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Just wanted to give you guys a little bit of an update..since you helped me out a lot just by reading what i wrote and responding was enuff! but you guys took ur time to give me advice!

I havent talked to the DH for a few days now, and dont plan on calling him myself. nor emailing or anything. He still thinks what he did, say, was ok. And unless he realizes how cruel he was, I refuse to waste my time and effort speaking to him.
I got an email from him, regarding some other things, and at the end he actually said, ' focus on studying, and take care of urself and the baby' ....i didnt know whether to laugh or not. after ALLLLL he said to me, this was the FIRST time he mentioned to take care of myself and mentioned the baby in a good way.

apparently my FIL was talking to my uncle, who introduced me and the DH. he knew the whole story, and was surprised that these people were acting so mean! but so a few days ago, my FIL called, and was like, we have nothing to say because there is no problem with us and her (her meaning me) and that everything is between them (me and the DH)..and that he doesnt get involved or talk about this ' problem' .... he was acting all nice and i think pretending that he was sorry for what he said.
after they hung up, my uncle tried calling my DH, and of course, the phone was busy. he tried calling for an hour, and when he finally got thru, my DH said he was talking to his dad. not that its a BIG thing....but of course, what else could they have been talking about! my uncle realized as well, that my FIL has a HUGE hand in all this.

well we' ll see what happens...i guess my biggest regret in all of this is that me and my DH had a really good relationship. and now, it just seems like it will never be at that level again.

lets see what the next few weeks brings! Namita replied. b strong ... u r really handling everything maturely .... i pray to God for removing all the problems of ur life and to make u happy ... all the best ... take care of urself sweety replied. Good job...i am glad to see you pulling yourself together. Your an adult but you finally started to act as one. I am proud.

Best of Luck on the exam and keep feeding that baby!

Always come back and talk to us if you need anything. you know we are here.

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Sweety Ritika replied. You' re doing good Chandra!! You' re holding up and studying and taking care of yourself!! You are in fact doing 3 things right now...wow!! So give a pat on your back and keep doing it.

You never know what might happen in the future...your husband might change (or not). Anyways, try not to think about him too much.

All the best for your exam! Do well and know that you are in all our thoughts and prayers.

love,
Ritika