i am a very shy girl and not very good at socialising. my husband (arranged marriage) loves meting new people and going for parties. he gets very upset when he just sees me standing in a corner. i think he is getting ashamed of me even though he never says anything. i don't know why i am so insecure. i am beautiful and well-educated. what do i do to become more social like him so that he no longer has to worry about me at parties.