Is anybody finding that their husbands are not reasonable at times to our condition? I hope no one feels this or experiences this, but off late I feel my husband is completely unreasonable and I feel that I am just not able to deal with it …I am so emotional that it takes a huge amount of grit in me to keep the tears at bay. I am completing my 26th week is my condition something to do with stepping into the 3rd trimester…and boy I just don’t feel like going to work…becoming lazy I guess. And all the while I was thinking that I would work until the very last day, I already find myself struggling to get to work. Is this common too or what…
Please share your experiences, it would definitely help.
Loads of love to you and your babies.
Shraddha Geetha replied. Hi shraddha,
I am from Nov club. There is nothing wrong with the way u feel , its quite common. some people tend to be very emotional and some get depressed , generally mood swings are very common in pregnancy. I myself fight with my hubby over very silly reasons and laugh at myself when I am with cool head. I jump to conclusions fast and wont let go of a single chance to fight !! My doc said its all hormonal changes and its ok , dont pay too much of attention to these things.
About feeling lazy , oh well ! I understand exactly what u mean .. There are days i literally drag myself out of bed, as I am working , I cant take too many leaves before delivery itself. I am saving it all for later. Try to get good rest over the weekends at least. most of the time u will feel sleepy and lazy. Dont worry about all these.
take care
Geetha chetana replied. Dear Shraddha

Its very common to feel the way you are feeling. Blame it partially on the havoc of fluctuating hormones one has during pregnancy. Emotionally its very taxing. I'm also 26 weeks pregnant and believe me I have cried at the drop of a hat 'n number of times. As far as husband's are concerned, be a little patient. YOu are the one whose body is undergoing changes, and hence you can relate more beautifully to your baby. You are in fine tune with your baby right from the start.Sometimes(at least i do), we tend to make assumptions that our hubby would be knowing and feeling what we feel and know. That's not the case. More than sometimes, things have to be communicated. Hence try that. And do not be dissapointed, as many of us sail in the same boat.
Keep smiling and donot worry.
Chetana