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    Why do Children Misbehave?

    Does your child misbehave? What are the common causes of misbehaviour in children? What do you do when your child misbehaves in public?
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    Does your child misbehave? What are the common causes of misbehaviour in children? What do you do when your child misbehaves in public?
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    Generally, All children do misbehave wherever they want. This is so that they don't know difference between well-behave and miss-behave. So they do so. With the passing of time, even they mold their self in the social activities. Social activities do help everybody increase and decrease own internal knowledge and behavior. Both evil and goodness are included inside social. But social is always top priority to learn you how to well-behave. If we let live wild animals in human-social environment, they also try to understand love and human beings activities of society.

    So, Company and environment are main factor improving evil and goodness in child.

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    Hi, I can completely understand when your child is misbehaving and you have no idea why he is doing so. It is difficult to sometimes find the reason behind this kind of behaviour. It is important to find out the causes behind this kind of behaviour in our children. It is seen that every parent is worried about their child’s different behaviour. They fail to understand if there is one single reason or many reasons for such a behaviour. But this is the most common problem seen in children and the most common mistake parents do is shout or scold their children for such behaviour.

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    Hitting and scolding the children is not the solution to this problem, in fact this will make the situation worse. Punishing the child is not a solution to the problem. Learn the reason and then try to tackle the problem smartly without hurting the child’s feelings and emotions. Firstly every parent should know what their child wants. Your child may start acting up or misbehaving just to seek your attention. There might be times when you don’t pay attention to your child when he wants it and therefore he might misbehave so that you can pay attention to him.

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    Hello, there are some children who lack confidence in them and are scared of being a failure. This might be one of the reasons why the child start misbehaving to hide their failure of low confidence. They just do it to prove that they are superior and are not scared of anything but in reality it is the opposite. In this case parents should support their child and increase his level of confidence by supporting and motivating him. Encouraging him to face the challenges and also helping him get through it will be very helpful for the child.

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    It is important for us as parent to set some limits and boundaries for the children, sometimes the children do not understand their boundaries and limits and to find their limits they start misbehaving and also want to see when you might react to their behaviour at what extent. When there are fights or arguments between two adults in the house children do not like it and try to divert every body’s attention by misbehaving, so that the fight stops and the real reason for fighting is distracted. Children are very sensitive and get affected by such fights and arguments.

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    Hi, there is a tendency of children to be irritated and angry when they are hungry or tired of something. They tend to start misbehaving just because they are not feeling well. In this case also they need attention from you and you should know what exactly your child wants. Try to feed your child healthy food as much as possible and make sure he is never left hungry. You child needs a good sleep of 8 to 10 hours and see through it that he is not sleep deprived. A daily activity can keep him active and fresh daily so this can keep him happy.

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    There are at times when the child feels depressed or upset due to various reasons. When something which he or she wanted is not received or something did not happen according to him, the change in seasons can also cause him to be upset. There are several reason and then they can misbehave as they are disappointed. This is quite a natural reaction to come out as even we sometimes get disappointed and act rude to others, similarly with the kids the case is same. Try to fulfil what your child wants or make him understand why it is not possible calmly so that he listens.

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    The best solution to your child’s misbehaviour is your love and affection. These two things can solve all the problems which the child has. Make sure that the love you show is only where it is required, not everywhere as there can be times when your children might be stubborn and not listen. You have to be strict sometimes and do not ever hit your child as they may act up more if you do so. Punishing the child is also not a solution to the problem. Children are small and still growing up learning new things in process, they need time to settle down and understand the right things.

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    a parent should always keep one thing in mind that yelling and beating up a child is never a solution to any kind of problem it would just create fear in the hearts of children. if you yell or beat up your children if they mis behave then what is the difference between you and child

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    not having a good friend circle lead for the misbehaving of child or the parent being too soft to the children can make a child disobedient.to understand them the parent should not yell and beat the children they should make them understand about about their behavior and teach them how to behave in front of others.

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