Is seeing a relationship counselor worth it? It depends on what you want really, but I personally think that all of us have the capacity to improve our relationships without spending money. I'm 19, my boyfriend is 37. We've been together for 2 years and 3 months. I needed to graduate highschool and couldn't stand to be at home, where my parents hardly taught me anything useful, and when I'd make a mistake when learning how to cook, I'd be yelled at. But I found the strength in myself when I used online counseling