" and "Will" - same dude I am sure - gimme a break! :: Rolls eyes :: Name: Licssheerce Country: India Comment: Hello to All the Guests and Members, Please, give me some info about most popular dating sites: mens, womens, teens. Thanks Name: Anna Country: Canada Comment: Hi Courtney: You're so lucky you only wet at night. I have daytime troubles too, so I have to wear diapers and rubber panties on weekends. Will you be wearing snap-ons like me or pull-ons? I like Sunday better because I'm allowed to wear a frilly rubber panty over my snap-ons. Hope you get dry soon. Name: Courtney Country: U.S.A. Comment: I need help! i am a girl,age 15 and a bedwetter and have been wearing goodnites for the last month and have been breaking out in rashes from them.i tried other disposables as well and got rashes from them also.now my mom told me as a last resort,i am going into cloth diapers and rubber pants[plastic pants] and am mortified about wearing them.i dont want to be like a baby,but my mom says its the last thing i can do.she has ordered the cloth diapers and rubber pants all ready and i will be in them as soon as they arrive.what else can i do! Name: buy discount oem software Country: India Comment: 7X2Kdy comment1 Name: buy oem software online Country: India Comment: 4B31vQ comment2 Name: hazim Country: Australia Comment: I am a single father to a 27 year old daughter she still wet her bed.... how can I do Name: Will Country: U.S.A. Comment: I am a single father to a 16 year old daughter who wets the bed and is very rebellious and defiant. How should I discipline her? Name: tyler labranche Country: U.S.A. Comment: hello my brother is about 18 and he still wets the bed my parents have had to buy numerous matresses could someone tell me what i could do to advise my parents should i have them put him in Diapers Name: Doug Country: U.S.A. Comment: Re: "a boy" If what was written below is a typical example of what the U.S. education system turns out, we are in trouble! Name: a boy Country: U.S.A. Comment: hi my name is joey and i wet the bed i wet it all the time but i mean to my mom pouts me in pin diypers my dad startid this cuz i peed on him win he was straping me for cussing well ennnyhow my dad helps diper me now and he mackes sher it hearts becus he knows i do this and my mom likes it she wants a baby agin but yah my dad spanks me and thin pouts me in a diyper my mom dont know Name: Anna Country: Canada Comment: Thank you Mrs. Carly. Yes, Christmas was really fun. My mom said I had to wear my shortest party dress with the stiff crinoline and my best white socks. We went to Grandma's place for Christmas dinner. She gave me 5 new snap-on rubber panties. They're much thicker rubber than my old ones and they make a lot of noise. She also gave me new fancy rubber panties. The bad part was my mom pulled down the one I was wearing to try the new one on me. I also got a new party dress. It's very thin nylon so you can see my undershirt right through it and it's very short and puffy. I wet my diaper several times but mom always takes me to the bedroom for changing. Grandma told me that my mom was a wetter until she was 16 and wore rubber panties just like me. She told me I would probably have to wear them for a while yet. Did your girls wear socks with their dresses or nylons? I'm sure glad they wear diapers and rubber panties like me. Name: Carly Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hi Anna, I hope you had a lovely Christmas. I just thought I'd let you know my daughters were diapered at christmas under nice short dresses. They were upset about the diapers on Christmas because we had a lot of family at our house that day, who saw their diapers, but I remained firm with them and put their diapers on and regularly checked and changed them in front of the family. Did your mother change your diaper privately or just on a changing mat in front of everyone? Name: katiesmum Country: United Kingdom Comment: happy christmas to everybody hope you have a good day and keep your kids well diapered like my daughter will be Name: Shayla Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hi - if you don't remember me, I am the 23 (now 24) year old who wets her bed, and had a friend start coming by to make sure I am diapered at night. If she catches me without diapers, I get spanked bare bottom with a hairbrush and diapered by her. I've been doing well about wearing my diapers at night and haven't had to be spanked for that in awhile. But my friend has been reading this site, and she says I am acting no different from the 14 and 15 year old girls here, so she's going to treat me the same. For Christmas, which I am spending with her, she is going to keep me in diapers, rubber panties, and a short dress all day. I will have to wear frilly ankle socks as well, and she has indicated that she will be putting my hair in pigtails as well. She says I should just be grateful she did not decide to do this on Saturday as well, and make me go see Santa at the mall dressed this way! Name: Country: Other Comment: Name: Country: Other Comment: Name: Country: Other Comment: Name: Country: Other Comment: Name: Country: Other Comment: Name: Country: Other Comment: Name: Country: Other Comment: Name: Country: Other Comment: Name: Country: Other Comment: Name: Country: Other Comment: Name: Country: Other Comment: Name: Country: Other Comment: Name: Country: Other Comment: Name: Country: Other Comment: Name: Country: Other Comment: Name: Anna Country: Canada Comment: Yes Mrs. Carly, I have to wet my diapers and then tell my mom. She knows I try hard not to wet until absolutely necessary because I'm embarrassed about needing to be changed. She says this will help me to gradually expand my bladder capacity. My diapers and rubber panties don't come off at night or on weekends or special occasions for any reason except for changes (or if I'm getting the strap). I feel better because your girls have to wear diapers at Christmas like I have to. Will they wear their snap-on panties or will you let them wear the fancy ones with the nylon cover? Are they allowed to wear white tights or must they wear socks? Name: Carly Country: U.S.A. Comment: Anna, I think your mom is doing the right thing by diapering you, I am definately enjoying diapering my little girls as this allows me to bond closely with them at bed time and all day on weekends. Yes, my girls will definately be wearing diapers at Christmas. I have two short dresses and they can both expect to be wearing a thick cloth diaper and rubber panties under their dresses. When you wear diapers for christmas, will you be using them in place of te bathroom, and wet your diapers? I think I will keep ky daughters in diapers all day and just change them when they are wet. Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Hello Carly. I'm so glad you now have control over your girls' wetting. It's good for the family when children know who's in charge and that there are consequences for disobedience. It sounds like your stubborn girl has figured out that she has no choice about being diapered and rubber pantied but does have a choice about getting a spanking first. Since they are still both wetting during the night, will you have them wear their diapers and rubber panties under their Christmas dresses? Name: andy Country: United Kingdom Comment: i am 17 and i am going to the cinema on friday i am going to where pull ups but what is beter juior pull ups or dry nites can some 1 help me Name: andy Country: United Kingdom Comment: i am 17 and i am going to the cinema on friday i am going to where pull ups but what is beter juior pull ups or dry nites can some 1 help me Name: Anna Country: Canada Comment: Hi Mrs. Carly: Yes I wet a lot a night! After supper I have a bath and then go to my room with my mom. I get up on my bed and she raises my legs and powders me and pins on double diapers. Then she slides an open rubber panty under me and brings the front up between my legs and snaps them up at the sides. The sound of the snaps reminds me of when I was a little girl and makes me feel protected and secure for the night. For school I wear girls nylon panties but on Saturday morning I get my diapers on first thing and wear them under short denim or corduroy jumpers with the bib front and shoulder straps. My parents think I look cute dressed like this. It's the same when there's a special occasion except mom pulls on a frilly rubber panty over my snap-ons. This makes a loud crackling noise under my dress which is embarrassing and I have to wear fancy white ankle socks too. Sometimes I wet and have to be changed with the babies. I know my mom is keeping me dressed like a younger girl and part of me is OK with it but I would love to be allowed to wear white tights or nylons instead of socks. But my mom says no. Are you going to make your girls wear diapers and rubber panties under their dresses at Christmas time? Name: Carly Country: U.S.A. Comment: Jean, thank you so much for all your help with my girls situation. Diapering is simply a part of our nighttime routine in our house and it's going great! And Anna, do you enjoy wearing diapers and how do you feel when your mother diapers you? I feel it's important to find out how another 14 year old feels so I can relate better to how many daughters feel. How and when does your mother diaper you and do you wet a lot like my girls, which are currently both wet most mornings? Name: mom of 1 Country: U.S.A. Comment: We've been using cloth diapers and rubber pants (plastic pants) on 3 bedwetters for about 5 years now and they work just fine. Seldom do we have any leaks and the kids don't mind wearing them and in the long run they're cheaper than disposables. Name: Doug Country: U.S.A. Comment: Name: Tristan Smith Country: India Comment: Do you think that Syria spying on dissidents? In an Indian bedwetting forum??? Name: Tristan Smith Country: India Comment: Do you think that Syria spying on dissidents? Name: Hannah Country: United Kingdom Comment: I am 16 years old and my mum has always made me wear nappies and plastic panties at night to bed, I have asked her many times why, her answer is always the same- so I will stay a good girl. A couple of times I have wet my nappy recently being in a deep sleep so she has taken the using baby nappy liners and putting cream on my mary and my bottom, I hate it as the liner sticks to me and its uncomfortable. she also keeps my mary bare with hair removal cream as she says it is easier to clean me up if I have accidents and its more hygenic. I get embarassed at school when changing for swimming or PE when my friends see my smooth mary. Since my hair started to grow mum has done this to me. My nappy always goes on at nine o'clock each night even if we have visitors, to save embarassment I excuse myself saying I have homework, once one of mums friends saw me coming from the bathroom in my nightie my plastic panties rustled as I passed her and she could clearly see my big padded bottom, I felt so embarassed. I do quite like my nappy at night especially when my monthly is on as i dont then use a tampon at night. Name: DaddyFoxx Country: U.S.A. Comment: I think you people are sick for doing this to your children. Have you ever wondered how this affects them? Well, let me tell you. Bedwetting is not a conscious decision. It is not something your child has decided to do because if this was their decision why would they continue to wet the bed once the diaper punishment has begun? Why would they subject themselves to the mental and emotional torture of being made to wear diapers openly? Children are rarely so masochistic unless they are a budding AB/DL and in that case the punishment is more of a reward. In any case, this punishment does not work and in most cases does not fit the crime. You are making your children afraid of you and afraid of going home. You have to realize that they neither want or need this treatment and that the problem at the core of the punishment is not their decision in the first place. If you want to actually help your child, set an alarm that wakes them up to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night. Bedwetting is generally caused by the fact that their bladders can't hold out until morning and so waking them in the middle of their sleeping schedule to use the bathroom should effectively solve this problem. Parents spend too much of their time considering ways to punish their children when all their children need is a helping hand and someone to understand that this is a problem they can't control. Diaper Discipline should be considered child abuse. Name: Christy Country: U.S.A. Comment: Megan, I had the problem with the out of diapers teasing the diaper wearers. I warned them that teasing was not allowed and I followed this up by placing a cloth diaper and a pair of rubber pants in their dresser drawer along with their underwear and telling them that if the teasing continued they to would wear cloth diapers and rubber pants to bed for a week. I use cloth diapers and rubber pants because the cost of disposables for all my bedwetters would cost way too much. Also using cloth diapers lets me simply add another diaper if the child starts wetting heavy. Name: Megan Country: U.S.A. Comment: Christy that's pretty much how things go with me too but instead of cloth I'm put in disposable diapers at night. I've mostly gotten used to it but still get teased by my brother and sister about it when Mom's not around. Do you hear the out-of-diaper kids teasing the diaper-wearers a lot? What do you do about it? Name: bob Country: U.S.A. Comment: ive been wetting the bed for about 6 years now and my mom says you are not telling the truth so i show her and she doesn't belive me so shuld make a diaper bet or not but if i do that and my dad see it then he will tell the hole hockey team and embares me so i need help or should i just keep peeing the bed or should i make a bet i wont win or go buy some Name: bob Country: U.S.A. Comment: ive been wetting the bed for about 6 years now and my mom says you are not telling the truth so i show her and she doesn't belive me so shuld make a diaper bet or not but if i do that and my dad see it then he will tell the hole hockey team and embares me so i need help or should i just keep peeing the bed or should i make a bet i wont win or go buy some Name: Licssheerce Country: India Comment: Hello, Please, give me some info about popular dating sites: mens, womens, teens. Thx Name: Christy Country: U.S.A. Comment: In our house we simply put the cloth diapers and rubber pants on about an hour before bedtime, the kids can watch TV or read or quietly play up until bed time. Mornings the diapers come off and go in the pail the rubber pants get washed and hung to dry. All 5 of ours have wet the bed. 2 have outgrown it and 3 still wear diapers and rubber pants to bed. Name: comprarvimax Country: Afghanistan Comment: Forgive me if it is wrong to fill the comments with a different topic, but maybe this information could be useful for your blog visitors. I would like to inform some of the products of men's health as follows: Vimax - Vimax - Vimax - Vimax - Vimax - VigRX Plus. Name: Anna Country: Canada Comment: Dear Mrs. Carly: my mom says I can tell you about my experience as a bedwetter. I'm now 14, just like your girls. I just can't stop wetting so my mom makes me wear diapers and rubber panties every night. But she also makes me wear them on weekends and for special occasions. I have never been punished for wetting, but like Mrs Jean my mom is a strong believer that kids need spanking with the strap, no the bare hand. So I know that if I make trouble about my diapers they will be taken off and I will be punished. I don't want the strap so I usually lie still while my mom puts on my diaper and rubber panty. I know I will be wearing them under my short Christmas dress but at least I am allowed to have a fancy pull-on rubber panty over my snap-ons. Maybe your girls would feel better if you let them wear the fancy panties for Christmas. Love Anna Name: still wets Country: U.S.A. Comment: I have had a bedwetting problem for the last 5 years, doctors said I would out grow it. Well my mom said she was the one that still had to deal with wet beds and clothes. Shortly after the 5th month of accidents my mom went to a health store and bought youth disposable diapers for me, they are not baby diapers but look and go on the same way. Name: Doug Country: U.S.A. Comment: Abi686--You must be quite a prodigy to be in the 7th grade by age 11. I don't believe a single word of your fantasy and suggest you confine your efforts to creative writing, not a forum that bases itself on fact (well, most of the time). Name: Abi686 Country: United Kingdom Comment: I am eleven, and I wasn't getting good results so as punishment I wear diapers! I also have to sleep in a crib, spend the afternoon in only my diaper, sit in a high chair and wear diapers to school. During the day I get changed by the nurse. I hate changing diapers in school because the nurse doesn't do it in a separate room, so everybody can see and also the baby powder really tickles. I am in seventh grade and my babysitter, who is in sixth grade changes my nappy everyday after school, I go to her house every day after school as my parents work, but its really annoying because she is younger than me but she still changes me. Help help Jean from Canada!!!!!! Name: Abi686 Country: United Kingdom Comment: I am eleven, and I wasn't getting good results so as punishment I wear diapers! I also have to sleep in a crib, spend the afternoon in only my diaper, sit in a high chair and wear diapers to school. During the day I get changed by the nurse. I hate changing diapers in school because the nurse doesn't do it in a separate room, so everybody can see and also the baby powder really tickles. I am in seventh grade and my babysitter, who is in sixth grade changes my nappy everyday after school, I go to her house every day after school as my parents work, but its really annoying because she is younger than me but she still changes me. Help help Jean from Canada!!!!!! Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Carly, your girls are getting the loving discipline they need. Even your "stubborn" child will eventually thank you for her spankings, but right now they allow her to think that you're being mean and making her wear diapers and rubber panties for her wetting. Pooping in them, however, is totally unacceptable and should be firmly punished. After all, you are trying to solve a problem, not create one. Your next hurdle will be to insist that they wear baby panties under their little Chrismas dresses if they are still wetting at night. Don't give in to their complaints. This is how they learn that you are still their mother and that they must do as they are told. Please keep us informed of your progress. Name: Carly Country: U.S.A. Comment: Jean, thanks so mch for your help! I got cloth diapers for the girls and snap on rubber panties like you said. I set up a draw in their bedroom with diapers and rubber panties and then I put two diapers and two rubber panties on their bed and called them in before bed. They were shocked by what they saw on their beds but I explained that they will wear them for their bedwetting. Neither of them liked the idea and were both adamant they weren't going to be diapered but I told them they would be spanked if they didn't cooperate. One of my daughters then decided to cooperate to avoid a spanking and she laid down for her diaper while the other daughter watched her sister get diapered and rubber pantied. Once the first daughter was diapered I asked my other daughter to lie on her bed for her diaper. She completed refused so I picked her up and put her over my knee and pulled down her panties and spanked her. Then I laid her down on the bed and got her a thick cloth diaper and a rubber panty on much to her dismay. I checked both girls in the morning and cleaned them up as they were both wet and changed them into panties. Both girls were wet everynight so as you suggested I put them both in diapers at the weekend. One of my daughters is cooperating well with diapers, even at weekends but the other daugter constantly needs a spanking to get her in her diapers. I'm afraid that she will never cooperate. One thing I wanted to ask which I am unsure of is at the weekend when the girls are in their diddies, do I allow them to use the bathroom or are they supposed to do their business in their diapers? So far I've been making them do their business in their diddies as I thought this would be more affective. My cooperative daughter has been doing all her business in her diapers which means poopies too but my other daughter will hold her poopies all weekend to avoid having to go in her diapers but I'm worried about this. I really need some advice about whether I'm doing the right thing! Name: Sophie Country: United Kingdom Comment: While away at boarding school I started to wet the bed & when I went home for half term my step mom spoke to her sister about my problem she is a nurse.She told her to put me in a nappy @ night, & came over with some nappies &plastic panties. I argued with them but "mom" threatened to spank me if I didnt comply Her sister said i should have my pubic hair removed so it would be easier to wipe me clean "mom" agreed & so they used some cream on me. I am kept smooth & in nappies now even back @ school the nurse puts one on me each night, its so embarassing walking back into the dorm & getting undressed some of the girl call me names like tinkle especially in the morning when I have to go back to be changed by the nurse. I hate the nappies & plastic panties. Name: Raven Country: U.S.A. Comment: Umm Im 15 and I wet the bed every few weeks. My mom wants to put me in diapers 24/7. I would befine with wearing them at night, but not in the day. I dont see why I would need to wear them in the day; i only wet at night. Advice? Name: ContragsYouFails Country: U.S.A. Comment: How the hell are you people wetting yourselves!? Name: Amy Country: Canada Comment: Hi my name is Amy, I am 14 years old and I am wetting my bed and i need to wear diaper at night. My nightime routine is I take a shower and after I put in pyjamas after that I go in my bedroom were my mother wait me for put my diaper on. Well at first I lie down on my bed and my mother takes my pants off, after she unfold the diaper(Pampers Baby Dry size 6) and she take my legs up and after she put the diaper under myself after she lower my legs and she spread some powder arround my diaper area then she pull the front of the diaper between my legs and she fasten the tapes and for finish she put back my pants on. Heres my nightime routine being diapered like a baby but is better to put a diaper in the trash that cleaning sheets every days Name: Christy Country: U.S.A. Comment: Jonathan, Cloth diapers and plastic pants are used in our house for 2 bedwetters. 1 is 9 and the other 11. So you are not to old for he diapers. It takes time, your grandmother is right. Be patient, I know it's hard, and it will soon end. Ask your mom to let you put on the diapers and maybe that way you can wait until just before you get into bed and that way no one will see you with them on. Both of our bedwetters put their own diapers and plastic pants on themselves and can get them on anytime they want to during the evening. They usually sleep with tshirts diapers and plastic pants on, in the winter pj's are worn. Talk with your mom I bet she'll be willing to help you out. Good luck! Name: Jonathan Country: U.S.A. Comment: I'm 13 years old and I still wet my bed every night. My grandma told me I'd outgrow it but I haven't. My mom tried stuff like an alarm pad on my bed or not letting me drink anything after dinner but they never worked. Two years ago this guy named Gary my mom had been seeing moved in with us and he got all upset because I still wet my bed. My mom said she was tired of cleaning up after me every morning anyway so she put diapers and plastic pants on me like an hour before bedtime. Their the cloth ones that you pin on and shes the one who pins them on me and then puts plastic pants on me. Soemtimes Gary puts them on me and he makes a big production of it. One day a girl from my class saw me in my plastic pants and diapers. She said that her brother used to wet his bed all the time but that it stopped when his voice changed. Mine still hasn't and I wonder if I'll every get out of diapers. How long can bedwetting last and do you think I'm to old to wear diapers and platic pants?? Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Hello Carly. Your girls are calling out to you for help. They are wetting their beds again because of insecurity about being teenaged girls. They want you and your husband to regain control of them by dressing them in diapers at bedtime. This will reassure them that it's OK to be little girls who are still under strict parental discipline. The first step is to purchase the necessary diapers and rubber panties. I recommend you use snap-on rubber panties because they are much easier to remove for changing and for spanking when necessary. The next step will be to display their new baby panties on their beds along with pins and powder. Then bring them in to their room, sit them down and explain that you and your husband have decided that from now on they will wear diapers and baby panties for bed. They will probably make quite a fuss about it, but you need to be very firm about your decision. You may decide to place their leather strap beside their rubber panties as a reminder that any resistance will result in a spanking. If strapping is necessary, then you must follow through. Then it's time for them to be diapered and baby-pantied. Have them lie down on their beds for powdering, diapering and then snap on their baby panties. If they wet during the week, then you should put them in their rubber panties on weekends under nice short dresses. Further strapping may be necessary until they realize you aren't fooling and will make them wear their baby panties for shopping. This is a marvellous opportunity for you and your husband to gain control of all aspects of your girls behavior including respect, manners and wardrobe. In addition to their diapers and baby panties, this is the time to get them into the habit of wearing proper skirts and dresses with nice white slips and little white socks. They are hoping you will have the strength of character to give them the discipline they need. Name: katiesmum Country: United Kingdom Comment: amy UK the best nappies are terry nappies and plastic pants ask your mum to get some that way she doesn't have to keep buying disposable nappies the terry nappies and plastic pants can be washed and used again and if you only wear on a night-time get your mum to buy night-time nappies they hold more Name: amy Country: United Kingdom Comment: I do not know what to do my mum is changing me from school everyday now and I can not seem to stop on the weekend I had at least 2 accidents a day and now it another weekend I am scared it is going to happen again I am so happy I am only wetting not soiling as I have got better with that but what nappies are best ? Name: Ginny Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hi Carly. When I was their age, I was pinned into thick diapers every night, and had plastic baby pants pulled up over them. Most mornings I was wet. My Mom would check my diaper and mark whether it was wet or not on the calendar. On weekends it was tallied up and I would be punished according to the number of wet nights. I don't think spankings and such helped much. The diapers were a practicality for the most part. I wet the bed, so I needed to wear diapers. I should have only got spankings when I resisted being diapered. Those were bare-bottom and in front of the family so they could see what happens when you disobey. If I were you, I would talk to them, and tell them they just are going to have to wear diapers until they get their wetting under control. Pick the one who is most likely to resist to diaper first - she'll serve as a warning to the other one. If there is no resistance it can be done in private - but if they resist, they'll be spanked and then diapered in front of everyone. Finally - you pick their clothes, and put them in skirts and dresses. They can pick their own clothes again when they are acting more mature. Name: katies mum Country: United Kingdom Comment: dear carly USA it all depends on what type of diapers you are going to use if i was you i would cloth diapers and plastic panties and pit them on their beds ready for bedtime and sit them down and tell them that they will have to wear this for at least 3 months to manage their bedwetting if there is any arguments then spank them and then pin them in their diapers and put on their plastic panties and put up a reward chart and put on a star for a dry night and a x for a wet night and then end of the week see if they have enough stars then give them a treat if not enough stars then either punish them with time-outs or a bare bottom spanking Name: Carly Country: U.S.A. Comment: I have twins girls who are 14 and in the last month they have both been wetting their beds around 4-5 times a week. I have been trying to not make a fuss about it but I am getting tired of washing sheets all the time. They had bedwetting problems until around 7 but then they seemed to grow out of it but now it is happening again. I spoke to my friend who says she knows someone who puts their son in diapers for bedwetting and that I should do this to my girls. I have not heard of this before for children of my daughters age but I came across this site while trying to find some information out about it and it seems many parents do this for bedwetting. Do you think I should put the girls in diapers at night and how should I go about telling them and getting them diapered? Carly. Name: katiesmum Country: United Kingdom Comment: amy from the UK don't be disheartened katie has a star chart in the kitchen as well it serves to remind her to stop wetting her bed knickers and to stop wearing nappies and plastic pants 24/7 one it might sink in with her and she will go back to being a normal happy girl who does need the protection of nappies and plastic pants and be like her friends who go swimming to the cinema and hang out till then it will never happen Name: amy Country: United Kingdom Comment: It is so embrassing though I don't know how to stop I have a start chart thing which is embrassing because instead of in my room it's in the kitchen so all my mum's mate's can see I don't want to be 13 nearly 14 wearing nappies but I am :( Name: Bobby Country: United Kingdom Comment: I was still a bedwetter my mum made me wear nappies from the age of 8 till about 14. The thing is i got used to the nappies and i loved them. I wanted to wear them after mum stopped putting me in nappies? I would even wear her dr white sanitary towels. Name: amy Country: United Kingdom Comment: I am 13 and have wet the bed for 2 weeks in a row now a week ago I was put back in nappies I really don't like it my mum put's me in them straight from school she changes me like a baby and I hate it :( Name: cabaji Country: Lithuania Comment: i wet the bed all the time and im scared to ask my captain to change me because he will make fun of me what can i do Name: Sandy Country: U.S.A. Comment: When I was young and babysitting I sat for 2 bedwetters. Both were in cloth diapers and plastic pants. The oldest a boy age 9 wore a triple diaper that was pinned on and the baby pants went on over the diapers. His plasticpants were from Babykins. The girl age 8 wore a double diaper, it to was pinned and her plastic pants came from Potty Patty. It was kind of odd at first seeing older kids with their diapers and plastic pants on, but I got used to it and would sometimes watch as their moms would get things ready and put their diapers on. In the warm