We got married last year and my wife started working 2 months back. She works from 9 to 6.30 and I work from 10 to 8. so we get time with each other only from 8 in the night till we go to sleep. but in that time also, she makes so many socialising plans with our friends, cousins, family,etc. It was fine when we were engaged, but now I cant socialise everyday. I am so tired and just want to spend time with her at home watching tv or just relaxing atleast during the week.

but when i told her that, she started a huge fight saying that i had become boring and old and selfish.

Could it be that she finds me boring? is that why she needs to make so many plans with other people so that she is not alone with me? But Im not saying not to go out at all..im just saying to go out maybe 3-4 nights of the week only. How do i explain that to her without starting another big fight or making her cry?