Eve Teasing is very common. Everyday women come across some form of eve teasing. What should women do? Should they speak up or remain quite? Read on the article and fight back the eve teasers. Women should be empowered to fight back, then only this evil will be weeded out.Its the same story every day. You step on the street in the morning and jump out of your skin as a car hurtles towards you and swerves just before smashing you to a pulp. The driver laughs evilly and youre still cursing him under your breath as you pass a group of men standing at the corner, who burst into choli ke peechey kya hai almost on cue. You pretend not to hear and get into an autorickshaw. (Let me not even start about the horrors of traveling in a bus in India and the daily fight against being groped.) The rickshaw driver adjusts his rear view mirror to get a better look at you, and you sit with your files and bag clutched close to your chest as you avoid eye contact with him through the journey. Two men on a scooter peek into the autorickshaw, decide they like what they see and follow you around for a few minutes (depending, of course, on how lukkha they are) staring lecherously and giggling excitedly till the autorickaw driver takes pity on you and waves them off. You reach office and as youre about to enter the gate, a cyclist comes out of nowhere, slaps you on your butt and cycles off. Office is fine. You have some form of control over your surroundings and take revenge on the male sex by bossing your peon around. At the 6:30 p.m. show you get completely unintentionally jostled and felt up. Well, what did you expect? You should have sat at home and watched it on VCD you bad, bad girl. As you exit the hall a ruffian whistles and another one passes a lewd remark. You reach home, dodge another speeding vehicle with its underage driver listening to ear-blasting music and hooting as he passes you. A***ole! you mutter irritated, hurriedly enter the gate and bang it shut as loud as you can. Just another day. In this articleSo whats a woman to do?Fight backIf youre being followedWalk in welllit and frequented areasBe street smartDress appropriatelyKnow thy enemyAvoid potential harassersTravel with a male escortSo whats a woman to do? Many have resorted to carrying pins, pen-knives and even daggers as a deterrent. Others have taken self-defense classes and dont hesitate before landing a karate chop on the offenders shoulder blade. Fight back This doesnt mean you have to sock your offender in the face - no matter how tempting it may be. But being too shy and reserved to speak up is just going to work against you. Youve got to look your offender in the face and speak up as loud as you can. The crowd will automatically be on your side and youll have the satisfaction of watching the ball of slime mumble a denial and slink away. If youre being followed Nothing psyches your follower as much as this: Just walk up to him and start yelling at the top your voice, without letting him get a word in. Ask him for the name of his employer. Drop the You dont know who I am and who youre messing with line. Tell him youre going to sic the police on his ass if he doesnt do the vanishing act. (Not recommended if youre talking to a 6 ft muscleman or to a group of hooligans, but a wimpy, skinny male will rue the day he crossed your path.) Walk in well-lit and frequented areas Dont walk through a dark, lonely street or youre only inviting trouble. In a well lit area youll be able to see and avoid potential offenders. Be street smart Dont daydream and dont look lost - even if you are. Look as if you know exactly where you are going. Dress appropriately If you are going to spend the day in crowded areas, dont wear a mini skirt. True, women in salwar kameezes get harassed as well, but theres no need to call attention to yourself. Save your skimpy clothes for the nightclubs, when youre the one whos on a prowl! Know thy enemy Is the guy across the street waiting for you to pass by? Does he look like hes out for some fun? Is he huddled with other men and just hanging out, doing nothing in particular? Then its best to... Avoid potential harassers If you see a group of men hanging out, or a man whos making eye contact with you and trying to get your attention, take a detour. Better safe than sorry. Travel with a male escort Though this may not always be possible, try and work out some arrangement where you have a male escort. Eve-teasers by and large target women who are without a male escort. Of course, if they are very frustrated, even the presence of a man may not deter them - so better safe than sorry. Take the necessary precautions, drive with your cellphone handy, dont walk outdoors at night, and learn karate!
Eve Teasing is very common. Everyday women come across some form of eve teasing. What should women do? Should they speak up or remain quite? Read on the article and fight back the eve teasers. Women should be empowered to fight back, then only this evil will be weeded out.
It's the same story every day. You step on the street in the morning and jump out of your skin as a car hurtles towards you and swerves just before smashing you to a pulp. The driver laughs evilly and you're still cursing him under your breath as you pass a group of men standing at the corner, who burst into 'choli ke peechey kya hai' almost on cue. You pretend not to hear and get into an autorickshaw. (Let me not even start about the horrors of traveling in a bus in India and the daily fight against being groped.) The rickshaw driver adjusts his rear view mirror to get a better look at you, and you sit with your files and bag clutched close to your chest as you avoid eye contact with him through the journey. Two men on a scooter peek into the autorickshaw, decide they like what they see and follow you around for a few minutes (depending, of course, on how 'lukkha' they are) staring lecherously and giggling excitedly till the autorickaw driver takes pity on you and waves them off. You reach office and as you're about to enter the gate, a cyclist comes out of nowhere, slaps you on your butt and cycles off.
Office is fine. You have some form of control over your surroundings and take revenge on the male sex by bossing your peon around.
At the 6:30 p.m. show you get 'completely unintentionally' jostled and felt up. Well, what did you expect? You should have sat at home and watched it on VCD you bad, bad girl. As you exit the hall a ruffian whistles and another one passes a lewd remark. You reach home, dodge another speeding vehicle with its underage driver listening to ear-blasting music and hooting as he passes you. 'A***ole!' you mutter irritated, hurriedly enter the gate and bang it shut as loud as you can.
Just another day.
So what's a woman to do?
Many have resorted to carrying pins, pen-knives and even daggers as a deterrent. Others have taken self-defense classes and don't hesitate before landing a karate chop on the offender's shoulder blade.
Fight back
This doesn't mean you have to sock your offender in the face - no matter how tempting it may be. But being too shy and reserved to speak up is just going to work against you. You've got to look your offender in the face and speak up as loud as you can. The crowd will automatically be on your side and you'll have the satisfaction of watching the ball of slime mumble a denial and slink away.
If you're being followed
Nothing psyches your follower as much as this: Just walk up to him and start yelling at the top your voice, without letting him get a word in. Ask him for the name of his employer. Drop the 'You don't know who I am and who you're messing with' line. Tell him you're going to sic the police on his ass if he doesn't do the vanishing act. (Not recommended if you're talking to a 6 ft muscleman or to a group of hooligans, but a wimpy, skinny male will rue the day he crossed your path.)
Walk in well-lit and frequented areas
Don't walk through a dark, lonely street or you're only inviting trouble. In a well lit area you'll be able to see and avoid potential offenders.
Be street smart
Don't daydream and don't look lost - even if you are. Look as if you know exactly where you are going.
Dress appropriately
If you are going to spend the day in crowded areas, don't wear a mini skirt. True, women in salwar kameezes get harassed as well, but there's no need to call attention to yourself. Save your skimpy clothes for the nightclubs, when you're the one who's on a prowl!
Know thy enemy
Is the guy across the street waiting for you to pass by? Does he look like he's out for some 'fun'? Is he huddled with other men and just hanging out, doing nothing in particular? Then it's best to...
Avoid potential harassers
If you see a group of men hanging out, or a man who's making eye contact with you and trying to get your attention, take a detour. Better safe than sorry.
Travel with a male escort
Though this may not always be possible, try and work out some arrangement where you have a male escort. Eve-teasers by and large target women who are without a male escort. Of course, if they are very frustrated, even the presence of a man may not deter them - so better safe than sorry. Take the necessary precautions, drive with your cellphone handy, don't walk outdoors at night, and learn karate!