weather all they wore to bed were the diapers and plastic pants, so I quite regularly saw them dressed that way. Name: Ginny Country: U.S.A. Comment: There's a lot of not true stuff in a lot of these posts, but no one here is joking about it, Rachel. I used to wet the bed too, and I don't think it was a laughing matter. Quite the opposite most of the time. Going on the assumption that what is posted is true, since it is impossible to know for certain ... Ralph, yes, I certainly DO think your mother is right to paddle your naughty bare bottom, and hang up the paddle so others may ask about it! Drinking is ILLEGAL at your age, and coming home drunk and peeing yourself is unacceptable at ANY age! Maybe with a thick diaper on you won't be so quick to think about going to a bar. I hope your Mommy makes you lay down on your back and lift your legs to have your diaper changed, and if you fuss at all, she spanks you in that position. Chloe - at your age, you really should know how to clean yourself properly. If you can't, then diapers are the only solution. In the future, when Mommy takes a shot at potty training you again, you should use wet wipes to ensure cleanliness. Now as far as having poopy accidents in your diaper, you need to tell your Mommy that you need to learn this is naughty, and the best way to learn for you obviously is a firm hand (or her hairbrush) applied to your bare bottom while over her knee. Maybe a warm-up spanking in the messy diaper is not a bad idea either. Samy - we don't know why your Mommy put you back in diapers and the crib. You need to tell us before we can determine if it was fair or not. On the too small, you can negotiate with her and ask for a larger diaper. If you actually ASK for a diaper, she'll see you are trying to cooperate. Name: chloe Country: France Comment: I have been on this before sorry this is a long one Today I woke up soaked my mum put my in nappies again and for a week still wet but today I woke up not just wee but poo I don't know what to do coz my mum cleaned me up but was not very happy and this poo accident has happend several times now I have a chart now and all my freinds see it when they come round I still have to be changed by my mum no medical reasons please help :( Name: Sami Country: U.S.A. Comment: Help! my mom put me in diapers, but the small size and they are uncomfy. i didn't even wet the bed, she doesn't let me use the toilet and i have to sleep in a crib! do you think this is right, i mean i am 14 years old and haven't wet the bed? Name: ralph Country: U.S.A. Comment: Do you think it was fair Mom hung the paddle up so everone could see it I'm very embarrassed when people see it and ask me or mom if she still spanks me Name: Cody Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hi I'm 13 years old and I wet the bed. I use Depends Fitted briefs and I find those very effective for people who wet the bed. Name: Rachel Country: United Kingdom Comment: you are all sick my cousen wets the bed and it's no joke Name: katiesmum Country: United Kingdom Comment: dear chloe france you need to ask your mum to buy you dri-nites or to buy nappies and plastic pants for you to wear and when you have been to the toilet to wipe your bottom seeing as you are not wiping it properly and only little girls who can't do it themselves do that Name: chloe Country: France Comment: I am 13 year old girl and I still wee my pants without knowing until it is too late and I leave poo marks in my knickers I don't know how to stop please help Name: katiesmum Country: United Kingdom Comment: jennifer good nites are no good you need to put back into nappies and rubber panties if you constantly wet your bed like a baby then you need nappies and rubber/plastic panties for bed and if you are wet on friday morning before school then you should be in them all weekend to learn you not to wet your bed Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: You should simply ask your mother if she would please use cloth diapers and rubber panties on you because you would feel more "babied" in them. She should use the baby panties with the side snaps because they look and sound very baby-like. Ask her to make you wear them on weekends under very short little dresses with white socks until you have been dry at night for a long time. Your mother will understand your need to remain a little girl for a while yet. Let us know if she grants your wish. Name: Jennifer Country: U.S.A. Comment: Jean my name is jennifer and I am 14 and I wet the bed at night so my mom bought me some goodnites and tells me to put them on at night and I take them off in the morning but I want to wear real diapers and I want my mom to diaper me to make me feel more secure and to take my diapers off in the morning and clean me up because I'm mostly wet every morning, how do I ask her to diaper me and with real diapers instead of goodnites? Name: Ralph Country: U.S.A. Comment: i live at home & work and go to school.i'm 20 yrs old and came home drunk and peed my trousers. My mom paddled me and made me wear a diaper& plastic panties. so embarrassing she even hung up paddle on wALL in kitchen Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Children test their parents patience in order to see "how much they really love me." Your new little girl is doing this to you by being naughty. She is learning from you that you care about her enough to set strict limits and give her a proper spanking when she crosses the line. It is likely she actually expects you to spank her for bad behavior and feels more secure when you dress her in the diapers and rubber panties. As I have said, my own daughter now admits that having to wear them at night and on weekends and special occasions gave her the motivation to get control of her wetting. She still needs the strap applied to her bare backside once in a while, but mostly for missing her curfew rather than wetting. Your daughter is secure knowing that she will be punished and dressed in diapers and baby panties like the little girl she is until you decide she is ready for more mature things. Name: Aimy Country: United Kingdom Comment: My husband & I recently adopted a 12yr old girl from a childrens home, at first she was very well behaved but a month ago she started being very naughty. Speaking to my sister she said aimy needed to be taken back to basics & that meant having her bottom smacked & put in a nappy & rubber panties. She has helped me with aimy, we have made her see the error of her ways. At first she hated her baby treatment but after a few sore red bottoms she is no trouble having her nappy & rubbers on after school& she loves bathtime now. If she wets her nappy in the week she is kept in them all the following weekend& then only allowed to wear dresses. I can honestly say her nappies have quietned her down Name: katiesmum Country: United Kingdom Comment: dear june UK i am from the uk the best way is to put your son back into nappies and rubber pants 24/7 it might teach him t behave more i have done this with my daughter she is showing signs of improvement now so the spankings have stopped but she still wears nappies and rubbers 24/7 due to her wetting her bed and pants Name: Ginny Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hi Christine. Please let your daughters know they are not alone. I too was pinned into diapers and had plastic baby panties pulled over them every night until I was nearly 16. In the morning it would be marked on my calendar whether I was wet or dry, and one weekends it was counted up and I was punished accordingly by spankings, being kept in diapers all day, or being treated like a baby. Name: June Country: United Kingdom Comment: Hi,I have a boy of nearly 14 and he does wet the bed once or twice a week but also has "wet dreams" on top of all that he's stolen money from my purse and been brought home drunk and using foul language He's not been in nappies and rubbers since he was six but I've been told that putting him in nappies and rubber knickers might make him behaive better, this is his last chance because I fear he will end up in a special school if he carries on like this, I've read lots of letters on the site and would like some advice please because I'm at my wits end over, I do love him but it's hard to cope with and he does have bladder problems too Name: Barbara Country: Canada Comment: Christine, I admire your strict rules with your girls regarding diapers and rubber pants for their bedwetting. Have the two younger girls ever wet their panties while dressed up? Is this why you require them to wear baby pants for special occasions? Name: christine Country: U.S.A. Comment: i am the mom of three teenage daughters,16,15 and 13 and all three wear cloth diapers and rubber pants to bed every night.the 13 and 15 year old are bed wetters and my 16 year old is required to wear them also to be the same as her sisters.i have them lay side by side at bedtime and pin their diapers on them and then put their rubber pants on them.they have accepted them and i like having them in the diapers and rubberpants at bed time.i buy pastel rubber pants for them and they feel more girly wearing them.i do the diapers and rubberpants on them for holidays and easter. Name: Xp Country: United Kingdom Comment: From my experience, no amount of coaxing persuasion, buzzers, drinking less (or more) etc will make much difference. It's not a problem you have conscious control over. It's like trying to 'persuade' someone to lower their heart rate. Your body will decide for itself when to stop. 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What style is your dress? If it has a full, short skirt you could ask your mother if you could wear a stiff crinoline under. A crinoline would make a swishy noise that would make sure that the crackel of your rubber panty wouldn't be heard by the wedding party. Lots of children your age need to be dressed in diapers and rubber baby panties so don't feel that you're the only one. If you cooperate maybe your mom would allow you to wear fancy baby panties with the frills on the seat to match your socks as a special treat. Name: Ginny Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hi Katie. I was also pinned into cloth diapers and rubber baby panties when I was 15. I think you should just go along with it because it is better for you than waking up in a wet bed. I think it will be better for you at the wedding too as you will not have to worry about having to get to the restroom, or what to do about your dress once you are in there! Name: katie Country: U.S.A. Comment: help! i am a girl 15 and a bedwetter due to emotional problems and weight loss.my parents put me into cloth pin on diapers and plastic pants[rubber pants] at night.my mom bought the rubberpants in adult size and pastel colors and nursery prints.every night at bedtime i have to lay on my bed while puts the diaper and rubberpants on me.she uses baby powder and baby lotion on me as well.she picks out the rubberpants i have to wear and mostly puts the nursery print ones on me.i feel babyish having the nursery print rubberpants on over my diaper and mom and dad tell me cloth diapers and rubberpants are appropriate for girls my age to wear for bedwetting,and wont buy me goodnites or disposables.i am going to be in a wedding next month and was told i am going to wear one of my cloth diapers and rubberpants under my dress for the day even tho i dont need them.i dont want to wear them! how can i reason with my parents? p.s. i am an only child Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Hi Sarah, how is it going with your little one? Is she progressing towards being dry at night? How often does she need to be punished in order to get her into diapers and rubber panties? Is she diapered only at night or during daytime too? Name: katiesmum Country: United Kingdom Comment: hi everybody me and katie had a wonderful time at the beach i had to take her nappies and plastic pants of and put trainer pants on her because her costume would not fit over the top of them i was thinking of doing it in public view but relented and changed in the beach hut what i had hired it was good i could leave everything in there what id didn't need and just take the essential supplies i needed for katie Name: katiesmum Country: United Kingdom Comment: i have got katie some shorts for the trip to the coast to show of her padded bottom and try and humiliate her into to stop wearing nappies and plastic pants and also get her out of trainer pants for school as well Name: Shayla Country: U.S.A. Comment: Dear Ginny, my friend has been reading this site, and she saw the last few posts. She came by Saturday morning and told me I was going to get a spanking and then wear diapers all weekend since I had a daytime accident. I had to take off all my clothes, while she searched through my closet until she found a few "suitable" outfits, which turned out to be jumpers I haven't worn for awhile. Then I was bent over her knee and spanked with her hairbrush. It was a longer spanking this time than last week, and I cried even sooner, knowing I deserved it. Finally, I was let up, and after 23 minutes in the corner (you guessed it - my age) I lay on the bed and she powdered me and pinned me into cloth diapers. Then she pulled the plastic baby panties up my legs - they crinkled so loudly. Then came the jumper dress. I felt like it was barely covering my diapers. Name: Ginny Country: U.S.A. Comment: Again, skirts would be best. That way it is also easier for you to check her diaper and change her. I don't know about buying her other baby things ... I mean, you want her to STOP needing diapers, right? As far as swimming - they DO make swim diapers. Name: katiesmum Country: United Kingdom Comment: we are going away for the day on saturday and i don't know whether tp put shorts over the top of her nappies and plastic pants or to put a short dress on her till we get there and then put her swimming costume on over her nappies and plastic pants so she can have a swim in the sea Name: katiesmum Country: United Kingdom Comment: dear jean what an excellent idea i have removed all her tracksuit bottoms and trousers all that is in her wardrobe are dresses skirts and shorts i took her into town the other day with a short skirt and pink frilly plastic pants on so everybody could see her baby status she was so humiliated she cried 1 woman asked her age i told her how old she was and why she was dressed this way she totally agreed to the punishment she was the first person to agree most people made crude comments which i ignored i thought to myself she acts like a baby then she shall be treated like 1 i was thinking of buying her baby bottles bibs and dummies to make her more like a baby i don't know if this the right thing to do many thanks katie's mum Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Dear Katies Mom, I agree with Ginny that little girls who need diapers and rubber panties should be wearing the shortest possible skirts and dresses, not long pants. This is actually an opportunity to impose a proper dress code before bad wardrobe habits develop. My own daughter has never been permitted to wear pants, and was kept exclusively in short skirts and dresses with rubber baby panties underneath until age 16. As a result, she still wears short skirts with knee socks, not nylons, to college, and puts on a short denim jumper with ankle socks on weekends. She remembers having her Saturday snap-on rubber panties put on, and her special frilly rubber panties for Sunday. This is a wonderful opportunity to introduce your daughter to a similar dress code. Name: katiesmum Country: United Kingdom Comment: thankyou ginny for your comments i do pick her clothes out for her and tell her i am dressing her like the baby she is acting yes she did wet on purpose she was laid and just wet many thanks katie's mum Name: Ginny Country: U.S.A. Comment: Katie's Mum, a hairbrush is always what worked best in spanking me. If you have to spank her for something childish, however, I suggest a wooden spoon. I also suggest you always spank her on her bare bottom. Further, I suggest you always pick her clothes out and dress her completely, with the understanding tat when she no longer has to wear diapers like a baby, she can pick her own clothes and dress herself - and I suggest you should always dress her in skirts or dresses (they make diaper checks and changes easier anyway). I don't know that I would have spanked her for wetting during a diaper change - was it on purpose? Name: katiesmum Country: United Kingdom Comment: thankyou jean for your very helpful advice i will be using your suggestions i had to spank her this morning as i was changing she wet her while i was cleaning her up so i spanked her with the hairbrush Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Dear Katies Mom, we parents succeed by heeding others' advise. The problem we face here is wetting. The answer to the problem is diapers and rubber panties. Wetting is involuntary. Refusal to be dressed in diapers and rubber panties is voluntary. Therefore, wetting should not be punished but non-cooperation with the solution to the problem must be punished. Some parents prefer to spank their children with their hand, but I prefer the wide leather strap because I got the best results from my daughter when I placed her strap on her bed beside her powder,diaper and rubber panty. This sent a clear message that her choice was not whether she had to wear baby panties or not, but whether she would get strapped before she got them on. Most often she chose to lie down quietly while I put on her baby panties, but as she approached her mid-teens and wanted to wear nylons instead of ankle socks, strapping became more frequent. This meant she straddled my leg, I un-snapped her rubber panty, un-pinned her diaper and gave her the strap. After strapping, she was much more respectful and submitted to her diapering. My advice to you would be to explain to your little girl that she will be dressed in baby panties under her little skirts and dresses until she is completely dry, and that the price of disobedience will be a firm strapping. Name: katiesmum Country: United Kingdom Comment: thankyou for your advice i will restrict her spankings for lying and misbehaving what is the best implement to spank her with and when i do spank her do i leave her plastic pants on or take them and also do i spank her when her nappies leak or do i just give her a good telling of Name: Warren Country: U.S.A. Comment: I think cloth diapers and rubber panties aee an excellent way to control older children.It makes them dependent,and prevents them from playing with themselves Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Katies Mom, you are absolutely doing the right thing for your little girl by putting her in diapers and rubber panties for her wetting. I agree with Ginny that spanking is for disobedience, not for wetting. My daughter was not spanked for wetting but if she made a fuss about having to wear a diaper and rubber panty for bed or under her special dresses, then she definitely got her bottom firmly strapped. Lots of pre-teen children are anxious about becoming teenagers, and actually want parents to set strict boundaries for their dress and behavior and apply proper childish punishment for disobedience. This way, it's "not their fault" they are made to wear rubber panties. Your little girl may need baby panties for a while yet and she may secretly need you to enforce her discipline Name: katies mum Country: United Kingdom Comment: i need some help and advice on getting my 11 year-old out of wearing nappies and plastic pants to bed and school holidays and weekends and wearing plastic backed trainer pants to school if i put her back into knickers is it advisable to spank her everytime she wets herself Name: Ginny Country: U.S.A. Comment: Katie's Mum - I don't think the spankings really helped me that much. It's not as though I was wetting my bed on purpose. I think spankings should be reserved for if she disobeys you or lies to you or something like that - I did get spanked for that as well and I felt like I deserved those spankings. As for the diapers - while less humiliation would have been nice, I DID need to be put in diapers. So does Katie. The diapers are to keep her fry, and keep other things around her dry as well. They are more comfortable for her and keep her socially acceptable. There were a couple times when I was growing up that I was so used to just using my diapers during the weekend that I forgot and wet my panties during the day on Monday. The embarrassment was like it would kill me - I would have much rather been wearing diapers, even if it meant I would have been diapered 24/7. Shayla - you asked how daytime accidents should be handled. Are you wetting your pants in the daytime now too? The first time I wet my panties in the day I don't think my Mom would have found out if I hadn't gone to her about it. I actually asked her to spank me with her hairbrush and stand me in the corner for it ... it was forgetfulness that made me wet, and if I was punished it would help me remember next time. Of course she also had to add that for the rest of the day I had to crawl on my hands and knees - no walking. Maybe if you are wetting in the day for the same reason, you should ask your friend to spank you? She seems to be willing. Name: katies mum Country: United Kingdom Comment: my daughter katie who is 11 was that way bedwetting and wetting her knickers at first i put trainer pants on during the day and drynites for bed but she used them like a nappy so i bought some terry nappies plastic pants and plastic backed trainer pants for her it was a struggle at first and after a few good spankings across my knee she relented she now wears the trainer pants to school and takes a few clean pairs and when she comes home i count how many is left and she is spanked for how wet pairs there are it is 10 spanks for each wet pair then i put her nappies and plasstic pants with a short nightie and on weekends and school holidays she wears nappies and plastic pants till she goes back to school i don't know if i am doing the right thing because my conscience says i am a bad mother please advice on what is best for her Name: Ginny Country: U.S.A. Comment: Yes Shayla - I was not allowed to use a potty at all, so everything went into my diapers. My mother told me that if I couldn't use the potty when I was supposed to, I was not going to be allowed to use it at all. Name: Shayla Country: U.S.A. Comment: Ginny - when you say she made you use the diapers, do you mean for everything? Did you have to mess in them too, or just wetting? Name: Ginny Country: U.S.A. Comment: My mother put me back in diapers for bed wetting. She kept me in them until I stopped when I was 15. Every morning she would make me let her check my diapers just like a baby, and she would mark on my calendar whether I was wet or not. I usually was. At week's end (Friday), she would count all my wet nights. More than 3 nights in the week got me a bare-bottom spanking. More than 4, and I had to wear and use diapers all weekend long. If I had 6 or 7 wet diapers in a week, I got taken out for an outing on Sunday in clothing that made my diapers obvious - my mom would carry a diaper bag, and I would be treated very childishly. Name: Shayla Country: India Comment: Miss Jean, how should daytime accidents be handled? Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Sarah, you've done the right thing for your daughter's bedwetting by putting her in diapers and rubber panties at bedtime. This will give you a bit of relief from laundry chores. However, pooping is completely unacceptable and a sign of laziness. You should give her just one warning that if she does it again, she will wear diapers and rubber panties under short little dresses on weekends during the day. No exceptions. Name: Sarah Country: U.S.A. Comment: Jean, your technique is working with my daughter. After reading your post I went out and bought her some cloth diapers and plastic pants and told her that she would be wearing them to bed that night due to her bedwetting and that she would be in them until she was dry for a long time. As expected she immediately kicked off but I left her to calm down until bedtime. I came into her room with a diaper, powder and a plastic pant and asked her to lie down for her diapering. She kicked off again and refuse so I picked her up and laid her on the bed bottom up and gave her a light spanking which is all it took for cooperation and then I turned her over and took off her panties which she was most embarrassed abou but I told her I'd be seeing her everynight so she would get over it then powdered her and out on her diaper and then her plasticpanty and put her in bed. I went into her room in the morning and woke her up and checked her diaper which was soaked so I took it off while she laid on the bed and cleaned her up. For the first week I didn't get much cooperation until after her spanking but now she cooperates without a spanking. I'm getting much more respec from her now also, which is nice. I'm a kittle concerned though because when I checked her diaper a few mornings ago she had done a poopy so I just changed her as normal and didn't make a fuss about it but this morning we had another poopy. I never imagined her pooping in her diapers, did you daughter ever use her diapers for poopies? Should I continue to just change her as normal when she does a poopy or should I say something to her about it? Thanks for all your help jean! Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: As said before, I have no experience with adult incontinence. Have you been examined by your doctor? At your age, medication may be the answer? You seem to be a person who is less mature than your years and missing parental discipline? Many adults are incontinent for various reasons. My daughter, now 18 has been dry for two years. I was very strict with her about her bedwetting and set very definite boundaries for her until she overcame her problem. She was diapered and rubber-pantied every night for bed. She was not permitted pyjama pants, and wore only a t-shirt on top. If she wet during the week she knew that on Saturday she would not be allowed a nylon panty and would wear a diaper and snap-on rubber panty under a short pleated skirt or a short pink corduroy bib-front skirt. On Sunday she was put into a short nylon dress with crinoline and white socks with an additional frilly rubber panty over the plain snap-ons. She was never punished for wetting, but knew that if she made any fuss about have to wear her baby panties she would be turned over and firmly strapped. She knows that this strict discipline helped her achieve control over her bedwetting. Her panty drawer still contains several diapers and rubber panties as a reminder. Name: Shayla Country: U.S.A. Comment: Sorry for the test and the misspellings - something about my big post there was not allowing me to post (maybe the word "span king"?), so I had to start spacing words to see if that would work. Name: Shayla Country: U.S.A. Comment: Miss Jean, do you still read this page? I found someone to try what you suggested. She is a friend of mine for some time, a bit older than me. I knew what you said would be the right thing for me, so I told her about my problem, and I showed her this site, especially the messages between me and you. The first thing she did was to tell me that g ood nites weren't right for me. If I am this age and still wetting the bed, obviously we need something more. I had to get a dult cloth diapers and rubber baby pants, just like your daughter. At first I didn't want that, and I kept wearing goo dnigh ts, but one evening she showed up at my place late, after I was already dressed for bed. She made me show her what I was wearing to bed! When she saw, she grabbed me by the wrist and pulled me back to my bedroom. She sat down on my bed, making me blush because it made a loud crinkle from the plastic sheet she bought me a few weeks ago and told me to put on my bed. She set down her purse, but then reached into it and pulled out a hairbrush! Then she pulled my pajamas and goo dn ights down, and made me step out of them, and sure enough I found myself strad dling a knee for the first time in a very long time! I felt like such a ba by because she did spa nk me until I was bawling like one, and then she made me lay on my back and tell her where I put the diapers and rubber ba by panties. She pinned me into my diaper, pulled my panties on over it, and left me nursing my sore b ottom in bed - just like an errant c hild (which I guess I was). Now I have to wear them every night. She doesn't come to check me every night of course, but I never know when she might show up. She says I have to get ready for bed before 9:00 PM - that is when she gets off work - and if she ever comes by and I am not diapered for bed, she will give me another span king and diaper me for bed again. Miss Jean - she also said I have to ask you ... do you have any more thoughts and tips for me (or her to do to me?) Name: Shayla Country: U.S.A. Comment: testing - does this thing still work? Name: megan Country: Cambodia Comment: diaper change pants plastic cloth girl Name: jennifer Country: U.S.A. Comment: HELP! i am a girl,age 15 and was the junior bride in my neices wedding two weeks ago.Iwore an ankle length poofy white dress with a veil,tights and shoes.since it was a long catholic wedding,i was required by my mom and my neice to wear a cloth diaper and plastic pants under the tights.at the wedding dance,i had a few glasses of champane and was feeling light headed.i met a 16 year old boy who was a real hottie and we hit it off.we snuck off to an empty classroom in another part of the church and started necking.the boy ran his hand up under my dress and felt the diaper and plastic pants under my tights and got really turned on.since i had let my guard down and was feeling a little drunk,he unzipped my dress and pulled it off of me and then pulled my tights down and ran his hand over my diaper and plastic pants.all of a sudden the door opened and my mom caught us.now as my punishment i have to wear diapers and plastic pants under my clothes all summer.what can i do? Name: enragedmom Country: U.S.A. Comment: I hope the comments about cloth diapers, rubber panties, and whipping disobedient kids are not real. This is insane, abusive, and unbelievable! These parents, if really doing these things, need psychological help! I came to this site seeking real help for my bedwetting son and fond this ridiculous garbage. You people should be ashamed! Name: Country: Afghanistan Comment: big like! - thanks . Name: Barbara Country: Canada Comment: Trissy, my advice to you is to do as you're told on Sunday. Although you are not a bedwetter, your mother wants to put diapers and rubber panties on you to help you feel like a little girl for the ceremony. This could be achieved without diapers if she were to put a very short dress on you with white socks and fancy panties, but apparently your church requires you to wear rubber panties. It's only for one day, and it will help you to know that adults thinks it's very sweet to hear the crinkle of the rubber panty under your dress. Name: trissy Country: U.S.A. Comment: i am a girl 16 and going thru catholic confirmation on may 22.we have to wear a white floor length formal dress with a veil,gloves,lace anklets and low cut shoes.my parents are requiring me to wear a cloth diaper and plastic pants and under shirt under my dress.they told me its to symbolize the purity of when i was baptized.the plastic pants they bought me are adult size and fit blousy over the diaper and will crinkle under my dress.i dont want to wear the diaper and plastic pants but they wont give in and i dread walking down the aisle with them on and the plastic pants crinkling under my dress.any one have any advice for me? Name: Milada Country: Czech