y always DIL should adjust???

[Deepthi Popuri]

When a girl is getting married and entering into a new family whom she doesn't knew ever, everyone says to the girl ..u should adjust..u should b calm ..mingle with them..
Y the same people wont say to the in-laws to know abt the girl n her behaviour..coz they r elders???

[Jayasudha Jayaraman Jaiganesh]

Hello Deepthi, I guess it is the family system of how things have been working for quite sometime. Those who understand the position of DIL and gives them enough space are truly lucky, but most of them on the other hand has only the other part to deal with. It has to change and start soon, or else the coming generation is definitely going to have a bad time.