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Name: Chandra

hey girls..me again. so like every advised, to study and worry about the baby, i did that. and was doing really well.
then came yesterday..i called him, had to get him to send papers to me and stuff from the doctor. and he went into allll his stuff again, was rude to me on the phone, so i hung up.
went home and told my mom, and she called him. my parents are absolutely sick of this, and couldnt see me in the position i was in. so my mom called him to ask him what he had to say, that he was being so rude to me, and started saying sooooo many things. but anything my mom would ask, he wouldnt have an answer.

he wasnt saying anything rudely to her, i asked her. so he was at least smart enough not to be mean or rude. but at the end, he said it was over between me and him...just like that. truthfully i wasnt surprised. i wasnt shocked. yah its not easy, and who knows what the next few weeks is gonnna bring. but my parents were really strong. they said, whatever happens is gonna happen for a reason. they couldnt see me in my position, and said there is no point in living a life being scared or hurt all the time.
i know it must kill them inside though. i guess the distance between me and him has sort of lessened the blow of what he said.
i just hate dragging this on longer then it should be dragged on. its been a month now, and it still hasnt stopped. i guess if divorce is the result, it has stopped, but i still have a life to live. i just dont understand what im supposed to do now. everyone keeps saying, just study and wait and let things happen. but HOW??? i dont think at this point, that is even possible.

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