Republic Comment: Hello Mary, could you kindly tell me how was your niece´s wedding? I have 14 year old daughter too and my youngest sister will have wedding soon. In our family we also have no little girls and she was quite upset that she won´t have little flower girl on her wedding. Althought it is possible "rent" some little girl, we do not prefer this, because she is not from family. I think that "use" my daughter like "toddler-flower girl" is briliant idea. But I am afraid that she may will protest. She is not bedwetter and she pretending that she is more adult than she realy is (wearing thongs, looking for boys, too much make-up...). How did you explain this to your daughter? And how react other quest when they saw 14 year odl flower girl dressed like little kid with diapers? thank you for your help. And sorry for my english, I am not native speaker. Name: Barbara Country: Canada Comment: Melissa, because your mother has provided you with so many diapers and rubber panties, she obviously expects you to need them for the foreseeable future. You need to accept that you need to wear baby panties right now and cooperate with your mother when she is putting them on you. Use your "diapering time" to express your love and respect for your mother and promise her you will obey her when it's your bedtime. This will reassure her that she won't need to discipline you before she puts on your rubber panty. Good luck! Name: melissa Country: U.S.A. Comment: Help!i am a sixteen year old girl and wetting the bed due to depression over the loss of my best friend and boyfriend.my parents make me wear a thick cloth diaper and adult plastic pants to bed every night.i have been wearing them for three weeks now and dont like them as they make me feel like a baby at bed time.my parents told me cloth diapers and plastic are appropriate for girls to wear foe bedwetting.i have one whole drawer in my dresses with just the diapers and plastic pants in it.my mom calls the plastic pants 'rubberpants' and i hate it.she puts the diaper and plastic pants on me every night while i lay on my bed and i feel like a baby laying there.can anyone give me any advice as to how i can deal with this? Name: akid Country: U.S.A. Comment: hay my mom she is a bich and y 1 time i wet my bed she sat at the eju of my bed poold my undys and pats to my akolls and polld me ovor her legs and gave me 5 hard spankings and liyd me on my bed and strapt a diper on me with a bunch of baby crim and baby pader and gav me sum pants and sent meoff 2 skcool and i was sint 2 the ners 2 git my dipers chanjd i calld my mom a bich 4 times and throw her lamp at her she ran over and spakt me and now i haf to wahr my dipers all the time she just gave me a spaking and im in my baby diper and im about to p in it so ttyl Name: Sad girl Country: U.S.A. Comment: Help I'm a 16 year old girl and I started erring the bed and my mom make me were diapers all day and in school i just whant to know if it just my mom that dose this when she poweders me she sprinkles it in to my front and back hole and that not it because I were goodnites to bed and pull ups to school some times my mom makes me reuse one of my goodnites what do I do help Name: sum1 Country: Mexico Comment: i wear diapers all the time and i hav been invited to numerous slumber parties but didnt want to go. i hav just been invited 2 1 and my mum said yes without telling me. i told her i didnt want to go but she explained my problem and i was made to go. my mum put 4 spare diapers in my bag. also wen i go to placs she changes me in the toilets on the baby changing mat and i feel embarresed Name: Nancy Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hello everyone, This is an interesting concern. I am a mother of a 23 year old male who still wets his every night. We have been to every doctor tried every product known to man. We were told his bladder was immature and be patient he would out grow it. Then we tried the new surgeries and now its permenent. My son now wears diapers and plastic panties 24/7. He picks the colors and prints he likes as well as the style. He would rather have wet diapers then pants. I check and change him since he now has no idea when he is wet. Disposable he hates they give him an awful rash so he prefers cloth. There is many many other things far worse then needing to wear diapers. My son is happy and content and well adjusted that is all a parent can ask for. Shame and embarasment come from outside the family. What other people no nothing about or do not understand is wrong shameful and should not be done. If the person is well adjusted and happy so they need a diaper change big deal. In the grand scheme of things diapers are miniscule. There is sooo many things that would be thousand times worse then needing diapers and plastic panties. Peace Mommy Nancy Name: Bethany Country: United Kingdom Comment: Im 16 years old and my mom has put me back in nappies and plastic panties because she found me fooling about with my boyfriend. She came home and caught us, me with no panties on and my boyfriend with his jeans down, she said if I acted iresponsible then I would be treated as a baby so now apart from school time she has me in nappies. I hate them as the plastic panties rustle when i walk and the nappies make my bum look big, she takes me shopping with her, she says she cant trust me on my own. I'm sure people know my secret as some of them smile at me when we are waiting for the bus, and the neighbours know as mom hangs them on the washing line with my school panties and the rest of my washing. im a 16 year old baby what can i do to resolve my problem its so embarassing. Name: 122 Country: U.S.A. Comment: hi im 12 and i wet my bed agin and im a depsleper and my mom came in and fond my bed wet and sat on the eyj of my bed and pot a diper on me and pld it don and spakt me 4 times and it hert and now i wahr them all the time hellp me Name: a mom Country: U.S.A. Comment: hi my 14 doter wets her bed and i triy to git her in a diper and she resits and she cusis at me and 1 time i trid to git it on her in her sleyp she wok up and kidt me in the face and she ript it off and trow it at me and she dont war undeys or pans to bed and she wahts her bed all the time and the day time 2 waht shod i do Name: heather thompson Country: U.S.A. Comment: i am 13 and i keep on wetting the bed everyday NIGHT AND DAY i get changed like a baby my mum has to hold my legs up put powder,lotion etc... it is not fair to be treated as a baby diapers ,plastic pants and other stuff such as punishments if i fuss i get to wash my laundry if wet it i do.when we went to walmart i peed in my diaper my mom went in the bathroom and changed me on a changing table i was so embaressed sorry i for how to write embAressed i wish i had those problems when i was 3 not 13 i have to wear diapers to school and get changed by the nurse at least my nurse is ok and doesnt fuss when she changes me she says it is natural to wet or poo yourself we went to the hospital and they said i have bladder problems which could stay at least 5 years i cant survive 5 yrs somebody please please please hhhheeellllppp! me!!!!! Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Hi Mary. Does your daughter not wet during the night or have daytime accidents? If not, and she will still cooperate with her "toddler" flower girl outfit, then you have raised a remarkably obedient girl of 14! In my opinion, a girl her age who must wear diapers should wear a rubber baby panty with the rows of lace on the back because they will look prettier than a plain rubber panty under her short little dress and will match her dressy white ankle socks. Grownups at the wedding will be pleased to see her in the short dress with fancy socks and rubber baby panty even if she's not a bedwetter. Name: mary Country: U.S.A. Comment: Ineed some advice!my 14 year old daughter is going to be a flower girl in my neices wedding in june.since there are no little girls on either side of the families she is going to be a 'toddler'flower girl.she is going to wear a very poofy,mid thigh length dress,with a flower headwreath with ribbons,lace socks and shoes.her underwear will be a white under shirt,cloth diaper and rubber pants.i want to know if she should have ruffles across the back of the rubber pants or if they should be plain.can anyone advise me? Name: linda Country: United Kingdom Comment: My mom has put me in a nappy after school and weekends for playing about with my boyfriend, she caught me with no panties on. She said if I couldnt behave she would treat me as a naughty little girl, so now when I get home from school she nappies me straight away sometimes she lets me wear a skirt if Ive been 'good' but most of the time she just puts me in my nappy and teeshirt. My sister brings her friends round and if Im in the lounge mom makes me tell them why im wearing a nappy. Sometimes mom gets me ready for bed early, she baths me and puts my nappy and rubberpants on me I hate these as she has threaded tape in the waist which ties at the back so I cant get out of them. Its so embarassing having her treat me this way. Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Angela, yes you desperately need help. Your problem is not really about bedwetting, but I agree with your parents that your behavior was irresponsible and that you should wear the diapers and rubber panties as partial punishment. You are very lucky that diapers are your ONLY punishment--what you really need is a very hard strapping on your bare bottom before your mother puts on your diaper and rubber panty. A child like you has no business sneaking out to parties and alcohol and should be taught a VERY firm lesson in obedience. Name: angela Country: U.S.A. Comment: I desperetly need help!I am 16 and a girl and snuck out of the house two weeks ago to go to a party.I got drunk and passed out and was brought home by one of my friends mom.I had wet my pants when i was passed out and did it again after i was brought home and put to bed.my parents are furious with me and told me that since i acted irresponibly and wet my pants like a baby,that i have to wear cloth diapers and plastic pants when i get home from school and to bed also and on the weekends.i have been wearing them now for a week and absolutely hate them.my mom puts the diapers and plastic pants on me which makes it worse.i asked how long i have to wear them and was told untill they think i have been punished enough and can be trusted again.I am beside my self!PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE! Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Sarah, you have my deep sympathy. I assume you have had your daughter examined by the doctor. It's good she only wets her bed and not her daytime panties, because she will certainly need diapers. This will be a difficult time for both of you. You must take firm control of the problem. Tell her that you will begin immediately to put diapers on her every night until she has been dry for a long time. It's very important that you are in charge of dressing and changing, not her. Use washable cloth diapers and snap-on rubber panties. After her bath, put her on her bed and lift her legs up for her baby powder. Then pin on a nice thick diaper. Next, slide the open rubber panty under her bottom, bring the panty up in front and fasten the snaps on the sides. Allow her to watch TV as a reward for cooperation, but be prepared for resistance which would necessitate giving her the strap and putting her straight to bed. I hope this works for your daughter. Remember, you must be consistently firm with her--do not allow her to talk her way out of the diapers and baby panties. Communicate your progress! Name: Krissy Country: U.S.A. Comment: My 14 year old son told me and his father he wanted to be a baby again. We have 5 kids so money is kind of tight but, we went out and bought all the baby things. We bought a crib, disposable diapers, bottles, pacifiers,a breast pump (I recently had my 5th child) and all the other baby items. When he got home from school I made my husband diaper him and put him in an adult onesie. He not wets and messes his diaper ALL the time. When my husband takes him to school he puts him in a diaper, onesie, and baby shorts. He is in the 8th grade and is perfectly fine with it. He enjoys it sometimes, when I'm off work I'll go to his school secretly and breast feed him in one of their back rooms so his "friends" don't laugh. If hes naughty we send him to school or back to class in a poopy diaper. One time one of his teachers changed him in front of the class on her desk (of course with my permission) I don't know how long I should let this go one, much less let him nurse. Any suggestions.? Name: Sarah Country: U.S.A. Comment: Jean, your technique seems to have worked well with your daughter. My 13 year old daughter has been wetting her bed for the past couple of weeks, almost every night. I'm not sure if she is having accidents or wetting for real but I am sick of wet sheets every morning and I think it's time for diapers. How did you diaper your daughter? If I'm going to diaper her I want to use the technique properly so it works well. Does this mean I should change her diapers or show her how to do it? If I change them will she be laid down? When should I diaper her and should I let her use the bathroom at all while in diapers? I hope you can offer me some advice soon as I want to get her diapered soon but I don't know exactly how to go with it. Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Shayla, if you were my daughter, and no physical reason for your wetting was found, and medications were not possible, and you refused to wear protection at night, then you would find yourself straddling my leg for the strap and then being dressed in diapers and a rubber panty under your skirt. Strict discipline helped my daughter get control of her wetting. Name: Shayla Country: U.S.A. Comment: Such as what, Miss Jean? Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Dear Shayla, if you were my daughter and still bedwetting at age 23 I would definitely have you examined by a doctor. If you didn't have any physiological problems, and if medications weren't possible, then I would want you to wear diapers and snap-on rubber panties to keep your bed dry. At your age, if you aren't mature enough to accept the need for proper protection, then perhaps some very firm discipline would be required. Name: Shayla Country: U.S.A. Comment: I'm 23. Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Hi Shayla. My daughter wet her bed almost every night until she was nearly 16, and had poor daytime control also. So yes, I did all her diaper changing both every morning and during the day on weekends. When she arrived home from private school she went straight to her room and got onto her bed ready for me to take her school panty off and put a diaper and rubber snap panty on under her short little skirt. Then she had to get her homework done. Because her rubber panties were well-used they crackled noisily under her skirts and dresses, which was part of her motivation to stop her wetting. However, I have no experience with adult incontinence. What age are you? Name: Shayla Country: U.S.A. Comment: Jean, So you changed all her diapers, too? Did she have to use them for everything? Did you ever also have to diaper her during the day on weekdays? I've always felt something like that would help me. I have accidents at night and wear Goodnights, but there were a couple times I had to wear a tape-on diaper, and they worked better. It was embarrassing, but if I were put back into diapers all the time maybe it would help me to be more motivated, like your daughter. And if I were spanked like a little girl when I needed it, that might be good for me in the end too. But, I don't live at home anymore. Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Yes Shayla, my daughter knew that I would give her the strap on her bare bum for disobedience. This usually happened when she had to go shopping with me on Saturday or to church on Sunday and made a fuss about having to wear diapers and rubber panties. Spanking a child over their diapers is not effective. When I had her straddling my leg, I unsnapped her baby panty and took it down at the back, and unpinned her diaper. This way if she wet during her strapping she still had the diaper and baby panty between her and my nylon stocking. After a good cry and a cuddle, my daughter reluctantly admitted she still needed her diapers on weekends as well as every night. Name: Shayla Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hi Jean, did you ever have to spank your daughter, and if so did you take her diapers down or spank her on her baby diapers? Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Hi Shayla: I disagree. A bedwetting child must wear diapers and rubber panties to bed. A child who has "accidents" during the day must also wear waterproof underwear. My daughter did both and was dressed accordingly. If my daughter wet herself during the week, she knew she would be put into a diaper and a plain snap-on rubber panty under her skirt for Saturday, with knee-high socks. For church on Sunday I put her in a very short crinolined dress and allowed her to have frilly pull-on rubber pants on over the snap-ons, along with fancy ankle socks. She was keenly aware that other girls her age were allowed to wear nylons, while she was still in ankle socks and showing her frilly rubber panty. When she needed changing there were no tights to deal with when her dress was lifted and I was able to quickly get her into a dry diaper and rubber panties. Now that she is dry and older, she admits that being dressed in baby panties gave her the motivation to gain control of her wetting. Name: Shayla Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hi Jean: I always felt that tights enhance the babyish feelings, and there is no denying anyone who looks will see she is being treated as too babyish to wear nylons - she has to wear tights like a little girl. The diaper bulge can still be seen through the bottom of the tights and sometimes you can find the type that have cute little ruffles across the bottom. Changing may be a little harder, but imagine it from the wearer's perspective! Not only is her dress lifted, but now there is an added step of having her tights pulled down! There's no pretending about what is going on! Name: Strict mom Country: Canada Comment: Hi Connie. Your little girl will look adorable in a fancy rubber baby panty under her short dress with the ankle socks. It's so nice to see girls her age properly dressed up. Will she lie still without a fuss for the powder, diaper and rubber panty? There will probably be other little girls present with fancy panties showing under their dresses so your daughter won't be the only one. If anyone asks why she is in a diaper and rubber panty, tell them it's because those are your rules. Name: connie Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hi,my 13 year old daughter,Trissy is going to be the only flower girl in my neices wedding in april.Since there are no little girls on either side of the families my neice is having her be a little flower girl.My neice is having her wear a poofy,mid thigh length flower girl dress with a veil,lace anklets and mary jane style shoes.Since she is going to be dressed as a little flower girl,i am going to do a cloth diaper and rhumba plastic pants on her under the dress.my neice suggested it and i agreed to it.she is going to wear them for two reasons-to make her look cute and little girlish and in case she has an accident.Since her dress is mid thigh length,the diaper and rhumba rubber pants will show if she bends over.I am worried what people will say if they see them on her and ask questions.what can i say to any one who asks why she is wearing them? Name: Holly Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hi ash I know how you feel! I hate public changes too, lying up on the mat while your mom cleans your messy bum an puts a new diaper on you, but I wear the diaper and I mess it so it's only my fault so I guess it's ok. I do wear diapers to school, and I'm changed by the nurse. I go to her when I need a change but if I didn't go to her once by lunch then she comes to my next class after lunch and takes me out to get my diaper checked and changed if I need to, because my mom asked her to check me if I don't have a change by lunch since I usually need changing a lot at home. If you do have to wear diapers to school I hope your school nurse is nice mine is really nice about it and doesn't make a fuss en she changes me. Let me know how you are doing! Holly Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Leeann, I hope you and your husband decided on a cloth diaper with a separate rubber panty for your little girl at Christmas. Lots of children her age need to feel the safety and security of being dressed in thick rubber baby panties. But as I have said before, a girl of 13 should not be permitted to wear tights and should be kept in little white socks to make changing easier and to ensure that the rubber panty is visible under her short dresses as part of her discipline. Name: bobby Country: U.S.A. Comment: Dear MEGAN and Cheryl When the older children are in diapers for teasing the youngest are they wet or dry in the mornings hugs and kisses Bobby Name: leeann Country: U.S.A. Comment: my husband and i adopted a 13 year old daughter back in october from an orphanage.we are dressing her up for the holidays in a cute pink and maroon holiday dress with white tights and black shoes.we want to know what would be the best diaper for her to wear under the tights,cloth or disposable?she will be wearing the outfit to a christmas party and also on christmas eve and day.other moms have told us the cloth diaper and plastic pants work the best are are more traditional for girls her age.can any one give us some advice on this matter? Name: mark Country: U.S.A. Comment: i think you all need some serioues help,thinking its ok to wear diapers whats wrong with you all Name: trissy Country: U.S.A. Comment: i am 15 and going thru catholic confirmation next may.i have to wear a white dress and veil with tights and shoes as do all the girls.my mom told me i am going to wear plastic panties under my tights and that she is asking the relatives to give me the tights,plastic panties,under shirt for christmas.i dont want the plastic panties to wear under my tights.what can i do? Name: IS THI REAL Country: India Comment: IS THIS STUFF REAL. OR A JOKE. ITS A LOT OF QUESTIONS AND NO ANSWERS. SOME THIS STUFF SOUND BE REPORTED TO CHILD PROTECTION SERVICES. Name: diaperlover Country: U.S.A. Comment: I'm 12 and I am bed wetting. My parents say since I wet the bed I should just be a baby. Which means crib, bib, bottle, diaper, highchair, baby shows, babytalk, and everything else. Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Protection of the bed can be achieved with disposable diapers, but motivation to stop wetting can only be achieved by mom dressing the child in a rubber baby panty over cloth diapers. At 15, both you and your twin brother should be taken by your mother from the bath and put on the bed for powdering, diapers and your baby panties. Unwillingness to cooperate should be strictly punished. Name: cloth diapered Country: U.S.A. Comment: help!i am a girl 15 and a bedwetter and have twin brother who is also a bedwetter.i have to wear a thick,pin on cloth diaper and adult plastic pants to bed every night while my brother only wears a goodnites.i have told my parents i dont like the diaper and plastic pants and that i want to wear goodnites also,but they said no that cloth diapers and rubber pants are more appropriate for girls than for boys and i have to live with them.i have talked to other bedwetting teen girls who wear cloth diapers and rubber pants and they say the same thing-that that is what their parents require them to wear.the worst part about it is my mom puts the diaper and rubber pants on me at bedtime while my brother puts on his goodnites by himself.why do parents think their daughters are babies and make wear the cloth diaper and rubber pants to bed? Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: Krissy, your parents are putting a diaper and rubber panty on you for dress-up occasions because they want you to stop your childish bed-wetting and will continue to dress you like a little girl until you no longer wet your bed. Ask your mother if she would allow you to wear a rubber panty with frills on the bum if you don't make a fuss about wearing diapers under your dresses. The fancy rubber baby panty would look much prettier than plain ones. Name: curtis Country: U.S.A. Comment: hey i'm 20 years old i have a weting problem i have to wher dipers a some times its anberisenbecause inow its not my felt but when u cant aford the and you walking in the stor and every bodie strats laghfing a me it up sets meit's not far my step dad beat @sexial abusde me but i would prefre wearing a diper over being laght at i wish that i could get a free shiment in of goodnites it would make ever thang better Name: krissy Country: U.S.A. Comment: i am 15 and a bedwetter and i am required by my parents to wear a thick cloth diaper and rubber pants[plastic pants] to bed every night.at bed time i have to lay on my bed and my mom putd the diaper and rubber pants on me just like a baby.i have to wear a diaper and rubber pants under my dresses for special occasions and holidays which i dont like doing.last easter i was embarrassed having a diaper and pink rubber pants on under my easter dress,then i was confirmed and had to wear a white dress and veil and was put into a diaper and rubber pants under my dress.i dont need the diaper during the day,but my parents make me wear them under my dresses to make feel cute and little girlish.how can i get them to stop making me wear them for holidays,etc.? Name: babyfloyd Country: U.S.A. Comment: hay you all shod not fel bad a bout having to wear diapers look at me im 10 years old and have to wear babydiapers 24/7 i peee and poopy my pants every 30 min like a new born baby and wear a bib and eat babyfood all baby stuff Name: Ash Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hi holly, my mom has done it. She put me in diapers in the day too. I now have to wear diapers everynight and all through the day, even when we go out so everyone will know I'm wearing diapers. She changes me in the public baby changing rooms on a changing table. It's so humiliating laying there having my mom change my very messy diaper like the rest of the 3 year olds in there. But I do need diapers so I guess it's not my moms fault. She said that when I go back to school after summer she won't diaper me for school but she'll see how it goes. Are you diapered for school? If so, who changes you? And do other kids know? It's good hearing from someone the same as me! Name: Holly Country: U.S.A. Comment: Ash I'm the same too. I also mess diaper but I wear them 24/7 so I have to and my mom also changes my diapers and I also have to lay down and be changed like a baby like you do. I'm so glad I found someone who's tthe same. I'm 13 also. Do you like wearing diapers? I don't mind it but I wear then 24/7 since a year ago so I'm used to it. At first it was awkward having my mom change me especially since I have to do everything in them so I was sometimes very messy. I don't mind that now though. It's just normal. Hope your mom doesn't put you in diapers in the day too but if she does don't worry about it you'll get used to it. Good luck, it would be nice to hear how you get on it's nice to finally find someone exactly the same. Name: strict mom Country: Canada Comment: At age 21 you should not need spanking to get your diapers and rubber panties on. You should accept that you must wear them to keep your bed dry. When my daughter was 16 she still needed diapers and rubber panties every night for bed, but also had them on under her short little crinolined Sunday dresses. She wanted to wear sheer nylon stockings but was kept in fancy white ankle socks to match the frilly rubber panty that I put on over her plain snap-on panty. She accepted the night-time diapers but often required a firm bare-bottom strapping to get her Sunday baby panty on. You are now too old for this. Name: DiaperPunishment Country: U.S.A. Comment: im 21 years old and i still have bedwetting problems and my aunt and girlfriend put me back into diapers and they punish me. i have to use the diapers and cant use the bathroom plus i have a plastic sheet down and rubber pants during sleeping. my punishments are spanking, corner time, and knee bouncings but besides the punishments i get treated like a complete baby meaning they make me use pacifiers, bottles, they hold me, public changings/punishments, and regular changes. ANYONE GET THIS? Name: Jean Country: Canada Comment: For Amber, my daughter was required to wear cloth diapers under a thick, snap-on rubber panty every night for bed until she was 16. Because she also had daytime accidents, I put them on her under her short little party dresses for special occasions. She wanted to wear tights over her rubber panty but I say a child who needs diapers and rubber panties should wear frilly white socks to make changing easier. I'm sure your mother will keep you in diapers and rubber panties until you are dry. If you cause any fuss about it, you should by punished with a firm strapping on your little bare bottom. Name: Katie Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hi Ash. I'm also 13 and I have to wear diapers to bed. And yes, my mom puts them on me like you. At night I have to lay down and she picks up my legs and powders me and puts the diaper on me like I'm a baby. I wear Huggies with winnie the pooh and tigger on them. It makes me feel like a baby but its kind of nice to have my mom take care of me, plus she always says I'm a good girl and calls me Sweety. I'd rather wear diapers be her good girl than wake up with the bed all wet and have her mad at me. Name: zack Country: United Kingdom Comment: hi all! gust started to whet the bed i need to know what to do my mum says i shold were diapers but i dont know HELP! Name: zack Country: United Kingdom Comment: hi all! gust started to whet the bed i need to know what to do my mum says i shold were dipers but i dont know HELP! Name: zack Country: United Kingdom Comment: hi all! gust started to whet the bed i need to know what to do HELP! Name: Ash Country: U.S.A. Comment: I wear diapers because I wet at night and on trips but recently I started messing in them too which is awkward because my mom changes my diaper because I am not allowed to change myself. It is so embarassing if she changes me and I'm messy. She's thinking of putting me in diaper in the day too now! Help! Does anyone else mess in their diapers? Does anyone else have to lay down for their mom to put on/ change their diapers? I'm 13 by the way. Name: lighta Country: India Comment: would it be possible to find goodnites diaper at chennai ??? Name: Katie Country: U.S.A. Comment: Mom came back from the store with Huggies today. She put one on me when she got back and I have to wear it for the rest of the day and to bed too. Name: Katie Country: U.S.A. Comment: I wet every night and now my mom said she's putting me in diapers. She's at the store now getting them. I'm nervous now & don't know what to do. Name: beth Country: U.S.A. Comment: jennifer im same as u was dared 2 wear diaper 1 day n used it n never got out of diapers since my mom changes me n I hav diapers 247 n she seriosly will change me anywhere it pretty embrssing feel sorry 4 u Hun x x x Name: tashapampers Country: Malaysia Comment: helo,i 13 year old.i like to wear diapers but i can"t tell my mom i like to wear diapers.and i bedwetting at my bed...if i can tell my mom to change my diapers i will happy...but my mom will angry at me..please give me some