My husband is just a social drinker and drinks maybe once in 2 weeks. The other day he came home from an office party completely drunk and stinking of alcohol. He came home and wanted to have sex but i told him no as he is drunk and stinking. He got very annoyed but still tried to make me by kissing me. I also got angry and told him to cut it out till he sobered up. Thats when he got super angry and slapped me across my face and called me a bitch.
I was shocked and just stared at him for a minute. He also seemed shocked at what he had done. After almost a minute I reacted and got up to get out of the room crying. He kept saying he is sorry he is sorry. I should let it go right? He s never been that drunk before. It was a mistake right?
This is your family matter but seriously I think that you can give him another chance. What he had done was because he was not in his senses. As you said that he never did anything like this before, so you can forgive him. Moreover you can talk it out when he is sober and clear all your issues with him.
You should forget this incident as this was the first case and as you said your husband was not in his senses. Forgiving and forgetting is the best way to keep sweetness in relationships.
For give him as this is the first time. He is already feeling guilty and said sorry also. I feel that he is genuinely sorry so instead of blowing the issue out of proportion, forget it.
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