Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi

I conceived after4-1/2 yrs of marriage. Everything was going fine, ill the 4th month started. I started having little bleeding. On sonography, it was observed that the baby had not grown beyond 2 months. Ther were no heartbeats and blood supply ad a D&C was done.Now,I m so depressed. I m worried tht this shold not repeat again. jahnavi replied. I tell u the doc told me that this is somethin very common.............60% of the first pregnancies turn this way.
jst don' t worry ......its nature policy to terminate which is not right in any way....god wants to give u something better. lets wait for it. best of luck. jahnavi replied. Hi Sandhya,
Infact the same thing happened with me too.......but in my case after 1.5 month only i started bleeding and got the D& C done jst a week ago from now. how long has the doc asked u to wait for planning once again? Srey replied. Dear Sandhya,

I normally don' t talk about his, but...
My sister had a stillbirth. Around the 6th month of her pregnancy her baby had no heart beat. It really hit my sister and her husband to the core. All of us was very sad. The doctor had no explanation as to why this had happened.

Anyway she had to be induced and was given birth to her son. She held him for an hour before the doctor took him away. As a sister, I really felt her pain.

....a couple of years later, they conceived at You know what happened??

Yes, they given birth to their 2nd child. This time...he is well and crying.

Don' t give up. It' s sad, but, God will do the best he can to help those in need. You just have to be patience, okay.

Hope you feel better. mitasha replied. hi sandhya,
hope ur feeling better now. i too lost our first baby the same way...but i miscarried soon after completing 2 months.its very disturbing....bt u need to reassure urself tht u did all tht u cud....wats not in ur control,is not...so try to let things be.the more depressed u will feel,the worse it' ll be for u,and ur family.try and keep urself positive.
we will be trying again in a couple of mnths....so just keeping fingers crossed.wish u good luck.