idea.... Name: diaper girl Country: Other Comment: to jennifer i pooed two time in oneday so my mom put me in diapers 247 now i do not like it Name: NO why wont it stop Country: U.S.A. Comment: Ughh... I am eleven and I wet my bed at night and so does my nine year old sister and it gets annoying. I mean I've NEVER EVER been to a slumber party and its crazy for a girl at my age to not attend to there frilly little slumber parties and then the day after they will be like where were you and why weren't you there and I'll have to make up an excuse. But I mean I don't mind the goodnights I wear at night. Name: pampergirl Country: U.S.A. Comment: Once when i was 14 we were at my family reunion and my mom made me wear me pampers but not my trousers so i walked around in my diaper my family thought it was funny and i was bottle fed that day and everybody was wanting 2 change me it was sooo embarrassing now my mom doesnt let me wear trousers except st school but i'm getting use to it and i kinda like pooing in my pamper it makes me feel less stressed about wetting the bed or not bing able to not make it cuz i carry my pamper on me but my mom is talking bout getting me baby stuff cuz i keep leaking in the bed and 1 night i had a really really huge cramp and when she put me to bed i let it all out and the diapers was filled so when i pooed during the night it got all over the bed and now my mom makes me go before bed then changes me(she wont let me change myself) Name: pampergirl Country: U.S.A. Comment: I am 13 and i wear diapers it all started when i was 7 and i pooed the bed and so my mum said it was ok that it was just an accident but then the next night it got worst so my mu got me pampers diapers and she started changing me when i go home and i had 2 wear thwm all night them i started wetting and pooing my pants during the day so now im in pampers 24/7 and i love them but @ school i have 2 have teachers change me and my mom doesnt let me use the potty i have 2 use the pamper untill my mum think i can be a big girl and when we go places like the store she checks my diapers and changes me in public one time she changed me at the mall and all my friends saw because they were in the store Name: Shane Country: U.S.A. Comment: I'm 13 I wear diapers if I don't put one on and wet the bed I get spanked bare bum or if some leaks out I get spanked I've had a weting prob for ever please help Name: amber Country: U.S.A. Comment: help!i am a girl 15 and a bedwetter.i have to wear cloth diapers and plastic pants to bed at night.my parents require me to wear them.i do not like wearing them and my parents wont buy me goodnites or pullups.the worst part is my mom comes in every night and put s the diapers and plastic pants on me like i am a baby.i am being baptized on easter sunday and was told i have to wear a poofy white dress with lace socks and white shoes.my mom told me i have to wear diapers and plastic pants under the dress for the day.i dont want to do this also.what can i do?i am really frustrated with my parents Name: no1 Country: U.S.A. Comment: dear melanie holt, i think you need to confront your mom about this and tell her that your not a 2 year old anymore. maybe you should ask her why she is treating you like this. i hope this is helpful but i dont really know what you can do. <3, gym. gurl! Name: gym. gurl Country: U.S.A. Comment: im 14 and i have wet the bed 2 times in the last 6 weeks. both times i have had a dream wear im locked out of the bathroom and i have 2 go very bad. every time i wake up and find that i have wet the bed. i have gotten up and washed my sheets without my parents knowing. if i tell my mom she will be very angry. what should i do?!?! Name: melanie holt Country: U.S.A. Comment: im 13 and i dont wet the bed i dnt no why but my mum makes me wear a nappy and i hate it i have a PRAM A COT AND A DUMMY i have to wear the nappies at school to and my teacher has to change it if i go in my nappy then i have to stay in my cot all weekand and i have to get bottle fed im not aloud to use the toilets though. if i poo my nappy i have to go around all day in the same nappy im only aloud to have my nappy changes one a day thats it and if i go out im not aloud to were trousers just my nappy its so embarrasing and my mum changes me in the middle of a restuarant some1 help me Name: Ashleine Country: U.S.A. Comment: Dear Megan, I think you should put your daughter in diapers. My daughter is 13 and she started wetting day and night so she is back in diapers 24/7 until she outgrows it. I'm not trying to be cruel to her, it's just to keep her protected from wet sheets and underwear. Name: Megen Country: U.S.A. Comment: I have a 10 year old dauther she alway wet at night and in the day she shold i put her in diapers ? Name: alf Country: U.S.A. Comment: What's so bad about wearing diapers. I'm 11 and I like them. They feel good. alton Name: Gabriella Country: U.S.A. Comment: I recently had no choice but to put my 13 year old daughter back in diapers due to her constant bed wetting. I decided just to diaper her at night, but one night she'd had numerous bowel movements so I decided on continuing to diaper her that day as this was unusual. Unfortunately when we were at the supermarket I noticed she needed a diaper change so had no choice but to change her in the bathroom. I explained this to her and she simply nodded. When we were in the bathroom I laid her on the changing table and began changing her diaper, much to my surprise, with no fuss from her. A few hours later we were still out and she asked for a diaper change, no fuss. She continued with this behaviour for a few days, before revealing that she enjoys wearing diapers now. This is great as I can change her diapers when needed, without any fuss. But is this normal for a 13 year old? I'd love to hear others' stories too! Name: Frederick Country: Gambia Comment: Hi. Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it. I am from Niger and now teach English, give true I wrote the following sentence: "Airline tickets to germany can be bought online and the airline tickets to germany can even got from the counters at the airport in the city where one." With respect ;-), Frederick. Name: laura Country: U.S.A. Comment: hey Jennifer i am the same as u i started off just wareing them out side of school but now just ware a pull up to school no one knows what kind of diapers do you ware Name: Jennifer Country: U.S.A. Comment: Recently at a sleepover I was dared to wear a diaper. My mom took it as a joke too & in the morning said "lay down & I'll change you" but when she checked me I had actually pooed it. Bad. She put another diaper on me & later (btw my friends had gone home) she checked me & I had done another bad poo. I didn't mean to but anyway she diapered me for the rest of the day & sure enough I needed the diaper. I had to wear diapers for a week & then my mom said that everyday after school I will get a diaper put on until the following morning & on Fridays after school until mnday morning ibwould be in diapers 24/7. I now have this routine & I must wear diapers on any days that I'm not at school. I'm 13 & wearing diapers is okay but my mom changes me anywhere. I usually do a lot of dirty diapers which can be a little awkward but I guess that's what diapers are for. Does anyone else have a situation similar to mine? Name: Ulotol Country: United Kingdom Comment: I share a room with my younger sister and she is alway's wetting the bed I tease her but that doesnt get me or her anywhere . Finally she stoppoed for at least a month and i was reileved but a few weeks later she started wetting the bed,I don't agree with nappies for children over the ages of 6 its unappropriate. So I don't volunteer for my sister to use a nappy. What should I do? Name: shubhangana Country: India Comment: my son mihir 6 years wets his bed daily, he says that i feel lazy getting up from bed even the potty near the bed is useless Name: MAYBE Country: India Comment: COULD BEDWETTING HAVE SOMETHING TO DO WITH PUBERTY? Name: nate Country: U.S.A. Comment: I am a 22 year old male, I wet the bed until i was ten years old. My parents tried everything to get me to stop. I went through months of hypnosis and years of therapy neither of which worked. My parents tried one of those bed wetting alarms, the device got shorted out and i was electrocuted in my sleep for like an hour until my brother woke me up. They gave me medication, and would not let me drink anything after 5pm. If you are a parent trying to stop your child's bw, stop and ask yourself what you know about it. If you never wet the bed you don't know anything about it, so stop acting like you do. Your child is the one carrying the burden not you, the child want's to stop more than you want them too. I quit on my own around age ten. I got a quite alarm that would wake me up every 2 and a half hours or so throughout the night. and just talk to your kids. the reason why we wet the beds as kids is because most kids are scared or stressed out about things. Me and most the kids in my group therapy who wet the bed were also molested at early ages. The key is to not talk directly about the bed wetting don't even mention it. Name: jean Country: United Kingdom Comment: i am a babysitter and i had 2 girls aged 7 and 12 and they both wore nappies and i was told to check them reguarly and had to change them alot they wore pampers and they did not seem to mind being changed when they pooed i could smell it was bad but they were very nice girls and were easy to change no problems Name: lisa Country: United Kingdom Comment: karen my daugter is like yours she wets the bed and after dinner she goes up stairs to get ready for geting her nappie on also her frend stays round a lot and she also wets so they get on very well togither Name: karen Country: United Kingdom Comment: i have a girl that wets the bed and she is 13 and her frend also wets too so they both where nappies to bed and i think its good if your not the only one that does it Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Cheryl, Hi, Our youngest one still is soaked every night. Her oldest sister has been relatively good, but is currently in discipline again for teasing her sister. Our middle one has been good lately. times lately for teasing her younger sister. She will be in it for one month,and she must do her own laundry and hang it out on the line to dry , and then fold it and put it away as part of her punishment. hopefully she will finally learn not to tease her sister this time. Keep in touch. Cordially, Meggin Name: Experienced Mom Country: U.S.A. Comment: Bed-wetting has been accepted as a common problem for young children. However, when the wetting continues after 5 years old, testing for kidney condition should be done. My oldest son wet the bed until his adulthood. He was born a sleepy baby and know experiences urinary tract infections which are uncommon for males. Please do not spank or embarress a child or let other people tease them about this problem. The child will become shamed or angry. Be patient and concern for their feelings. Weak bladder can be heritary. Would you punish a person with an disability...a bed-wetter is not able to control their bladder while sleeping; usually the wetting occurs while in deep sleep. Love and compassion is the best treatment. Follow through with a medical check-up,the condition could be more serious than you want to believe. Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Meggin, Nice to hear from you again. All remains quiet in our house. The older one is being good. For the younger one I still pad her up and put the plastic pants on for bedtime so she can get a good nights sleep. The older one has been real good lately. How about yours? Cheryl Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Dear Cheryl, Hi. How are you? How have things been going with your older daughter lately? Has she teased her sister lately? Our yunger one hsn't done thisin a while, esp as they both know that if they are in ddiscipline, that they have to wash and dry thier own laundry and put it away as part of thier punishement. Also if one of them is in ddiscipline, thier lil sis still gets to ehlp get evrything ready, and everyone who is not being punished watches so that they know what wil happen if they do the sasme thing. Write back, soon, ok? Cordially, Meggin Name: sadie Country: India Comment: Jane I just wet. And diapers aren't any fun either. Name: jane Country: India Comment: sadie do you wet the bed or soil it well if you do then a diapers the best thing because to wash the sheets evry days no fun for any one Name: Sadie Country: U.S.A. Comment: Jane I dont think you should put your daughter in diapers. My mom puts me in diapers at night and its not fair!!!! Name: sara Country: India Comment: hi K.Muralidharan have you tryed a nappie ? Name: K.Muralidharan Country: India Comment: My son 10 years old having bed wetting problem. I am studying many behavioural ways to find solution to the problem. Wake up during night again a problem for both and not able to follow, is there any other solutionn please share . I am fearing to go for medication because of side effects. Name: jane Country: U.S.A. Comment: hi all my 11 year old girl has started to wee the bed at night i am trying to get her diapers i got her dry nights but i want to get her diapers does any one no the best kind to get thanks all Name: Armand Country: Canada Comment: My boys wet the bed a few times a week they wear 12ply training pants made for them. They each have 2 pairs of tight plastic pants on. If they have a dry night I take one pair off. If they have a wet night I put two pairs on no questions asked. Some times one has 9pairs of plastic pants. Leg cutters leaves red marks on legs tight. Dry nights comes very soon. On week ends at home long tee shirt with no pants. Can see the rubber pants for this is their pants. To go out on week ends just tight short pants with rubber pants showing out of legs if possible. Not too much but a little. This is the rule for bedwetters at my house. When they will be dry off will go the rubber pants butthe training pants will stay on for a while. When I was a boy I had to wear playtex rubber pants with pin on 4 diapers. 24/7 They were very tight the rubber pants but not leg cutters very easy on the legs. Later when I out grew the playtex rubber pants I wore super size tower plastic pants leg cutters. But not for long I did stop bed wetting. Put your children in diapers pull ups. good nites teen throw away diapers and 2 pairs of plastic pants but not leg cutters. They make very nice teen plastic pants to day. day. Name: try this Country: India Comment: mas-ter-bate Name: rachel Country: U.S.A. Comment: hi all i started weting the bed a few weeks ago and im 12 my wee sister and brother ware diapers to bed and now my mum makes me where them so i get changed with my we brother and sister and she keeps me in them in the week ends in puplic places its so embarracing does any one elce get this treatment Name: wet one more time Country: U.S.A. Comment: when is it going to stop? i am 19 Name: howits easy. Country: India Comment: were a diaper. whats worng with that?i wet,and diapers are the only thing that helps. Name: joey Country: U.S.A. Comment: it happend again this morning. i wet the bed and when my mom came in to wake me up she pulled me out of bed. then she got the paddle off the wall. she sat down in the chair and pulled me close to her. then she pulled my pj bottoms down and pulled me across her lap. then she started spanking me with the paddle and it realy hurt. Name: joey Country: U.S.A. Comment: hi my name is joey. i am 10 years old. i wet the bed alot. when i do my mom gets real mad at me. this morning when she woke me up and saw that i wet the bed again she yanked me out of bed pulled my pants down and spanked me realy hard. she said if i did it again that she would use the paddle on me. i don't want to get the paddle how can i stop wetting the bed ? Name: hehehe Country: India Comment: i wet my self today when i was talking to my boyfriend. Name: bre Country: Libya Comment: cool cute sorry adout the frist one Name: bre Country: Libya Comment: stped hait it Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Meggin, I recently had to get larger plastic panties for y younger one as I was having leaks and could not figure out why. So I put her in the bedtime diapers and plastic panties earlier and let her play and run around. After she did this for awhilr I chescked the plastic pants and found that they rode up over the edge of her diapers at the back of her legs and that caused the leaks. Larger plastic panties did it. Yes she is wet in the mornings still. The oldest one has been behaving well since the last 2 times I had younger sis get the diapers and plastic pants out when it was time for them to be put on older sis. Cheryl Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Dear Cheryl, Hi, How are you? I was wondering, how are things going with your youngest one? Is she still soaked most mornings? I have found that ours is more wet in colder weather, and also has more frequent day accidents when it is cold outiside. I really think that in addition to her problem, that the weather really afects her problem. by the way how are things going with her older sister lately? Write back when you get a chance ok? P.S. Thanks for the tip, our younger one already wears thicker diapers in the colder weather, and we wometimes use doublers, too. also her platic panties do not seem to be too small,I recently checked them and we alway try to make sure that her didies are totally covered, that is why I was wondering why in addition to her being soaked, things leaked and her clothes were wet, too. Any other ideas form you or others as to why this may be happening wound be greatly apppreciated. Thank you again, very much! Cordially, Meggin Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Meggin, You might need to add diaper doublers to the diaper. This adds more padding to the diaper area. Also you might try the next larger size pastic pants. Name: jake Country: U.S.A. Comment: hi,iam 13 i wet my self at night,and i use diapers and it works good,and i am very happy with the out come. just try it and you well be happy. Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hello again, everyone, I just posted a question and made a mistake in my post, we are having the problem which was mentioned with the younger one of our three oldest daughter, who has a medical problem, and has a underdeveloped bladder, and has accidents and wets the bed, butr also needs to wear didies during the day, as she has some accidents then, too. We recently noticed this problem of her plastic panties leaking, in the daytime. If canyone knows why this maight happen, or can possibly tell us how to try and prevnt this I would appreciate it very much. Cordially, Meggin Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Dear Cheryl or anyone Else, Hello, I was wondering if anyone can possibly answer a quewtion about a problem whioch we have been having ately. Do you know why platic pants might leak when thye are used with cloth diapers during the day. OUr older one has recently been soaked and everything has leaked a few times lately, whle she was wearing either snap on plastic pants or pull up ones, and this is confusing, especially as her didies are tucked inside of her plastic pants, and as they completely cover her didies, we use cloth pin on diapers or cloth pull ups. Does this happen to others children? Meggin Name: Kim Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hi Amy I'm 12. Name: amy Country: U.S.A. Comment: kim how old are you ? Name: Meggin Country: India Comment: Dear Cheryl, Hello, It is nice tohear from you again. Our youngest one has been behaving lately, but our older one still gets in trouble a lot. We have also been having problems with her helping out with her chores and laudry,which is part of thier discipline to teach them respoonsibility, our older one hates to do laudry, so we are trying something new, if either of the girls run low on thiier supplies, that is if they have 2 or less changes left, then their discipline is extended a week. So far our younger one has only had her total time being disciplined ext4ended once so far,while her olkder sis doesn''t seem to care about anything, and has had her discipline time extended twice. She has also been in trouble as she has not been trying at all in school, and brought home a very poor report card lately, with most of her grades below a C-.She does not ususally get disciplined if her grades are a Cor above, which we think is only fair, but she dowsn'teem to care, even though sboth her and her sister is gifted and in all honor level classes. So she is in trobule right now, need I say more? I hope things get better. Write back when you get a chnace,ok? Cordially, Meggin Name: doing great Country: U.S.A. Comment: it feels so good to wet my self. Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Meggin, Yes she if behaving ever since I had younger sis help get the diapers and plastic pants ready for older sis. How are yours behaving? Cheryl Name: charlie Country: United Kingdom Comment: i am a black boy and i love the smell of curry (and my mothers semen) Name: Meggin Country: India Comment: Dear Cheryl, Hi. It is nice to hear from you again. How are things going?Is your older girl still behaving? I hope she is. Write back whenyou get a chance, ok? Meggin Name: doing great Country: U.S.A. Comment: hi, i been weting for a week and last night i put on a diaper,and it felt good to wake up with a dry bed! it works!!! Name: Kim Country: U.S.A. Comment: I've been in diapers at night now for 6 months. That's how my mom decided to deal with it. I don't like it but I have dry bed & blankets now. Name: the saddle club fan Country: India Comment: yeah i wet, its bad, wet beding,wet pants. i am tierd of it. help me somebody!! Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Meggin, Our younger is still wet each morning, wears a double diaper with a soaker keeps her dry all night. The older one is being quiet right now. the last time I had younger sis help me get the diapers and plastic panties ready for older sis. Older sis has been quiet since. Name: ZARIA JOHNSON Country: U.S.A. Comment: i LOVE THE WAY YOU ARE MADE PEOPLE HAVE BABYS THANYOU Name: Cheryl Country: U.S.A. Comment: hahaha day dremer. Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Cheryl, Hi, did you read my latest message? How are things going there with both of your daughters? Our oldest is in diapers again for teasing her sister for one week. How is your younger one doing? Ours is soaked most mornings lately, as it has been much colder here, and sometimes we have to change her 2 times during the night,as she gets so upset and cries when she has an accident, but I don't mid as she can't help it. Write back soon, ok? cordially. Meggin Name: yeah Country: U.S.A. Comment: why do i want to wet my self? like when i need 2 go 2 the toylet,i think of weting myself Name: hey you Country: U.S.A. Comment: do you know how hard it is to put on your own diaper? try it some time,its not easy as you might think. if you wet at night,its best to just relax and try not to get upset,cause it wont help,it well only make it harder and you well wet longer. Name: amy Country: U.S.A. Comment: yeh i now how it feels kim Name: Kim Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hi Amy. I wear diapers to bed every night. My mom puts them on me like a baby and it's really embarassing. I have to lay down on my bed while she picks my legs up, wipes, lotions and powders me, then puts a thick disposable diaper on me. This has been happening for months now. It's worse when we have company staying over (like now). My little cousin is staying in my room for the weekend and she sees me get put in my diaper at night. I usually wet a lot, so I get changed in the night too. Last night she was awake to watch. I've been diapered by my mom, my aunt, and my big sister. Just remember you're not the only girl going through it. Name: thinker Country: U.S.A. Comment: i think its fun to were diapers,cause i dont remember what it was like when i was a baby.so now i know what its like to be a baby, yay!!! Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: There Cheryl, Hi again, I forgot to ask how are things there currnetly, any improbement with your older one? I hope you didn't mind my recent post or suggestions, but after tring many things, we found that what Itold yoou works the best for the grils when they tease thier little sis. Email me back and let me know how tings ae going, ok? Meggin P.S. We are still waiting for progress reports form school, we will get them next week, ans see how the girls grades ae, and if their grades are still poor or have imoproved, eps as not misbehaving ing or rebelling and doing good in school is very improtant for them both mow and in the future. Meggin Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: To Just wondering> Our two oldest daughters are 10, and 8, then thier younger sis is 6, and we also have twin girls 16 months old. Meggin Name: Meggin Country: India Comment: Dear cheryl, HI, How are you? How have things been there lately? Things with the yougest are still as yours are here too, wet mornings, ect... The two older girls have both been in and out of diapers for teasing thier lil sis, but the younger has only been in them once in the past month for teaing her little sister and we think she may be making progress,we will see. I waa thinking lately and have a suggestion for you if your older one tease her lil siter again you can try and it might work, it seems to work better than anything else for us. Below is an idea of what we do, with the girls. When she teases her little sister, tell her that she has earned time in diaers, but tht beginning the very next day, when se gets home right afer schol, she may use the bathroom once, but then she has to go upstairs immediately and will be in diapers, every night as long as she is currently in diaper discipline for and that on Firday night, right after school, as part of her punishment she will also be in diapers 24/7 until the following Monday morning before school. Our girls also have all privilidges taken away during this time, computer, phone,palying with friends, ect, but if their firends come over for something special or wannto to see them, or do schoolwork togehter, they may for special occasions, be told they but with the understanding that they must wear diapers under thier regular clothes, all weekend, and wherever we go, unless it is a spcial occasion, or a special holiday. They just have looser fitting clothes on over thier didies, we have bouhgt some things which are a bit looser, eg, sometimes they weasr looe fitting pants or shorts, or a blouse and a long skirt, also this way the punishmetn is kept just betwen them and us, uless any family members know about this.You can also have her help you with chores, we do this, by having her do such things as each time she is changed, rinsing her wet and messy diapers out and putting them in thier diaper pails to soak, and she cn help you take her laundry after it is washed and she can help you by helping carry it to her room, and placing everything where it is needed. Also, as part of her discipline she can also help by washing out her plastic pants every morning and rinsing them and putting them someplace to dry. We do these things as long as the discipline lasts, esp for many repeat behaviors in a short period of time. And of couse each time they repeat the misbehavior, the punishment is extnded in length. Also, if they have misbehaved realy badly, or many time in a short period, of time, we have on occasion, in addition to everthing else made them say in bed, and do thier homework in bed, too, all weekend, beginning on a Friday night,as part of thier punishment. This seems to work best of all for teaing we have found.I hope it may help. P> S> I forgot, we also make them watch us get everything ready and when thye are in diapers as punishment, they have to have Mommy get them ready for bed BEFORE thier little sister,is gotten ready, in addition thye mhave an automatic earlier than usual bedtime, and still have thier little sister wathc them while thye are put i in diapers, as this seems to help Email me bcak when you get a chance. Meggin Name: to amy Country: U.S.A. Comment: hi, you know what helps stop wetting? if you tell some body you know well.tell them how you feel about wetting the bed,then just were a diaper at night and take it off in the day.but if anybody puts you down for wetting, dont think anything of it cause wel all have done it at one time or another. i was a heave wetter when i was younger, now its not so bad, but i still wet my self at night, and i am 20! i know its stupid, but it happens. dont be emberased about it. thats the main thing! Name: amy Country: U.S.A. Comment: no i dont wet in days just night Name: to amy Country: U.S.A. Comment: oh thats hot, i got a idea for you, 1st, do you need them? do you realy wet in the day.or just at night? Name: amy Country: U.S.A. Comment: hi i were diapers at night i hate them my mum changes me when i get in from school and have to were them all night and all the time on the weekends help ! Name: wetter 19 Country: U.S.A. Comment: yeah i wet too. Name: give me some tips please Country: U.S.A. Comment: hi i went to sleep for a half hour,and i wet my self, what do i do? it happend 4 times now. does anybody have any ideas? this is not a joke. i need help! soon. Name: wetter Country: U.S.A. Comment: hey, iam 19 and still wet my self Name: its still cool Country: U.S.A. Comment: hi i am 19 and i were dipers,its still cool 4 me. and my friends know too,and thay some times join me and put on diapers for the knight too. and wet in them!! Name: lee wakeling from summerset Country: United Kingdom Comment: hi im lee wakeling im from summerset i have a really small pecker its 3 inches wen big sumtimes its dry wee myself to make it funner to have fun my mum never feeds me so i am forced to eat my poo im normally fed three pieces of bread a day Name: lees mum Country: United Kingdom Comment: hi im lees mum he is 15 im very upset he wet him self everynight he resontly has swung towards boys and a result of of to much erm fun in the bed so bcoz of this hes bein pooing him self more i feel bad for making him eat it Name: warrior Country: United Kingdom Comment: i have 3 sons age 6,8 & 11 all 3 sons are bed wetters they all wear nappies to bed as they dont like waking up in wet pyjamas & sheets i was also a bed wetter so i know it runs in families & that in time all 3 boys will become dry at night Name: i was wondering Country: United Kingdom Comment: meggin and cheryl; how old are your oldest daughters? plz reply Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Meggin, Things are still the same here to. Nightly diapers and plastic pants and wet mornings for the younger one. The older one seems now to be getting the idea maybe about teasing her younger sister. She doesn't like being seen in the diapers and plastic pants. Cheryl Name: Kim Country: U.S.A. Comment: Anyone else here kept in diapers all day when you're home sick from school? Name: Kim Country: U.S.A. Comment: Anyone else here kept in diapers all day when you're home sick from school? Name: cheryl Country: U.S.A. Comment: meggin: i was thinking that maybe thats why thay make fun of eath other, so we will put them in diapers and plastic pants.ect.. nothing is working for me any more,theres lots of yelling and crying and makeing fun,.things are wild right now. good luck. Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Dear Cheryl, Hi again, I forgot to tellyou that yes, the girls' younger sister stil is in diapers as she still wets the bed most nights. She may be dry for 2 or 3 nightsand then be saoked (wet) for the next 7 nights, or she may be soaked for 2 weeks in a row. she still has some daytime accidents too. but at lest we know that this is due to her having a medical problem of an immature and weak bladder. And she still cries and gets embarrased about wetting the bed and having daytime accidents,too. And as you know the girls like to tease her at times, this is why they are in and out of diaper punishment. I do know one thing, using cloth diapers and plastic panties, is very uncomfortable for them, so hopefully , sooner or later they wil get the message no to tease thier little sister. and of course they haven't started to tease the yougest tow, the twins yet, as they are only 14 months oldand they know that they are babies and need Mommie to take care of them. cordially, Meggin Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Cheryl, Hi, It is nice to hear from you again, things have been quiet for a month until just last night, our oldest teased her little sister again, so she got a aspanking and was told that she will bein diapers each night right after school each day until the next morning for a weeks for teasing her little sister again for wetting the bed. If she teases her again, the next time she wil be in them for 2 weeks. The youngest one started tolaugh at her older sister, but was warned that if she does this again, she will also be in diapers for one week, for tesaing her older sister, about being punished. We are alos waiting for mid term progress reports form school, as our older daughter does not sem to think that it is important to do well in school,and has gotten 0's on her homework in thepast. The girls are very gifted and hve been told that they need to get a grade of at least a C in all of thier subjects, or they will be properly disciplined. Eachgrade on thier progress report or grde on thier report card below a C earns them a good spanking and time in ddiscipline. We have treid everything else , but have found that this is the only thing which works. We are hoping for the best. We will see in a few weeks. Cordially, Meggin Name: THE HELPER Country: U.S.A. Comment: EVERY ONE ASKS THE SAME THING. WELL I KNOW HOW TO STOP WETTING. clarsenbay@aol Name: Christine Country: U.S.A. Comment: Amanda, Pull a pair of your regular daytime cloth panties up over the plastic pants that will quiet them, it works. Name: amanda age 15 Country: U.S.A. Comment: some good articles.i am a bedwetter and wear a thick cloth diaper and plastic pants to bed every night,my mom put them on me at bedtime.my plastic pants fit blousy and crinkle under my pjs how can i prevent this? Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Meggin, Checking in to say that right now they are both wearing diapers and baby pants to bed. The youngest is wetting pretty regularly and wears diapers and plastic pants to bed every night. Does yours still wear them? The oldest one is spending a few nights in them for teasing. How are your older ones doing? Cheryl Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Dear cheryl, Hello again, How have things been going l;ately with your daughters, I 'd love to hear form you. Write back, soon, ok? Cordially, Meggin Name: dawn Country: United Kingdom Comment: Hi evry one my dauter has a weting problem and i need to get her some nappies what type can you get in the uk and where do u get them shes 13 almost 14 thanks alot dawn Name: laura Country: United Kingdom Comment: hi evry one im 13 and i started to wet the bed about a month ago and 2 weeks ago my mum got me some nappies and a changeing matt and baby powder and nappy cream and after school she babys me all up and only lets me ware my tea shirt and my nappie and washes me in the bath its so humilating help please !!!! Name: rachel Country: United Kingdom Comment: hi i wet the bed and my mum makes me ware nappies and even tho i only wet the bed she still makes me ware nappies all day and as soon as i get home she gets a nappy out and changes me its soo embaracing i ware a scirt at school so no one nos i ware a nappy but it makes so much noise im worried some one will find out and she dosnet let me ware panties over them and i dont have any more help mee !!!!! Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Cheryl, Hi, How have things been going there lately with your daughters? also is the youngest one dry more nights now, or is she still wet most nights as our one girl is? Write bck soon, ok? Cordially, Meggin Name: Country: India Comment: recently i have been wetting and soiling the bed at night and sometimes my knickers. so when i came home from school the other day my mum told me to go over to her then she got out a bag of nappies and told me to take my knickers off. she layed me down on the floor and put me in a nappy. now i have to wear them to bed and all day during the weekend and i am 11 years old. Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Cheryl. Hi, we do things the same way you do, we get everything ready while they watch and then everything is put on later. we also do this so that they have time to think about things, as you do. Cordialy, Meggin Name: Annnoms Country: U.S.A. Comment: It really is embarrisng but i still wet the bed and im 11 and somtimes...I wet myself in public and i gotta wear Dipers! what do i do i am already wearing them. Name: adam Country: United Kingdom Comment: a lot of parents here should be ashamed of themselves! by embarrassing, punishing or ridiculing your children you will only make the problem worse. kids/adults dont wet the bed on purpose and most will grow out of it! go to parenting classes before you spank your child idiots Name: Country: Other Comment: I was in nappys until I was 5 oh and by the way bed wetters if you need help go to a school nurse or a GP. Good luck Name: Dani Country: U.S.A. Comment: i am 14 years old, and i am still wetting the bed every once and a while.. usually about 1 every 2 weeks, and if im lucky, once a month. Is this going to keeping happening to me? It is soooo eembarassing because im going into high school now!!! i shouldnt be wetting the bed? what should i do? - Dani Name: Kim Country: U.S.A. Comment: I'm now wearing diapers to bed every night. Mom puts them on me right before I go to bed. It's humiliating but I'm starting to get used to it. At least there aren't wet blankets in the morning. Has anyone else been put back in diapers? Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Meggin, Yes sometimes she is wet and she knows how her sister feels. Right now she is being good and is not wearing her diapers and plastic pants. When they have to get everything out and watch mommy get things ready is it then time for them to have them put on or do you do it earlier so they can think about them. I get them out earlier and she watches me get them ready and then later she gets them put on. Cheryl Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Dear CHheryl. hello again, i forgot to ask you, when your older daughter is punished, iif i can ask, is she wet in the morning, so she knows how her sister feels. i am assuming yes,/ meggin oh also in case i forgot to tell you now we have 5 girls, the two oldest, their younger sis, and two twin girls who were born last july. Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Cheryl. hi, nice to hesr from you. TO answer your questins, things have been quiet here, until judt the other day. both gitls teased their younger sis again, after beung warned what would happen ig they did this, so they are both in diapers for a month, and as our oldest still insisted on keepimg on teasing her sis she has been told she will be in tem 24/7 for the 1st 2 weks for this, and ropld her if she does not stop teasing her lil sis she will be in thrm 24/7 for the rest of the summer. her suster was also told the same thing and warned about the possible consequences of teasing her lil sis. To answer your question, our youngesthas had a few more dry nights lately, but still has mosly wet nights, as she has an underdeveloped bladder, that she was diagnosed with at birth. we also get things ready early for our young one, but if the older girls are being punished for teasing their sister, we wait until it is time for bed,or time to be changed duting the day and they have to help get everything needed out, and watch Mommie get everything ready,9eg. fold rhier didies and put theie plasric panties out on their beds. if they are punished they are also reminded each time this happens of why they are in diapers, to try and help reinforce their disciplne,and hopefully help to learn to be more mature and grow up. also, i don'y know if i told you this before or not, but both older girls have to help rinse out their didies when in punishment and and also have to help do their laundry and fold and put it away. write back when you get a chance. cordially, meggin Name: moxham Country: U.S.A. Comment: bed wetting still at 12 what can we do Name: kyle Country: U.S.A. Comment: i am kyle. I am 8 year old boy. i need help. i peed the bed agian this morning and my mom spanked me again. she is going to take me to the store and by diapers. she also said that she is going to spank me longer and harder if i don't stop peeing my bed. how can i stop ? Name: Kim Country: U.S.A. Comment: Well it's happened again and now my mom went out and actually bought diapers for me. She says if I wet again tonight I'll have to start wearing them to bed. What can I do? I need help fast. Name: Kim Country: U.S.A. Comment: I'm 11 and I'm wetting the bed for like a month now. I can't wake up until I'm already peeing and then it's too late. My mom gets mad then says shes sorry and it's not my fault. But she's talking about getting me diapers now what should I do? Name: Simran Country: India Comment: My daughter is 9 years,but still bedwetting. Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Meggin, Things have been quiet here for now. My youngest was having dry nights for awile now she has returned to wetting every night. Does your youngest wet every night? How have the older girls been doing? I get our youngest ready for bed about a half hour before bed to but I usually get things ready earlier, do you? Name: kyle Country: Canada Comment: hi im 8 year old boy. i wet the bed alot. my mom gets realy mad at me wen she wakes me up in the morning she pulls my pants down and spanks my bum with a paddle. i dont like geting spanked wat can i do to stop peeing the bed becuz i get spanked almost evry day Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Dear cheryl, Hello, How are things going with your daugher? Email me back when you get a chance, ok? Cordially, Meggin Name: I hate wetting the bed. Country: U.S.A. Comment: I'm 14 I have wet the bed my whole life olny at night. It puts so much stress on my family. My mom,sister, and little brother are moving out because of the smell. I feel so bad, and embarressed. My sister openly mocks me infront of her friends. Tonight I'm going to start sleeping in the bathtub. I don't care I just don't want to be yelled at. Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Cheryl, Hello. After the girls have thier diapers and plastic pants on, on they usualy go to bed in a short pj top, a short top or a short tee shirt and thier diapers.None of their tops cover thier diapers and plastic pants. We have also recently triedsomething new for teasing thier sister using snap on plastic pants when they are being punished for teasing thier sister as they are very babyish, to reinforce the fact that they have been acting like big babies. We ususally get our youngest daughter ready for bed anywhere between 15 minutes and 1/2 hour before bed. We also get her ready for bed in private. How are things there? Write back when you get a chance, ok? Cordially, Meggin Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Meggin, Once the girls have the plastic pants on do they wear pj's over them to bed or do they go to bed in just the diapers and plastic pants? Also the youngest, the bedwetter, how long before bed do you get her in her diapers and plastic pants and do you do hers in private? Name: Meggin Country: India Comment: Cheryl, Hi, Yes both of our girls are still in diapers, our oldest one will be in them for another week for recently repeatedly teasing her little sister.even after being warned not to.Our next oldest one is still in diapers until Monday morning,for teasing her sister again Monday. They are both in diapers 24/7 again this weekend, until Monday morning before school. They both have to come home right after school, and can go to the bathroom, and then they have to get ready for MOmmy to put on thier diapers. we also put thier diapers on them lying on either thier bed or in MOmmie's room, depending on if they are coperative or not. Also, everyone watches wheter they are also being punished or not,form gathering ererything needed and getting the diaer ready, folding them and putting them powder and their plasitc panites on, so that they know what will happen if they tesase their little sister or anyone who is in ddiscipline (curently being punished for teasing). Thier little sis also always gets to watch, we feel that this helps her to feel consoled and better, and she also knows that the other girls are being punished for teasing her. We think that having everone watch the one or ones being punished is one of the berst deterrents to misbehaving. Keep in touch, ok? Cordially, Meggin Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Meggin, Currently it is quiet in our house the oldest is not wearing diapers and plastic pants at this moment but they are in the drawer in her room so she sees them every day. Are yours still in them? Also when you are putting them in diapers do you do it with them lying down on their beds? Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Dear cheryl, I forgot to mention that this weekend both in diapers 24/7 until Tuesdaythey are morning before school for repatedly teasing thier sister recently. cordially, Meggin. Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Dear Cheryl, Hello again, I forgot to ask how are things going with your daughter, hs there been any more teasing since the other day. In case you didn't realize it our girls are still in diapers as punishment for a total time period of 2 weeks for recently tesing thier little sister Email me back when you get a chance ok? Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Dear Cheryl, Hello, It is nice to hear from you. We do the same thing with our girls, since you suggested it, now also when any of them is being punished everyone watches them or mommy get thier diapers out and watches mommy get them ready for them, and watches them being put in diapers and plastic pants,even if it is one of them who is not in diaper dicipline at the moment as a reminder of what will happen if they tease thier little sister, and thier little sister is allowed to watch too so that she knows that they are being disciplined for teasing her. Also eaach morning they have to rinse thier diapers and plastic pants out and put them in a diaper pail, and hang thier plastic pants in the shower to dry. They also have to do laudry ( help wash thier diapers in the washer) and diapers out when we do laudry every week, and put them in the dryer, and also fold them and put them away in thier rooms, when they are in ddiscpiline,They do not like any of this at all being done, but we do this to help reinforce why they are being punished and to hopefully help them stop teasing thier sister and become mature young ladies. Cordially, Meggin Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Meggin, In the mornings the oldest girls diapers are removed and she has to put them in the diaper pail and she has to rinse out her plastic pants and hang them up to dry so she sees her plastic pants all day and knows that if she teases again she will have to wear them again. I have at times put the 2 of them in diapers and plastic pants at the same time so the bedwetter can see her sister having the diapers and plastic pants put on. Generally the older one only wears them for one night. She went a long time earlier in the year without teasing, so maybe were getting there. Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Dear cheryl, Hello, I just read your reply,and I was wondering if you don't mind me asking, how long is yourdaughter in diapers for this time for teasing her little sister? Have you thought about setting up goals and rewared and consequence system,and/or possibly extending the number of nights she has to wear diapers to bed for teaisng her each time she teases her little sister and placing a copy of the rules and possible consequencesin her room? Just mentioning this may help her not to tease her. Hopefully she will think twice before she teases her again soon. Email me back when you get a chance. Coridally, Meggin Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Dear cheryl, Hello, I just read your reply,and I was wondering if you don't mind me asking, how long is yourdaughter in diapers for this time for teasing her little sister? Have you thought about setting up goals and rewared and consequence system,and/or possibly extending the number of nights she has to wear diapers to bed for teaisng her each time she teases her little sister and placing a copy of the rules and possible consequencesin her room? Just mentioning this may help her not to tease her. Hopefully she will think twice before she teases her again soon. Email me back when you get a chance. Coridally, Meggin Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Dear cheryl, Hello, I just read your reply,and I was wondering if you don't mind me asking, how long is yourdaughter in diapers for this time for teasing her little sister? Have you thought about setting up goals and rewared and consequence system,and/or possibly extending the number of nights she has to wear diapers to bed for teaisng her each time she teases her little sister and placing a copy of the rules and possible consequencesin her room? Just mentioning this may help her not to tease her. Hopefully she will think twice before she teases her again soon. coridally, Meggin Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Dear cheryl, Hello, I just read your reply,and I was wondering if you don't mind me asking, how long is yourdaughter in diapers for this time for teasing her little sister? Have you thought about setting up goals and rewared and consequence system,and/or possibly extending the number of nights she has to wear diapers to bed for teaisng her little sister, and placing a copy of the rules and possible consequencesin her room? Just mentioning this may help her not to tease her. Hopefully she will think twice before she teases her again soon. coridally, Meggin Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Last night she had to wear diapers and plastic pants to bed for the 1st time in a long time. I heard her tease her sister just after I had put her in her diapers and plastic pants for the night. She went to her room to get ready for bed and I followed her and in her room I said to her you have to get your diapers and plastic pants out because your going to wear them for teasing your sister. So out came the diapers and plastic pants, I got the pins and she had to lie down on her bed and on went the diapers and plastic pants and she went to bed after showing her sister she to had diapers and plastic pants on. Yes I do use cloth diapers fore the same reason you said. Name: Michelle Country: U.S.A. Comment: We read your article and would like to help. At the Enuresis Treatment Center we have helped thousands of people overcome bedwetting. Bedwetting, or Enuresis, is actually a problem based upon abnormally deep sleep, one that is so resistant to arousal that the bedwetter's brain cannot automatically keep the bladder shut during sleep. Our experience shows that one should not wait until the child outgrows the problem, because then they are still left with a sleep disorder that can no longer be treated. We have put together a guide to help people evaluate which treatment would work best for them. Name: loulou Country: United Kingdom Comment: hi i am 11 and i go to school with my nappies on and when i need the loo my mum comes in and changed it my mum says when will you grow out off them i am scared of the loo and my mum cleans it and my mum and dad friend watch and my friends i love them alot they r nice to wear i wear them every day any wear. Name: loulou Country: United Kingdom Comment: hi i am 11 and i go to school with my nappies on and when i need the loo my mum comes in and changed it my mum says when will you grow out off them i am scared of the loo and my mum cleans it and my mum and dad friend watch and my friends i love them alot they r nice to wear i wear them every day any wear. Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Dear Cheryl, You said that you keep your daughter's diapers and plastic pants in a drawer just in case she teases her little sister. I forgot to ask you if you don't mind, do you use cloth diapers or disposable ones with plastic panmts? As I think I said before we think that cloth pin on diapers and plastic pants make much more of an impression on our girls especially as then they know and feel what thie sister feels like when she has an accident. Email me back if you get a chance, ok? Cordially, Meggin Cordially, Meggin Name: to Cheryll Country: Canada Comment: Dea cheryl, Hello, aagin, good to hear from you we also keep everything in the girl's rooms just in case it is needed, but where they can see it to remind themof what will happen if they tease their sister. To udpdate things our older one teased her sister other day again, so as this is the 2nd time in less than 2 weeks, her punishment will be extended(doubled) for this. Our younger one has not tesed her little sister since early April , but as she also teased her little sister, with her older sister the other day, she will be back in diapers for one week. Normally it would only be for 3 days, but as they both boht were teasing thier little sis and would not stop when they were warned but inisted on teasing her, thier punishment has been lengthened. Jus to let you kno they will also be in diapers 24/7 on all weekends form Friday right after school until the follwoing MOndya morning. When at home they will be in just diapers and a tee shirt but if wehave to go out they can wear regular clothes over thier didies, this way the punishment remains just between then=m and us. Keep in touch, ok? cordially, Meggin Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Meggin, Glad to see that there is improvement. My oldest has stopped teasing her sister, but I keep the diapers and plastic panties in the drawer with her undies so she sees them and knows she will wear them again if she starts teasing again. the last time she had to wear diapers and plastic panties was in March. Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hi, I am just catching up on reading posts, and it is good to know that other parents punish siblings for teasing a bedwetter. dipaer punishment is the only thing which has seemed to help our older two girls realize what their younger sis feels like. Cordially, Meggin Name: To cheryl Country: India Comment: Dear Cheryl, I forgot to tell you that when the girls are in dipaer punishment they stil ahve to go and show thier sister that they are in diapers for teasing her to hoepfully help them learn from thier punishment. and she also knows this way that they are being punished for teasing her, and wee think this helps her to fel better about things, and not cry so much over herproblem which as you know she cannot help. Cordially, Meggin. Name: Meggin Country: India Comment: Dear Cheryl, Hi.I am psoting an update for you. since we last talked I took all of your suggestions and used all of them with our girls. Our younger one has only teased her lil sis twice so far, as it has been explained to both of them that each time they tease thier lil sis for wetting the bed or having accidents thier total time in diaper punishmen is increased. the first offense earns them 3 nights or days in diapers the 2nd offense one week, the third offense 2 weeks and the fourth offense is one month.This has seemed to work best wiht our youngest daughter, except a few dasy ago she repeated her misbehavior, so she will be back in diapers for 3 days to start, and if she does not repaet the misbehavior this will be the end of this. If she does repaet it her punishment will be increased, hopefuly she will not repaeat this behavir. Our older one teased her lil sis once then, and we thought that her discipline was working, and she stopped for a few months, but then started up again, just recently, and she has also teased her lil sis twice in the past 2 weeks so she hs been told that she will be back in diapers again, for a while now, each night right after school and 24/7 on the weekends for a month, for tesing her sister. Hopefully she will learn from this. We will see. Again cordially, Meggin Name: why hide it Country: U.S.A. Comment: if thay are a real friend thay well try to help,not heart them more. right? look,we all been there,where you wet at night right? so we all are the same. Name: why hide it Country: U.S.A. Comment: if thay are a real friend thay well try to help,not heart them more. right? look,we all been there,where you wet at night right? so we all are the same. Name: sad mum Country: United Kingdom Comment: my daughter has just gone to bed crying her eyes out because one of her friends wanted her to sleepover and she cant in case she wets the bed. shes nearly 13 and cant trust anyone enough to tell them due to telling a so called friend a few years ago who told everyone. she thinks her new friends from senior school will think she doesnt like them much if she keeps making excuses not to sleep over. Doctor no help at all. Name: Jennifer Country: U.S.A. Comment: what r we s'posed to say? I wet at night so mom says I have2 wear diapers so what? Name: whywhywhy Country: U.S.A. Comment: DOES ANY BODY GOT ANY ANCERS?EVERY BODY ASK THE SAME THING,BUT NO BODY NOWS WHAT TO DO! JUST JACK OFF! Name: Cassidie Country: U.S.A. Comment: My daughter is also putt into diapers when she gets home from school because she teases her sister on bedwetting. Name: edward hale Country: U.S.A. Comment: i am almmost 30 years old and i am still wetting my bed i go into a very deep sleep and do not know that i need to go and if i have to wait til i can go to the bathroom during the day i sometimes i have accidents i wear adult breifs but i wish i could get away from them is there anything that could help me or am i stuck Name: i know why you wet Country: India Comment: cause your a vergin Name: nottelling Country: Kazakhstan Comment: somebody help,,, i don't like my plastic pants aaaaaaaaaaaaahhh Name: michael Country: U.S.A. Comment: my name is michael and I am 24 years old.I was 9 years old when my dad passed away and shortley after this I started wetting the bed.My mother had a fit she called me a baby and made fun of me in front of my family she realy thought that I was doing it on purpose. This went on for a few weeks then she started making me wear diaper when I got home as a punishment and she would change me just like a baby.I wore them after school for a few more weeks then she got even more mad at me and started making wear them all day and night,She would pull down my pants anywear to check my diaper and if I was wet she would change me in the public bathrooms.I hated it this went on until I was about 17 when a concerned family freind talked my mother into bringing me to see a doctor about the problem and come to find out it was a mental thing over the death of my father and the punishment made it worst.This is not one of those peaple who have one of those sick fetishis.To all of you who are on here fore those should try to put yourselfs in my shoes I went through that sick stuff that you want I hate I still wet the bed and I will not put on a diaper because I have been scared away from them.If ther is any one who has been in the same place I am now please tell me how to finaly put this stuff behind me. Name: mn Country: U.S.A. Comment: i wet cause it tunrs i on Name: cristopher joseph healy Country: U.S.A. Comment: hi my name is chris and i wet the bed. i do it because i get scared at night i try hard not to but it just happens. i am 13 years old and live in ulysses,pa Name: Jeremy Country: Australia Comment: My name is Jeremy and i am 11. i began to wet my bed few days ago, and mom forced me to waer plastic pants and spanks me hardly after I wet my bed Name: meeria Country: U.S.A. Comment: Has Juvanile Diabetese got any association with bedwetting? Name: some one please help me. Country: U.S.A. Comment: does any body want to chat with me about bed wetting? i feel so alone cause i wet last night and my whole family hates me now,my sister lafs at me,my brother makes jokes.and mom and dad are mad at me for wetting.i feel sooooooooo bad,HELP Name: wetter7 Country: U.S.A. Comment: im 18 and i like to wet,i where diapers my size too!! Name: Sheila Country: U.S.A. Comment: I have 3 bedwetters and diapers and rubber pants are used on them at bedtime. The beds stay dry and the kids sleep all night. Name: Bette Country: United Kingdom Comment: I did switch to terry nappies and plastic pants for bedtime. There have been no leaks at all. Name: bamewqe Country: Malawi Comment: Name: Bette Country: United Kingdom Comment: hey y dont u either buy thiker diapers for her or in the middle of the night check her nappy and if shes asleep change it or double up the nappy or put a tery toewl napy over the top Name: alexander Country: U.S.A. Comment: I wet the bed alot Name: Bette Country: United Kingdom Comment: Have an 8 year old bedwetter and we use disposable pullon pants. We are having problems with leaking and wondering if anyone has any real suggestions. Thanks Name: TOSIGH... Country: U.S.A. Comment: first.how old are you? if you have a wetting problum you should talk to your mom and dad.thay well not make you feel bad,thay well try to help.and you well fell better if you talked to some one in person. like tell a close friend,or some one that you have told secerets to in the past.IT WORKED FOR ME!!! Name: sigh... Country: Other Comment: can anyone give me tips i like just started weting and i dont know if i should tell my parents or what plzzzz help! thanks bye =) Name: to ... Country: U.S.A. Comment: your like really mean and god just..how would you feel if they said that to you? hmm? well i wet the bed but ur mean > Name: whatever.... Country: U.S.A. Comment: god!!! people lets stop critizizing eachother!!! and frankly i dont care that people wet the bed!!! so just live life and have fun! ...well bye Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Meggin, How are things going with your girls? Are the 2 oldest ones still teasing their younger bedwetting sister? Do you continue to diaper them at bedtime to? My bedwetter is still wearing the bedwetting pants. Did you ever get them for your bedwetter? Would like to hear if things are going any better? Cheryl Name: Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: To all of you who are 8 yrs and older and claim you love to wet your pants or the bed, I think you have a real problem , and need to get help, and if you parents don;t punish you for this you are very lucky. Meggin Name: wet in kodiak alaska Country: U.S.A. Comment: can any body give me any bed weting tips i feel so alone like im the only one that wets.what do i do?rmondocota@aol Name: Madhurjya Country: India Comment: Could you tell me exactly where the Nite-Watch bedwetting alarm in Delhi is available? Name: wetter Country: U.S.A. Comment: does any feel like me? im 18 and feel bad that i wet one more time Name: jennifer Country: U.S.A. Comment: to michael radcliffe why are you thirteen and sill wet the bed and you should where diapers and i'm thirteen and don't do that Name: help! in kodiak alaska Country: U.S.A. Comment: im 18 and an only child,and i alway think of how itd be if i had a bro,or sis.so lots of the time i cry my self to sleep and when that happens i always wet heavy.so you kids out ther with bros & sis,s be nice to them,even if they wet the bed. Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Helen, Why do you leave plastic pants out? They should be taken out only when needed. I guess it's okay, but explain a little more. Name: Helen Country: United Kingdom Comment: Hi Cheryl I've tried a simlier punishment of leaving plastic pants out for my two daughters. So in the satin lingerie drawer is a pair of semi-transpaernet plastic pants. The only problem is I caught one of them wearing a pair of plastic pants without anything underneath. Is this a concern or should I just leave it. Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Cheryl, I forgot to tell you that when the grils tease thier sister, we took yoursuggestion, and they have to show thier sister that they are wearing diapers and plastic pants, before they get ashowere and change and get ready for school. This is hioefully to remind them that they shouldn't tease thier lil sis. Cordially, Meggin Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Cheryl, HI HI thank you for your suggestion for bedwetter pants for our youngest girl. Also, our oldest one in addition to everyhing else also gets a spanking before she is put in diapers at bedtime for teasing her lil sis.This seems to be the only way to get the point across to her, not to tease her sister. We also told her that if she repeats this behavior, she will also get a another spanking in the morning before school for teasing, each time this happens. Wish us luck. Meggin. Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Cheryl, HI HI thank you for your suggestion for bedwetter pants for our youngest girl. Also, our oldest one in addition to everyhing else also gets a spanking before she is put in diapers at bedtime for teasing her lil sis.This seems to be the only way to get the point across to her, not to tease her sister. We also told her that if she repats this behavior, she will also get a antoehr spanking in the morning before school for teasing, ach time this happens. Wish us luck. Meggin. Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Meggin, It seems like it might be helping. You might try talking to her when she has the diapers and plastic pants on, doing that may help you make a point. For the bedwetter you might try Motherease bedwetter pants. I use these and they are a well lined pants, absorb a lot and the child can pull on and off themselves and can pull them down if they wake up to go at night. Name: To Cheryl of Canada Country: Canada Comment: Dear Cheryl, Hi I read your reply. We alrady do what you suggested , only in addition the girls have to bring everything needed over to us from thier dresser. The younger one has not misbehaved again since a few weeks ago, her older sis sems to be the one who keeps on teaing thier lil sis. Hopefully she will get the message soon,andhopefully they wil both learn eventually from tha not to tease their lilttle sister. this is the only thing, so far that has worked. Cordially, Meggin. Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Try using the diapers and plastic pants for bedtimes only. If they tease their sister tell them that they will be in diapers and plastic pants for bed tonite. When bedtime comes take her to her room and take the diapers and plastic pants off the dresser and sit on her bed, tell her to get undressed and while she is doing that you take and fold the diaper and get it ready for her to wear put it on the bed. Take the plastic pants open them up, shake them out and put them at the foot of the bed ready to be put on. Do this while she watches. Have her lay down on the bed and diaper her then put the plastic pants on. Do the same with the other sister as well. Let them see you getting the diapers and plastic pants ready for them to wear. Maybe you already do something like this. Try not to overdo it to much. Name: to Cheryl of Canada Country: Canada Comment: Dear Cherly, Hi , We have sat the girls down may times and explained everyting to them and talked to them about thier lil sis's problem. To updat eyou on thins our oldest girl promised not to tease her lil i=sis again, but after 3 days, she did it again and was disciplined for this. Toansower your questions as to when the girls get thier diapers put on, It depends on how manay times they ease their lil sis each time, and if they keepit up after they have been told to stop it, it also depens id thye keep repaeting this behavior. The last time they did this, they were chnaged into thier diapers right after school, as they had been unrelenting u=in teasing thier lil sis, and earned one week in them including all weekend until the following Monday. If they have earned them right after school , though they may go to the tolilet first before getting thier dides put on. I don;t like to do this , but this seems to be working better than anything else we have tried, and we were at our wits end for months before trying this. I wil keep uyou updated with our sucess. Talk to you soon, Cordially, Meggin. Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Meggin, Looks like the older ones are getting the idea not to tease the younger one about her bedwetting. It's a good idea to talk with them explaining that their sister can't help bedwetting and the diapers and plastic pants keep her comfortable and the bed dry until she outgrows it. Where do the older ones get their diapers and plstic pants put on? is it done just before they get into bed? Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Dear Cheryl, Hello, thank you for your idea. we have placed everything needed on the girl' s dressers whe they can see them to remind them that they will be used if needed. we also tried talking to our oldest daughter, and proppsed what you said. She said shw would think about promising to do this. Until she promises , though the next time she steases her lil sis she will defenitely be back in diapers, and as she was previously told each time she teases her lil sis, her time in diapers at night will aotuomaticall y be extended a few days wach time she teases her or makes fun of her again. We are hoping that she will pronise not to tease her anymore, but we wait and see , when we sak her again in a few days. wish us luck. Cordially, Meggin We will see if she she continues to tease her sister or not. Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Meggin, You may be getting somewhere as your younger one has not repeated. I would keep the diapers and plastic pants somewhere where she can see them and be reminded of what happens when she teases her sister perhaps a dresser drawer. Make a point to the older one that ther sister stopped teasing and is not wearing diapers and plastic pants to bed anymore. Ask her to promise you that she won't tease anymore and you will let her sleep in only her pj's, but like the other one keep the diapers and plastic pants in a place where she can see them and be reminded. Try backing away from it for a while. Name: To Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Dear Cherly , Hi again, I forogt to tell you that we decided to use cloth pin on diapers, like thier sister wears. to empasize to them what it feels like to be wet, when one cannot help it. Also the girls had to put on thier pj's over their diapers and plastic pants , but when they are disciplined for teasing thier lil si this way , they have to show her and thier daddy that they have thier diapers and plastic panties on under thier pj's, this also helps their dispciline to be effetive , too. Ps they bopth know and were also told that if they keep up thier teasing of thier sis that in the future as proviously mentoiined that they will be in diapers each time this happens they will be in diapers right after they come hoime form school until the next morning, and in anddition from Fridrday right after school unitl the following Monday morning after breakfast, to emphassixe thier very babyish behavior . Again, fi anyone has any mor esuggestions, please let us know, ok? Thank you agin verymuch! cordially, Meggin. Name: To Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Dear Cherly , Hi again, I forogt to tell you that we decided to use cloth pin on diapers, like thier sister wears. to empasize to them what it feels like to be wet, when one cannot help it. Also the girls had to put on thier pj's over their diapers and plastic pants , but when they are disciplined for teasing thier lil si this way , they have to show her and thier daddy that they have thier diapers and plastic panties on under thier pj's, this also helps their dispciline to be effetive , too. cordially, Meggin. Name: to Cheryl of canada Country: Canada Comment: Dear Cheryl, Hi . thnak you for the advvice. we do dipaer our lil one who has a bedwetting problem in private already. We tried what you suggested in your last posty, but both girls still protested having to waser platic panties to bed. so we sat them dwon again, and explained to them that theasing thier lil si for bedwettin is a very serious thing and is not funny (especially as when she is wet and wakes up she is vry embarrassed and cries about this, evne though she knows it is not her fault. We toldthem that this behavior is not going to be toleaerted any longer.We warned them that if it keprt up the next time it happened that euthter one or both of them would get an immediate spanking and would beput in pin on diapers and plastic pants, and that thye would have to wear thme to bed for 3 days, each time this happens. We aslo told them that they would have to show thier lil sis and thier daddy thier didies and plasitc panties, before they went to bed. we also showed them everything needed for this, and told them that if they do not tease thier sister anymore that this wil not happen.we asked thme if thye understood they said yes, but a few days later , they tesed thier lil sis again. They each got an immediate spanking and had to go to bed in diapers and plastic pans for 3 nights. Unofrtuntaely this seems to be the the most effective form of discpling and getting the point across to them as to not tease thier lil sis, as when they are in diapers and are wet they know how she feels. It semms to be working so far, as the youhnger of them has not rpaeted this misbehavior, and her older sis has only repated it once so far. What do you think of this solution so far? If anyone has any other suggestions for how to heffctively handle a sibling who teases a bedwetter, any adivce would be greatly appreciated, as we have tried just a bout everthing else and nothing else has worked. if so Please Help. Thank you again erymuch! cordially, Meggin. Name: Cheryl Country: Canada Comment: Meggin, I'm sorry the plastic pants are not working for you. What I did was I would wait until just before the oldest girl went to bed for the plastic pants. If the girls don't want to put them on then you put them on for them. There were a couple of times that I had to put the plastic pants on my daughter as she refused to do it herself. I would simply tell her that her teasing her sister about her bedwetting was not going to be allowed and that she was going to have plastic pants on to. I don't know if this will help as I think you may have to back off for awhile. Try diapering the bedwetter just before she gets into bed, that way it will all be private. Might help. Name: connor Country: Canada Comment: i can't stop peeing the bed Name: from Meggin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Dear Cheryl of Cananda, Hello, I read your reply to my question about our girls teasing their lil sister for wetting the bed and having accidents. Thenks for tip. I took your adivce and did what you suggested, the only porblem is it worked for a while, then they started teasing thier lil sis again, and when they wre told tolto get thier plastic panties out at beditme , they told "No to make thema nd protestested until we made them put them on before they went to bed. So thier Dad and I sat down and talked , and we diecided that we would sit both girlsdown adn talk to them and warn them about contining to do this to thier lisl sis, and that if they kept it upwhenever they repated this behavior they would each be changed into diapers and plastic pants (we use cloth dipaers pin -on ones and platic panties as we now have 5 girls 2 new twin girls,) thier younger sis and them and plasitc panties wheas soon as they come home frorm school until the next morning, with the 1st offense eaerning them 3 days in diapers to start, and eah time the misbehavior occurs more time will be added to the time which they have to spnd in diapers. also, they get cnaged before bed, but they are not changed again , or do not get out of diapers until the next morning after breakfast, then they must get a shower and get ready for school. If they are in didscipline on a Friday or over the weekend they are in ddiscipline 24/7 from Friday after school until the following Monday morning, and if at home they can only weear a tee shirt and diapers, they also cannot have any firneds over when in ddiscipline, but if we go out they cna wear rregular cltoes over thier didies and plastic panites, so as to proeserve thier dignity and privacy,also this way their punishment is kept just between them and us. We have found that this semms to be more effective in helping them to stop teasing thier lil sister, esp as they know when in discipline what it is like to feel wet and uncomforatable, we will see how this works, what do you think of this? do you have any other suggesestions istead of this? Or does anoyne else?have any suggestions as to how to handle this we would rally appreciate it. Thank you very much, again. Cordially, Meggin Name: Ashlee Country: U.S.A. Comment: hi i am ashlee and i am 13 3/4 yrs and i have a bed wetting problem and i dont know how to stop its hard for me because i get teased and i try not to tell anyone of my problems so they wont make fun of me if you can help please contact me Name: Ellen Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hi I'm 15 I don't wet the bed but my little sister does. She's six years old and wears diapers night and day. She is very shy and gets teased at school. When girls come round to play they tease her for having a binky and a baby blanket. She also is scared of babysitters cause she has to tell them about the diapers. Is there any thing I can do to help her????? She's soooo cute and her name's Lilly Name: Lisa Country: India Comment: I am from arizona. my nine yr old boy is peeing the bed off and on and I am just wondering that if it has alot to do with the upset around the house Name: ryan Country: U.S.A. Comment: im desperate peoples. ok im 12 and wet the bed at night. my mom says "oh dont worry u'll get over that problem in a few days." but its not true i've been wetting the bed for years now. i told her about maybe a diaper or something but she wont do that because "it will end in a few days" yea right i need someone to send me a pack im dessprate Name: Jennifer Country: germany Comment: Emily I'm 14 and I wear diapers to bed too. It's embarassing but I don't know what to do either. I just let her put the diapers on me at night. Name: james Country: canada Comment: hi i think this is so funny because of some of the storys are so funny i am 10 almost 11 and i wet day and night i were elmo pull ups and when i go to sleep overs only 2 people know, vallyn and kassidy some of this storys are so funny i am wetting wright now!!! Name: emily Country: U.S.A. Comment: i was a bedweter till i was 12 and i stoped and i started to wet agen and my mum has put me stait back in to diapers what do i do Name: to baby j Country: usa Comment: hi iam aaron can you get me some extra large diapers please? thank you Name: B Country: india Comment: Some kids dont respond to cures just put them in diapers wen they sleep and wait Name: tom Country: united kingdom Comment: hello its not good to know there is more people with the same problem, but it dose help. i have 2 grandsons who wet the bed ( 9 & 11 ) they both wear nappies and plastic pants for bed, and only there bedwetting friends know of this, its not a big deal they have never been out of night nappies. you can get terry nappies and plastic pants from drylife uk to fit any child or adult and they do save you a lot of money on the washing up and beds . hope you all get dry soon. Name: some one Country: usa Comment: hi in the last couple years i have been stressed i dont have parents ne more and wet the bed i need diapers but am embarrassed to ask or wear them what should i do Name: Cheryl Country: canada Comment: Meggin, I had the same problem with my oldest teasing her younger sister who wore diapers and plastic pants to bed for bedwetting. Finally I had enough and one day I was ordering new plastic pants for my youngest and on a lark I also ordered a pair in a size to fit the older sister. When they came I told her they were to be put in her drawer with her panties and that if I caught her teasing her younger sister that she to was going to wear plastic pants to bed for a few nights. Not to long after that I caught her teasing her sister who had just been put in diapers and plastic pants for bedtime. I took her to her room and had her get the plastic pants out of her drawer and put them over her panties and told her she to had to wear them to bed for the next 4 nights. Each night at bedtime she had to show her father and I that she had the plastic pants on when she was getting into bed. We did this about 5 times and she stopped teasing. In the morning we also made her show her younger sister that she was wearing them. Name: Jennifer Country: germany Comment: I'm 14 and from the US. I'm doing a church exchange in Germany for 1 yr living with a host family. Well I started wetting the bed soon after I got here and now my host "mom" is making me wear diapers to bed. Name: ww Country: usa Comment: i used to wet my bed but have not for years and my mom still makes me wear nappies and plastic pants and i just started wetting again and mom spanks me with a ping pong paddle if im wet then makes me wear anothor one for the rest of the day in 12 Name: Meggin Country: united kingdom Comment: Hello, We have 3 girls 2 of whom constantly tease thier younger sister who wets the bed and needs to wear diapers and plastic pants at night. We have tried everything, including spankings,but nothing so far has worked. We were wonderiong does anyone else have this problem, and if so how do you handle it, possibly if they are put bck in diapers,at night, too for this it may help them to stop this horrible behavior? any suggestions would realy be appreciated. Thank you very much. Name: jack Country: united kingdom Comment: i am desperate to wear dippers to bed but i am to scared to do it incase my brother or dad find out plz plz help me someone they sound so good Name: minfant Country: usa Comment: I am a 15 year-old girl, I wear diapers for bedwetting, I like to feel like a little girl of about 2 years, I really like the baby thing, I love bottles and pacifiers, And Baby-clothes...Anything Baby turns me on. Mary Name: Shaun Country: united kingdom Comment: Hi im shaun I still wet the bed and wet my pants at school. So I have been put into a nappy and im only 11 at that age I should NOT be wetting the bed I get teased at school by all my freinds. Name: diapers for life Country: usa Comment: i'm 15 and everynight i wet the bed.my mom changes me and lets drink out of a bottle before bed. (love it). when i go to friends houses i make them wear a diaper and i put in on them i'm a guy and so are they. they really like it. Name: matty Country: canada Comment: I'm thirteen and i don't have to but wwhen I go my friends house we play truth or dare and I'm always to wear a goddnite pullup Name: mprloo1 Country: united kingdom Comment: i have a 3 year old son and for a while he did not wee the bed but now he wees the bed and he always wees himself during the day time. what can i do to prevent this and how do i stop the bed wetting Name: pamper Country: united kingdom Comment: i still wear nappies to bed and all the time bcaues i wet my sefl if i do not i like huggies superfix the best nappies are the best they are better than pull up Name: jhon Country: india Comment: i whet the bed i haved tried every thing no i just were nappys is ther eney sites that do bigger nappys Name: HELP Country: india Comment: I'VE WET THE BED AGIN AND I HATE IT CAN SOME WON HELP! Name: HELP Country: india Comment: amanda help i wet the stared to wet the bed last year and i hadent stopet i need help plz. im 11 Name: amanda Country: canada Comment: Spankings are always a good try for older children that wet. Most I have found stop after 3 or 4. Name: ling Country: japan Comment: hi i'm 19 years old and i still wet the bed i don't like it.someone plz HELP Name: concerned medico Country: australia Comment: Difficult problem. The picture I'm getting is of a girl who's never dry and never has been dry, despite her age. Am I correct? If so, there may be an anatomical problem with her 'plumbing', so to speak - one of the ureters (the tube from kidney to bladder) may be 'plugged into' the wrong place, not her bladder, and dripping urine directly into the vaginal entrance, for instance. On the other hand, if she's dry during the day for at least some of the time, can hold a bladderfull for a while and pass it, that's a different matter. She may have some sort of bladder instability problem. Of more concern are the psychological issues; has there been, or is there ongoing, some sort of family trouble or stress (divorce, bereavement etc)? The most frightening possibility is that she is being/has been abused, and is "infantilizing" herself to make herself 'less of a target'. I'd be off to a specialist paediatrician with her and get the medical things excluded first - sometimes surgery is called for - and then attend to potential psychological problems. She's clearly 'adjusted' to wearing nappies; maybe there IS a medical problem and she's too scared to talk to you about why she's wetting at school, doesn't dare wear nappies there in case she's teased, but is comfortable to wear them at home so she doesn't make a mess everywhere. > Name: Jennifer > Country: united kingdom > Comment: > My 7 year old daughter is still a baby and wets her pants at school. She insists me to changer her nappy on the changing mat into 3 terry nappies with the baby pins. She is not ashamed of them and likes to wear them in the house. We originally bouht them for her to use because of her bedwetting and now she wants them as well. Anyone suggest any solutions ? Name: Chris Country: united kingdom Comment: I like Pooing and Weeing myself in bed because i like the feeling. somtimes, when im wearing my triple diaper, the poo sqwidges up and ends up in my mouth. please help me. i havent got any friendsbecause one day, they saw me wearing my extra large diaper (i have to wear this because it gets filled up so much during the day. when i get home. my mother makes me eat it for being a bad boy. Also i wear my mums bra and fill it up with tissue so it looks like i have man boobs.e-mail me to give me help on how to stop pooing when i dont want to: Chris-Wakeling@hotmail.co.uk and please tell me how to stop. Name: rach Country: united kingdom Comment: i am eleven and i have never wet the bed but my uncle dis until he was 11 Name: To Irene from England Country: australia Comment: Re: your eight year old who wets monstrous amounts at night. Have you had her seen by a doctor to exclude medical causes of polyuria (lots of urine), MOST particularly Diabetes (as she will require insulin), but potentially also problems with the pituitary gland in her brain (rare tumours; even rarer lack-of-function syndromes). If she's producing vast amounts of urine quickly, all the best intentions in the world may not be enough to keep her pants dry; My guess is that her wish for a daytime nappy when she can get away with it (weekends) is probably motivated by fear of wetting, and it must be pretty bad if she's willing to go back into nappies. Exclude the medical causes first; then and only then start looking at psychology (stress, divorce, bullying, or - God forbid - abuse?). Name: mini Country: india Comment: my son also in deep sleep during the night, if i don't wake him up he wet the bed, is any body ever try bed weting alaram if yes, i want to know if its work. if u guys can help me out Name: Amrita Country: india Comment: Dotors tell this is common n no medication can help... it will heel on its own.. my son will soon be 4yrs ..if i dont take him midnight to toilet he wets n doesnt realise ... can u help n tell me how long will it continue Name: Samantha Country: usa Comment: Layla, No poo problems in our house only bedwetting. Name: layla Country: india Comment: Samantha, Yes my daughter went through a phase recently of not wanting to be nappied and we had battles at bedtime. I started to put her nappy on sooner and just kept telling her that 'when she stops wetting the bed then she can stop wearing a nappy' Does your daughter go poo in her nappy? Name: Samantha Country: usa Comment: Layla, My daughter has also always wet at night as did an older sister who no longer wets as did their mother until age 12. My daughter gets herself ready for bed although she was able to get the idea of the pins pretty soon it took awhile to get the idea that the plastic panties have to cover the diaper completely to keep from wicking into the bed clothes. She gets heself ready in the hour before bedtime. Usually her sister and I will sit at the table with her and we play a board game or just talk or read or watch TV. AT bedtime she gives all a hug and a kiss and she's off to bed. In the morning she removes the diaper washes the plastic panty hangs it on the line in the wash room, showers gets dressed and off to school. Does your daughter ever object to diapers and plastic pants? Samantha Name: layla Country: india Comment: Hi Samantha, My Daughter has more or less always wet, occasionally going a few nights without wetting.Untill recently I have Nappied her at bedtime as she had difficulty in fastening the Nappy so it would stay in place, however recently she has managed this herself. She has removes the wet nappy herself each morning and puts it in the bucket and rinses the plastic pants herself except when she has done a poo poo and I help her to change then- this avoids gettin a mess anywhere else and also I get to see how much she has done and if she is very sore etc. Do you get your Daughter ready and does she wet or poo or both? Layla Name: Samantha Country: usa Comment: Layla My daughter is the same age as your 8. Has your daughter always wet or did she stop and start again later? Also do you get your daughter ready for bed or does she do it? Name: layla Country: india Comment: Samantha, The terrys work fine -however We put an additional soaker pad inside the terry,this is very effective and we dont usually have any leaks. How old is your bedwetter? Layla Name: Samantha Country: usa Comment: Layla, Do the terrys work well for her bedwetting or do you need to use a double diaper. I've been thinking about getting terry's. Name: layla Country: india Comment: to samantha and debi, My 8 yr old daughter still wears terrys and plastic pants in bed,I buy a sise that fit so they are fitting her legs without making red marks there are some available with wider elastic - getting this right prevents leaks. When she is having poo problems and is sore from straining to relieve constipation she withholds untill she is less sore and often does a poo in her nappy.At these times we use the sort with thin elastic and a smaller sise so they fit very tight around her legs to contain the amount she does. Layla Name: Dain Country: canada Comment: I like to wear Pampers and sometimes Huggies, i also like to use a onesie some days... Name: jamesbur2 Country: usa Comment: i would just use plasic pants with a diapper that help you stop wetting the bed Name: Samantha Country: usa Comment: Debi, Perhaps the plastic pants are the wrong size and to small for her. They might be hurting her. I would say that you are on the right track. I to have a bedwetter and wears the same things your daughter does and is wet most mornings. Name: sam Country: united kingdom Comment: i always dream about me wearing nappys and a teacher changing me and that i have to sit in a potty do you know where i could get 1 nappy that will fit me what shall i do and i come from london Name: Debbi Casper Country: usa Comment: Tammy, our only child is 6 now. She is wet 5 out of 7 nights a week. Using disposable diapers she was wet 7 out of 7 nights. Using thick training pants and a pair of plastic pants over the top seems to be the only solution for real progress for her wetting problem. At bedtime, everything goes well until I get the plastic pants out of her dresser and she sees them. I feel so bad as she pleads with me " No Mommy, no plastic pants! The plastic pants are the only thing keeping her bed dry at night.Am I on the right track for my daughter? Name: the king Country: australia Comment: hello i started weting the bed again after a few years now i have a king size bed that stinks cos i did not tell my mum but i told her yesterday cos it stank.What would you think be better dry nights or a alarm thing plz tell me (im a 11 year old boy to) PLZ HELP! Name: whaaa Country: australia Comment: hello im 11 i wet the bed a fem months ago and now i did it again 2 times in a row its so bad luke i have a giant bed that takes forever to dry.My mate luke bed wets all the time to and has a alarm thing it so loud if i wet the bed again i hope i dont get an alarm thing....................im a boy to Name: emmbarrased Country: usa Comment: im 12. and then i just started soiling and wetting my pants and bed. I haven told my parents yet. I buy myself diapers. Once at school i accidentally soiled my diaper and that time i had an upset stomach. i burst into tears. i said i was sorry. Then i accidentally fell i was so emmbarrased because i also got it on the floor when i fell. i ran out the classroom and hid myself in a bathroom stall. That was the most emmbaraing moment of my life!!! I just dont feel it comming when i have to go. At night i always wet my bed and sometimes soil it. I dont why this happened. It started when i turned 12. e-mail me at emmanueldc878@hotmail Name: nobody Country: canada Comment: this is an interesting article Name: Philip Country: united kingdom Comment: hi it is me sume one repli abut my pull up nappies probulum Name: Philip Country: united kingdom Comment: i am 13 and i poo and wee in nappys [estra large huggies pull ups]it is so embarsing at home my mum changis me, at ferist i wore nappies with out telling my mum but she fowund out ta school [ i go to a speshule school] the teach will not chang me and i strugule on my wthen it happunds sometimes all the poo squishis up my bumb and it is reaerle hard to wipe my sellf at school with out my mum to wipe me also when i cume bach today with out thinhing i sat down nest to a populer gierl and she seid er i have ot sit nest to a boy hwoo has [pooed him sellf] everone tesis me plese help Name: 12 year old Country: usa Comment: Hi i'm 12 and i do not wet the bed that much i wet about 2 times a month and i do not were good nights because i'm a big girl not a baby and my friends make fun of me plese help. Name: john Country: india Comment: i started weting the bed so my mom got me some pampers nappies ond di i cam home from school and told me to get undreest and she put me in to a pampers nappie and evry day i get home now she puts one on what do i do Name: patsy 322@aol.com Or Sgfesta102@aol.com Country: usa Comment: hey im steve im 13 i wet teh bed it has just started recieanlet i told my step dad and he bought me diapers and im looking into rubber pants. the diapers i have arent that absorbant ant they leek alot because i pee alot i love wearing diapers because i feel like a baby. i love being a baby so much he buys me bottles, pasafires, bibs and baby pajamas he even gives me a baths like a baby all the time espeial when i poop my pants and i wipe it all over my crib an me (i got a personal king sized crib). he wats o bring meto docter to see if i have an infection if so it can be treated with meds thats not good i love to be a baby nd ee in my pants. see ya around babys Name: hunter Country: Other Comment: I have a couzin and wets the bed Name: john murphy Country: usa Comment: i live in scocth plain new jersey and im 11 years old i go to park milldle school and pea in the bed everday Name: akgirltx Country: usa Comment: My 9 year old wets the bed, and keeps it a secret, and this may sound weird, but the other two chilred are getting in trouble for things that she does. Also, I think this is a very big sanitation problem (sheets, clothes, mattresses) since she doesn't tell us about it. I have no clue what to do or where to go.Please e-mail me at lnbtexas@hotmail.com Name: no one Country: usa Comment: Iam 13 i dont wear a diaper to bed but I wet the bed. i DONT tell my parents enless i wet 2 to 3 times at night. I seen a comerichal on tv about Pull-up Goodnite Underpant so I might ask my parents to buy me them. what do i do. Name: kaleb Country: usa Comment: I love to pee in diapers and poop in them to if you would like to takl to me go to yahoo.com and get messeneger. tammymullens @ yahoo.com Name: william Country: united kingdom Comment: hi im will i have a bedwetting problem and i havent told my parents cause they will take me to the doctors and all i want is a diaper to help me were do i get them low price to fit a 13 year old without my parents nowing (im not on this website a lot so please email an answer to my problem i was be most gratefull, my email adress is gunnerfan0506@aol.com thanks) Name: peter Country: united kingdom Comment: I like to wear pampers,i buy my pampers by my self and later on i poo and wee. Name: anuatamus Country: malaysia Comment: my bed wets are so bad my mother makes me wear a diaper and a tampon to bed:( Name: anuaumus Country: Other Comment: the pantyliners i wear to bed are at least a inch thick.i may be a night blatter leaker but thats just uncorfortable Name: monika Country: canada Comment: hi im monika i wet the bed and i pee in my pants i dont wear diapers because im to skared to tell my mom every day i come home from schoolmy pants are allways wet. Name: jacuilene Country: india Comment: i dont know what to do i wet the bed and i pee my pants i have daipers and im 11 my bladder gets rashes and i cant stop im gonna use good nights. Name: jacuilene Country: india Comment: i dont know what to do i wet the bed and i pee my pants i have daipers and im 11 my bladder gets rashes and i cant stop im gonna use good nights. Name: Big Baby Country: usa Comment: When i was a child, i got whipped for wetting. It didn't help. I'm 50 now and still wet. By brother wet as well. My mom made us sleep together, so the bed was always soaked. She thought that if we were made to sleep in it, it would make us stop. We had to leave the blanket down during for the bed to dry, then at night, back into the stinky bed to do it all over again. That lasted through my teenage years until i left home. i have wet the bed in hotels, at relatives, in a sister's chair once when i fell asleep. I sometimes wake while i'm wetting, but usually i just wake up cold and soaked. Tried alarms, no fluids after 5:00 pm, you name it. Nothing helps. I am too ashamed to go to the store and buy diapers, so i just live with it. The place always smells like stale peepee, so no company. The shame is incredible at times. The actual wetting part no longer bothers me too much, but the feeling of being a failure and of not being mature enough to grow up are something else. Name: yes all 4 were me.. Country: usa Comment: ok if yur still confused there are 2 final options.. when your depressed(mentally) often times your muscles relax so long they lose their stregth.. a anti-dpressant pill should work. if your a parent sometimes the only option is agression DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT BEAT YOUR CHILD!!! POSITIVE REINFORCEMENTS OR SPANKING WITH LOUD NOISE WILL USAULLY WORK(CUSSING COULD BE WORSE THAN DAIPERS) IF ANY OF MY COMMENTS MOVED U AN ANY WAY PLEASE SEND AN "E-M@IL" TO HYPERDYNE@NETSCAPE.COM (IF IT DOESNT GET SENT I MAY HAVE SPELL ED THE "y" WRONG TY Name: for mothers in difficulty Country: india Comment: change their daipers once in an isolated area(some people) in school. garanteed stop. Name: if u wish to quickly lose craving Country: germany Comment: if u wish to quickly lose the want for girls or daipers simply look up female anatomy on google.. quit skirting around it and it won't cause u pain! Name: ONE MORE THING Country: japan Comment: FOR THOSE THAT TRULY WANT TO LOSE INCONTENENCE TRY HOLDING JUST THE TINEIST BIT OVER THE PTTI LIKE LEEK A LITTLE WITH YUR BTT. THATS A SUREFIRE WHY FOR PLEASURABLE RECOVERY! (BOWS AND SILENTLY FARTS) Name: THE TRUTH Country: usa Comment: YOU GUYS ARE INCREDIBLY LUCKY PEOPLE. B4 I CAME TO THIS SITE I INTENDED TO POTTY TRAIN MY CHILD(nr) OMG WTTING A DAIPER IS THE BEST OPTION.. BE GLAD! GUYS LOVE IT (I AM)AND YOU DONT HAVE TO RUN TO THE BATHROOM WHEN U WAKE UP YOU CAN HAVE ORGASMS.. I THINK WE SHOULD ALL STAY IN DAIPERS.. MAKE IT LAST AND BESIDES.. WHEN YOU GET JUST AS OLD AS FORTY YOU HAVE TO GO BACK TO THEM WETHER U WANT TO OR NOT! STIK WITHIT Name: Jennifer Country: united kingdom Comment: My 7 year old daughter is still a baby and wets her pants at school. She insists me to changer her nappy on the changing mat into 3 terry nappies with the baby pins. She is not ashamed of them and likes to wear them in the house. We originally bouht them for her to use because of her bedwetting and now she wants them as well. Anyone suggest any solutions ? Name: nappy boy Country: united kingdom Comment: i have to nappies i hate it. my mum changes me anywhere Name: lls Country: united kingdom Comment: my son is 13 and wets the bed it is a problem and should not be made fun of,he has bladder problems you who make fun ought to be ashamed of yourselves!remeber what comes around goes around and one day you could have a child with the same thing Name: tarry Country: usa Comment: Im 14 years old and still wear diappers , I sometimes do when just seeing tv, with not knowing that I wet my pants. Name: jordan Country: usa Comment: Hi my name is jordan i'm 9 years old and i weet my bed and i weared dipers everevey night people call me bed weeter what shouid do? Name: cj Country: usa Comment: hellow my name is cj i keep weeten my bed so my dad tells me to put pullups and i try not to do it but i just can't stop. Name: David Country: canada Comment: For those aged 8 and over that think if fun to wear diapers and pee an dpoop in them, you are lucky Iam not your father. A good lesson with the leather strap at to your age example at 10 I would give you 10 on each side of your bare little bottom and every time you thought about it you would get more . You would soon learn. Name: Barry Country: usa Comment: I been a bed wetter all my life i wear cloth diapers and rubber panties for this the only thing that works for me and will still wear me 49 it helps me dont care what other people thick or feel i enjoy it. Name: Rachelle Country: united kingdom Comment: Recently I caught my 8 year old daughter wearing nappie secretly. Her bedwetting stopped about 7 months ago so she wore normal panties to bed. Prior to that we had to buy lots of terry nappies for older children (bigger and thicker like the Zorbit Babycare stuff) and plastic panties. Even now I make her wear them on large car trios- but it's rare. Back to the story... half of the stuff were new so I packed them carefull and hid them ontop of her wardrobe. Nearly every single night, I caught her WEARING HER NAPPIES SECRETLY when she could esp. at bedtime. She folded 2 or 3 and slip them under her with pins. Although i haven't said anything yet, she even wore them with plastic pants over her knickers to schol But her long skirt concealed most of it. Is it normal for childre to not outgrow babyhood and regress into the protection of nappies and plastic pants ? Name: thomas rayment Country: hungary Comment: hi i have bed wetting problems. i am 12 and i wet the bed every night. one night i wet my bed and i was upset so i went into my parents bed and accidently wet thier bed too i wear nappies now but one night i ran out and i didnt wet myself i pooed myself. Name: help me:( Country: usa Comment: I am 12 turing 13 and i still wet the bed i wear good nights to sleep but sometimes it leaks through i dont want to go to a doc about it bc im embarrssed is there anyting I can do i dont tell anyone at all Name: sara Country: united kingdom Comment: i have a 8 year old daughter who wears nappies because she dosent like wearing her knickers she wont go to bed until she has a bottle of milk her dummy and a nappie on . We have to bribe her with sweets an other items to wear knickers to school an during the day at weekends, she comes home from school at 3 in the afternoon has dinner then at 6.30pm she calls mummy bed time she go an gets her pj's pulls down her knickers lays on the changing mat on her bedroom floor that we use for her younger sisters an then asks to be powdered with baby powder before i put her nappy on she also wets at nite time and 3or4 times a day we have tried every trick in the book but she aint having none of it how can we stop this. Name: Jenny Country: australia Comment: I'm almost 9 and I still wet the bed. Mum put these large towelling nappies, probably about 30 and pink safety pins on my bed and said they were for me. She changes me and folds 3 nappies and puts plastic pants on me. I wee my nappies every morning. But I love them and have been wearing them secretly to school- for 3 days now under my skirt- no one has found out. Mum dosen't know. Name: THOMAS Country: usa Comment: MY SON IS NINE YEARS OLD AND HAS NEVER HAD A DRY NIGHT. HE HAS WORN CLOTH DIAPERS AND PLASTIC PANTS ALL HIS LIFE. I TOOK OVER THE JOB OF GETTING HIM READY FOR BED WHEN HE TURNED FIVE. AT THAT TIME I LET HIM KNOW THAT I TOO HAD BEEN A NIGHTLY BEDWETTER AND GRANDMOM KEPT ME IN DIAPERS AT NIGHT. THIS CREATED A BOND AND IT GIVES US A SPECIAL TIME EACH NIGHT TO TALK OR READ A STORY. I ASKED HIM IF HE WANTED TO BE TAUGHT TO DIAPER HIMSELF AND HE SAID NO. I TOLD HIM I DIDN'T DIAPER MYSELF UNTIL I WAS 15 SO HE HAD PLENTY OF TIME TO LEARN. IF YOU DON'T MAKE A BIG DEAL ABOUT THE BEDWETTING AND NEED FOR DIAPERS, MOST CHILDREN ACCEPT IT. BELIEVE ME, IT IS ALOT EASIER ON MY WIFE TO NOT HAVE TO DEAL WITH WET SHEETS AND BLANKETS AND IT DOES FEEL ALOT BETTER TO WAKE UP IN A DRY BED ESPECIALLY FOR CHILDREN WHO WET 4 OR 5 TIMES A NIGHT. Name: Ben Country: canada Comment: Iam 11 and have wet the bed on occasion. Lots of this here is from sicko people. Can't even think of why anyone would like to poop and pee in a diaper. Or moms that go to schools to change a kids diaper. There are pullups and other things that kids can put on themselves. Name: janelle Country: australia Comment: hi im 13 nearly 14 and i still wet the bed i scared of telling my friends like they will laugh at me behnd my back i need some help i dont know wat to do. and i have a sleep ova party soon at my friends house and no bodys knows that i wet the bed if anyone can help me email me at nellyviney@hotmail.com plz i need your help Name: Bed wetter til 10 Country: usa Comment: I was potty trained at an early age but started to wet the bed around age 4. My parents were frustrated about the bed wetting and after a few visits to the doctor, nothing was found wrong and the doctor said at my age it was not uncommon to have weak baldders and have wetting issues at night. He said I would grow out of it and there were different ways to control it like bedwetting alarms or even diapers. I am a heavy sleeper so the bedwetting alarm was not good for me because by the time I would wake up enough to go to the bathroom, it was too late and the bed would be wet. So my parents tried the pull-ups but the tend to leak so I was put back into a diaper and I wore diapers at night until around age 10. No one made a big deal out of it, I was happy to have a dry bed and a good nights sleep and mom did not have to change sheets all the time just dispose of a wet diaper. Some of my friends knew I wore diapers at night and they were okay with it, there were some baby comments growing up (jokes of me in diapers) but it was no big deal because I knew they were kidding. I don't understand what the big deal is about a diaper. So many people think it is such a bad thing to wear a diaper. Come on people its not a disease, its a diaper. For the person having a wetting problem, it is such a releif no to worry about waking up with wet smelly sheets and have a bed ruined. If parents would get there head out of their a@@, not make a big deal of it, talk to the child first and explain that it is only plastic underwear and put the child in a diaper. I do and will still admit to wearing a diaper until age 10. I had a problem and thats how my family and I chose to deal with the problem. Diapers are not a bad thing as long as they are abused. Now some of these comments on this site of the kid wearing diapers to school and having their moms change their diapers at school is a big joke. No parent is going to do that. That just tells me there are a bunch of perverts spelling out a fantasy of a diaper fetish. Name: ricky splinter Country: canada Comment: hi nikkki go to the store that sell them and ask for sizw 9 or 10 ok hope this helps Name: sarah Country: iran Comment: hi.i wet my bedd every night.my mother put me in diaper always.i ashamed of this subject in ront of my family and my friends.i am 19 . Name: cheyenne rose Country: usa Comment: i wear pullups and i am going to science camp.but am not afrade beacouse i dont care what other peaple think and when i deside to stop weting the bed i will stop weting the bed.i know how it Name: Yasmine Country: australia Comment: TO THE PEOPLE WHO THINK THERE SO GOOD.I'm a 15 year old girl who is doing an assessment task for my childcare class at school. The assessment task is on bedwetting in children and i find it very rude that people think its funny to make fun of somthing like that.YOUR LIFE MUST BE VERY BORING IF ALL U CAN DO IS RIP PEOPLE OFF THAT HAVE A PROBLEM. Name: chalotte Country: united kingdom Comment: I am 10 years old and i wear nappies all the time but mum won't let me sleep in my bed she puts me in my travel cot just in my nappy Name: Lunden Country: usa Comment: Im am 7yrs. old and I wet the bed. I don't know what to do to stop it. Name: andrew Country: canada Comment: i am 12 and wet the bed what do i do Name: Dana Country: usa Comment: I'm a 13 year old girl, and I wear disposable diapers nearly all of the time. This because I was born with a birth defect and couldn't control my bladder. It has inproved some during the day, but when I have to pee, I have to go right then. This has led to some embarrassing accidents, but my friends understand, and my teachers know if I raise my hand, they had better let me go so I don't wet myself in class. At night I have no control and wear diapers to bed every night. Name: anna car Country: denmark Comment: i have a dauhter (11) and refuces to use speach walk or tolietand will only use baby stuff HELP Name: me! Country: usa Comment: i am 11 years old... i don't wet the bed very often...like i have wet the bed once before but the last time before that i was like 3 years old... i just wet the bed and i don't know how to tell my parents. SOMEONE HELP ME!!!!!! Name: Grzes Country: Other Comment: hi im boy 12years old and still wet my bed every night and wear diapers but my friends are ok nobody makes fun of me Name: Nasreen Country: Other Comment: I think it is a shame that a lot of people posting here seem to have a sort of fetish about bedwetting and wearing diapers. I can't believe that these stories about teenagers being forced to wear diapers are true. I think they are posted by perverts. I am 17 and have had this problem all my life but my family are loving and caring people. All my friends know I wet myself in my sleep and they know I can't help it. True friends will never make fun or be cruel about this problem. There is no point trying to hide it and it is nothing to be ashamed about. I would be ashamed if I told lies about people or stole or took drugs but I am not ashamed about wetting in my sleep because I can't help it. Maybe I am lucky to have such a good family and kind friends. Also in Wales you can buy a product called dry-nights pyjama pants in supermarkets. You can get them for ages 10-15 and although I am older than this I am quite slim so they are quite big enough. With these special pants there is no need to wet the bed and you can sleep at friends houses without worrying about it. I also wore when I was doing my GCSE exams just in case. I now have a boyfriend who is the brother of one of my best friends. I was worried when he first asked me out because of my problem but my friend told me not to worry and to tell him, and when I did he said he knew already and he said it didn't matter at all. We have been going out for more than a year. So it is possible to have this problem and still have normal life. Name: christena Country: India Comment: hi i have a boy and a girl thay are 9 they both are still in pampers and still have big cots i dont no what is going wrong Name: Baby J Country: USA Comment: Don't think of it in a bad way i have to wear diapers all day and night even at school because i wet so much os just don't think of it linda. Name: Julie Country: USA Comment: I believe this is a real problem and shouldn't be made fun of. Some of these comments are sad. Name: Irene Country: England Comment: I have an 8 year old little girl who wets so much at night I have to put two terry nappies on her and two pairs of plastic pants when she goes to bed. No matter what I try, she's soaked in the morning. Sometimes she goes through periods of wanting her nappies during the day at weekends - I think she feels safer in them. What can I do? Name: Christa Country: USA Comment: Layla, My friends daughter only wets the bed and will wear plastic panties with a nappy underneath during the day if she stays in bed because she is sick and staying home from school and will be in bed sleeping. When she sleeps she is apt to wet and so the nappy and plastic panties will be on her then. Otherwise no as she is fine during the days. Like your daughter her nappy is wet in the morning but so far there have been no leaks and my friends daughter is happy about that as the disposables would often leak. The only thing my friends daughter has said about it all is that the plastic panties crackle when she has them on and walks or moves in her bed. She also now gets her plastic panties and nappy from the closet and brings them to her room when it is time to get ready for bed. So I guess you could say she is getting used to the plastic panties. Name: Layla Country: India Comment: Hi Christa,Pleased to hear things are going well and your friends daughter is getting used to plastic panties. When my daughter wears plastic panties in the day timeshe does not wear a nappy. sometimes the plastic panties are over her normal panties but usually, like today, she is only wearing plastic panties. This is because she is very constipated and is soiling her panties, the plastic ones prevent her shorts getting soiled with poo.when she has done her poo she will wear normal panties.Her nappy is wet but not soaked unless she has had lots of juice drinks in the evening, It has been more wet than usuall for the last 3 mornings as she is constipated. I put booster pads in her nappy last night as she hadnt been able to do her poo on the toilet again even though she tried and strained for long time so I told her she had to try to get her poo out in her nappy, doing this makes her much more wet. Does your friends daughter wear plastic panties during the day time or is her mom planning to use them daytimes? Layla Name: Christa Country: USA Comment: Hi Layla,My neighbors daughter seems to have gotten used to the nappy and plastic panties now. My neighbor said that the first time her daughter saw the plastic panties she thought she would just wear them over her panties for bed, her mom had to explain that her panties would not be enough and she needed the extra padding so that the plastic panties would not leak. When it came time for bed the nappy was put in place and pinned the plastic panties were being pulled up and her daughter asked should I wear my panties to? Mom explained that it wasn't necessary. The next morning her daughter came to her and said she felt wet. With the disposable she didn't feel wet. The plastic panties were pulled down the nappy unpinned and she went to take a shower. My neighbor has been checking the diaper in the mornings to see if a booster is needed as with your daughter. Does your daughter usually soak her nappy or only when constipated? Also when your daughter wears her plastic panties during the day do you put a nappy on her or is she just in her panties under the plastic pants. My friends daughter had a very wet nappy the morning after a family party where she got to drink a lot. Also now when the nappy is pinned my friends daughter pulls on her own plastic panties so I guess things are going quite well. Name: layla Country: India Comment: Hi christa usually its just a longish top like a T shirt. We are used to seeing her in a nappy anyway and she is used to it so no extra effort is made to cover it up. How does your neighbours daughter feel about Plastic Panties ? I ask because sometimes my Daughter wears them as her panties particularly when she is having pooing problems. Layla Name: Christa Country: USA Comment: Layla, The nappies and plastic panties arrived and are in use. Does your daughter wear pj's over the plastic panties? Name: jason stevens Country: USA Comment: i am 16 and still wet the bed, and when I do my parents yell at me and sometimes ground me , but i cannot help it someone help me please Name: Christa Country: USA Comment: Layla, Again showed your thoughts to my neighbor. She is most appreciative of the information you provide. She is dealing only with a bedwetting daughter and so she ordered 4 gauze prefold nappies and 2 pair of plastic panties to start with. Now the nappy goes on somewhere in the half hour before bedtime after her daughter has gone to the toilet, brushed her teeth and so on. Like your daughter she wets every night and if she stays home from school ill and stays in bed and sleeps she also needs to have a nappy on. The nappies and plastic panties she ordered are youth size and should fit for awhile. Who knows how much longer the wetting will go on. Name: Layla Country: India Comment: Hi Christa, What sort of nappies and plastic panties has your neighbour ordered? My Daughter has always wet the bed and wets every night - hence I use terry towelling nappy and plastic pants. I dont know if you read the earlier posts about my daughter but we also have a little poo problem to deal with also - occasionally my Daughter does this in her nappy also. When I expect her to poo as well IE when she is constipated and hasnt been able to do it on the toilet, she wears plastic pants with the thin leg elastic that is also tighter to prevent the poo squashing out around her legs. When she does this there is so much that it is difficult to keep it contained unless the elastic is very tight.When she is constipated she wets more aswell. You need to ensure you have enough absorbency to cope,this prevents wet leaks. I use different thicknesses and sometimes a booster pad aswell depending on the situation.If its just for wetting i use 1 terry and a booster. This is put on just befor bed. sometimes she has her nappy on earlier and then i will use 2 terrys and a booster,I usually do this when for example she has been sitting on the toilet to do her poo and after a long time of straining cannot produce it,I will then nappy her in the bathroom. Once a nappy is in place it is not removed untill the next morning -hence the greater absorbency.When she hasnt been for a couple of days i put a disposable liner in the nappy aswell and after her sit on the toilet she is nappied but is encouraged to continue trying to poo into her nappy. Layla Name: Christa Country: USA Comment: Layla,My neighbor was over and I showed her your thoughts and she and I looked through many internet sites for nappies and plastic pants, she made some phone calls and did place an order which should be coming soon. Currently she uses disposables which are getting to be to small. Has your daughter always wetthe bed? Name: layla Country: India Comment: Hi Christa, What protection does your friend use on her daughter at the moment. I usuually help mine put her protection on - its easier and does help to prevent leaks which dont happen very often. I bought some youth sise nappies and plastic panties there are many suppliers of these on the internet. Sometimes her protection is put on in her bedroom just befor getting into bed others straight after her visit to the toilet Name: Christa Country: USA Comment: Layla,My neighbor has a 7 soon to be 8 year old daughter who wets the bed and she is interested in using protection like what you use. She wants to know if you help your daughter get ready for bed, how long before bed are the nappies and plastic pants put on and have there been any problems with leaking? Also do you need to get a youth nappy or can you use a baby nappy?Thanks so much. Christa Name: ....to layla Country: USA Comment: how old is your daughter? Name: layla Country: England Comment: Hi christa,My daughter doesn't mind wearing plastic panties in bed Name: Christa Country: USA Comment: Hi Layla and Jeannine,I agree with diapers on 4 year olds and younger at bedtime, I to have seen it many times over the years. The mom's were strict and they used diapers to help with the odd accidents. The summers I worked for this mom I remember many times seeing the kids in the evenings with the padded and rubber pants on. Layla, does your daughter mind the plastic panties for bed? Name: mick Country: England Comment: hi i was a bed wetter till i was 17 im now 34 no problems i had an xray on my back for back pain and was told i had signsof previous scheuermanns diesease i had now back problem or any other health problems as a child but its a disorder in the spine and iv now found outr on the net that it can cause wetting problems if id have had an xray as achild would thay have found my wetting problem idont know but i now how hard it was 4 me so go get checked out it could be the ansure my son is 12 he wettes the bed and inlight of my findings im having his lower back xrayed it could give him better qualaty of life now and in futuer hope this helps all the best i now wat its like been there mick.... Name: Greg Country: USA Comment: Hey i am 13 and i wet the bed and it is so humiliating my friends would make fun of me but i dont tell them i cant stop i hate it Name: Jeannine Country: USA Comment: Hi once again Christa and Layla. I'm not all surprised for after i got married we were living in a quiet little neighbourhood and i remember a couple of times a week that our neighbour (during the warm months of the year), would bring a round laundry basket full of diapers and rubber pants outside early in the morning and pin them up on her outdoor washline while the whole time holding a long filter tipped cigarette in her mouth. I remember seeing her two older toddlers maybe around the age of 2-1/2 and 3-1/2 years of age wearing only puffy white rubber pants displaying the tell-tale outline of thickly padded diapers underneath. Most babies do have to wear diapers for a time after daytime training has been completed and chances are good, if the mother is strict, old-fashioned, or just a "no fuss" kind of caregiver, everyone under the age of 4 years will be diapered for bed. I have come across it a lot over the years. Name: Christa Country: USA Comment: Hello Jeannine and LaylaI understand that it is not unusual to have a bedwetter and to have the child wear protection to bed as is Layla's case. I remember at the time thatI was suprised I guess you could call it at the fact that this woman had 5 bedwetters and the fact that she put diapers and rubber pants on the older ones as well at bedtime. I did not have a problem with it as every morning all 5 woke up with wet diapers, so I feel she did what she could do. Jeannine the woman you sat for seemed to know how to use what space she had and quite well. And yes I also sat for mom's who use disposables and some who used cloth. Name: layla Country: England Comment: Hi Jeannine, Thanks for your message, I dont believe in letting her poo in her nappy(or pants) as a substitute for using the toilet but as she wears a nappy and plastic panties each night for bedwetting sometimes it is the most practical solution when she cannot do her poo on the toilet. when she is very constipated she seems to find it easier in her nappy,usually she is only poo her nappy or dirty her panties if it is 2 or 3 days since she had a poo ( her bedwetting is worse as well when this happens).When she is at this stage she oftens soils during the day so wears plastic panties with her normal knickers over them - they are so much easier to clean than cotton ones and the mess doesn't get on her clothes. She was not a difficult child to toilet train- she is quite happy to sit on the toilet and strain untill she produces poo and does this every evening before getting her nappy on. I know of a couple of other mums who follow this routien.For the past 4 days she hasn't managed to poo, but today she was wearing plastic panties under her jeans and when she sat on the toilet this evening I noticed she had made quite a mess and managed to do some in the toilet - the remainder will probably be done in her nappy.so i am expecting a birty bum to change in the morning. Name: layla Country: England Comment: Its a simple fact that children and some adults wet the bed. My 8 yr old is still nappied on an in case basis as she wets a couple of times a week. We use terry nappies and plastic pants. When she is very constipated and has tried unsucessfully on the toilet she wears plastic pants so she doesnt soil her knickers. She is also allowed to do her poo in her nappy. Name: subb Country: Zambia Comment: my son wets the bed relly baddly he is 12 and wairs relly thick dipers what to do Name: Christa Country: USA Comment: I was a mothers helper when growing up and in high school. The woman I helped had 7 children and 5 of them wet the bed their ages when I started sitting were 4 - 11. When the mother interviewed me she informed me that she had bedwetting children and that pinned on diapers and rubber pants were worn by all who wet at night. After talking for a bit she offered me the job for the summer if I wanted it. I agreed and she started explaining to me about the kids and what would be expected of me. After she had covered just about everything she took me to the laundry and as we walked in there on a clothesline hung about a dozen pairs of rubber pants. She told me that the diapers were wshed and dried in the dryer but that she hung the rubber pants up to dry so they would last longer. I noticed that the rubber pants were of different sizes, larger sizes for the older kids and regular toddler size rubber pants for the younger kids. She explained to me that each child had about 6 pair of rubber pants and she had to order the ones for the older kids through the mail. She explained that after supper and dishes were cleaned up she began the diapering, the younger ones wore double diapers and the older ones wore triple diapers. She showed me how to fold the diapers for each of the kids so that they would have a good absorbant surface under the rubber pants. Over the weeks I would myself have to diaper the kids for bed so I would start by getting 2 stacks of diapers and putting one stack in the girls bedroom and one stack in the boys bedroom. I would then fold the diapers together and put them along with a pair of rubber pants at the foot of each bed so that when it came time to get that child ready for bed it was simply a matter pinning the diapers and pulling on the rubber pants before the child got into bed. In the morning I would remove the kids wet diapers and rubber pants,do the wash and get things ready for the next night. When I graduated from high school and left to go to nursing training there wer still 2 of the kids that were regular bedwetters. So the use of diapers and rubber pants for bedwetting is still very much a part of things today. Name: GeeBee Country: USA Comment: When I was a little kid, 3-4 years old, I was a serious bedwetter. My mother took me to a doctor and he told her to have me sleep on the other side that I was sleeping on. That is, if I was sleeping on my back I should try sleeping on my stomach or vice versa. It worked right away. I'm 77 now and I can remember that very clearly because I never had to use a rubber sheet again. Just sleep on the side that you don't usually sleep on. It worked! Name: shah Country: USA Comment: my child is two years & sixmths. He will start Nursery soon. he is still not toilet or potty trained. i have tried all sorts of coaxing & cajoling. It does not help. Name: helpless Country: India Comment: where do you get bedwetting alarm in india Name: For Talya Country: Canada Comment: Talya Just to let you know. One of my bedwetters has become dry. 6 weeks without wetting and 4 weeks without the diapers and rubber pants to bed. I thank you for your help in the matter. Chelsea Name: bobby Country: USA Comment: When growing up I suffered from secondary enuresis. This started after my parents divorce.I was about 6. It was most embarrasing and added to my moms already stressed life.I was soon taken to a doctor and put through a most embarrasing examine. He suggested diapers for a while and soon I found myself being diapered every night by mom. I fought and cryed many nights but soon realized that the diapers and plastic panties really beat a wet bed. Soon things were much calmer in the home. Mom and I started to get along much better and I realized that diapers would be OK till my bedwetting stopped. Well it stopped, but 3 years later, except for a few very embarrasing events, I think this was the best way to handle the situation. I had a girl cousin my age that wet also, she was not diapered and she was very restricted in activities and the home was always in termoil over her wetting, never mind the smell in her room. It would be helpful if other previous bedwetters were able to share experiences to help us all learn. By the way my son wet his bed, we just kept him in diapers and made no fuss about it until he stopped at age 7. Name: Chelsea Country: Canada Comment: Yes it is I agree that there is no need for it. Name: meow Country: USA Comment: can someone help me stop peeing the bed?!!!! Name: For Talya Country: Canada Comment: I gather that we think a lot alike on the use of cloth diapers and rubber pants issue for bedwetting as well as for regular use. As uou wrote I to knew of many mothers who would pin their kids into bulky diapers and put the rubber pants on over them. Was the mother you sat for able to use the regular toddler rubber pants or did she have to mail order larger ones? I have to mail order for my 2. It is nice to see a website that has other mothers who have bed wetters and use cloth diapers and rubber pants and know what they are talking about. Thanks to all Chelsea Name: Cathy Country: USA Comment: I am 18 and I have babysitted a kid who was 10 and still wore diapers at night. He wore Pampers and he needed to be changed into them. He woke up wet and with a little mess in his diaper. Dont worry if your kid wets at night, a lot of parents have it worse. Name: Navya Country: England Comment: I use traditional terry towel nappies and waterproof pants in our home all the time, and also have a 4 year old wearing then during the night. I think when all the mothers quit worrying about what other people think and just do what you feel is best, our children will grow up to be more adjusted. Name: To Chelsea Country: Canada Comment: Regarding your question about diapering, it all really depended on how the children were behaving, what time i arrived to babysit, and what time i changed the baby for the last time during the night. On evenings when i had to babysit early, say around 5:30 p.m. or so, change time usually took place for the most part no later than 7:00 p.m., which was usually about the same time i changed the baby for the last time during the night. However on busy nights when the mother had me washing laundry or cleaning up the house, i would normally change the two older children around 6:30 p.m. This allowed me time to get the household chores done without having to worry about watching the clock. However it really boils down to personal preference as i have babysat for other mothers who promptly diapered their children right after the supper dishes were done. Sometimes this meant by 5:00 p.m. With my own children i was quite content if they were diapered by 7:30 or even 8:00 o'clock p.m. Talya. Name: For Talya Country: Canada Comment: Sorry I did not get to answer you at any length but have been quite busy for a few days. As far as rashes were concerned we left the diapers and rubber pants off when possible or used only a diaper. I preferred to let them run around bare bottom and let the air circulate throughout the diaper area. This seemed to clear up rashes quickly. As for the 2 bedwetters you mentioned, ages 4 & 7, you mentioned their mother sometimes had them in their diapers and rubber pants when you got there. Was it normal the these children were put into diapers and rubber pants awhile before bedtime? Name: stella Country: USA Comment: my daughter is 4 yrs now already potty trained but she still wets her bed at night and during day naps. Is this gonna stop soon? Name: For Talya Country: Canada Comment: This will be quick as We have had an emergency within out extended family and I will be busy for a bit. Dealt with gather rash and regular old fashioned diaper rashes, Washed clean each change, let them run without rubber pants on whenever possible and used corn starch on the diaper area. Chelsea Name: For Chelsea. Country: Canada Comment: Being the old-fashioned type mother that i am and adding to the fact of being a nurse and midwife meant choosing only cotton cloth diapers and rubber pants full-time. Even during camping trips i religiously used diapers and rubber pants. I remember how i would fashion a makeshift clothesline from our trailer out to one of the trees nearby so that i was able to hang up wet rubber pants, baby bibs, and beach towels. During these camping trips i usually kept the kids in plain pinned cloth diapers without rubber pants, usually reserving the use of rubber pants strictly for naptime and overnight. This worked wonders in keeping down the occurances of tidemark diaper rash. As for helping out mothers with toilet training the answer is not too much. I do receive occasional telephone calls from mothers concerned over the fact that their baby has a diaper rash, but usually i never get to the point of actually making a house call to deal with it. The only time i do deal with diaper rash and toilet training outside of being a nurse is during my post natal visits to those mothers who have recently given birth. Quite often those mothers with more than one baby wearing diapers does use cloth diapers and it is at these homes where i change diapers regularly. To answer your question regarding babysitting and bedwetting my answer is yes. I don't actually remember ever babysitting for so much as a single mother who did not night-time diaper her daytime toilet trained children. I think this is the household standard right accross the entire board. Even in our house we continued diapering our children for several months during the night in order to stathe off wetting accidents. In the morning rubber pants were simply removed and diapers un-pinned, and the earlier replaced with the latter being thermal knit soaker pants sometimes with rubber pants over top. Question: Did your children ever get tidemark diaper rash or elastic gather rash? If so, what did you do to cure it up or prevent it? Talya Name: To Chelsea Country: Canada Comment: Absolutely Chelsea. I was in my second year as a nursing student and had answered an add for evening babysitting. The mother who i started babysitting for had two older children aged 4 years and 7 years as well as a 20 month old baby who at the time was in cloth diapers and rubber pants. The two older children, bedwetters as well, wore cloth diapers and rubber pants with diaper pins to bed at night-time. Sometimes the mother already had them changed by the time i arrived, and other times i had to change them. It's important to keep in mind that a majority of mothers raising young children and babies continue the use of diapers at night-time long after daytime dryness has been achieved. Although this is something that has only been socially acceptable for the past 20 years or so. Before this time mothers contending with an older bedwetting child wouldn't have remotely considered or even dreamed of putting a fully toilet trained child back into babies diapers again for fear of backlash and criticism from other mothers. However this does not go to say that there wasn't more than a mother or two pinning up their toddlers behind closed doors in bulky diapers and rubber pants throughout this time. I remember one particular neighbourhood mother who would always wait till late at night before hanging up her daily load of freshly laundered diapers and rubber pants in hopes of hiding the fact that her 4 year old son was still wearing diapers. Today however it's nice to know that society is more accepting of this and as a direct result, less emphasis is being placed on toilet training children by the age of 18 months as it was throughout the 1960's. Question: Did you use cloth diapers and rubber pants with pins on your children when they were babies? Talya Name: For Talya Country: Canada Comment: I thank you for your contribution about using cloth diapers and rubber pants for bed wetters. We have a girl 9 and a boy 7. Both wet their bed nightly and so they wear cloth diapers with diaper pins and rubber pants on to keep their beds dry. I frequently talk with them as I diaper them just before they go to bed in private. I have them go to the bathroom befor I put their diapers on. I have told them that the diapers are for protection and not because they are baby's. When their diapers and rubber pants are on they put on their pj's and go to bed. You mentioned having dealt with older bedwetters and diapering them. Were there any as old as mine? Chelsea Name: Talya Country: Canada Comment: I have been a register nurse for over 18 years, and a mid-wife for almost 12 years now and have seen many an older bedwetting child past the stage of diapers. So many mothers i talk to today tend to make such a big issue about the fact that their 3 or 4 year old child still wears diapers or wets the bed. Bedwetting is extremely common in many children past babyhood and the continued use of diapers either disposable or cloth during the night is more common in households than many of us could ever imagine. I have personally dealt with children particularly throughout my days as a neighbourhood babysitter who had to be changed into diapers before bedtime to help prevent overflowing pyjama bottoms and drenched crib or bed sheets. So for all those mothers who constantly and continually fret over a bedwetting child, stop. It's perfectly natural and in most cases will totally end within a year or two after the child becomes toilet trained. In the mean time a night-time diapering routine may be needed. For those mothers who have raised their children in cloth diapers, i suggest sticking with your cloth diapers. If you used diaper pins and rubber pants, continue with diaper pins and rubber pants. If you used disposable diapers continue with those. Diapering should be done right before bedtime and in a non humiliating way. Explain to the child being diapered that the diapers are just a safety measure to keep him or her comfortable and dry till morning, not to treat them like a baby. Name: Veneeda Country: Canada Comment: As a mother i have found that making a deal with my pants wetting children really works. Just recently i finished toilet training my toddler and for the first little while afterwards he would always have accidents both during the day and night. After over 2 months of putting up with wet pants, crib sheets, and outer clothing, i began making him a deal. I told him that whenever he peed his bed at night-time he would have to wear diapers the next night. Same as throughout the day. After only a hand full of embarrassing episodes of being put into bulky diapers along with rubber pants, he quickly began making an effort to keep his pants clean and dry. Name: Chelsea Country: Canada Comment: For Grandma, your 10 year old grandson may respond to a bedwetting alarm. A sensor is fastened to his underpants and an alarm goes off as soon as he starts to wet. I hope that he is wearing something to bed now to help keep him comfortable when he does wet. Name: GRANDMA Country: USA Comment: I JUST NEED TO KNOW WHAT TO DO TO HELP MY GRANDSON TO STOP WETTING THE BED HE IS 10HE DOESNT ALL THE TIME BUT HE DOES SOME Name: Chelsea Country: Canada Comment: We have 2 bedwetters a girl 9 and a boy 7. I use the old fashioned flanelette diapers with rubber pants over them. They are heavy wetters so a triple diaper is necessary under the rubber pants. They both wake up soaked every morning but thanks to the diapers and rubber pants the beds are dry. Name: Seema Country: Canada Comment: Although i may sound a litle old-fashioned when i say this, it really is so true that cloth diapers make a baby or child feel more uncomfortable than thin disposable diapers do, which is the reason why so many mothers switch over to pin on diapers and rubber pants once they begin to toilet train their toddlers. If you are finding that your child is still waking each morning with soggy disposable diapers, i suggest trying old-fashioned flannelette flat fold cloth diapers with diaper pins and baby rubber pants. Chances are good that your child won't at all like the bulky feeling of cotton diapers nor the babyish rustling sound of rubber pants and will make more of an effort to stay dry through the night. I know it worked for all of my baby nephews and neices. Name: Seema Country: Canada Comment: To Tracy from England. Congratulations! It's nice to see that there are mothers out there who don't get excited over the "potty training" issue. As my mom has always told me, they won't go to school wearing baby's diapers. Just for the record i have two neighbours who still have older children wearing diapers at night, and both mothers admit that their children wake up drenched each and every morning. Name: Seema Country: Canada Comment: Remember to be kind, patient, and loving when toilet training your little one. Keep in mind that ever since they were born, diapers are the only thing they have ever known. While some children are toilet trained by 2 years of age, there are others still in diapers full time at 4 years of age. Every child is different and each will progress at his or her own speed. Name: Seema Country: Canada Comment: If you do have an older baby or younger child suffering from bed-wetting, ask the child if he or she minds wearing diapers. You would be surprised at how many newly potty trained youngsters will openly accept wearing a diaper to bed. Another hint is to not make a big deal over putting the diapers on. Whenever i babysat my nephews or neices i would have all their diapering needs right beside their baby cribs ready to go. When it was time for bed i would simply undress them, pin on their diapers and pull on a pair of rubber pants over top of their diapers. If you keep things fuss free and don't make a big deal over it, children are usually ok with it and it saves a lot of wet, soiled bedding. Name: kyle ? Country: USA Comment: my child is 14yrs has wet his pants since 4yrs. what do we do? Name: timothy Country: Other Comment: Hi im 13 years old and in jr.high.i was dressing down for p.e class and every body saw that i was wearing a pull-up. they all laughed and i was scared and i didnt notic it but i was peeing my pants and allmy closed were soaked .is there any diaper that wont leak easily . i wear luvs over depends at night it works but not durring the day is there any thing that will Name: confused Country: USA Comment: I'm 14 years old and I still wet the bed every night. Sometimes I just want to disappear,or just go to bed without having to put on diapers.I'm afraid if my friends found out i wouldn't have any. Also my mom is so great about I don't know what i would if i didn't have her support. But she can never fill the void.And I'm so glad to know I'm not alone. Name: Other Country: Other Comment: I'm 12 and still wet the bed.... i have no friends and i wet the bed 5 times a week... i wear dry nights and they help a little but i sometimes leak through... on camp with my school i wet my bed once and got teased alot.. can anyone help me. Name: frustrated Country: Other Comment: I am 14 years old and i wet my bed sometimes, it is very embarrasing and my mom makes a big deal out of it. i need to stop Name: Eisle Country: USA Comment: I am 18 years old and i still wet the bed and i will be moving out soon and i will have a room mate and i have made it my whole live with out anyone finding out but i cant take it anymore i really want to find a cure i cannot get married and still be wetting the bed its rediculous Name: very frustarted Country: USA Comment: my son is 8 years old and smart as hell and he wets the bed like 4 nites out of 7, and its like i can just pick what nites he is gonna do it. i also have a 4 year old son that stpped wetting the bed when he was just about potty trained and that was when he was lik 2 almost 3. i have my 8 year old on ddavp and i am thinking they need to up the dose cause he takes 3 pills a nite and still manages to wet . i also think i need a second opinion he might have a problem that is more than the bed wetting . i mean it really breaks my heart to have such a genius son that can not control his bladder. the other day he wet himself trying to get in the house from school because he waits til the very last minute and he cant hold it anymore. i need help!!!!!!! Name: colleen Country: Other Comment: i wet the bed all the time and sometimes when im staying at my friends i have an axcident its really embarrising i dont tell them what am i ment to say. Name: jakey Country: England Comment: my son is 11 and still wets thje bed i personally think it is an emotional problem i suffer from depression and unknowingly always seem to be cross all the time when i answer a question or speak to my son Name: verna Country: USA Comment: I have a 9 year old and 7 year old twin daughters and they all are still peeing in the bed the odd thing about it is my 6yr old doesn't. I am in tears must of the time because I'm constently washing and buying pull-ups. someone please help! Name: Tracy Country: England Comment: I am so relieved that I am not the only one with a bedwetter. Nobody I personally know has this problem with their child so to find this website is such an enlightening feeling. My son is 6 and has a nappy every night and in the morning it weighs a ton. I think I shall leave it to nature to sort out in its own good time. Thankyou all. Name: GENI Country: USA Comment: I have two children. Ages 6&8. They both still wet the bed I believe it is hereditary. I have a brother who did it and I believe my dad did too. Name: ashish Country: India Comment: Nite watch is the name of bedwetting alarm that is availabe at Delhi.Do use it. Name: arya Country: India Comment: I used Nite-Watch alarm. I am very happy to recommend to others.Try and dont be a sufferer! Name: depressed! Country: Other Comment: im almost 16 years old and still wet the bed.i dont like being teased which is very often.even my mom scolds me.its so embarrasing!can any one help? Name: Ashok Country: India Comment: Bedwetting control is like learning driving.It takes time to be the 'master of the bladder. For any art to be learned one needs support.Bedwetting alarm helps.Can anybody tell about the avaiability of the alarm in India. Name: anonymous Country: Canada Comment: my 14 year old wets the bed still. she's still wearing pull-ups to bed. what should i do? Name: other Country: Other Comment: i need a cure for me that dosent need money Name: dddd Country: India Comment: my daughter is 7 years old and she is still bedwetting. If i wake up her in mid-night she does not wet her bed otherwise she is gloomy in the morning. she herself tries not not drink lot of water since evening and is alert herself about bed wetting. she gets very happy when she has not wetted her bed and proudly tells me but othersiwise she is sad. However, we have never been annoyed with her for this act but she herself wants to stop it. our younger child has stopped doing bed-wetting since 2and half years. But he does it sometimes. How can we help our daughter to stop bed-wetting, please help me. Name: divya Country: India Comment: My daughter who is 3 years old had stopped bed wetting after taking homeopathic medicines. Name: mel Country: Other Comment: i have twinn girls ho are 12 and they still wet bed what ever you do dont shut at them fo it it could gp away on its own my daughter have been givem desmopressin tabletts for it also a alarm to wake them tha didnt work but tablet do sometimes hopeing they will stop shortly i have some dry nights make surethey are relxed bforegoing to bed chat to them make sure they are happy before slee this does help them love mel Name: cut-chemist@online.ie Country: Other Comment: Well i live in ireland, i am a 21 years old male, that is working full time in a retail shop like alot of other people and i have wet my bed all my life. Now i have tried everything to get rid of this cause really when you reach 13 and are still wettin the bed you have no life with your friends cause you cant stay in anyones house or anything. It is a horrible thing to have but there are so so many people out there that have it and NO one ever talks about it cause really, My parents helped me as much as they could but nothing helped, i am doing a relaxsation thing for the past 6 months, it is workin the odd time which is better than never working. But please to all the parents that have kids under the age of 12 PLEASE!!!! stop saying help my son/daughter is 2 years old and STILL wets the bed, more than likly your child will stop by 15 the latest! But do go to the doctor and ask as many questions as you can with your son or daughter. And please if anyone would like to ask me any questions about this i will be more than happy to help cause i know what it is like to wake up in the morning with this problem. thank you for reading. gerry. Name: Emilia Country: USA Comment: I have a daughter who is 13 years old. She began wetting her bed at age 5 and was on and off ok. However, for the last 2 years or so she is wetting her bed often and medicine will not help. I am searching for ways to help her as she is not sleeping well and I feel that it is to think of wetting her bed again. She wears pull-ups at night and I do not put her down for this problem. I need to find a way to help her and that is why I am writing and studying much more about bed wetting desorders. Any input will be greatly appreciated. Name: Bernadine Country: USA Comment: My younger sister had a problem with bed wetting at age 5 that was for her easy to fix. The doctor told my parents nothing to drink after 6 pm and wake her up around 11 or 12 and physically take her to the toilet. It was not until she was 10 years old that the reason for the bedwetting came out. She was being sexually abused by the our care givers boyfriend. Fortunantely it was only outside toucing and her virginity is still intact. Name: Lucy ann Country: India Comment: My child is a nine year old boy and he wets his bed every night and I have used the buzzered that attaches to underware and is taking medication to stop it and the buzzered only help for about four months and then he starting bed wetting again. He is a very hard person to wake up to go to the bathroom. He will not wake up at all. He is fustrated and so am I. Please help!!!!! Name: vishakha Country: India Comment: my son is 6 years old. Due to my health problems ( disturbed sleep spoils my day) he was on diappers till last 6 months. Now I have to wake him up and take to toilet, otherwise he wets the bed and feels bad though we console him Please advise Name: Nan Country: USA Comment: My niece is seven years old and stil wets the bed every night. Her mom puts large diapers on her every night and does not seem to care about the problem. Will she out grow this? Name: THK Country: Australia Comment: I am a 29 years old who have been refused to join the Defence force because I wet my bed up until the age of 15. I have not wetted my bed for 14 years but I can not change the pass. I did ask my mum when I was less than 10 years old about my bed wetting but she said I am just a lazy boy nothing wrong my Phychology so, the problem never been look at. Any parents out there please take the phychology affect of your child seriously because the circumstances will stay around for the rest of your child life. Name: PDM Country: Other Comment: My 7 year old son is still wetting bed if I do not wake him every night to go to the toilet. Doctors have said he will grow it out, but it does not seem to be happening. Our home is a two-parent home, happy at that. He has a 5 year old brother and there is sibling rivalry a bit, but as a mother I show equal love to ensure one does not feel more loved. Name: HOUSEWIFE Country: Other Comment: MY SON IS ALREADY 4YEARS OLD &STILL WETS HIS BED, BOTH DURING AFTERNOON & NIGHT TIME.PLEASE SUGGEST HOW TO STOP HIM. Name: swati Country: India Comment: my daughter is 3yrs old and when ever she wants to go for potty she hides behind the curtain or table and it seems she's shy.how can i overcome this shyness of her's. Name: mala Country: India Comment: my sister is overweight and she has the bed wetting problem she says that she first dreams that she wants to urinate she does not find a place and finally she finds a place and thinks that she is urinating in the toilet but for on the bed and she also says that during the sleep she thinks wheather it is on the bed or in the toilet, she realises that it is on the bed only after she feels wet. please give me a solution for this Name: eena Country: India Comment: you haven,t discussed about kids living in joint families I have that problem.where no amt. of reassurance helps.sibling rivalry is a precipitatory factor but one cannot avoid it.My son is 12 we never put him to shame,onlytime will help. Name: Ambica Country: India Comment: This article is superb.But there is one drawback.There are no suggestions as to how to deal with this problem.I would really appreciate if there is some guidelines as to how the parents should deal with this situation. Name: Arti Tandan Country: India Comment: My daughter is 2 years old she is still bed wetting at night can you tell how long will it continue, she also has a habbit of thumb sucking I do not how to get rid of that problem also. Please help Name: deepti Country: India Comment: It is sad that the child is teased and screamed at when she herself is feeling miserable..i did that till iwas 14yrs but as soon as i got my periods i got rid of my peeing in bed. Same goes with my nephew he used to wet his bed till he was 15 but then it stopped. I used to feel so miserable that it was a shame ful thing i used to hide it from everyone. I specialised in picking up my beddings and dry them in sun i was lucky i was in Rajasthan,we need to tell our kids that it is ok that they wet the beds but very soon it will be over.I think i used to wet the be djust because i was tense not to wet the bed every night.Be a patient mom my 4 1/2 yrs old daughter wets the bed but i try and be as cool as possible with her. i don't want her to feel bad at all.I remember it very clearly what it was to wet the beds.I never lived happily Name: Lalita Chugh Country: India Comment: This article is very good. My son is also 3 and half years. He also wets his bed. I have tried to wake him up in the midnight. When I want to take him to the toilet, he says, No. Please suggest any solution. Name: Tara Country: USA Comment: I have a 6 year old son who had a few dry nights when he was wearing pull-ups. I took him off about 2 months ago per my husbands orders, but now he's wet every night. I make him urinate before bedtime, but he still wakes up wet. Please help!!!! Name: Mom Of Three Country: USA Comment: My oldest which is 8 has never had a promblem 'but my 6year old wets about 1 time a week. I hope my 3 yeart old dont. I think it is a phase some children go through . mare if they are a middle child.I believe they will grow out of it; it is part of being a kid. Name: Rekha Country: India Comment: Can anyone suggest how I can prevent my 8 year old son from wetting the bed without scolding him or making him feel ashamed and harming him psychologically? Name: mom 0f 5 Country: USA Comment: my son is 9 and is wet every night unless i get him up. My 21 yr old daughter wet until into college. I don't want to see this happen to my son. We have tried the buzzard that attaches to the underware, but it is more of a hassel than anything else. any other suggestions? Name: gillian Country: England Comment: my son is 3 years old and wets the bed he was dry for 1 yearand now he not Name: Aiza Country: USA Comment: My daughter is 13 1/2 yrs old but she still bedwetting, as she can not get up to go to the bathroom, especially when it rains. Name: aa Country: India Comment: try to make them understand where to go for toilet and potty Name: lata Country: India Comment: good article, particularly, no mistakes in spelling! except almost at the end, it should be their, not there. Thanks. Name: Sona D. Country: India Comment: My daughter does not like to go to the toilet todo the big job.She is 5yrs. old She will hold on to her stools for 2or 3 days & then do it quietly do it under the table or in a corner.Sometimes it is painfull as the stools are very hard ,but she bears it.We have shown her to the pedeatrician but there is no respite Name: janaki Country: India Comment: My daughter is 9 years old and she wets her bed if she is not woken up to go to the toilet . Can you suggest any councelling centers in Chennai. Name: Purnima Country: India Comment: My son is 6yrs old and is bedwetting all thru these 6yrs. I was waiting that this problem may stopped after 5yrs. But now i want a solution. Can this be a hereditary problem. Please do suggest me. Name: karuna Country: India Comment: the child is 8yrs and is still bedwetting. she had stopped for 1month but has started again. Name: shah s Country: India Comment: my child is two years & sixmths. He will start Nursery soon.he is still not toilet or potty trained. i have tried all sorts of coaxing & cajoling. It does not help. 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